Lots of people on here who don't like their jobs, and it weirdly gave me some comfort. So many of us are in the same boat. Good to know that I'm not alone in this.
Yesss I used to think I was alone and nobody else hated their jobs but me lol it’s hard to talk about it because people think your lazy or ungrateful because you hate your job it sucks
@@SharlenesJourney same feels. The feeling even got worse cos of this pandemic. Everyone tells you not to leave cos it s tough to get a job nowadays. I'm just... Dying inside here already.
I don't get much pay now im a waitress and whatever pay i get i have to give it to my family so leaves me with nothing there are days when i don't feel as of i can go into work but still have to go because we are short staffed I've applied for so many jobs that would definitely work around me and my freedom but i keep getting turned down I don't wish to always having to live of tips if people don't tip i can't eat or get into work amd even so i don't get my full tips because there is always a big amount thats messing i don't get my card tips into my account because the managers always take my table amd take the tip
This is the reason I can’t quit I make amazing money but I’m always angry and emotional and the worse part is my boss is my brother in law and he’s such a jerk but I have lots of payments I need to make
I just hate my job. Everyday I wake up with a heavy heart. I wish night never ends and morning never comes so that I can never wanna work. I don't feel good even on weekends. I start every morning crying and it has become like, if I don't cry a day I feel so bad of not crying about it. My entire life is now just revolving around logging in, working and logging out. If I quit, I don't know what I will do. I just want this pain to go away... The Pain is soo strong that it is killing my happiness, as if I don't have one.
Thanks for sharing, I could have written this post. I work as a CNA and anxiety rises as I drive to work, wishing my car would break down so I don't have to go. I want to scream, "I hate my job", actually it's the people and the system. Very sad indeed.
I feel the same. I literally search videos tonight to find some inspiration and strength because i am so sick of waking up tomorrow to go to the job that i hate. It's killing me but i cant quit i need this job to get by this year.
I work from home for a software company and I still hate my job. Why? It's my manager. Makes me realize that it's not the job itself, usually your manager and micro management style that drives you insane.
@@pattygeee2298 This is how much of a POS he was....I finally had enough and resigned. Then he begged me to come back, then a month later, he fired me! I started my own business and so far so good. Hopefully I never have to go back to work for someone else again! Best of luck to you friend, hang in there!
I cry even on my days off! My job makes me so miserable, and I can't leave because 1) it's hard to find something better and 2) COVID-19 means that no one is really hiring. Like other people said, I should be grateful to have a job in this climate especially since I was laid off for nearly 7mons from a job that made me happy most days. I really wish I could turn back time so I didn't cry or think about self harm all the time.
Gótica La Sirena Negra I feel you. I was also laid off from work last month because of Covid19. I was able to find a new job and started 1st week of June. I thought I’ve made the right decision in accepting it because most of the Companies now are in freeze hiring, and i was advised that i can work from home. 3 weeks in my new work and I hated it, I hate their processes because it’s so toxic and stressful. It’s hard because people would say that, with the pandemic happening right now, I’m lucky i have a job and would make me feel guilty for wanting to quit. I also cry on my days off and couldn’t enjoy it because of the worry that i’ll get miserable again once I start working again 😭
... Oh my God! This is so me. I want to quit like yesterday. I'm tired, drained and unhappy with the job. I'm just pushing through because I need the money to pay my bills.. Anxiety and depression is eating me up
Guys apply apply apply while you work at the job you hate. Look for remote work or lesser hours. Find a side gig to make up for the loss of hours. Remember that not only is the company testing you during probation, but you are also testing them. If you dont like it, leave
The way that covid19 is set up i feel like i have to be grateful that i even have a job because so many around me were laid off . but i just want to cry everyday . i have many business plans but my job only lets me pay bills so i have no start up money . i don’t even have enough money to go grab a starbucks drink after i pay bills . and no one is hiring during quarantine . this is only my second day after training and i already cried both days . my managers are so mean and y’all to me like i’m an idiot because they make a couple of more dollars than me . i even tried manifesting but nothing ....
