I’m so happy to see an actual beautiful plus size women making these types of videos. I see a lot of skinny women showing how to slim the body but they aren’t reality. I can’t tell if it would look good on me bc they are not plus size so I appreciate you so much for showing us plus size women how it’s done. Thank you!!
For the size you are rocking, girl, you have presented some of the best camouflage for a tummy I have ever seen! Not only do you cover the issues well, but you also look Fabulous doing it! Keep up the Great work, Sis.
I loved that you say work with belly instead of against it. I feel I spend so much time hating getting dressed because I’m constantly trying work against my body type to make it fit what I want instead of working with it to look my most flattering.❤❤❤❤❤
Omg! Yes. That was a learning lesson for me. When I stopped trying to fit into things that clearly was too small and too tight on my stomach and started trying and wearing things that visually flattered that area, it changed my entire outlook.
LOVE how you emphasize "size up and tailor down"! So very true. Too many plus size women walking around looking like a stuffed sausage. Thanks for putting that out there😊
I always use this "stuffed sausage" reference. Lol. I'm glad I'm not the only one out there who thinks this way. Being plus size requires some extra work in ensuring that we look good.
I have no clue why youtube decided to recommend this to me (I've never looked up fashion stuff) but this was really nice! I'm average sized woman, so I can't really use the tips myself, but I still really enjoyed listening about the topic! You have a such a nice way of speaking :)
The key to wearing shapewear is to by it one to two sizes bigger than what size you wear. It will still work - you just won’t be squeezed to death or roast like a potato in summer.
Thank you! My 13 year old daughter was blessed with curves like you (me and my 20 year old are skeletons so it’s been super important to let my young daughter know her body is perfect and she doesn’t need to be a stick like us). I’ve been having trouble finding flattering things for her and you’ve shown me what I need to be looking for and I cannot thank you enough. Teenage years are so hard especially when most 13 year olds are quite thin so thanks for helping 🙏🙏
Thank you for learning ways to love your child. I was raised in a household with this size dynamic and have residual trauma because of it. Thank you for researching ways to be aware.
You hit this spot on. I'm a "seasoned" plus size woman and I often say, a good undergarment makes a real difference. I have purchased the " so called" bodycon dresses and wear them as a slip.
As someone who's on the thicker side of things, even with weight loss, I believe I'll always have curves and some belly, this is great advice! I've slowly learned to dress more for my shape and I'm always happy to get more ideas!
This video is why I ❤️ you. Everything you bring us is classy and truthful. My favorite thing you educated the people on is Most women of ANY size have to tailor their clothes. Ready to wear is mostly a myth.
Great video with awesome tips. The tailoring comment is so true. I recently had to do that with a dress I had to size up in to fit my bust. What a difference it made. Remember ladies Ready to wear is not ready to wear for every body type.
Great informative video! Love the side-by-side comparisons so that we can really see the difference between the styles. You’re are a beautiful woman with great, classy style.
You are so right about following influencers whose bodies resemble your own. I've been doing this for maybe a year or so and it has done SO MUCH for my confidence. I even sometimes watch folks who are bigger than I am. It really gives you a better sense of what will and will not flatter your own body. More importantly, it also normalizes not just existing in a bigger body, but looking GOOD in a bigger body. My husband and I both wear a 2X. He can walk into the regular men's section of almost any store and find his size in nearly any item. Me? I am relegated to small, plus size sections, some random racks that probably don't carry 2X, or special stores just for large women. Society punishes women for being above a certain size. It tells us we shouldn't be seen. Watching confident, beautiful, positive ladies like you has done wonders for my self-image. Thank you!
