I think it is completely normal, but at the same time, it is not something anyone really needs to talk about to family and friends. I think it was great that you shared that and hope it helps other filipinas overcome the negative stigma
You don't notice it unless you have ear phones on, but you are only putting out on the left ear. If you can go into your settings and change from mono (only one ear or the same in both ears) to stereo (both ears, or different sound in each ear). People don't want to admit it because it is looked down on or like you say to embarrassing to talk about.
@@IlluminatiGaming90I've mentioned this awhile back about the mic problem, but apparently it's falling on deaf ears. I'm not the only one whose spoken about the mic problem.
Love your honesty, it’s always so important to have a sincere conversation with someone. You are so original and genuine with your viewers thanks so much ❤❤❤❤ keep up the amazing job❤❤❤
I'm relatively new to your account and when I watched this I felt like you were doing your best to help educate those watching with regards removing shame from the act of masturbation. The more that people talk about it and normalise it as a personal but completely usual thing to do then the more likely we are to have people who are more in tune with their bodies and more able to be honest about their life experiences. I think you're doing a public service and if you help Filipina's feel more comfortable in themselves, and feeling no shame over their actions then you will have succeeded in helping to remove the taboo over this subject. Keep up the great work :)
Thank you for being so open and honest about this topic. This is something that everyone (men or women) should be able to discuss or do without shame or judgement.
Yeah that's cool ,nothing wrong with sexting ,and watching each other in a LDR relationship , keeps both partners happy watching each other in action 👍
Good for you for bringing this issues to light👏🏼 women shouldn’t be ashamed of it, it’s great stress and anxiety management relief…… I for one, use it to relieve my sexiety😉😂
Really good point Steph about the lack of candid discussions like your video today is a reason why you see so many young pregnancies in the Philippines. To me it is sad when you see these young girls who don't understand their bodies and sexual topics being almost preyed upon by older men in the country. I think educating the young people there about topics that many consider taboo could significantly impact the scourge of young pregnancies.
The score of young pregnancies have nothing to do with older men. It's the young, immature guys that are not prepared to be in a relationship that are causing this scourge of single moms.
You are 100% right on all points that you made concerning self-pleasure Beautiful.... You are Remarkably Amazing and it's irresistible how open you are on the subject because most filipinas tend to be closed-minded about it so it's refreshing to see and hear your points on the subject... This is the first time I have seen your channel and because of this video I will be a subscriber 💗 I look forward to getting to know you Beautiful 💖
Thank you so much for sharing openly about this topic! I think it is not only normal, but healthy on every level. A female who knows her body, and pleasure points makes a better lover, and partner for her mate, and experiences a better relationship. This has been proven according to human sexuality studies, and interviews, as well. A female should also be able to experience self pleasure. God created some of her most intimate parts just for that very purpose. We should not be ashamed of Sexuality. I have tried to get my older Filipina girlfriend to engage with this, especially since we have been in a rather long LDR, remaining apart through, and due to the Pandemic, etc. She just seems hesitant to do it. I did get her to try a bit early on, but she pulled away from it. I am a more open minded person who shares in conservative values, but who has had education, and preparation for educational aid in teaching human sexuality. She has been so reserved at points, and seemingly overwhelmed a bit with my basic open-ness, I began to wonder if there was a major connection issue for sexuality. She shows an interest, but has a lot of barriers which seemed to be cultural. I am pleased to hear your video, as it makes me feel that may be it is not a cultural barrier for personal perspectives possibly after all. I am a very commitment oriented person for relationships, and not a "player", but it has become obvious that the area of human sexuality is a topic that lacks education for some in the Philippines, it seems. Thanks for your sharing! Excellent video!
Good morning. First, let me say that I have much respect for you by opening up on this subject and about yourself as well. I agree with you, and if the couple agreed to do it and save their relationship by not cheating on each other, then 100% go for it. Your honesty about this subject now helps me to understand more about my fiancée and her sexual drive. Your video is the first video that finally opened up about this subject and told the truth. Keep doing great honest videos as it helps me understand the culture and Filipina women. Take care of yourself.