Hey Taylor, that sounds really sad but I want you to remember this.. I'm not sure how old you are but you still have so much time ahead of you. Nothing in life is ever permanent, I want you to remember that. You're still going to have time to pursue your dreams. And when that time is right, you will know. Keep your job and work on something that lights you up inside after or before you start work (this is what I do), so while my job is annoying and shiity. I know as soon as I close my laptop - I can do the things I want to do. You could always start up a channel if you're worried about not having startup money this over time can generate income to give you that start up money. If you have an iPhone & you can edit on iMovie - this is completely free. I hope this helped
If we don’t like the work we are doing, we have three choices: Continue hating what we do; Change our perspective and find meaning and joy in our current tasks; or Quit the dispassionate work and seek out what will make our soul sing.
I don’t think I necessarily HATE my job. I hate that I don’t have freedom. I feel chained to this place from 9-5 and I can’t get away. I think this is a sign I need something more flexible.
My job makes me physically sick every morning when I wake up. I instantly go to the bathroom and get sick from stress, anxiety, depression, etc. I want to leave my job but I won’t be able to support my family. I feel completely stuck! Powerless! I want more for my family. I want to provide a better life than “just getting by.” It’s the biggest obstacle I’ve ever faced. With the pandemic right now, there aren’t many places hiring in my town that would match the wage I make right now. What do I do? I feel defeated!
I am going through the same.. I'm the only one with stable job in a home of 4 and i pay for the rent and groceries everything.. applied in lots of places yet no luck.. just hang in there it'll be over soon
Im on the same boat. Im literally sick. Have a heart problem due to stress and anxiety. Im mentally drained every minute since i started wrking in this position. I hate it! The most regrettable decision i made for additional few bucks from my previous position. My body is shaking whenever im infront of my computer. That’s how exhausting amd tedious my wrk is. Everything is critical and can’t make mistakes. Its like im walking on an eggshell every second of my life. I feel hopeless. My family can’t help me financially. I dnt knw where to go and what to do exactly. Im crying everyday.😭
My best friend who passed away about 6 months ago would consistently reassure me when I would tell her about my jobs I hated. She would always say, "You aren't stuck, Em." She would acknowledge that I needed the job, but also let me know that I could excel at anything I set my mind to & I could leave if I wanted to. She was such a wonderful person in every way & I miss her all the time. Her wise words & advice still help me to this day. 💜 Thank you for this video!
I hate my job. The very thought of it makes me sick to my stomach, but I'm still looking for opportunities for a lateral shift or even an opening at a different company. I just have to get through one day at a time. In my spare time, I'm going to therapy, applying for positions, and talking to friends about finding out who is hiring.
I don't know what should I do. I just want to leave my job. Stay home and do something. I hate when I have to ask permission from my boss to come home for a holiday.
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What can you do if you are aware that you are in your own way? I feel mentally paralyzed by fear of failure of just feeling like I'm not qualified to get a great job so I'm stuck in these low paying jobs for people under qualified to do anything else. I've quit lots of jobs and still find myself broke, miserable and still working in a job that isn't my passion.
Hey Sherry. You must get that mind working with you girl!! Start working out that muscle everyday. Your thoughts and fears are not facts. You've gotta change the way you think about yourself and your potential first and foremost. Question your thinking. List all the reasons your are qualified to get a great job. And start taking action to create the evidence for why this is true. This is how you build your self-esteem back up. It's not going to happen by overthinking and buying into your fears. Get out of your head and into your life and prove to yourself and the world that you have a lot to offer.
+Shaina Leis It's...uh...me again. A year ago, I got help and advice from you about my job. I don't feel like killing myself anymore, but now I am afraid and I think that my best efforts aren't perfect enough and are causing my co-workers to think of me as annoying. Please help!
Hey there...that's your mind trying to scare you. You must be conscious to what it's saying and change the story. For example if it says "my efforts aren't perfect enough," respond with something like, "I hear what you're saying, but actually they are." Then list 3 reasons why your efforts are enough. Keep creating evidence and proving it to yourself with your action.
I've been at the same job for 10 years and have wanted to quit the last 5. I had applied for several jobs,had several interviews but still haven't gotten a job offer. I check the job ads daily. 🤞🤞🤞
What about other avenues to change careers? Job ads might not be the way to go for you. I'd start brainstorming other ways. When there's a will, there really is always a way!
It all sounds great. But bills don't go away and job duties don't go away or you get fired. Most people who can do this have wealth, rich families or have thousands in savings.
