Тёмный

When Should A Friendship Become Something More...? | In Love or Not 

Participant
Подписаться 3,4 млн
Просмотров 271 тыс.
50% 1

Olivia and Rubin may or may not still be together. Hear the story of their relationship and decide... do you think they are still in love?
Tell us what your vote is in the comments! Why did you make that choice? Was it body language or a look in their eyes? Or was it something they said and the way they spoke to each other? What clues do they give off?
We love to connect with YOU, no matter what language you speak. Help SoulPancake create captions in your language by clicking here:
bit.ly/27FqhGH
▃ ▅ ▆ SUBSCRIBE to SoulPancake ▆ ▅ ▃
bitly.com/SoulP...
THE SPOONFUL, our weekly dose of good stuff from across the web: ow.ly/t7K7p
MERCH STORE: bit.ly/soulpanc...
Buy our BOOK: book.soulpancak...
Follow us on FACEBOOK: / soulpancake
TWEET us at: / soulpancake
Visit our WEBSITE: soulpancake.com

Опубликовано:

 

2 окт 2024

Поделиться:

Ссылка:

Скачать:

Готовим ссылку...

Добавить в:

Мой плейлист
Посмотреть позже
Комментарии : 375   
@jasminecaldwell1173
@jasminecaldwell1173 6 лет назад
It’s weird because i knew they weren’t in a relationship but i knew they were definitely in love
@oliviamurphy9482
@oliviamurphy9482 6 лет назад
right
@lisalovestrawberry2060
@lisalovestrawberry2060 6 лет назад
Jasmine Calwell They may no longer be in love at the time of this video
@ramowilliamson4501
@ramowilliamson4501 3 года назад
Its the title that messes everything up(boy friend/girl friend, Husband /wife). Loving one another without expectations and titles will always be the best route.
@leggs4113
@leggs4113 6 лет назад
I'm pissed. I was so invested in this relationship for almost 6 minutes. I was planning the wedding and er thang. I'm gonna need a minute.
@sboyd8312
@sboyd8312 6 лет назад
Leggs Me too I was so convinced lmao.
@ThrivewithJesus
@ThrivewithJesus 6 лет назад
Leggs 😂😂😂...I live for these comments OMG
@blessbeloved
@blessbeloved 6 лет назад
The way I just HOLLERED though! LOL!😂😂😂
@JPC629
@JPC629 6 лет назад
OMG 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@fridahkariuki6582
@fridahkariuki6582 6 лет назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Rooted_Locs
@Rooted_Locs 6 лет назад
O hell naw, this is going to be messy when a new gf/be enters this trio.
@blacklionsmedia6713
@blacklionsmedia6713 6 лет назад
miniimufin looooooooooooool!!!!
@Soundsliketara
@Soundsliketara 6 лет назад
Girl u hit the nail on the head lol this ain’t gon work with another person and they’ll end up together later on
@justjiving
@justjiving 6 лет назад
Just because two people of the opposite sex get along very well and have great chemistry doesn't mean they should date. That's why people break up all the time. Sometimes friendship is all it should be. Why mess up a really good friendship on temporary feelings?
@MeltingOnYourMind
@MeltingOnYourMind 6 лет назад
Naturally 4C 🙌🙌🙌🙌couldn't have said it any better!!
@omphilemoerane2569
@omphilemoerane2569 6 лет назад
Naturally 4C Say it louder for the people at the back! Couldn't have said it better myself.
@simphiwesibiya9748
@simphiwesibiya9748 4 года назад
Preach louder please !
@sierralafaye
@sierralafaye 6 лет назад
Awww, *I was rooting for you, we were all rooting for you* I lowkey hope you guys get back together
@samlsd9711
@samlsd9711 6 лет назад
I doubt it, she's too superficial.
@topmodel082010
@topmodel082010 6 лет назад
Lol
@LT808HI
@LT808HI 6 лет назад
I think that other couple. The one about Disney about not labels on the rel should get back together
@sweetlove3391
@sweetlove3391 5 лет назад
Yeaaaaaa!
@Rocioslane
@Rocioslane 6 лет назад
Sounds like they could totally work through this
@ELeviathan33
@ELeviathan33 6 лет назад
I was about to say, they're filming this after just a year on break? Nah, they're absolutely gonna try again. Idk if it'll work. But 100% they'll end up taking a shot again.
@Drummersteveable
@Drummersteveable 6 лет назад
As best friends maybe, but not more
@topmodel082010
