Do Opposites Actually Make a Good Relationship? | In Love or Not

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James and Danielle may or may not still be together. Hear the story of their relationship and decide... do you think they are still in love?
Tell us what your vote is in the comments! Why did you make that choice? Was it body language or a look in their eyes? Or was it something they said and the way they spoke to each other? What clues do they give off?
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@nissij.c.9121 6 лет назад

Opposites can only attract if those differences compliment each other rather than clash.

@jamilaaali9127 6 лет назад

Nissi J.C. Yess tell em 👌

@ellieiamaio4454 6 лет назад

That's so tru

@luckydudex3765 6 лет назад

That's a very good comment, I agree with you because opposites don't always work. They, indeed, have to compliment each other!

@barrygattenhof9903 6 лет назад

Nissi J.C. agree totally. I have one of these ... we disagree on things but if and when we fight it is always worked out and making up is always worth it.... death is the only way we will be separated.

@Jarebearrr 4 года назад

Oh really “Nissi”? Tell us more

@itzme4223 4 года назад

Relationships are not about finding similarities it's about respecting difference😊❤

@fayzio5282 6 лет назад

I knew they were in love for 2 reasons: 1) In the very beginning of the video when they sat on the couch she was way too close to him for them to be ex's. 2) When he was talking she was looking at him and smiling.

@eusanagalilee360 6 лет назад

and the title of the video is a kind of rhetorical question

@samihasarah4406 6 лет назад

Also most couples who are in love are asked sit as far as possible to confuse the audience. And in the next shot of them sitting the are very far away

@fayzio5282 6 лет назад

Eusana Galilée no it's not. If you watch some other videos of this channel, you will see that in some of them the people are not in love.

@fayzio5282 6 лет назад

Samiha Sarah I was only refering to first shot. That's why i said "very beginning". The crew probably told her to sit more far from him that's why they more far from each other at the rest of the video.

@lalakuma9 6 лет назад

But what made me suspicious is that she kept looking at him, but he wasn't looking at her much. Something doesn't feel balanced.

@princess391 6 лет назад

I knew It! MySpace love never fades.

@thegossipswan009 6 лет назад

Im never wrong about these videos. Yet im always wrong about my own love life. -*sigh*

@carroleemoore8698 6 лет назад

Oddly enough, I LITERALLY just said the same thing to myself before scrolling through the comments. C'est La Vie!

@jessicamartinez5757 6 лет назад

One day you will be!

@bubujooestes1499 6 лет назад

She looks like Katy Perry

@merydewihutahaean 6 лет назад

Hahaa the same here, it is funny how we.can guess this video easily, while ours yet a mystery

@TheMisslouise79 6 лет назад

Lol

@blurryfaced4532 6 лет назад

Their body language and the way they were looking at each other throughout the video was a dead giveaway that they're together. I guessed it as soon as it began

@tareenagohar8384 6 лет назад

Wait..do they have like same hairstyle?

@brandonmiles8174 6 лет назад

My fiancé and I are very opposite in most ways you could think of and we’ve been together three years in a much happier relationship than any we’ve had. We complement each other so well through our opposing beliefs. I hope that others can find a relationship as strong as ours.

@PrabhleenOberoi-u2q Год назад

What if someone is too insensitive and you are extremely insensitive

@GoWithTheFloat 3 года назад

being in love is working through obstacles together! My man and I are complete opposites and we allow each other to be who we are and accept the good and not so good. Its the best relationship I have ever had!

@BTjessica 6 лет назад

I think this one was the easiest to find out.

@armaanmodi 6 лет назад

Jessica Theodoro EXACTLY

@missdeath1990 5 лет назад

There's so much confidence radiating out of her..

