I watched this video and it really pissed me off that they were like "everybody cheats." No sir, there are plenty of people who are loyal and honest with their partners.
Cheaters are disgusting. I would rather have my significant other tell me that they fell out of love with me and put me through breakup heartbreak than me find out they've been cheating on me with someone else. It's so gross and scummy to do something like that to someone.
All I’m sayin is, if every relationship u say u love someone then u ain’t rlly in love. U don’t gotta be in love to be in a relationship, all u need to like and care for that person
I can’t believe that lady said cheating is not always wrong because you could be in a toxic relationship 😭if that’s the case don’t cheat just break up with them🤦🏽♀️
idk it had me thinking about what if you're in an abusive relationship you can't leave and find someone who's helping you get out of it. that's what happened to my mom. she was in a marriage her parents basically pressured her into and the man had control of her financials and was physically abusive to her. she met someone who helped her get control of her finances and get away. but that makes me wonder if something like that is really a relationship or not
I'mma just say this: Cheating isn't a mistake. It's a series of decisions that you made where you allowed yourself to be intimate with a person other than your significant. From talking, to going out for drinks, to solo time, to deep conversations, the touching, the glances, you were constantly allowing yourself to get comfortable with someone else knowing that it could/would hurt your SO if they found out but chose what you wanted regardless of that. Knocking something off of a table because you weren't aware of how close to it you were, is an accident. Kissing someone else, fucking them, having emotions for'em, isn't. Stop lying to yourself, stop lying to your partner, stop with the bullshit.
Cheating is a mistake. If I had intentions all of a sudden to be a athlete, willingly making good grades and scholarships based off a sport, but when I become one I don’t like it. That’s still a mistake, it’s a mistake because I would have taken the road with no lasting meaning behind it to me. Maybe I would have preferred to become some else like a engineer. Same with cheating. Most ppl don’t plan on it, but let’s say they in a unstable relationship. When someone else comes in, now u have new intentions, to gain some satisfaction. However, afterwards u regret it, knowing it was now a mistake
@@ThatOneGuy-gb7td That is not at all an excuse. You didn’t plan too? It doesn’t matter because you still did of your own free will. Whether you regret it or not.
@@ThatOneGuy-gb7td nah nigga it isn’t a mistake. You go out your way to sneak around to be with other people. You disrespect your partner whom you are committed to (DOUBLE WHAMMIE IF YOU CHEAT ON BOTH THE SIDE CHICK AND THE MAIN CHICK) There are times ppl are tempted in relationships, BUT since they TRULY respect and love the person, they would never cheat on them. I’m tired y’all defending cheaters making excuses. Except the L and keep it moving.
Ummmm i think if you’re TRULY in love you wouldn’t think about cheating. Clearly you aren’t completely in live w the person you’re cheating on if you’re willing to hurt them...
You can always love a person but there are people who wont be SATISFIED. You can be with someone and really love them but satisfaction is a big factor in cheating.
Burgerbitch. she said once, when she was 16, that’s a literal CHILD. people grow and evolve, humans make mistakes. not saying it’s right obvi but dude that was ages ago
BlueStrawberry Gacha_uwu Comparing cheating & racism is stupid. At 16, you should be old enough to know what’s right & what’s wrong. With the racism comments, Camila was old enough to understand what’s right & what’s wrong. She knew her comments weren’t right, but she didn’t care. As for Dee, she was 16! That’s not old enough to know when you truly love someone, you’re young, you’re gonna wanna go out and experiment different things.
Ig I could only excuse cheating if someone was in like abusive relationship. And if they left the abuser threatened to hurt their family or kids. Or you threatened to kill them so they scared and wouldn't leave. But found comfort somewhere else ig.
@Zo Ziggy the white t with that brown hoodie and his hair and beard .It look like just got them clothes off the floor ,And ain't got his hair done in some years.I've been homeless but I didn't look homeless! My mom used to have dreads and they look better when you keep them maintenanced!🤷🏿♂️
The dude that said he enjoyed the connection he felt with the person he cheated with rather than the connection with his partner threw me off right at the beginning. I mean what was the point of being in a relationship if you weren’t going to commit to the person you chose to be with. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
If your going to cheat, dont be in a relationship. Unless your man or woman is beating you and don't love you then there is absolutely no excuse! It's disgusting to think about
It people like them is why, I choose to stay single. For me, relationships are not worth it. It's like what acquaintance told me not to long ago, forget (in my case) girls and just chase that money.
I was thinking about this awhile ago that people accidentally kill other people everyday car accidents, plane crashes, misdiagnosis etc but no one accidentally has sex it's the most deliberate thing to do in the world and it takes two to tango so cheating can be regretted but never accidental.
I have been cheated on soooo many times by this same dude these past two years and the way you talk about it makes me feel a lot better about everything.
When they were discussing abt the statement “cheating is always wrong” I 100% agree with that cuz even if the person is toxic or abusive if u cheat on that abusive or toxic person and they find out it will be way worse cuz they could harm u and shit
This video just really hurts me to watch, I’ve never cheated but I’ve been cheated on by my very first girlfriend whom I was with for 2 years, being so deeply in love and invested with someone for them to stab you in the back like that is a pain that no person should experience, it was especially painful because it was a childhood friend of mine that I considered my best friend that she cheated on me with, safe to say it really changes you when something like that happens, it’s hard to recover from that emotionally and it takes a lot for you to be even capable of trusting people
I've been cheated on. Once in high school so we broke up. But after him I got cheated on and because he was honest about it I would give him chance after chance. Then I ended up cheating on HIM and I didn't feel good about it and I wasnt going to tell him. He just KNEW. But then he decided he was going to cheat on ME because I cheated on him after the countless times he cheated on me. It became a game to him because he was hurt. That's when I KNEW we were finally done and I broke up with him. But we also had a child together so we had to coparent so that was awkward. Well for HIM. I was over him.
At 5:45 I kinda see her point of view cuz if u forgive ur partner for cheating on u why are u always asking them questions… at that point u shouldn’t have forgave them if u didn’t trust them anymore cuz a relationship without trust doesn’t work… that being said tho I totally don’t think ppl should cheat at all and I don’t think she should have said it the way she did making herself seem like the victim
Women tend to go for bad boys. Bad boys are low value guys that get all the attention because many girls are dumb as rocks and somehow get emotional with them even if the bad boy makes zero effort in talking to them. Girls fly legs open towards bad boys. All actions have consequences. "Whose fault is it that things ended up like this? Coincidence? An accident? Fate? There's no such thing as fate. It's simply a combination of one circumstance and the next. And who is it that creates those circumstances? Who is it? It's you. All of the disadvantages in this world stem from a person's lack of ability." -Rize Kamishiro
no i believe that u don't love someone that u cheated on. if you actually LOVE someone you would never do anything that could hurt them. you wouldn't even think about cheating
I feel like as a teen cheating isn’t really bad because most likely the person who cheated on u u weren’t gonna be with in the future but as adult cheating is bad
For ppl who r wondering y ppl date if they r goin to cheat. It’s because for most ppl they don’t plan on cheating, it happens in the moment. Cheating is caused when a the person’s partner is not giving the person wat they want and even if the spoke sometimes the other persons jus ignores them, or it’s because they r dissatisfied with themselves so they make up for the insecurities by cheating
If your not satisfied in a relationship why won’t you just leave Cheaters logic is out of wack plus if can’t love yourself why are you in a relationship