@topmodel082010 6 лет назад
I agree...expectations will just carry to the next person.
@Mt.Moonface
@Mt.Moonface 6 лет назад
She reminds me of Nia Long 😍
@krystleoates6554
@krystleoates6554 6 лет назад
Lol, I was just about to write the same thing.
@kenyaezeanuna6208
@kenyaezeanuna6208 6 лет назад
sleepyheadx Yasss!!! My thought exactly!!!
@kamaree1
@kamaree1 5 лет назад
Total doppelganger!!!
@laina1976
@laina1976 Месяц назад
She sounds like her too
@T.MCJ1911
@T.MCJ1911 6 лет назад
I think he likes her more than she likes him. If she wanted to try again he would. He likes her a lot
@rainonmyface
@rainonmyface 6 лет назад
Dude you two look in love. The problems you describe are problems every couple faces, and they are easy to change ❤️ I hope you both re-evaluate your friendship to see if there’s the possibility of a strong relationship there because this is what it should look like 😊
@spiritual_earthly_insights
@spiritual_earthly_insights 6 лет назад
Virginia Walter actually the guy didn't look in love at all. When she first took his hands and leaned on him the way he looked at her told me he was uncomfortable with her doing that. He is definitely not into the relationship.
@TheJasomto
@TheJasomto 6 лет назад
Altought lot of comments are about how they should start dating and so on, I think they have the perfect relationship as best friends. I've always shipp such close relationship between man and woman without romantic feeling for themselves. It's such a beautiful bond!❤😍
@romancetrtmusic
@romancetrtmusic 6 лет назад
Her teeth, her skin, her hair, her speaking voice!!!! OMG Fiiiine! Reminds me ofa mix of Nicki Minaj & Nia Long a little bit in the noise smile
@1234king01
@1234king01 6 лет назад
Totally guessed that! They were just too comfortable with each other and there was no sexual tension. But it's great that they're good friends. 👌🏽
@JjBianca
@JjBianca 6 лет назад
Beena S I agree about them being too comfortable and lacking in sexual tension. I think something happened, because she started seeing him as a potential partner when he got fit. Something turned her off and she just leave it that way. You don't see a friend as a future partner just because he got fit. It's more than this. I don't believe in this friendship after dating. It's not going to work because when one of them is going to date somebody else, one of them would get upset. For sure. This friendship is getting awkward
@1234king01
@1234king01 6 лет назад
Ji Jj I agree. Such relationships are a bit tricky. Hope nobody gets hurt.🙏🏾 Good luck to them.
@pippenisme2116
@pippenisme2116 6 лет назад
Beena S don't say stuff like that
@bhaktib
@bhaktib 6 лет назад
CHRISGUN KILLERS Ahhh, you are so backward minded
@bradleybrad398
@bradleybrad398 6 лет назад
Thats completely ridiculous... at least in my religion. I think they would be fantastic as a couple, because it seems they have no *desire* for that. Most christians would LOVE to have a relationship like their was.
@jenniferjeffries83
@jenniferjeffries83 6 лет назад
No no no- they can work through those issues. My husband is very good at expressing his wants/needs/feelings and I am not, so he makes me better in that way. There are other things that I am better at that make him rise to my level. We are better together. 💁🏻‍♀️ If you let your pride get in the way, you won’t be happy.
@mbelma6329
@mbelma6329 6 лет назад
Jennifer Browning they know what their relationship is. More importantly, it sounds like they know what their relationship isn’t. Sometimes it just doesn’t work out. It doesn’t have to be romantic to be a beautiful and lovely relationship
@jenniferjeffries83
@jenniferjeffries83 6 лет назад
mbelma6329 I’m just saying that I wouldn’t be surprised if they ended up together. 💅🏻 You’re right, though. I just hoped it would have worked out because I like both of them 🤷🏻‍♀️
@aleynat4929
@aleynat4929 6 лет назад
I really thought they were in a relationship they are so cute omg goals
@ninhbac04
@ninhbac04 6 лет назад