@RashedHalim 6 лет назад

A really cute couple

@abstractbybrian 7 месяцев назад

It depends : are they committed to each other? I think yes

@alanagilmore1195 6 лет назад

I thought for sure it was gonna be a “no”, but I’m so glad they are.. they seem like such a sweet couple! ❤️

@artistvai3790 6 лет назад

HALLELUJAH I FINALLY GOT ONE CORRECT AFTER TWO SEASONS WTF CONGRATULATIONS TO ME AND THE SUPER CUTE COUPLE

@yarnpower 6 лет назад

He sounds much more mature than she does. You can take care of chores and have a budget and be creative!

@allieschwarz8023 6 лет назад

You are right about that! I hope they can work though it, but those are some significant differences when it comes to planning for a secure future. I know couples who woke up one day and realized they were broke: no rainy-day fund, nothing much saved for retirement, all because they had opposite approaches to planning for the future and they never sat down and had the painful talk. Instead, they each did their own thing - intending to save here and there spending when they felt they "deserved" a treat, but spontaneously, not as part of a bigger plan... and the result was a disaster. They're close to retirement without resources. There's no real time to "catch-up" and no extra cash to invest.

@visiblysane 3 года назад

@@allieschwarz8023 That's such a good comment and it is important to discuss how to manage your income and expense.

@smilewolff1194 4 года назад

For all the girls struggling to find a decent guy, Just know that when a guys sees you he already knows If you're going to be a hook up, girlfriend material or wife material, this guy didn't mess up his chance with her because he knew she was very valuable to him.

@sweetangelpayal 6 лет назад

Just how calm they were sitting besides each other gave it away. Guessed it right.

@jar8425 6 лет назад

I love these SO, SO much. Although I will admit I love the ones where they're still in love better than the opposite. These two really need each other. I wish them all the happiness in the world.

@anewloveofficial9137 5 лет назад

When they finally answer the magical question that they are definitely in love with each other is the best part of this video, even if I don't know them in real life but when I see a happy couple like them, I just feel so great too.

@farimasultani6138 6 лет назад

Opposites always attract each other in one way or another. In my opinion they give it away when they said they got married.

@MarilouDPille 4 года назад

😍

@jasminecaldwell1173 6 лет назад

I totally knew they were in love

@nehadee8719 6 лет назад

The way she was trying not to smile at him at the start was a giver for sure! The way they even spoke about the other person was filled with love.

@savoryflan 6 лет назад

I knew they were still together since the beginning because they sat very close to each other.

@cahidijoyoraharjo7833 6 лет назад

That's what you're basing it on? -_-

@AlexKaufman 6 лет назад

[Mind explosion]

@3rdeyeboi319 6 лет назад

+Cahidi Joyo Raharjo I mean,, body language is a thing, and proximity is associated with trust and comfort so it's fine ykno

@jaswantsokey1877 5 лет назад

Ofcourse they are in love! That joyful chemistry between them is so obvious! Yes, as sorry one else already pointed out, the way they sat so close to each other in the begining was a dead give away about their mutual affection. She plunked herself down close to home and he never backed away even a bit!

@jaswantsokey1877 5 лет назад

Sorry about the spelling errors above, but the self correct on my phone thinks it knows the english language better than me. LOL!

@melippy2 6 лет назад

Totally in love... I called it! Great couple. The ride or die kind. I can tell

@DesNReg 6 лет назад

Legit started laughing when she said they met on Myspace in 2006!!! Met my husband on Myspace in 2006 too!!! We are still together, thanks Tom!!!

@vibhakonanur7524 6 лет назад

Can i awww now? That was the cutest video I watched today. Their chemistry and understanding and everything in between was so so so cute!

@agriope2334 4 года назад

Yes, because there were SO many reasons to walk away on both sides and they just kept going. Only love could to that, or extreme dysfunction and they are not there! This was a really funny one. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 "Don't hang up!"😂

@jeannedarccyuzuzo7421 6 лет назад

i saw how she looked at him when he was speaking, but what made me really believe they are on love, si when she said she often asked him when he will get sick of her. those are the questions on can ask themselves after realizing their partners accept them totally

@lovemecom3832 6 лет назад

I absolutely agree with you guys about being inlove means bringing out the best in each other. Anyway, i already knew that they are in love with each other because i just notice it with the way they look into each others eyes.