I’m 35 and finely trying to cut my weight too. I’m hoping to loose another 20-30 pounds at least. before graduation ceremony in June (college) but I am not hopeful considering my weight has yo-yo 20 pounds 6 different times. Last year And I’m currently on that yo-yo back up. It sucks and I’m discouraged. Best of luck to you with your journey, I hope you have the best success and no matter what you love you. ❤️
@@keyzg6480 I have a premier protein drink in the morning along with some fruit. Usually raspberry, strawberry, blueberry..... Not too much of the sugary fruits. Another premier protein drink or protein broth ( from Unjury) and raw veggie (or all veggies salad) with low cal dressing for lunch . For dinner it is lean meat, and veggies. I limit my carb and sugar intake. But I allow myself one weekend day that I eat what I want, I just have whatever it is in moderation. And try my best to do between 6,000-10,000 steps a day.
@@jonavantour9856 it's definitely hard to keep it off, and if you see yourself slipping a little bit it's okay. Just get back to it. I've gained 7 lbs back over the winter months, but back at it! Best of luck on your journey also! 🙏🏼
@@keyzg6480 drinking mainly water, through the day, no fast food or coffee’s from Dutch Brothers or Human Bean, and i walk at least 20 minutes everyday. I try to walk more when time allows but I’m also on my feet now for 15+ hours a day before I’m done for the night.
That white off the shoulder top and tropical patterned pants looks absolutely stunning on you. I am not big, but since menopause I have a spare tyre around my middle, and your advice is perfect for those of us who may not be big all over but still have the flabby, floppy tummy. Menopause has a lot to answer for!! Great advice, thank you.
I absolutely love your channel. I'd shaped very similar to you, and I take very seriously what you discuss here on your channel. Thank you for being such a beautiful example of how we full figured divas can and should be represented.
I can't even tell you how many times I've been watching you and thought "I sure wish I had her shape instead of this big ole belly". You dress so well I never knew! You always look so beautiful It's giving me hope for myself! Lol These are all great tips! Even though I know some of them it's good to have a reminder.
I wish You could post this video on a billboard!! Your style tips are truly helpful and your encouragement at the end gave confidence to someone who may not love their curves!! This was so very necessary for us plus size ladies! Thank YOU for this video..
I found this totally by accident, was searching for the 10 babies that were just born! Are you a model? You definitely look like one. You are BEAUTIFUL! YOU have great attributes - gorgeous legs, to boot. I'm big everywhere, so I won't wear dresses. But I agree with no low-rise jeans and for the same reason. I have ONE extra tip: TRY ON things you wouldn't normally try. I brought a stylish 5th grader with me once, who talked me into trying on clothes I never would have tried- changed my clothing life! So don't give up!
You look great girl! I promise I’m not depressed but I’m so tired of “dressing my belly”. Losing weight after babies is soooo hard. Thank you for your videos though because they are helping me while in transition. ❤
Thank u, Lisa. I’ve never had a real defined waist no matter my weight. Having gained a belly, these tips are excellent. I would always pick billowy tops that were pretty but the moment I’d walk by a mirror, it was shocking to see they really weren’t flattering. Same with the knit ‘A line “ dress. Zero shape 🤷🏽♀️. As I lose the fluff, these tips will be very helpful in selecting flattering looks to be seen! ❤
I have gained weight through the years and my body has completely changed, which I am completely ok with. I have had a terrible time trying to figure out what now compliments me. I will be trying on outfits and cuts that you have suggested. You are beautiful and I love your sense of style. My body is similar to yours. Thanks so much for sharing your talent!
Thank you for this video. I’ve had two babies within the last 3 years and gained a lot of weight which makes me self conscious about what I wear . I’m always trying to hide my mid section and your video has given me hope that I can be get the confidence to dress nice with style
I don't know if I'm crying because I'm happy to have come across your helpful page or the fact that you're absolutely beautiful & can make your instructions work well, but for my body shape your instructions just might not work because I have a large belly, medium butt, no freaking breasts (darn it!) I can only try. This is all new to me and I'm so stressed. I do thank you for posting because I'm hoping to get my confidence back even with my new body shape.
