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Divorce; Why Men Leave, What Women Tell Me 

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In this episode, we have the incredible privilege of hosting Christine Muthoni, a relationship expert known for her profound insights. She unveils some of the raw and honest truths about why men leave marriages and what women confide in her when they're contemplating a divorce.
In this no-holds-barred conversation, Christine generously shares her knowledge, helping us understand the intricate dynamics that can make or break a marriage.
Her insights not only shed light on the reasons behind marital dissolutions but also prompt us to think about the essence of companionship, empathy, and understanding in maintaining a strong relationship.
Join us in this eye-opening discussion and let's unravel these complex issues together. Don't forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe for more thought-provoking content.
#DialoguesWithJagero #ChristineMuthoni #Marriage #Divorce #RelationshipInsights #SocietalIssues.

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@mamageorge8289
@mamageorge8289 11 месяцев назад
It is normal to go separate ways. Normalize not being an unwanted guest in somebody's space. Lets be mature about every aspect of our lives. Thanks Muthoni!
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
This is so true. It can be tough to know when to hold on and when to let go. What are some signs you look for to know it's time to move on?
@evangelistgrace5278
@evangelistgrace5278 19 дней назад
I was married to man who decided not to work and I was the one carrying all the burdens in the house... after suffering alot I walked out of the marriage because we headed no where? We didn't have anything with this man, I had to start my life all over again from scratch...now it is 5 years down in the line,... please advise me how I can file divorce.?????
@user-sh3tr8cm1v
@user-sh3tr8cm1v 17 дней назад
Westernized mentality...
@evangelistgrace5278
@evangelistgrace5278 16 дней назад
@@user-sh3tr8cm1v I totally disagree with you! If one partner is not happy, it is better to separate! Marriage is not slavery.
@user-sh3tr8cm1v
@user-sh3tr8cm1v 16 дней назад
@@evangelistgrace5278 marriage is the most important union, but most of you westernised women, break up marriages all because your not happy
@mercyln6646
@mercyln6646 27 дней назад
Surely even stay at home mothers/fathers deserve part of the goods to be divided? They were working at home caring for your children and you...that's a huge unpaid job!
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
You're preaching to the choir here! Being a stay-at-home parent is WAY harder than any office job. Those tiny humans are relentless!
@JosephineJumokeFlourishHH
@JosephineJumokeFlourishHH 25 дней назад
If a spouse is nurturing the children, then the properties should be fairly apportioned. Secondly, Divorce scenario should be part of preparation for marriage/marriage counseling. #ToughConversation during dating/courtship days...
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Pre-nups might not be the most romantic topic, but they can definitely save a lot of heartache down the line. Who knew "fair splits" could be so important? That being said, communication is key in any relationship, so talking finances and future plans before marriage is a total win. Maybe we can do a whole video on prepping for marriage that's not all doom and gloom?
@Kakwasi
@Kakwasi 10 месяцев назад
Even if you do not get a better man. You get your freedom back. Feed someone and still get to be ordered around
@newtonsimba7930
@newtonsimba7930 4 месяца назад
In good times, when women are low, men may educate them and help them to find a footing; if the man , for any reason, goes down or is struggling, the lady can't stand it. She forgets where she was , and wants to leave. It's all selfishness, really.
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
You're right, and sometimes that freedom is exactly what we need to rediscover ourselves. Have you experienced this kind of situation?
@jiokenna
@jiokenna 8 дней назад
Its selfishness ​@@TheJagero
@paulinertl4050
@paulinertl4050 9 дней назад
Very enlightening topic. Am liking everything about Madam muthoni. Am also a single mom of two children. 🎉
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 8 дней назад
Thank you. Glad you can relate.
@susanwangechi3886
@susanwangechi3886 9 месяцев назад
This Lady is Supper smart love her
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Appreciated!
@roseakinyi7512
@roseakinyi7512 13 дней назад
So informative.....and she's not shacky, beautiful. May God work through her.