@@cge5769 i agree. We've just had a lot of things come up that completely drained our funds (medical/missing work) if i left for a lower paying job now we would probably lose our house
Love that! I actually know a few people in that industry who also love it. And I must say, I admire your hustle everyday!! Each time I see a postman....I think wow they work hard!
I'm a banker and i hate my job. I wanted to be a chemist but family forced me into a different degree. Now i am 30 and restudying is tough. Especially where i live. Life is expensive as well as studying. But i am studying for thr GRE chemistdy test to see if that would work for a masters in chemistry. Hopefully it does. Did my bachelors in business
@@stefycoxtas6656 I understand. I lost my job about a year ago. But now I found a job in aviation. Not something I am passionate about but I can do the job. I dont hate it. And pays well
2 weeks into a job and totally drained and depressed. Call centre job where every call is a complaint or just something dumb. It's negative and I feel everyday is cloudy and wondering if this is all there is to life. Need the money as don't have much support
I've worked at Mcdonald's for 2 years and I hate it with a passion. All the people I was friends with left,the manager doesn't care,you can't go to appointments as they make a big hullabaloo over it,if you ring the store no one answers or they'd say oh don't text after working hours. I'm always in the office over stupid stuff,got councelling twice this year and i just can't stand it anymore. I even got bullied by one of the shift managers as she made fun of my name and calling me a dog and thick.
I hate my current job but I can’t quit right now because I’m pregnant now I have to stay for full paid maternity leave, which means I have to stay for only another 6 more months, but I just hate my job so much it’s even painful to go to work for another day!
Hey there! I suggest doing something with your free time that you love. Also, take comfort in knowing that there's a light at the end of the tunnel. Ask yourself, what's perfect about this? And find any and all good in the situation.
I'm positioning myself to get out sending my resume out 6 to 10 times away. Wrote out my letter of resignation and just waiting. I'm not staying and preparing to leave.
Thank you. Struggling to leave my job, because I like it but my mental and physical health are suffering because of it. So much anxiety, just thinking of leaving.
I dealt with a feeling of depression yesterday when my fatigue overruled my ability to stay awake after 5pm. Warning people! I felt this way before at another job and stress trigged a very painful case of Bells Palsy. Mind your emotional health as it spills over into the physical.
I want to quit but honestly I make a lot of money and don’t have a college degree. Jobs like this are hard to come by but good god I’m not happy with my “career”
Hey Alycia! It sounds like you value a high income over a job you love right now. So just make sure you OWN that and your choice to stay! But girlllllll, I can assure you that when we're extrinsically motivated (by money) it doesn't last forever. I challenge you to explore your curiosities and discover your life's bigger calling on the side
On the EXACT same boat as you. Did you end up leaving? I’m thinking of meeting with my supervisor tomorrow and could really use some advice. I want to leave but the thought of regretting it is holding me back.
@@Iamaries123 I wish you luck! I’ve decided to stay, but I moved to a couple different departments in the last year lol it helped a little for variety sake. But maybe try a different area at work if that’s an option. During COVID-19 I’m extra scared to leave now honestly.
I'm in the same boat. I get paid a pretty decent wage. I've looked at alot of other jobs and they only pay minimum wage or just a bit above. I have a house and kids still living with me. I would have to start trying for food stamps and medical from the state. I don't want to work a job where I'm working nights and weekends for lower pay. This video does gives some hope though.
I work at Amazon warehouse I can’t even relax on my days off because I’m still thinking about my job I dread getting up for work but I find myself picking up extra shifts to support myself because I can’t survive off 500-600$ a week after taxes I’m definitely ready for a fresh start I’m 28 & I definitely don’t want to be stuck at a warehouse until I’m 35 I’ve already been working in warehouses since I was 19 I feel so trapped😢
I don't have excuses I just don't know what to do, I've applied to jobs, contacting everyone I know, read self help books. I have medical bills and no one else will pay for me soI need money. So I can't just be broke for an extended period of time. I dont know what to do cause I'm stuck
i just handed in my letter of resignation this morning, and i already feel relief,,, i am going out all in faith now, to see what comes up. What's heart breaking is, is when you are desperatly depressed and filled with anxiety and your better half will not support your leaving, cos the money and benefits are good, yet inside you are fading into a mere shadow of your former youthful self. That is where i am now, and i hope that i am well mentally and emotionally enough to take on another job, cos i have been told if you quit one job you will always quit the next after and the next. so i am still anxious yet i feel freedom. I am willing to take a lower paid job if it means freeing up my mentality.