Wish we could shop together😂 I use to have that blob shape because I never wore any form fitting clothing... EVERYTHING OVERSIZED 😢 But now going from 320 to 210 at 5ft8in I'm having to learn a whole new body type including hiding the saggy skin. Despite family and social body shaming over the years I still managed to still find budget friendly cute outfits on a budget. Don't be discouraged, it's a process and you gotta put in the time to get to know what your diva development (tm) will reveal. Have fun🎉😊
@stylishcurves I hear you @samwhite8197, same with me. I have one very small breast and half of the other breast, size 2X stomach and very little butt. I purchase sixe 2X however the top half is loose material, nothing to fill the breast section. Stress, depression when shopping .
Just subbed great content! Short waisted and still struggling with discomfort from my c section and mommy pooch. Never had a flat tummy but baby boy really pushed into the big belly club lol. I find the wyob tank shape wear is helpful to smooth and create a buffer over my scar when wearing pants. Stichfix was actually super helpful in guiding me to finding a flattering personal style for my new plus sized body.
This is a great video. It is nice to find an apple shape content creator that celebrates the shape in a classy way. There are too many I have found keep trying to push crop tops and having the gut hanging out.
Had to stop midway and subscribe and scream...THANK YOU SIS FOR THIS 101 MASTERCLASS HERE.🔥❤😊👍🏼 I have been on a journey to step into my feminine queen role for a while and didn't know how to shop properly for my size. Thank you sooo much for this😘
Thank you for this, Alisa. I have medium boobs, no butt or hips but ALL Jabba the Gut. I never had much of a waist but after 30+ abdominal surgeries. . . . HAH!!!! I love peplum tops. The size up/tailor down is something I'm going to take to heart. 💚
Thank you so much for making plus size ladies show off what they got.. The best GIFT my father gave me I have NEVER be a small person always BIGGER than my mates especially midsection...you just add more to my tips GREAT video ❤❤
I’m so glad I found your channel! I was thin all my life until a few years ago when a traumatic event saw me gain a lot of weight very quickly. I want to look good even at this bigger size but I just had no idea how to do it. Being able to see how things look on a similar body type to mine is so helpful! Thank you 💖
LOVE THIS!!! I’m a size 14, but have a belly and a hard time finding clothes that flatter. I will be taking all the tips and tricks and finally try to dress the belly I have instead of hiding it!!! New to the page and just subscribed!!! Would love to see a few haul videos 🤗
Really great tips here, and I truly appreciate it! I have the apple shape and I still struggle at times to find what works best to be the most figure flattering! Love your channel, thank you dear! xoxo 💖💖💖
I don’t want to flatter my midsection. I don’t want to display it or portray it favorably. I just want to “hide” it, “diminish” it, “decrease” it, get “rid” of it, or any other word other than “flatter it” 😂. But thank you because you do make your clothes work to your advantage. 😃
I'm not a big size but I have a big stomach and straight body type. Your video is great on knowing clothes types to wear. I'm a size 8 but have trouble fitting clothes. Thank you for great ideas!
Guirl!! I applaud your confidence. My pooch is not quite as pronounced, but you are rock'en with style. I thought I was doomed to shapeless dresses and jackets. Shapeless dresses going to grandma's house or Goodwill. Thank you for sharing and being an inspiration to not settle. With some creativity, I can be stylish too (while I'm working on getting rid of the pooch). thank you so much.
What about if you're average sized elsewhere with a slight to moderate pooch. Working to get rid of it without losing too much muscle. How to wear dresses?
I've always been thicka than a snicka too boo! Lol. I always love your channel bc you dont dress provocatively but still kill it style wise. You are one of my fave YTers
🙏🏽 you are gorgeous and really know how to use the best styles to enhance your figure, amazing job! Thanks so much for this well done and informative video 💜
amazing tips! I have not been a big girl my whole life so I'm a grown ass woman who don't know how to dress herself sometimes. lol Love your videos so much because you highlight affordable brands and stores too. 💖
You & me is twining on body type SIS. I've gained all my weight in stomach & back. Up till 15 minutes I was feeling 😢. You made my whole day! "Size up & tailor down" is genius. Thanks for displaying the styles. If I could give you a million 👍 I would. I will start to do some swimming to help with trim the belly fat but like you even in my size 8 days I've always had a gut. Thank you for sharing your gift of style. Take a bow girlfriend 👏 😊
At first I was like oh no why not just lose the weight? Then I thought how much weight I've gained how long it takes to lose it and decided to watch to the end you do not dissapoint girl. Now you've given me a reason to smile embrace my body and go shopping again. Thank you so much ❤
I see a lot of women today with the attitude that "I wear what I want , don't body shame me". they let it all hang out and refuse to dress to flatter their body. You are absolutely a breath of fresh air. You are gorgeous and your style is fabulous. I hope this video gets out there and teaches women to aim to look your best and dress to flatter your shape. I just love this video.