Hello, New subsciber here. Well produced content, and quite interesting. Just downloaded 2 of your videos to watch on my flight to Tokyo this morning - better than in-flight movies😊
Very honest and personal topics !!! And this one thing that I didn't know about Philippines Culture and makes sense is because Very Traditional !!! And I loved your statement that Filipina women are humans too !!! And do know about and learned about the Gossip thing !!! And so Jealousy can be a good protection thing for a female and male couples especially for the time when just dating !!!
No judgement here. I have found that that that do practice self service enjoy it wore when they have someone watching them and participating even if it over a video call. It makes them more adventurous in person.
Just speechless for once a Filipino woman open up and talk about something really taboo, good job and hope other Filipino women watch your channel and learn from you, Good job Steph
This is an excellent video. I wish more Pilipino women would get to see this video. You are a brave woman. The man in your life is very lucky to have an honest woman like you.
Always remember this,God say man should not judge anyone and there's not anything wrong with a woman doing something that makes her feel good at the time she's in need,I have did it in my life time to time,by the way I'm LaMar do you always ❤/G\sending you love from love from US
Yes !!! I totally agree with the comment above because the Bible says we aren't suppose to Judge anyone because when we do !!! We Convict ourselves !!! 😮😢 !!! It's kind of similar to another verse in the Bible !!! Can we or should we expect forgiveness from God if we don't or can't forgive others !!!
Great Topic. I think that it could help reduce Young Single Moms since they are Safely Exploring instead of thinking the only way is with a boy, and then ending up pregnant when you aren't prepared for it or with the right person.
I had a hard time hearing because of the audio quality. But, you are hitting on interesting content so I listened to the end in order to support your channel in hopes your video quality gets better soon. Nothing happens just over night, so keep up the good work.
You're human and it's normal. The difference between you and most of the other Filipina woman, you are open about what all are doing there. You have nothing to be ashamed about other than a backwards culture towards women. 🥰
and it is important to know your body to help communicate to your partner what feels better so you can get satisfaction from your partner faster and more intensely.
Please fix your audio. You need to hang some sort of sound damping panels or even hang up some bed sheets to absorb the echo and reverb. Also you are uploading to one channel only. I went ahead and subscribed to help your channel, but can listen to the audio.
My 1st Time knowing of this Channel & the Information is Informative. I Heard Filipinos are very conservative and I'm Very Bold, & I'd Hope she could learn to trust Me and not be ashamed of Her body. I'd Hope if I ASKED her to disrobe She could see in My Face I'm pleased & not to make Her Insecurities get worse! My confidence would or could make a conservative woman Think I'm creepy, but I'm confident & Hope she could be the Same.
Im in a ldr relationship for 4 yrs now and we do self pleasure together on vc few times a week. There is nothing wrong with it and no one should judge u either. Me and my ldr girlfriend were always on vc even im working we can spend 6 or 7 hrs a day together even she goes out with her friends we stay together on call. I got lucky with my gf she a keeper i was there last march 2023 ill be back in june. Im 44 she 23 met her when she was 19 on ok cupid got lucky with her because most girls on online dating sites just ask a money. Im a new sub and nice to meet u. Im from usa. Wish u the best in finding ur love one day I found my future wife to be
Maybe there are a few women who don't know how to do it. You can help them solve this problem by making some 'how to' demonstration videos, of course for educational purposes only.
I was thinking about masturbation the other day. I think it's healthy because it's difficult in the practice of daily life to satisfy everybody's sexual needs completely all the time. So people need to help themselves sometimes, it's okay.
It confuses me why this is still considered taboo or shameful by some. Sure, it should still be a private activity for a person or couple, but if the stigma was removed there would likely be fewer unplanned pregnancies & STI's.
You are very intelligent and you are mature beyond your years. I see Pilipina talking about Sex and they laugh like schoolgirls...its a exciting topic but nothing funny about it... when someone laughs about Sex it just shows to me the lack of Experience they have in it
In my experience Filipinas do it but it isn't talked about and it shouldn't be anyways that should be private. Also many Filipinas don't have the privacy at home so they do if nobody is home but most don't have toys. Men do it too . What i don't agree with is porn. Porn can lead to issues in some relationships, for some they even actually get desensitized. Now if you are away from parner sexting video master bastion with parnter is a wonderful experience many do that while showering due to privacy issues.
Hha young lady, those are all the benefits of s+x and self gratification is just one method. I think s+x with a partner is healthier physically and psychologically but self gratification won't kill you ;)