I’m about ready to leave my job too. It has me mentally exhausted and I can’t do it anymore. Still on the boat of finding another job first but honestly, I cannot WAIT to leave this place. It sucks that I’ll be getting paid less if I leave this place but I really I never understood how important mental health really was till I had worked this current job and it got to the best of me... I’m sure you will find another job that works well with you. Things happen for a reason girl, we have to keep our heads up! ✨ it surely gives me some relief seeing that there are other people here on the same boat as me. Best of luck on your future endeavors🤞🏼
I don't specifically hate my job, i love my coworkers, some are true friends, but half the time i would just run into a forest and become one with the mushrooms I just need to stay strong until i have enough experience to gtfo
I don’t necessarily hate my job but I’m not happy getting up in the morning to go in just mentally drains me before I even get there and it sucks because people rely on me I don’t really know what to do ☹️
You already know the environment, let that be as it is. You think it's all the job that you hate, but it sounds like you don't like how you're showing up. And the good news, you do have control over that. How do you want to show up to work? How do you want to show up for you and for others? What would your higher self do? Start there.
It's so true that situation is a mindset! At one point I was a homeless overweight drug addict who landed in the hospital near dead. I had a choice, return and die or change my life, simply by changing my thinking 9 years ago I now have a beautiful, healthy life with more then I could ever deserve :) I still hate my job lol but I keep my mind happy while i'm there. Some day maybe I'll get the chance to share with others how I changed my life and hope it will change theirs :) Great video, Shaina!
@@MrHerks I would suggest looking online for resources and tutorials and RU-vid tutorials. Your story gives hope where it didn't seem like there was any...
she speaks from what looks like an expensive property with a lush interior. not all of us are as well off as you in being able to want to quit our job to find something else. unemployment here is rising at sickening levels. how do you expect us to find work given the amount of redundancies happening and people getting laid off? look, i want to quit my job, leave my area to start somewhere fresh and new working with animals. but i have no relevant experience nor can i afford to retrain. house prices are expensive and i cant afford to move out. i lost passion for the job i'm in now. i wrote to some places but never heard back. ergo, i come to hate this job but i can't leave. it may be years until i get another job elsewhere. i have been through over 100 interviews whilst working and have gotten nothing - THATS the reality and thats how hard it is out there. you simply havent got a clue about the harsh realities of the world. sometimes the job we hate, we have to settle as THE job.
Thought I was the only one who found her so condescending. "Tell me about all the people you reached out to, the books you read, the jobs you applied to". I struggle to get out of bed because of anxiety and depression and just get my ass to work, and this "life coach" tells me that because I'm not a hyperproductive extrovert, it means I don't REALLY want to get out of my job.
I agree. Typical social media influencers that don’t live in reality today 🙄. I do have coworkers like her example but I am the opposite and tried a YEAR to find a job that is finally better but now that I’ve started it’s absolutely not a fit and I’ve been a mess. Im looking again but scared given how long this took
it's not that simple. I work from home, still insanely stressful. As a software developer you still have to rack your brains and learn several programming languages and figure out stuff that is way over your head. working from home in something like a phone customer representative is NOTHING compared to the stress of some things that involve engineering and fixing and figuring out problems in tens of thousands of lines of code that you know nothing about.
I used to like my job before the pandemic, my co-workers I worked with were really amazing and funny but after I returned to work from the pandemic on June 15th I found out that the store I work for was going out of business and more than half the people on the schedule didn’t return so now we lost 19 employees and now there’s literally 6 people on the schedule including me and it’s been hell ever since June especially now since my general manager quit. I also can’t quit because I’ll lose my unemployment benefits so all I can do is just hope they’ll close soon because the CEO won’t even give us a closing date. With each day I find it more difficult to motivate myself to even get ready for my shift.This is my first and last time working for a company that’s going out of business.