Thanks so much for this video. I'm losing weight but my double boiler ( belly ) is such a sore spot for me. My stomach is the only part of my body I dislike and am embarrassed about. I'm running to watch the other video right now. Thanks Again ! ❤❤❤
I found your video because I have put on weight in the tummy area due to the steroids I must take every day now. Based on your advice, I ordered a dress and it looked amazing!!! It’s the first dress I have kept after many tries!!!
@Patti I also was on Cortisone and put on 20kg due to Systemic Lupus. It made me heavier than when I was 9 months pregnant and that awful moon face was so bad that is was hard to look at myself in the mirror. I have always been a size 6 US and it was a shock to me to see such a change. I got the weight off by dancing every night in my pjs to 1980/90’s dance music and lost 20 kg. After menopause I will probably never weigh 57kg again which I was before the cortisone etc. Just want to warn you about the steroids, it caused me to have osteoporosis and I have fractured my spine from sneezing and my ribs doing up my shoes. So please look after yourself and watch the dose if you are still on it. Don’t want to see anyone suffer from it. Keep well. My best wishes from Australia
@@karenglenn6707 I have Addison’s Disease, so steroids are the only thing keeping me alive, unfortunately. I try to keep my dose as low as possible, but when my body is under stress I have to double or triple my dose. I realize that the long term outcome for me isn’t great, so I try to take one day at a time. The steroids also suppress my immune system, so every time I’m around my grandchildren I get sick. And, my husband is a teacher, so he brings home lots of viruses too. He will retire after next year, thank goodness! I also have chronic pain, so the only exercise I can do is walk and lift some light weights. I just try to keep a positive outlook on life, and the people I love don’t care what size I am! I’m so sorry you have Lupus, and deal with all that comes with the disease. The main thing is we can still love and be there for our loved ones!!
@@Patti-1962 I just looked up your illness, which I had heard of, and saw that it’s also an immune problem, as Lupus is. A lot of the symptoms are similar. Have you had a Dexa, or bone density scan, to check the health and integrity of your bones? I did after the first fracture but you could still have the weakening and not know yet. I assume you need to pay for it, from memory it isn’t cheap but mine is free here. Well, you’ve copped something nasty and I hope that you keep well (apart from the bugs etc, from the family). I take immunosuppressants so am paranoid about catching anything, and luckily I’m the only one in the family who doesn’t. But I have severe skin lesions that have put me into hospital as they become disgusting as my body cannot fight infection. My skin makes me look like a meth user, apart from my face luckily. A positive attitude is definitely the best thing, family, my doggies and the garden keep me sane. Hope that you don’t catch anything this winter and wish you the best of health.
@@karenglenn6707 I feel very grateful to meet other people who understand what it's like to be chronically ill. I seem to continue to collect autoimmune diseases, and yes, I have had bone scans. I had thin bones, but had osteopenia, but I probably have osteoporosis by now. I have so many other issues to deal with, my bones haven't been high on the priority list. I have an amazing doctor who will start me on the medication when I need it. I'm SO sorry about your lesions, they sound so painful. Have you been checked for hidradenitis suppurativa? Also, my doctor will put me on a long term, low dose antibiotic every once in a while to give my body a break from being sick. I love my dog and garden as well! I lost my "heart" dog last year, so we just have one now. I do a lot of indoor "gardening," propagating cuttings and creating new plants. I hope that you have an uneventful few months!!