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 13 дней назад
Thanks for watching
@claireopolot5676
@claireopolot5676 9 месяцев назад
Very informative... thank you!
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Thank you
@martinwachogi1848
@martinwachogi1848 10 месяцев назад
Very great conversation + she is really beautiful
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Haha, thanks! Glad you enjoyed the conversation, and I have to agree, she was fantastic.
@dunnwayne3619
@dunnwayne3619 Год назад
Quite informative, this is. Keep it up Jagero.
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Thank you so much
@Emmanuel_Loumi
@Emmanuel_Loumi Год назад
Wow this is nice. I love how she thinks.😊
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Thanks so much! I'm glad you find her thought process interesting.
@Rixpoet
@Rixpoet Год назад
I didn’t know I could just walk into a court and listen to any case. Eish! I’ll try one day.
@odoyoachieng7975
@odoyoachieng7975 Год назад
I didn't know either.
@barbrataragon8979
@barbrataragon8979 10 месяцев назад
Yes you can! Unless the ones done in chambers
@mercynamikoye9084
@mercynamikoye9084 8 месяцев назад
oh really. definitely doing this one day
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
You actually can in most places! It's called public access. It's a great way to see the justice system in action. But some cases can get pretty intense! Perhaps we can share some tips for finding open court hearings.
@odoyoachieng7975
@odoyoachieng7975 Год назад
Quite helpful. I'll always come back for more. Your are doing a good job in opening our eyes to some of these things. A big problem in our society is ignorance or rather inaccessibility to knowledge .I am happy that we have people like you putting in hard work to avail platforms where people can actually learn some of these things. Keep it up!
@sarahnamazzi8855
@sarahnamazzi8855 10 месяцев назад
Women are tired cos , they are doing both jobs. Ie finances + domestic. Plus endurance of adultery. Its a heavy burden
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
I appreciate the kind words. Making knowledge accessible is important, and it's awesome to have you on board.
@mercynamikoye9084
@mercynamikoye9084 8 месяцев назад
This was a beautiful balanced and very informative conversation with many gems.
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Thanks for listening! 'Balanced and informative' is exactly what we were going for. Did any of the 'gems' spark any questions you have for the future?
@user-ok2qu9fz7v
@user-ok2qu9fz7v 25 дней назад
The other importance is to have a peace of mind
@estherwatheri5506
@estherwatheri5506 23 дня назад
I really longed for peace . I really needed peace like yesterday. Thirst for peace
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
You're absolutely right! Peace of mind is key.
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Hey there, thanks for sharing that. Peace can be hard to find sometimes, but you're definitely not alone in feeling that way. Is there anything specific in the video that resonated with you, or if you'd like, share some things that help you find peace when things feel hectic?
@neema.ndeti_
@neema.ndeti_ 10 месяцев назад
The Marriage(Amendment) Bill, 2023 is proposed to usher in a new norm with matters divorce. This bill proposes to bring in Divorce by Mutual Consent. A progressive law that aims to make the process less fault based but more amicable. Interesting times!
@liliank.9764
@liliank.9764 10 месяцев назад
The Bill was shut down by MPS
@africatodayke
@africatodayke 25 дней назад
in short mtatuacha sababu unajisikia hauna raha. smh
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Divorce by Mutual Consent - is it about making divorce easier or healthier? What do you think?
@joycegumbo2732
@joycegumbo2732 Месяц назад
Having a lawyer to handle a case is the best!
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Having a lawyer is great, but knowing your rights beforehand is pretty awesome too! What legal knowledge do you think everyone should have during divorce process?
@el-rayjapheth6287
@el-rayjapheth6287 4 месяца назад
I love this dialogue. It was very educative. Your guest did a very nice job!
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 4 месяца назад
Thanks for watching! Please consider subscribing to the channel. 👍🏾
@_Ramosibadani
@_Ramosibadani 3 месяца назад
Hello Jagero,I'm in this situation where I found my wife flirting with a corporate guy on WhatsApp maybe they met on her line of duty,whe I confronted her about it she put password on her WhatsApp,am contemplating divorce, she's so rude with her response whenever I ask her anything I'm not happy with.we actually had a church wedding but am not really happy in this marriage,but the good thing we've been married for four years but we don't have child that can complicate the whole thing.