just because they're cute doesn't mean they should be together.
@aleynat4929
@aleynat4929 6 лет назад
Indie Guy I just said that they are cute together but okay
@nadhirahaida6328
@nadhirahaida6328 6 лет назад
me too.. even they just do eye contact without feel like 'awkward moment' hahahahah
@keepsusstargazing2505
@keepsusstargazing2505 6 лет назад
They seem like the two people you ship SO HARD on some TV show, and then when they get together you're like "oh. oh no. This won't work." and then they break up and it's sad but then it's all okay again, you know?
@Participant
@Participant 6 лет назад
Haha a wonderful evaluation.
@luwamalem9537
@luwamalem9537 6 лет назад
Pretty much!!😂
@whyyoureadinmyname5145
@whyyoureadinmyname5145 6 лет назад
Lmao
@lovemecom3832
@lovemecom3832 6 лет назад
I can feel that they are inlove with each other, because they are so comfortable on answering things about them. You can actually notice it since the start of the video.
@Infintekweyol
@Infintekweyol 6 лет назад
He should buy her a rice cooker then lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ms.j661
@ms.j661 6 лет назад
She looks like a young Nia Long just gorgeous!!!
@Byyinka
@Byyinka 6 лет назад
SO YA'LL CAN'T JUST WORK IT OUT DOE!?
@martinsmith511
@martinsmith511 3 года назад
In all caps
@tieiatalks
@tieiatalks 6 лет назад
I’m so sad! I wanted them to make it. I’ve been married more than 1/2 my life. I’d never dated anyone under 6’4”. (Just an example). I was working for the DoD and was introduced to a handsome fighter pilot (sexy job) but, most fighter pilots are short. He’s 5’10” and I’m 5’8”. I was young and was really hung up on his height. I wear heels almost everyday. But, it never bothered him and I admired his confidence. Not we’re married with three grown children. He’s retired from the Air Force now. Long story, but I wouldn’t be so happily married if I’d decided that his height was a deal breaker. I love these videos!
@taylormaaade3951
@taylormaaade3951 6 лет назад
I remember him from school, he was the drum major at our school, Carol City SHS (Go Chiefs! 😂) he’s always been super cute, and QUIET!
@GodLikeMikeLive
@GodLikeMikeLive 6 лет назад
They still love each other, but they just have to work out the kinks. Not every relationship is going to be perfect but that’s why you work things out and grow with each other to figure out what one another wants. They could definitely get back together in the future.
@tprim4495
@tprim4495 6 лет назад
It then become something that WE SICK PEOPLE watch :D
@um22w22
@um22w22 6 лет назад
TPrim LoL
@groovynovy
@groovynovy 6 лет назад
He has such a great laugh
@Soundsliketara
@Soundsliketara 6 лет назад
This is what u call a situationship... basically friends with bennys but since they said they do love each other I bet it’ll be a problem if one tries to move on and see somebody else
@Penguinverse
@Penguinverse 6 лет назад
I looked at this woman and immediately thought "beautiful". I didn't think of hot or cute, but beauty.
@Missebony0927
@Missebony0927 6 лет назад
He seems super laidback and doesn’t sweat the small stuff. She doesn’t seem to be this same way. His laugh was adorable
@Jacjiemanhue
@Jacjiemanhue 6 лет назад
She’s super GORGEOUS!!!
@leopardprint0
@leopardprint0 6 лет назад
beautiful woman
@stephaniea1803
@stephaniea1803 6 лет назад
Omg, I cannot believe they are not together! I was smiling watching this video and then literally felt saddened at the end as if I knew them. You can see the mood change at the end it was so sad!! I hope they get back together :(
@hannyadisme
@hannyadisme 6 лет назад
They seem more like brother and sister, but they have a cute dynamic!
@cee4165
@cee4165 6 лет назад
I have to remind myself not to read the comments when things like this come on. It'll ruin the surprise
@margaretnyams8952
@margaretnyams8952 6 лет назад
Looks can decieve. How about being thankful having someone you can laugh with and so easily talk to and feel good being around.. Those high expectations, is she offering higher levels???
@MrCillaKam