I have kids and I need to provide I’m looking for new job but I feel like I’m not good enough. I hate and I’m very miserable at my current job I’m physically and mentally drained I dread it everyday. I lost a lot of confidence and my people skills have gotten so bad do to a toxic working place , I wasn’t like this I was very outgoing, very energetic, friendly. I have no one to fall back to no family I feel like I’m failing my family fir not being my best for them and this hurts.
I effin love my job but hate all my coworkers. Makes it such a drag knowing I have to go interact with those people. If they were gone and I can do this job for the rest of my life, I would be very happy.
I suggest exploring why you feel the way you do toward your co-workers. What thoughts do YOU have about them. Your thinking about them will reveal a lot.
I wonder if you’re like me. Working for someone else always seems pointless and unfulfilling. No matter where I work, the feeling remains the same. I’ll be changing that though. I’m going to find a way out! 🙌🏽 I hope you do the same 🙏🏽
I LOVED my job.....until I went above and beyond and offered to cross-train for another department. Now they've moved me to the new dept indefinitely although I voiced I hate my job now and want my original job back. But I'm shackled. So I'm actively seeking a slice of happiness again. They've taught me never go above and beyond or offer to help outside of my job description.
I'm an R.N. and i specialize in Cardiac care in private homes. However, this one client makes my life a living nightmare. I wish i could sign her off my list but i really feel sorry for her so idk
Great advice as usual, Shaina! I hated my job, and I told myself I couldn’t leave for a while. Finally, I figured out a way. I worked hard for a while to save some money, and decided to substitute teach while I work on achieving goals that make me happier.
My job is so miserable especially working outside in the tough conditions, I know I can do better but getting to where you want to be is yet exciting and scary because you don't know what to expect. I am glad that we are not alone on this boat. Keep fighting for what you want in life and eventually, a breakthrough will happen, it's being consistent and confident.
I have 17 years in my job and I’m 60 years old. I can retire in around 5 years but I absolutely detest being stuck there every day all day. I’m tired , I’m bored and I don’t like the people I’m around. I want to stay home or work part time but can’t. Throwing away my retirement seems ridiculous. Starting again at the bottom is asinine. Nothing to do but stick it out at this point.
Thank you. By watching this I discovered that I'm just afraid of change and lazy and don't want to go out of my comfort zone although I hate it. But not anymore 💪
You are totally Awesome! My problem is that 4 years away from my pension, but the government sold out the utility and now I'm at another agency that I hate. If I quit I lose my pension and if I stay I lose my sanity. They got me by the balls
Great opportunity to dig a little more. What is it about them that you don't like? How do they behave? What do they do? And THEN, turn that around to yourself (the only person you can control). Ask yourself, how you possess some of these same qualities? How can you choose to think about them in a way that serves you?
I hate my job for varying reasons. I have lost 3 jobs due to company shutdowns, sued 2 former CEOs for failure to pay me my salary/wages and defamation of character with proof gossiping about me to other workers, tried 6 different jobs since 2016 due to closures and layoffs, physically relocated twice, threatened at the job, and falsely accused of sexual harassment (which led to negative consequences of the accuser because they later admitted it was a lie). Any hope? I have tried all I can think of. The only next steps is relocate to another state and see if this career has any hope. In the meantime, I have returned back to college pursuing another career. Any suggestions? I am open to listen. At this point, I just think about paying my bills and I don't care if the people I serve get any help or benefit.
5 years in a job i hate, applying everyday for new opportunities but no luck so far, I literally feel depressed and unworthy but I still have hope that one day I will be in a job that i like and deserve
Your job is to feel worthy right now, exactly where you are. You're telling yourself that you can't feel happy or worthy until you leave your job. Is that useful? How is that serving you?