@berrylakoth2880
@berrylakoth2880 2 месяца назад
​@@_Ramosibadanihey man, can I talk to you?
@africatodayke
@africatodayke 25 дней назад
@@_Ramosibadani siri #1 ya ndoa. never look at your partner's phone. 4 years is soo little to want out. get yourself busy, find a hobby to occupy you from wanting to get into your wife's phone. also, achana na kibe's content.
@KamurukoVillage
@KamurukoVillage 21 день назад
very interesting conversation. thank you for a well balanced
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Glad you enjoyed it!
@KamurukoVillage
@KamurukoVillage 21 день назад
@@TheJagero timely
@user-um6mm9cp4s
@user-um6mm9cp4s 26 дней назад
Biblically men are supposed to be providers and women are homemakers. However the economy has forced women to go out and help men. So if women are providers and coming back to do house work as well...that takes a tall on a woman😢
@nurugizani3075
@nurugizani3075 23 дня назад
Did all that as well taking care of extended family
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
You're right, the world has definitely changed! While the Bible offers guidance, so many women today have amazing careers they're passionate about. It can be tough to balance everything. What are some ways you've seen women manage work and home life effectively?
@nochso6835
@nochso6835 20 дней назад
A wise way is to take 7- 10 yrs to have and raise children...then the wife goes into her career once the last child is in school. She then still has about 30yrs to enjoy her career, but she has had her children and doesn't need to mix duties at the toughest stage (infancy, toddler age).
@daniellouis8722
@daniellouis8722 17 дней назад
💯
@user-sh3tr8cm1v
@user-sh3tr8cm1v 17 дней назад
​@@nochso6835hawataki hivyo...
@newtonsimba7930
@newtonsimba7930 4 месяца назад
Great lawyer.
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
She is!
@olaoyeroseline-qt1qq
@olaoyeroseline-qt1qq 11 дней назад
Thanks for the information
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 11 дней назад
You’re welcome
@julietkathurekihunyu3345
@julietkathurekihunyu3345 25 дней назад
Very informative and insightful. I'm through with divorce, now in the process of Matrimonial property division
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
I'm glad the video was helpful. Divorce can be a tough time, and navigating property division can feel overwhelming. If you have any questions that come up while you're going through the process, feel free to leave a comment and I'll do my best to point you in the right direction.
@user-sh3tr8cm1v
@user-sh3tr8cm1v 17 дней назад
Stay in your marriage
@joyc9323
@joyc9323 4 дня назад
You go and stay in it ​@@user-sh3tr8cm1v
@kofiharrison354
@kofiharrison354 4 месяца назад
What about if I don’t have money to hire a lawyer in a divorce case?
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 4 месяца назад
We will talk with her about it.
@Kakwasi
@Kakwasi 13 дней назад
Represent yourself
@veryveraharnois7946
@veryveraharnois7946 7 дней назад
Please how do contact this woman? She is such an intelligent and very knowledgeable lady. I just love how she explained this. Thanks Christine.
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 6 дней назад
Reach out to Christine on her personal website: www.coach-christinemuthoni.com
@veryveraharnois7946
@veryveraharnois7946 6 дней назад
@@TheJagero thank you so much
@PETERSIMIYU-sk4no
@PETERSIMIYU-sk4no 25 дней назад
Very informative
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Thank you.
@MikaelW254
@MikaelW254 25 дней назад
Even in the US, the person who goes to seek a lawyer pays for themselves. You don't pay for the lawyer of your spouse. Same as in Kenya
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
You're absolutely right, in most cases, whoever seeks legal counsel pays their own fees. That said, there are some exceptions in the US, like in some family law cases where attorney fees might be awarded to the winning party. But yeah, definitely not a free pass to bill your spouse for lawyer drama!