@MrCillaKam 6 лет назад
They can make it work. COMMUNICATION yall the ruination of all relationship romantic or otherwise.
@roadtotheskyy
@roadtotheskyy 6 лет назад
NOW THIS IS A FRIENDSHIP I NEVER THOUGHT I NEEDED
@fannation5296
@fannation5296 6 лет назад
aw thought they would be a power couple:(
@azeriturk7977
@azeriturk7977 6 лет назад
If two people were truly in love, there is no friendship afterwards. One will always have feelings, it’s the life.
@christinesegarra709
@christinesegarra709 6 лет назад
That isn't true. Sometimes love changes shape.
@Bye-son
@Bye-son 6 лет назад
yeah not true
@melippy2
@melippy2 6 лет назад
Wow!! They looked like they were totally in love. That’s too bad because they seem like a good couple together. I think the issue is the high expectations because having expectations is like setting yourself up for disappointment. No human being can attain such high expectation because we are imperfect creatures. The beauty in relationships is you grow together through it all to attain greater heights than if you were alone. Relationships hold us accountable.
@fixherup_ag7504
@fixherup_ag7504 6 лет назад
IVE WATCHED LIKE 6 OF THESE AND GOT ALL OF THEM WRONG... UNTIL NOW!!! I know nobody cares but, it made me excited soooo......
@ashantijones2536
@ashantijones2536 6 лет назад
They are totally going to end up back together!! They are forsure in love and can't hide that
@anewloveofficial9137
@anewloveofficial9137 6 лет назад
Frienship is very important to me because it's the foundation of a strong relationship as a couple. Love doesn't have to be all about attraction because it easily fades in time but if you continue to be bestfriends, you have more chance of surviving every trial in the relationship.
@moeezS
@moeezS 6 лет назад
The distance and body language made this obvious. They rarely looked at each other. If you can't be honest and got to ask your friends, yeah it's never going to work out.
@debbieomi
@debbieomi 6 лет назад
I love, love, love this series! I hope it continues forever!
@patriciaselwyn799
@patriciaselwyn799 3 года назад
She is gorgeous, that smile!
@mimisvida6264
@mimisvida6264 6 лет назад
Stop lying girl. You love him.
@sadpieceofshieet6219
@sadpieceofshieet6219 6 лет назад
They are so cute together🤩 Btw no one gives a damn if you are the first second etc comment. Please stahp
@RadiantNarwhal
@RadiantNarwhal 6 лет назад
Maikolocity just don't bring attention to it
@token1371
@token1371 6 лет назад
Smart move to remain friends. High expectations can never be reached because the focus is about their satisfaction, and love is putting one's needs before your own.
@Drummersteveable
@Drummersteveable 6 лет назад
Internet psychologist opinion here. They obviously match well as friends, but things probably ended because the romance was too weird or just wasn’t there. He still has feelings for her it seems so he probably has a lower libido, which is perfect for a platonic companionship but she probably wanted more. Just my 2 cents.
@thatpiscesgal
@thatpiscesgal 6 лет назад
Knew it from the very beginning they were just friends
@nobodynobody5093
@nobodynobody5093 6 лет назад
Awesome friendship😇
@danielrobinson9270
@danielrobinson9270 6 лет назад
They should work on building their "love" relationship. I can tell they want to be together. They look good together.
@leggs4113
@leggs4113 6 лет назад
Rice is tricky! You have to babysit it. That's why I have a rice cooker.
@marihanna2490
@marihanna2490 6 лет назад
She’s so pretty
@amuzzing67
@amuzzing67 6 лет назад
Shut up and get back together! You two are amazing with one another. There’s always hiccups in a relationship- push thru. What you two have is rare and beautiful.
@tida9804
@tida9804 6 лет назад
why do i low-key see Nia Long in her features.....or that's just me??
@queensigal
@queensigal 5 лет назад
she is overly critical and she gets away with it because of her looks. He is way too nice .
@sophie7162
@sophie7162 6 лет назад
seemed like they just needed to work through some stuff
@sisi429