I hate my job but i currently need it so i tell myself better thinking thoughts about it as much as i can to out weight the negative. I also used the pandemic to save as much as i could & now i am debt free. And i try to be as minimalistic as possible & express gratitude for what i do have etc 🙏🏻
Ive had 12 jobs and am 22. We have the power of the internet guys. You can find another job. I get being too drained to job search though, I've been there. BUT KEEP AT IT GUYS
I shouldn’t complain about my job. It’s a good job with good working hours that allow me to have a great work-life balance. My office is in the countryside, family-run business with roughly 10 employers in total, slow-paced environment and stuff. But the problem is... I don’t like it. It’s a desk job where I’m glued to a chair in front of a computer for 8 hours. I’ve been working for the company for 10 months only, hoping to have better and more challenging tasks, but I fear that it won’t change that much in the future. My employer is happy about me and wants to invest on me, but I am not as happy and feel totally guilty for not being grateful. The thing is I am not cut for desk jobs, they’re soul sucking, no matter where you are and how many benefits you’ve got. If it’s against your nature, they become a nightmare for you and your mental health. Dunno what to do, whether I should stay longer and see if anything changes or just take the risk and pursue my real dream of becoming a personal trainer... My parents and friends don’t support me as my dream job won’t pay the bills and bring food to the table. My parents in particular believe I will have a miserable life if I quit my job cause I will lose all the benefits I have, no more work-life balance, weekends off and stability. It might be true but I’m not happy... I feel like a slave everyday, a zombie... I’m mentally drained...
I can relate to everything you said except I want to be a writer. And this job doesn't allow me the time to really focus on my craft. I have so many ideas but I can't put them into practice with this job. Something has to give. 😞
Hey there! It's when we ACCEPT and are grateful for what have/ where we are that our power lies. My suggestion is to practice gratitude first and then come from a place of abundance when exploring other opportunities and possibilities.
I hate customer service and can't wait to quit this dumb job. Only here for the remote position until the pandemic is over. When a customer pisses me off, I write down their name and number and send them an anonymous letter. I also go online and find out everything about them, thanks Catfish show for teaching me this technique. Once I know who their neighbors are and the job they work, I will send more anonymous letters to them too. Customers need to be taught a lesson on being kind to customer service reps. I'm here to cause them misery. Only the nasty idiots on the phone will feel my wrath. My goal is to emotionally hurt them.
I have been working for an employer whose name will remain unmentioned. I have been there for almost thirteen years. Having come from the military, I was looking for security, benefits and decent pay. I never intended to work for this length of time for this employer due to the toxic nature of the workplace climate. It is no secret that they belittle their employees, and created a system so that their employees are guaranteed to fail. Each day is a reminder of how horrible we did the previous day. The only thing that has kept me there is a legal financial obligation. I have an anxiety disorder and have problems with depression. I can honestly say that with the job that I have, I feel worthless, and that there is no meaningful contribution to society, and the continuing negativity in the workplace environment makes me wish that I was dead. I have an extensive background of leading physical fitness in the military. I have plans to work towards my certified personal trainer, and hopefully get licensed in real estate. I have also been applying for other jobs. I'm trying to get out of this hole that I am in, but it is not without challenge. The anxiety does present an obstacle, which means that I just have to work a little harder to get to where I want to go. The problem right now is that I feel sick to the stomach the moment I go to my current job. That sick feeling results from the anxiety of having to go in the first place. Throughout the day, that anxiety starts playing tricks on me, which creates a downward snowball effect. I've had some pretty foul experiences with my employer. Amidst the turbulent anxiety, I am still able to come up with alternatives to my current job. It's just a matter of registering for the CPT course in three to four weeks, and finding the real estate program that would fit in with a full time day job.
Thank you for this video! I struggle through my job. It isn't a good fit. I've had a string of bad jobs in a short amount of time, so I was really disappointed when I realized the job I accepted wasn't what I expected. However, I do know what I want, and this video helps me to remember that. 🙂
I started 3 business not all at once but throughout the course of working where I work, I applied to 30 different jobs during that time and got no where I asked for help from legitimately everyone I know and none of them responded at all or only with excuses of their own and now I’m really close to giving up...
Either you do what you love or start loving what you do. There’s only sadness and frustration in between. Decide which side you want to be. If you decide to stay at the job you hate, Ask yourself, do you look upto your seniors or bosses etc. That’s what you’re going to become. Shaina 👏🏻
What I want to do is to be retired? So I save a buttload of money (2/3 of my salary) so I can retire well before normal retirement age (in my 40s, hopefully even early 40s).
Thanks Shaina, this has given me a another boost. currently in a job i don't like and can't get out of, but I am working on a self employed work to help me then leave the other work behind. Currently in a rutty situation with it but still ploughing on as I have got people saying its going to be a success plus the little voice in my head is telling me the same thing. Sorry if I have rambled, thanks again Shaina keep the vids coming.
