Do You "Test" The Person You're Dating? 

The nerve to test/trick someone and still be upset when they fail…

When i sense a woman testing me, I get turned off cuz I see that as her being the kind of person to start problems for no reason. If I'm for you then you'll see that in my consistent actions. I'm personally very open so if you can't see what's in front of your eyes then we won't work out.

This segment was gold, I loved it. Cha, Envy and Lauren made it worthwhile but the 1500 cash app story had me cackling.🤣🤣🤣

Stay away from people who want to be taken care of BUT can’t “afford” to take care of YOU!💯 men and female

I don’t think test is the appropriate word, it’s vet. You need to vet people. It’s the same way Envy should’ve vetted Ceasar. You don’t just jump in with people - whether romantic or in business.

Charlamagne threw that scamming joke in there smooth 🤣

On this I agree with CThaGod! I'm not testing anyone!! Life will test us enough! Just pay attention to how these people show up for you in those moments.

I think testing is for academia. What I think is you should ask BRUTALLY honest questions and OBSERVE their behavior and their lifestyle, etc While moving at YOUR "dating pace"

She want to see how he living? 😂 this why these girls get played. People with money usually don’t even look like it and are frugal. Ask them if they know how to invest and develop a portfolio

Absolutely not. I'm too busy living to test people. The truth will reveal itself if both are being their authentic self.

Testing someone is foolish. Games are for children. You're not in it 💯 percent if you're trying to testing someone. How do you think your relationships or friendships will end once your new partner find out you tested them? 😅

Yea my ex was a "tester". I peeped game, and just went with it. I get a sense I passed a particular test, it was just on to the next one. Or sometimes, it made her skeptical of me because she would think it was disingenuous, when it wasn't. And she'd not believe and wait for the opportunity to bring the same test back around. She'd get mad at how consistent I was. She'd get mad if I chose to handle a situation/"test" differently. I didn't pass, and obviously it was a problem. And affirmed the low expectation/opinion she seemed to want to have. The testing shit leads to problems regardless of the outcome.

This reminds me of that one clip I saw online where this girl tried to “test” her mans loyalty. Found out the other girl lied about him cheating because SHE didn’t think the gf deserved him. 😂 Go ahead and trick yourself outta your spot if you want to.

I say this often, all these rules go out the window for someone you are genuinely attracted to. All these rules apply to someone you are borderline attracted to, or they don't have a chance anyway. 😂

Most men should test most of the women they meet by telling them they're broke and taking them out to coffee dates.

If you "test" your significant other….. You need to Grow up already..

DJ Envy didn’t ask you if you would take them out. We know YOU wouldn’t. Lauren needs to GO!!

If I sense that I’m being tested, I will do my best to fail. Relationships are built with time and understanding.

CTG is so on point, these modern women be trashing these broke dudes they call it preference, until a man has a preference. They women don’t know what they want money doesn’t build relationships but longevity…. These women will be alone and die alone.

Thank you Char! Let the sh- be organic and natural AND pay attention. Stop rushin’ sh- and build over time. I think testing is selfish and immature af. Life be life’n enough like you will see me and all of me over time. And if you know from jump it ain’t worth time we ain’t even gotta start nothin’ so it won’t be nothin’ lol

Keep Taylor and Lauren away 😂😂

If he’s wearing Rocawear in 2023… Lauren might have a point 😂😂😂

The only test there should be is a normal conversation. If a person seems easily bored/ignored or is just socially awkward, then the person may not be for you. But, if y'all can have a normal and decent conversation about anything then that person is most likely suitable for ya.

Time tells EVERYTHING. No need for a TEST. Love is love is love. You're going to get hurt in the process. Grow up. Nothing worth having is accomplished easily.

see you cant ask people who been married for some these type of questions. Cause they don't know how it is out here in the 2023 tryin to date and get to know people

“I gotta rewatch the movie, so u want me to go to the projects” 😭😭

At this point, it's proven how hard it is to find a None Toxic Female in the work place as a host. A married non Toxic wife from straight marriage would work. Single folks keep folks single.✌🏿✈

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Charla is right. So superficial!

