A sincere man will close the tabs he has opened after finding the one 😊and if he keeps searching after getting you just know he's a no way go zone 😁. Thank you sir❤️
6yrs ago I went through this reality checked in after I said yes, meynnnn the guy had issues and when I asked that we postpone the wedding till we were both ready for marriage, he refused. I just opted out! He was furious but I knew I was safe. Thanks Benjamin always 🙏🏽
Toxic relationships are not only Love relationships. Narc's also prey on even friendships and work...colleagues especially when they are in a senior position.
Benjamin Zulu is a bundle of wisdom!! Kai!! The last point got me. Wow! One truly has to be very observant before saying I do. Must people overlook a man with drive.
So true Mr Benjamin, that is why l am waiting and looking to go the right part. Some time you are just afraid to trust a man but your wisdom is teaching us alot.
Just reminded me some guy could always say he hate me for no reason only to realize he never owns up his mistake and he wonders how I do it everytime he tries to pin me down
I once told a guy before i date him we build the relationship based on friendship and getting to know each other(courtship),,,he said we wont be friends either and that cant happen coz hizo ni vitu za kitambo inshort he wanted the relationship to just go with the flow😂😂,,its when i realized the guy was a narcissist ,,only wanted benefits quickly without following the processs to build the relationship 😂😢😢😢😢
I just blocked one today I told him the same that we should know each other fast at least for 6months he told me that I'm giving him conditions ilblocked his ass 😂😂😂😂
Aiyaiiii just learned that one needs to be cautious when one comes saying they know what they want... Don't want to waste time... When the deal is too good....
@@binzarililian4289 me too😢 wish to know u more atleast we will understand each other ju people hardly understand such situations of living with narcissist who started as an angel in a hurry to marry