@chiaseed7974 6 лет назад

In my personal experience, yes opposites do attract

@LOVE..Sherelle 6 лет назад

I really wanted them to still be together but didn't think they were.

@abhinavrishi8031 6 лет назад

They are.

@robertray4428 4 года назад

Now that’s a smart woman. She sees the wisdom and strong foundation of this man and she understands she needs that to have a good healthy life.

@bec3993 6 лет назад

I think they're a good match. ❤ They complement each other well.

@moroccanmecrazy 6 лет назад

They fooled me..but that made me so happy as I am a hopeless romantic

@surb3933 6 лет назад

Thank thank god they are in love. I literally kept on feeling watching each episode that every couple were in love perhaps am a hopeless romantic who feels love prevails always 😊

@cunhokim7299 5 лет назад

i knew it!!!!! we can see it clear in their eyes!

@stardustygwen6231 6 лет назад

Is it just me, or does he have sadness in his eyes towards the end of the video?

@georgecataloni4720 6 лет назад

I think he was throwing us off. She probably can't fake it, or chose not to.

@fannybonilla4310 6 лет назад

I am from Nicaragua too!!! 🇳🇮 thank you for representing!!!

@MayankDhuria 6 лет назад

I think that the way this video series is directed is like.... In the end, before the revelation, when the couple talk something negative about their relationship, they are together/in love and vica versa.

@laurasuazo4494 6 лет назад

I’ll guess they’re together because their outfits match! Lol

@NancySolariLivingFullOut 5 лет назад

Thanks for this video! I've always wondered if opposites in a relationship is actually a good idea. Regardless of the answer, love who you want as you live full out.

@Noiee_suspirium 6 лет назад

omg I love her hair cut it's so pretty 🖤🖤🖤

@marcomarkproductions 6 лет назад

+Noah Kawaii you're so metro

@Deepaksingh-hy5sf 6 лет назад

Marco Mark Productions I love short hair girls for a reason..

@michaelahooks5102 6 лет назад

I was hoping they still were still in love super happy about them still being in love

@kardiayip 6 лет назад

I’m so bad at this! I get it wrong all the time!

@izzudinhakimi7665 6 лет назад

its okay coz people cannot run from mistakes.. its happen then we fixed it

@definitepurpose6942 6 лет назад

Of course, because they met each other's needs, no matter what they were!

@MaureenMurphy_ 6 лет назад

I think it depends on the people.

@nausicaacod 6 лет назад

I GOT THIS ONE RIGHT YEAHHH

@telesia5676 6 лет назад

These are quite easy to predict now: the videos where they are in love they make the couples not so touchy and sitting a bit more separate, whereas I find many of the ones where they aren't in love they have heaps of shots of them with arms around each other's shoulders or sitting closer together etc

@krishnendugoswami4001 6 лет назад

What a sweet video.and what a sweet couple

@daau9900 6 лет назад

Happy for you guys... Wish I could find someone who thinks I'm not weird. I just want to live in the now not in the future.

@pardisarjmandi8889 6 лет назад

So cute 💗 wish them the best

@eusanagalilee360 6 лет назад

I'm getting reeeaallly good at this hehe

@safiamohamed7968 6 лет назад

Eusana Galilée lol 😂

@ellaangelofficial333 5 лет назад

Her smile looking at him was way to in love not to know

@suzystone244 5 лет назад

The body language says it all.

@mariella3172 6 лет назад

They met in 2006 in Myspace, got married two months later but have been married for 4 years now...what did I miss?

@spiritual_earthly_insights 6 лет назад

Mariella He proposed two months after they started dating. They could have started dating a few years after they were friends. And even though he proposed a few months into their relationship, they could have married a few years later and not immediately after the proposal.

@masonjar6910 4 года назад

She said "with our two cats" with such a big smile

@lindaschuster6216 6 лет назад

I really like this couple :) They definitely understand what love is!