@sisi429 6 лет назад
the sadness in their expression when he said "nothing more nothing less" is heart broken.
@cobraking7146
@cobraking7146 5 лет назад
Love these two
@nylafelix4251
@nylafelix4251 6 лет назад
so were going to act like she doesn't look like Nia Long
@nickharley2344
@nickharley2344 6 лет назад
She's the type of woman that looks in the mirror and believes based off her physical appearance that her expectations should be sky high. When she gets older and doesn't come across that man, she'll regret not taking him seriously and he'll be married. Women do this a lot, huge expectations in their 20s to mid 30s, and once their attraction starts to fade they'll understand, and end up settling for whatever they can have. Sad truth. Ladies if you come across your soulmate don't bypass him because hes not where you want him to be financially, or career wise. Life is so much more than that.
@HEAVYCHEVY409
@HEAVYCHEVY409 6 лет назад
*My Thoughts* There great friends but they are good friends with benefits i promise you that lol they have some a connection but they dont want to really dig deep into it so they will remain friends until one gets in a serious relationship.
@authorfrancesmarie8242
@authorfrancesmarie8242 6 лет назад
She looks like Nia Long 😍
@enmaretube366
@enmaretube366 6 лет назад
How he explain his step dad it the best thing
@samlsd9711
@samlsd9711 6 лет назад
Wow she's stunningly beautiful!
@rensky4518
@rensky4518 6 лет назад
I feel like both are Haitian American, what kind of expectations? she just focus of things that doesn't matter when age catch her up she will be different.
@Bronxphoenixx
@Bronxphoenixx 6 лет назад
She looks and sounds like Nia Long! 😍
@cocobrown8698
@cocobrown8698 6 лет назад
she looks a little bit like Nia Long in the face but that wig ... needs to go, Beautiful people tho !
@Jesus-kt5dc
@Jesus-kt5dc 6 лет назад
*YEAH RIGHT, SHE WASN'T FEELING HIM SINCE THE BEGINNING. HE NEEDS TO GET AWAY FROM HER.*
@chimakalu41
@chimakalu41 6 лет назад
They should date each other again I think they're already doing better than some married couples
@caprhys3779
@caprhys3779 6 лет назад
Nah their chemistry is just too good future they will be together
@Participant
@Participant 6 лет назад
Only time will tell... ;)
@cassandragordon7195
@cassandragordon7195 6 лет назад
First time I ever watch this "show" well first time watching this channel all together and they aren't in love?!? I'm disappointed but now I have to watch the while series
@Shantased
@Shantased 6 лет назад
On a high note, I LOVE ❤️ THE LOVE YOU SHARE! I BELIEVE this is Love for the best friend, that can become one marriage. Stop being so scared of Loving each other. Grow & Development together 🙏🏿💙💯✝️🔛🔥2️⃣0️⃣1️⃣8️⃣👑👑👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@raulvazquez5041
@raulvazquez5041 6 лет назад
I love this! Keep this series going!
@suannoir
@suannoir 6 лет назад
I literally screamed when she sat down, she's so beautiful! My goodness
@susuilu
@susuilu 6 лет назад
his laughter...hahaha
@hbhehbhe1803
@hbhehbhe1803 6 лет назад
So, when are they getting back together?
@tomaitoe
@tomaitoe 5 лет назад
3:16 "He can't sing, but he loves to sing." OMG she DRAGS 😂😂😂😂
@luwamalem9537
@luwamalem9537 6 лет назад
Is it just me or does she remind anyone else of Gabriel Union?! & btw, I LOVE them!! 😍😍
@yoruba21
@yoruba21 6 лет назад
"What you wanted me to say, eggs?" I'm crying lol 😂😂😂
@TheDfranks1866
@TheDfranks1866 5 лет назад
I love them together!
@Dreamwithdeby
@Dreamwithdeby 6 лет назад
She has nice teeth
@nohahaggag
@nohahaggag 6 лет назад
There is ostensible honesty here, but I get the vibes that one of them is lying and is DEFINITELY in love with the other one.
@sharonoshaimba7064
@sharonoshaimba7064 6 лет назад
I failed the test😭 lol I thought I was spot on!😄😄💛
@franklinbrandon5283
@franklinbrandon5283 6 лет назад
nice guys ALWAYS finish last!!!!
@philochristos
@philochristos 6 лет назад
I need to start working out.
@yoruba21
@yoruba21 6 лет назад