😂 Charlamagne said Ceasar and Envy fainted 😂

Ctg hate Loren 🤣 BET must be forcing her up there or sumn lmao

Loren you absolutely are toxic!

i'm not testing anyone, i can sense what i need to know by getting to know you. if a man ever asked me to pay for something then paid me back and told me he was testing me, i would distance myself. I'm not interested in someone who plays games like that

Charla preaching for once 🤣

Taylor & Lauren are birds . What do you expect really? Lol neither of them attractive to even be talking really. I miss Kevin Samuels bruh lol

Some strippers do really be going to college 😂

That's why everybody SINGLE!!!!!

I wanna see you if you're ambitious and hard working. How you treat people, your family and strangers, how you communicate and how you handle conflict.

Lmao😂😂😂😂 Dude snapped about the $100 college stripper.

Loren a bird.

Loren wants all of this out of a man and she probably only brings half of what she wants out of a man to the table she sounds like a stright bird 😂😂😂

When i was single I didn't test my husband we just meet and vide out and we been together for 12 years now and still happy ❤

RE: Movie. Prince Hakeem didn't test Lisa. She was in a relationship with Mr. SoGlo (Daryll ?) and fell for Hakeem by character. He didn't need to say a series of things, or plot to get her attention/see a reaction. Lisa became disappointed when Hakeem wasn't fully authentic. If it was about $$ she could have married the prince of SoGlo.

It’s all about deal breakers. What are you willing to put up with long term. If someone you’re dating does things that bother you. Ask yourself: Can I put up with this and how important is it to me? It’s all about observation ppl 😂, I give women chances, even if they do something early in that irks me, I wait to see if it’s a reoccurring issue.

i stopped dating in 2013 so i cant say much but most guys show u who they are once your around them more i ask small questions that lead up to more spilling out in most situations i almost always see things quickly i go off vibes and energy if i feel uneasy or out of place its over with

Date as many times as you can to see if that person is right for you and if you two are right for each other that is important 💜❤️

I’m so glad I’m married….they gave me headache contradicting themselves and tap dancing

1st caller is a airhead, now imagine you make him wait until a certain amount of time, he hits, and leaves anyways...versus you letting him hit asap and he leaves. Now you sitting there looking dumb cause you've wasted both y'all time.

The test for women is to see how long they can keep you till they find someone they feel is better.

All that testing and they still either pick the wrong one or end up alone... 😢 Po babies

Lauren and Taylor....2 birds who chirp loud

What’s the point in testing men?? I hate effing games! I want to see that a guy is evenly yoked with me, but that’s why I take my time getting to know someone.

I would have loved to hear Claudia on this one

The logic we as humans use is embarrassing 🤣🤣🤣 this is so ridiculously stupid

Before you take a girl on a date tell her you want to see her real hair... If she can't show you , no date

That's the CTG I miss 😂

The breakfast club test cesar pina? 👇

How did Lauren miss the major plot line of Coming to America? Where's Jess At!!

Lauren was tryna buss the stripper down!! She’s legendary status!!!

The wording makes a difference. It sounds like your playing games. If your intent is genuine and your just observing certain red vs. green flags then that’s normal.

City girls music is also about scamming 😂

It was a test in coming to America ..The sister of Lisa acted the way he was afraid Lisa would act when she realize he had money.. 😅

Lauren: I'm studying to be a doctor. Send me $1500 and I'll wrap myself around a light pole.

I don’t test well myself, so come as you are, or don’t bother 😅

12:16 got me good 😂😂😂

You can test someone and still get your time wasted. So what are we on?

Whatever boy Taylor finds. She better marry him. All these requirements and tests, only superman can pass them.

Hell yeah you do everyone is so selfish and self absorbed. Society is so screwed you have to test.

Testing people you're dating is insulting, don't test me unless you wanna get blasted

If I can't travel with you, then we can't be together.

Here we go again with long winded Loren. Loren & the breakfast club strikes again. Loren you do not speak for all black women and we don't need you as the universal spokesperson.

I have to agree with charla 😂

Gatdammmnnn let ppl TALK!!!

Char said Lauren transnicca! Lol 🤣

Women typically and normally do it. Guys be too scared to test women but most don’t care to.