@melb465 Год назад

She sounds like me!!! Lol Are you Sagittarius? 😆

@TimewithLivi 6 лет назад

You can tell they are in love because they are telling their story like they have told it 1000s of times before.

@elle2498 3 года назад

As someone who's going into the psychology field I learn how polar opposite people tend to have that feeling of not just a support as their lover but they secretly are trying something new in their lives, with even noticing it until they start falling in love. It could be immediately or slow time taking.

@YasserShaaf 6 лет назад

I like this cute couple, they are amazing

@mazyellow28 6 лет назад

Could tell that they were still together but there's a sadness in their eyes. I don't think they'll last... :(

@Car-Maps 6 лет назад

It starts getting like those reality shows were they hate each other and their so dramatic

@DonYelleandDiana 6 лет назад

i could tell they’re together bc they look alike lol

@fembot521 6 лет назад

Masculinity vs femininity. You can tell if these couples are still in love by how polar opposite they are. The more masculine the guy is and the more feminine the woman is means it will work.

@wunderbarbara 6 лет назад

I GOT IT RIGHT FOR THE FIRST TIME

@AJITHPJ18 6 лет назад

what's fun to have a partner with your same styles

@gardenofeden123 6 лет назад

how’d they get married after 1 month in 2006 but in 2018 they’ve only been married for 4 years

@arianabk3727 6 лет назад

She looks like Cher Lloyd

@emjhayelmidor623 6 лет назад

They are couple.,, and still inlove

@spark300c 5 лет назад

I can tell by the way they act they are not opposites. I think they are both of sp temperament in mbti.

@darinak8638 5 лет назад

It’s funny that he called her the more emotional one meanwhile he was calling her 4times at 2am professing his feelings to her lol

@muneerbasha3341 4 года назад

Omg this exactly is my story Thanks to you man

@kristinabaker4433 6 лет назад

I knew it, yay! I guessed correctly

@1983khd 6 лет назад

they look alike. i got it right though

@Noiee_suspirium 6 лет назад

omg she's soo cute they go so good toghoter 🖤🖤🖤👌🏽

@TheKirschbaumfee 6 лет назад

All the time i thought 'regardless if they are a couple or not they stil are in love, especially she is'

@MyEasyasabc 6 лет назад

I dont want any of them to say they are not in love. 😁

@amberdasilva124 6 лет назад

When they first sat down his arm was extended like he was used to putting his arm around her waist. Then he moved it. Dead giveaway. ❤️

@emmalie98 6 лет назад

you need to fix your title "Do opposites actually make a good a relationship?" LMAO

@Participant 6 лет назад

haha good catch!

@imgellin100 5 лет назад

They are soooooooooo cute!!!

@leosantos6770 5 лет назад

I'm Brazilian, thanks for translate in my language

@Doridantoni 6 лет назад

Why do they say they married 4 years ago? I thought they married 2 months after getting together back in 2006??

@johngonzalez4298 5 лет назад

All the best!

@preciousmousse 2 года назад

omg they're so cute

@andrewanane9715 6 лет назад

I chose yes they are in love yeah!!

@derpina615 6 лет назад

Finally an easy one!!! Aaah ❤️❤️❤️

@lythsian 6 лет назад

Pow. I'm 3 for 3. Next one.

@leifseed 4 года назад

Wait we were supposed to guess? So easy

@sxr6237 6 лет назад

What is that music at the very end? It's too catchy I really want to know.

@Tino81295 6 лет назад

at 3:20 his inner monologue was like: "really?!"

@token1371 6 лет назад

Perhaps Danielle is more in love with security than James.

@KELLYKH 6 лет назад

i love themmmmm :3 "with our two cats"

@spark300c 5 лет назад

they not exactly opposites because I think in mbti temperaments one sj and the other sp.

@zage5495 4 года назад

I like to date someone who’s the polar opposite of me to “complete” me I’m think more with my head than my heart so I’d want someone who thinks with their heart