Hey. I've just come across your channel as I'm going out this weekend and am fed up of wearing the same kind of stuff for my figure. Your channel came up and i'm so glad it did. As soon as I started watching you I just loved you - your vibe is just incredible! Will definitely be keeping up with your videos in future. Your comment on 'Don't hide yourself, you deserve to shine' really hit me. Thank you :) And btw you are absolutely gorgeous and I LOVE your style. xxxxxxxxx
I agree with most of what your saying...underwear can either make or destroy an outfit...I always suggest getting properly fitted bra's by an experienced trained sales assistant...and every 6 months women need to get measured ... Also dresses need to be literally on the knee or below as then you see the better part of your legs...wrap..cowl neck line is the very best for being heavy on top...
Girl where have you been all my life?! You know how much trauma I would have saved myself if I found you sooner! Thanks so much for this video. SOOOOO HELPFUL!
Yes ma'am I have learned that ruching is my best friend. However, I would have never thought to size up in a shirt dress and tailor to fit. The shirt dress looks so professional. Love it❤
Just found this channel! Obsessed and so grateful. I only wear what I call my uniform for life. Because I'm tall and have a gut. High rise jeans from torrid and black tank top. In the winter I wear a hoodie. Never knew so many brands had options for our size. God I wish you'd help dress me. But for now I'll keep my 20 black tank tops and 2 pairs of jeans and watch your videos.
Thank You so much for this video. I'm struggling to find my right style. I'm smaller at the top with larger hips, behind and legs. Pear shaped I guess? Your video helped me to think about styling more intentionally than trying to cover up. Now I have a better understanding of what I've been doing wrong. Thank You and you are so appreciated.
Oh I love that 'shapeless' dress you were referring to right at the beginning. I'd cut the neckline a bit lower for me though (it helps to balance out the big breast region with my narrow shoulders. Just have to be careful not to go too low on the décolleté area).
Thank you for sharing this video. I love your tips. I was that anti-shapewear girl for the longest time. Then I tried them and bayybeee you can't tell my fluffy self nothing!!!!😂😂 Makes a 1000% difference. Keep doing what you do.
LOVE THIS. There is just not enough out there that shows body types like ours. You look amazing. I am so sick of seeing kibbe body type videos that have stick thin celebrities.
I have recently gained about 40 pounds. I’m around 163 pounds right now and I know that’s not large for some people but for me it’s extremely large When I was younger, I was around 105 pounds and then a couple years ago I got up to 130 which freaked me out and I just keep growing . and my body shape is changing. I’m gonna be 40 here in a couple years. So I was just searching the Internet because I’m struggling to get my shape back no matter what I do what I eat I don’t wanna be miserable and I don’t wanna feel like I don’t look good so this has been the most helpful video I found on the Internet , so thank you thank you thank you!
I have struggled with weight on and off (was an athlete then in my 30s put on weight due to change in lifestyle) and after having a baby it’s been hard to get back my stomach down. I have a large stomach and this was helpful. So many good tips, excited to try. I have Def been trying to hide in all the things you say not to wear. Just want to say you are amazing and so beautiful. Love the positivity. We need more women like you (women who look like you and have a voice like you) ❤
I'm glad I found this video. I have a bunch of empire waist dresses and tops, fit and flare dresses, and high waist jeans. But I've never considered anything body con, I'm short and don't think I could wear that, but I never thought about a kimono. Im gonna see how those look on me
A really hard one to dress is a tiny waist (hour glass figure) with a stomach. Skirts/trousers are either too tight over the stomach but fitted at the waist or wearable over the stomach and loose at the waist and I speak from experience. And it doesn't matter if you are a size 8 (in my early 20s) or a size 24 (now) it is still incredibly difficult to fit. Good video, thank you.
Thank you ❤! Menopause brought 65 pounds I have not been able to shed. Never having been this size or shape left me at a loss for how to dress. Thank you, you're a sanity saver... and gorgeous.