"What you wanted me to say, eggs?" I'm crying lol 😂😂😂
@lipsohlips97
@lipsohlips97 6 лет назад
I just gotta say... Olivia is stunning...
@patrickjackson6600
@patrickjackson6600 6 лет назад
dang, i got baited into clicking yes.
@sophiawishes3208
@sophiawishes3208 6 лет назад
I beg to differ!!! I object!!! You can’t tell me there’s no chemistry there!! Stop lying!! I don’t believe it!! Y’all are breaking my heart! You’re in denial!! 😂😂
@Justhangonman
@Justhangonman 6 лет назад
Ok wtf she’s officially the prettiest woman I’ve ever seen
@Taytimethursday
@Taytimethursday 6 лет назад
I feel like he loves her and she loves him as long as she can control him and the relationship. She’s beautiful but seems to be a handful with her expectations etc. This man has dodged a deadly bullet by not being in a relationship. U can tell he values love and relationship; not saying that she doesn’t but it seems like she’s expecting a fantasy man to sweep her off her feet. She may end up an old single chick with a lot of cats or even a lesbian.
@TheNaphisa03
@TheNaphisa03 6 лет назад
I knew they were not in love way before they said it.
@jaswantsokey1877
@jaswantsokey1877 5 лет назад
Definitely not in "love". Her body language was a dead give away while his bemusement with their whole "together" thing was also a dead give away to the fact that there "is no chemistry here". She is more conscious about her thing, like the space she so obviously wants, while his approach seems so experimental!
@demitri9871
@demitri9871 6 лет назад
I cried.
@Aryonwilica218
@Aryonwilica218 4 года назад
Bs you guys should be grown and work it out when two people match that well can be friends even though they love each other even after a breakup I feel that’s your better half Same situation between me and my best friend we met weird through are cousins dating in a whole other state we met when I came back home 10 years ago and been close friends ever since no sex but on and off flirting and I get confused cause she throws me mixed signals I can tell little jealousy signs when I’m out with other girls or seriously talking to someone I even told her I love her and would want to be with her and she says we don’t know what future holds then goes back to treating me like a friend until I start acting the same we talk all day everyday I try to end convos but she’ll find a way to talk even if it’s a argument it makes me sick I don’t want to be around for validation if we’re just friends leave it at that don’t say when we have kids or say sexual jokes I understand I’m probably not even her type or maybe like this woman in the video your expectations are so high he can’t fulfill them but the truth is if you have a man or woman who tries to reach those expectations you should love them unconditionally Hence forth why good men are going out being thots I bet a lot of men women call dogs would say I need to drop her as a friend and go out be a pimp but that’s not what all men want Go get your king queen
@deborahc7300
@deborahc7300 6 лет назад
I could tell they're just friends
@Avratin
@Avratin 5 лет назад
The problem is that she knows she could get a more attractive man. If he was more attractive they'd be together. That's all, folks.
@vidisharamteke4459
@vidisharamteke4459 3 года назад
Exactly that's the thing you can be in love with the person but after some time it just becomes platonic and that's fine I guess because you can't be with them which is understandable you better to split ways and have own life maybe?
@dexkato7329
@dexkato7329 4 года назад
This dude is the type of guy who would make a great husband ladies. His ex girlfriend just let a real ride or die brother go, because she's searching for a bigger better deal. Damn shame.
Далее
LOLLIPOP-SCHUTZ-GADGET 🍭 DAS BRAUCHST DU!
00:28
Просмотров 2,6 млн
what's the difference between friendship and romance?
12:27
Think Fast, Talk Smart: Communication Techniques
58:20
One of the Greatest Speeches Ever | Steve Jobs
10:31
BENEFITS OF A FRIENDSHIP BEFORE A RELATIONSHIP
9:45
Просмотров 40 тыс.