@user-sh3tr8cm1v
@user-sh3tr8cm1v 17 дней назад
What does the USA have to do with us...
@julienakiyimbakikonyogo8585
@julienakiyimbakikonyogo8585 13 дней назад
😂😂😂u sound tired of them
@ElijahEljay
@ElijahEljay Год назад
quite informatve
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Thank you.
@teresiahwachira1099
@teresiahwachira1099 22 дня назад
Christine just say there are general lawyers like doctors and specialist on specific cases just like different diseases
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
That’s right. For everyday legal needs, a general Advocate is great. But for complex situations, a specialist with deep knowledge is your best bet! #LawyerLife #LegalAdvice #DialoguesWithJagero
@revddrmosesmbiyugacii1760
@revddrmosesmbiyugacii1760 24 дня назад
Marriage is the best thing someone can do but behind staying in it CARRY the Spiritual part of it, life is spiritual but wickedness is real. The Power to stay in marriage is a Spiritual through family background conflict that follows us through our Parent..
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
That's a great perspective! I totally agree that life has a spiritual dimension. In my experience, open communication and forgiveness are also key to a strong marriage. What are your thoughts?
@julienakiyimbakikonyogo8585
@julienakiyimbakikonyogo8585 13 дней назад
Well put my dia...its so sad
@perminusngigi1347
@perminusngigi1347 20 дней назад
Beautiful and with brain
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 20 дней назад
Thank you
@shadrackmwili9424
@shadrackmwili9424 26 дней назад
This conversation is an eye opener. How do I get this book
@JosephineJumokeFlourishHH
@JosephineJumokeFlourishHH 25 дней назад
Simply reach out to the Writer. Her details will be online.
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Isn't it?? This book totally changed my perspective too. For fellow bookworms out there, you can find the book at most bookstores like Nuria and online.
@gladysasiedu5566
@gladysasiedu5566 9 дней назад
Jagero it’s not true that in America the men pay for the cost of divorce, there are financial considerations.
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 9 дней назад
Divorce costs are divided fairly in the US, considering each spouse's financial situation. It's not always just about who pays whom. Thanks for pointing that out!
@jaimbo001
@jaimbo001 10 дней назад
How can i contact her for services?
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 10 дней назад
Please contact her here: www.coach-christinemuthoni.com
@mariamkamburi890
@mariamkamburi890 21 день назад
Traditionally men are providers. It gives them pride, at least for most, when they can take care of their family. This was misrepresented by just saying 'that the woman was tired of providing'
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 20 дней назад
That's an interesting point. Traditionally, men have been the providers, and for many, it can be a source of pride to take care of their family. But times are changing, and families come in all shapes and sizes these days. In the video, we were focusing on the overall feeling of being burnt out, regardless of gender.
@MagetoNyamongo
@MagetoNyamongo 10 месяцев назад
Robust conversion here
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Thank you
@teresiahwachira1099
@teresiahwachira1099 22 дня назад
Ask her can one do law at 40yrs please
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
There's absolutely no age limit to pursue a law degree - you can definitely go for it at 40! Just like doctors, lawyers can specialize in different areas too. #LawSchool #NeverTooLate #Education #Law
@user-dw7qi7sv9x
@user-dw7qi7sv9x 27 дней назад
😂 come we stay any time 😂
@berylanyango1232
@berylanyango1232 25 дней назад
😂😂😂😂
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Haha! Next video, we're [doing something related to cme we stay and the marriage landscape.
@Kakwasi
@Kakwasi 10 месяцев назад
Oduor women then were oppressed had nowhere to go were shunned by society and church and family. TODAY its easier not for all women but at least for many who work and can feed themselves and take them to school, n probably buy land. Also the society is less judgemental
@Kakwasi
@Kakwasi 10 месяцев назад
Divorce was never accepted but is getting easier. Women like wangari maathai, waiguru, marha, ev Teresia have shown women you can walk and be successful and thrive
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
There's definitely been progress for women in terms of opportunities and societal acceptance. It's amazing to see more women being financially independent and having a voice. However, there's still a way to go when it comes to equal pay, representation in certain fields, and dismantling some remaining stereotypes. What are your thoughts on how we can continue to push for gender equality?