No need to apologize. Thank you for sharing. Seems like you're ON TOP OF IT and you know I love that. Keep working out that solution and you will find it!
I have potential to make good money at the job im working in but my co-workers make it unbearable. Strictly due to their lack of work ethic. I make so much at this job that to go to another one i would take a massive pay cut. Ive gone to interviews and applied to places and im just so lost now. I love the potential that my job has but so sick of the toxic environment. Also them sucking affects me directly
Sometimes a short term pay cut is better, because a place will take its toll on you healthwise. I didn't leave the job so im not being a hypocrite, i just know that for sure. If the boss let's you pick up the slack rather than reprimand the lazy ones that's bad leadership, it won't change and can only get worse
Why do you think that other people have that much power of you? How are you thoughts about them affecting you? Do you want to continue giving up your power? How do you want to show up for you? These are the questions you've gotta ask yourself. Stop worrying about them. We can't control other people. It's a lose lose. Take back all the responsibility here.
I am just 15 and I don’t have to work but it’s my parents I have to fight. They’re adamant on making me something which i have hated my entire life. I am not going to give in and I will definitely become what I want. I’m already working on that thanks to you! 😘😘
Love your self-awareness and determination to steer your own life. High five! Not an easy thing to recognize, never mind stay true to yourself at such a young age. You have a bright future my friend!
I can’t stand my current job neither i work at target unloading the truck for flow team and i wake up at 4:30am to be at work at 5:30am i only work for 12 hours a week and get paid biweekly about 250-300$ and im so stressed out already and tired so demanding and they don’t care about the employees only about the job being done and I respect and i understand but they are just so abusive.. but Thanks To God im leaving soon .. im going to school for 12 weeks to do a course and hopefully ill get a job soon for it and im actually happy im leavig soon.. im also grateful they gave me the opportunity to work for them but im just so fed up already i been there for 2 years and so tired im 24 years old and i want to change and progress and not stAy in the same place.. thanks for this video!!
I love my job now I was given a great opportunity and it makes me less stressed but the fear of failure and messing up way too many times even though I’m new to it still gets to me. I dread going to work I’m so unhappy where I am at in life I know there is much better out there for me but I hate finding a different job just to be looking and someone goes around saying I’m leaving and now my coworkers hate me and think I’m ungrateful or something. Whatever it is that is getting to me is making me not wanna wake up in the morning to work my day away and soon will have to sleep. It’s effecting my daily life in such a negative way I’m not sure if there is a solution I’m not normally happy at a job in general.
I found another one of your videos first and found this and it really made me think what have I done to change my circumstances and at first I thought nothing I’ve just been working and not even trying to do anything else but then I remembered that I’m also doing something I’ve never done before which I completing school and so far I’ve managed to keep all A’s I just need to be patient my classes are only a few more months then I can finally start nursing and stop working at McDonald’s when I start my practicum!! This helped a lot the first one I watched was on mindset that helped a bunch too thanks’
My job has become way too physically taxing and we are extremely short staffed.. I stay for the health insurance now...my big concern. but I am starting to seriously seek a new job! Unsticking in my mind first! Amen!!!! I can do this!
Second shift drains the living hell out of me hanging damn 40 chickens a minute 40 plus hours a week I’m tired of being drenched in chicken juice I’m only 19 but the only work here is factories and everyone I know is stuck in factories it makes me sad
I was a 1000 ton crane operator, a heavy truck driver, and logistics person all on one site in very very dangerous and busy maritime ports including shipping movements etc, and 12 hour shifts all night, money was excellent, but hated it, so I found a job in Switzerland moving logs and all that goes with it, now I am really happy, 8 hours, same money ($70) an hour, and have a wonderful life and my glamour girl-girl friend sees me every night..😎. So my motto is simple," look some where else",
Except most people have kids and have to pay bills and trying to save enough money to have a cushion to leave to do the job of job hunting. And pay bills? Income to cost of living makes it almost impossible even if you live a small life.
Leaving your job is a self inflicted attitude adjustment. It does work. Nothing will change unless you change it. You may fall into something worse, no worries, move again. You can't let that paycheck dictate your life and happiness... it is soul crushing and not any advice you would give anyone... let alone yourself.