12:41 this one time at band camp….heheheheheh

I dont test but i do observe. I will never create the scenario but i do need to see how a person is when they are happy...when they are sad...when they are mad.....when they are stressed . Because that is your flex in a relationship. If you are the first to fall apart when you are stressed i know you will give me no flex if i am messing up. If you dont know these things in your partner you are asking for a problem

Interesting that Lauren feels that way. Because when men test women, they usually get called all kinds of immature and toxic 🤔

People doing tests, but don’t even know how to change there own wifi password..

Kiss Enough Frogs U Gonna End Up With Warts

I love this girl 🔥🔥🔥

Naa Loren’s test seem valid. That’s how you end up with a wack baby daddy not testing.

I wish our people would get away from evaluting someones worth based on what they're wearing or driving... I work from home in IT, make over 200k a year with a almost million dollar home and a home gym/theater. I RARELY leave my home and when I do I'm typically in a cheap ass outfit thats under $150 total with a 45k truck... I could careless about clothing or showing off personally. But i also know people that wear clothing worth hundreds and drive germans that live in apartments check to check. People need to stop that. You're missing out on a lot of good people.

Idk if I missed them talking about it..but the SISTER AND FATHER were in the movie for a reason.

Testing is stupid at any age. I didn’t like it when I was in my younger 20s. How y’all really expect a person to act who really meet you to act?

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Shoutout to my hometown Anniston,al😂😂😂😂

No. Don't test... definitely not consciously or recall. 😆 Because I don't want it done to me. Which I'm sure it has. Two I recall flunking 🤣... and that's prior to dating. It was over something stupid and/or small. #1 - Chivalry. Guy opens car door. I sit in. He expected me to lean across the shift and open the door for him. Never heard of such, so he asked why didn't I do it? I said, " _Oh, I'm sorry. I thought your car was automatic_ . So I unintentionally insulted the mans car. It was a bucket, and I didn't know he'd be locked out. #2 - Misunderstanding. Guy wanted to hang out on the weekend. I said I couldn't, attending to a sick friend. My friend cancelled; had someone else. By Monday, dude asked about the friend and I totally forgot. It appeared as I lied and brushed him off when it wasn't the case. He should have given several dates to determine.🤷‍♀. I probably flunked several tests and didn't know. 🤣

I didn't know you go live on TikTok caught some of this lol

Hell he even say it in the movie, I want a woman who will arouse my intellect as well as my loins" and he expressed that with Regina Bell calloway too and his father and Simi

Asses finna be single and miserable the rest of their lives

There's NO GRACE when you're transferring utilities n yo exhusbands name, if that's the case. Be RESPONSIBLE fo yo own priorities, especially when they filed bankruptcy. It's obvious they can't afford the extra cost. And let's not forget Destiny said co-parenting is @ peace. So leave it @ PEACE. 🤷🏾‍♂️

Hilarious segment 😂

Let Taylor cohost!!!!!

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Yes, My Wife tested me and I passed with flying colors

Cee clearly doesn't understand the difference between a toxic relationship and a healthy long-term relationship, he's literally telling people to just choose anyone. I have solutions to the problems of the callers etc in my book "A Guide to Balance, Fulfillment, and Happiness for Yourself and a Healthy Long-Term Relationship". And ironically enough in the relationship section it has a chapter titled Natural Tests. But in that chapter I discourage orchestrated tests...like "I'm horny too and I'm feeling the person but lemme not give them sex to see how they respond" or "lemme tell her buy the stuff while I park and see if she can afford it" etc. So I do agree with cee in the area of not orchestrating tests. In that chapter I explain what natural tests are. But cee needs to understand its better to be alone than have someone in your life that will damage you and everything you have totally, and it's weirdly immature because he has daughters and says this publicly where they will here it.

Lauren hilarious 😂😂😂 - she fell in love with a stripper 1500

Sorry some of these women are spoiled by social media

All of life is a test. Sometimes when failure means death. Especially with some of the crazy in this world. Yeah you have to test and past several tests. Survival can depend on it sometimes. Yes. It is that serious.