@user-sh3tr8cm1v
@user-sh3tr8cm1v 17 дней назад
​@@Kakwasiyou seem very westernised...go ahead and leave your man....but dont expect the very men you bash to be your protectors...a few shillings isnt everything
@Kakwasi
@Kakwasi 13 дней назад
​@@TheJageroit's still hard in many communities to be divorced. Even your family members shun you. Yet you are not even asking them for anything. It's s long long way. Marriages should be for keeps but sometimes inakataa
@bonnycosta6517
@bonnycosta6517 27 дней назад
Ladies of this generation, makes me feel soo sorry for men
@user-yx9iy8wg5p
@user-yx9iy8wg5p 26 дней назад
Do you feel sorry for the ladies of the previous generation because in most instances, they didn't have a voice?
@bonnycosta6517
@bonnycosta6517 25 дней назад
So for now men should keep on suffering?
@suzzyhumphrey8902
@suzzyhumphrey8902 24 дня назад
We watched our mums and grandmothers suffer. They persevered coz they had nowhere to go. Some died along the way. We cannot continue to condone bad behaviour in men the way they did. They crawled so we could walk.
@user-yx9iy8wg5p
@user-yx9iy8wg5p 23 дня назад
@@bonnycosta6517 How are men suffering?
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Ladies of this generation are rocking it! Maybe men just need some new approaches? What are your thoughts on how dating could be better for everyone?
@peterochieng-bd7pt
@peterochieng-bd7pt 23 дня назад
So this lawyer couches people to divorce?
@jenniferpascal2483
@jenniferpascal2483 21 день назад
To reconcile
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
Haha, not exactly! Lawyers specialize in family law can represent clients going through divorce, but their main goal is to ensure a fair and smooth process, whether it's divorce or reconciliation.
@Kakwasi
@Kakwasi 10 месяцев назад
A woman should get tired of taking of a man. This man will not cook, or wash clothes, or clean the house.
@newtonsimba7930
@newtonsimba7930 4 месяца назад
And if he cooks, washes clothes and cleans the house, but has less money than you? Can you stay?
@sarahsmrdal7094
@sarahsmrdal7094 26 дней назад
​@newtonsimba7930 Yes , I can stay if he is loving & caring & not a cheating.
@africatodayke
@africatodayke 25 дней назад
@@sarahsmrdal7094 huyo ni simp unataka, umkalie chapo
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 21 день назад
You make a great point. An equal partnership is key! Maybe there's a way the man in this situation can find a chore he enjoys, or they can split things differently. Open communication is everything!
@qwillbill3303
@qwillbill3303 15 дней назад
If we husband and wife are bringing in money equally then by all means they should do the dishes equally.. There is a big distinction between what the individual earns and what they bring into the family...... because we all know his money is their money and her money is her money.
@dangichure2459
@dangichure2459 7 дней назад
Logically speaking, a failed paternity test is watertight proof of infidelity. Is it enough legally?
@TheJagero
@TheJagero 7 дней назад
A failed paternity test strongly suggests infidelity, but legally, it might not be the whole picture.
@jamesk7867
@jamesk7867 Год назад
Don't get married !
@nompumelelomyeza2206
@nompumelelomyeza2206 11 месяцев назад
Marriage is beautiful. Dont get married now, you not ready.
@sakuraesther6309
@sakuraesther6309 11 месяцев назад
Yes I agree with you
@Babygal1234
@Babygal1234 10 месяцев назад
Get married but don't entertain a wrong spouse
@azimba4251
@azimba4251 9 месяцев назад
Don’t get married in America
@joycegumbo2732
@joycegumbo2732 Месяц назад
Marriage is a beautiful thing, Divorce is horror!!!
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