I have depression and working full time in a supermarket is killing me, why do we have to work so much I just want to enjoy my life and do the things that are fun while I have time..
what about people who actually can't leave their job or they can't pay their bills? what about people who are contractually obligated to stay in their job for a certain period? It's not as simple as "changing your thinking".
You can still change your thinking about your current circumstances. You always have a choice about how you feel. And how you feel is determined by what you think. When you understand how your brain works and how your results are created by your thoughts and feelings, it really is that simple. I've had clients who have been contractually obligated and it's not a problem.
Right now my job is bullshit at lowes I reached out to my parents and family and nobody helped me and I reached out to my friends and only one person that helped was my stepbrother but now that there changing my role a little at work with being a cashier to another day being outside and I don't want to be outside all day helping customers and doing cart runs
I love my job. My issue isn't that I hate my job, I'm suffering from imposter syndrome makes me feel like I hate my job but really it's because I don't feel like I fit in because everyone is so much better than me. I know it'll take time for me to get to their level but I just hate being so new.
I work in retail. I work 8hr midday shifts 5 days a week. I literally sleep in my free time because I’m so tired. I don’t even make enough money to have a studio apartment. Hardly enough to be a roommate, and thats not counting food + transportation costs. I don’t know how much longer I can take it. I can’t wait to find an alternative. I’m going to find a new path.
"So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love." 1 Corinthians 13:13🌈 "A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will perish." Proverbs 19:9🌈 "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." John 14:6🌈 "Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called and about which you made the good confession in the presence of many witnesses." 1 Timothy 6:12🌈
I started my first job almost two months ago and I hate it VERY much. They treat me horribly, they treat other employees horribly, and the amount that I’m working, I can barely finish my schoolwork. It’s horrible but I can’t get any other jobs...
Thanks for this great video. I am currently at work miserable and I really want to leave but I have a small child to take care of on my own. I wake up every morning praying I have a decent day or I dont over react to stuff in my head but it's just a garbage situation I am in. I will definitely try to be a positive Penny, stop worrying and work on making actual changes. Thanks again.
Yes, CLEAN UP that thinking of yours! The story your telling yourself is not useful. You've gotta get calm and start getting excited about your future.
I do a job people really look up to and applaud me for and I fake a smile. I personally love my title and what I do, however, my company is what makes everything horrible..
I literally can't leave. I already submitted my resignation and I am legally obligated to remain working until the end of the resignation period - 2 months! I can't do anything about it if my employer doesn't allow it, not even take the rest of my vacation. What am I supposed to do with feeling physically sick at this moment? Everyone tells me "just bear with it, it's the last couple of days," but it feels like even more attention is on me as we get closer to the leaving date.
I work at dietary :( and I really hate this job but I going to leave one day bc I just got this job 3 days ago and I didn’t even apply for this job and I hate it so much I got to clean, learn 5 task in a day and I wake up at 4:30 in the morning to 1:00 and I only get two breaks and ughhh I HATE IT 😭😭😭 and I only get $9.50 per hour like bruh Walmart pays more than me
I used to love my job and the people I work with. But as of late I have begun to really hate having to go to work each day. I am no longer motivated like I was and no longer see a great future being there. Hopefully I can find the strength to move on because being there isn't good for me or the company anymore.
I work in mcdonalds and hate it more than anything but i acctually cant leave, i have no education or experience so i cant get a bezter job and if i leave then Imma be homeless. Im completely depressed and dont know how much longer i can take it.
I work also in a call center. I don't want to go there everyday, but I can't find so easy a better job. I'LL try to give myself hope. Somedays ist not so easy. Depression, Pain, bad thoughts..I try with my music to stay stronger. Because I am better and I'll get out! I believe and apply for another jobs..it takes time unfortunately. I must stay strong- for my family - they need me and of course for me! "Be water my friend!" Bruce Lee
I work as a bus driver in Belfast Northern Ireland. I have been doing it the past 13 years. My money is pretty good and I get on well with members of the public but the late nights and heavy traffic jams during the day can really get to me though. Sometimes I think to myself what am I doing stuck here for??! But the problem is I don’t really know were else to turn to or were my skills or talents lie. If I go to another career I’ll just encounter different problems I’m sure.
Hey there. My first suggestion is to clean up your thinking around "if I go to another career, I'll just encounter different problems there." This belief itself can hold you back from other possibilities!
