Im not sure why is this not going viral. So much knowledgeable. Must listen to this. Learned alot from it for the ones who are in abusive relationship.
I stayed with a narc for few months and what followed was the most dark phase of my life. Stay away from them. Chahe kitna bhi pyar ho usse... Understand that you are dealing with an emotional scamster. These souls are evil. Maintain one arm distance. This podcast deserves to go viral man.
Aapne jo bhi bola sab kuch maine apni 30 yrs ki married life mai experience kiya hai, my husband is this kind of person Ab mai apne aap hi solution kr rhi hu But sab kuch aapki baaton se match hota hai Kaash ye narcissistic personality k baare mai phle pta chal jata Thank you
meri mousi bahut badi narc hain .aur unka chota beta bhi. woh ek saath 2-3 ladkiyon ko fasaane ki try karta rehta hai. aur akele mein unhe galat treat bhi karta hai. use masturbation ki bhi aadat hai.
@@theayushpodcast thank you for bringing her ! Actually when I was going through Narc abuse in 2019 I didn’t find even a single podcast on Narc abuse from india and also even psychologist jinko b Maine contact kia for my therapy they were also unaware about that ! India needs awareness regarding Narc abuse ! And she is spot on with her every single point !
Lekin ye ek jhuth h ki vo counceling se thik ho jayengen... Vo kabhi thik nhin ho skten haan thik hone ka natak kr dengen vo... Ye narsisite hmesa dimag se sonchega to vo counceling jb tk hoga tb tk thik h nhi to uski batrry phir se down ho jayegi....
Yes narcissism is out there The narc will destroy your soul She said it right Have emotional intelligence and do what is important for yourself. Set boundaries An empath has no boundaries Please set boundaries.
The more I listen to it, the more everything makes sense for me now. The guest has explained it so beautifully without complicating it. Being in a relationship with a narcissistic person for 8 years and then being married for almost 6 years, I have never had a better insight into everything that has happened. I had been losing my mind, I feel so good knowing and now understanding why things are the way they are
This is an important topic. Post traumatic stress disorder is really very very difficult to heal. If a person identifies such traits in their partner or relative they can easily separate themselves from such people.
Uffffffff..... The weird thing i felt in that relationship with a narcissist was i could feel he is acting, and playing a character but i was gaslight to the level that my reality was completely distorted and i started reactive abuse.
I stayed with a Narcissist as a fiancé. Now thankfully X he is. It was the most confusing phase of my life bcoz of his lack of empathy , recognising others good will and thinking me as an object he can own completely. The switch was so hurtful that It shocked my emotional system. But Thankfully bcoz I know I am an empathy and can be manipulated .. I kept people in my loop with sharing about his traits. I might forget they won’t. And it helped me come out of it. The wedding got called off and I got saved so did my image. He was hell bent of controlling and when he couldn’t he wanted exploit one quality of me that is not great.
Wow… Really enjoyed listening to her, what an interesting podcast this is and she is so knowledgeable. Her description about narcissistic personality is bulls eye. Thanks for inviting her.
Its a never ending cycle of abuse .. You cant live a normal happy life with a Narc. Just leave him or her as soon as possible.. if you stay your mental and physical health will be completely deatroyed within few years. You cant live like a robot on their terms.. They find excuses to fight with you. He do smear campaign against you. Eventually he will abandon you. Ao please Run😢😢😢😢
A very well explained information on narcissism by dr madhumati singh..This 1 hour and twenty minutes video i have heard without pause ..i was spell bound..
Thanks for making this video, this requires more shares. She has explained the subject so well, I wish I would have known this 10 to 11 years back about all this.
After watching this podcast, I had a significant realization about my past relationship. I now understand that I was involved with someone who exhibited many of the narcissistic traits discussed here. It was a deeply confusing and emotionally draining experience, where I often felt manipulated, undervalued, and constantly questioning my own worth. For a long time, I struggled with depression and overthinking as I tried to make sense of what had happened. It took therapy and medication to help me navigate the overwhelming emotions that followed the end of that relationship. One of the most impactful steps in my healing process was learning to set boundaries and focusing on rebuilding my self-esteem. After watching this podcast, I feel even more clarity and validation about my experience. If anyone else is going through something similar, I want you to know that you’re not alone. It’s a tough journey, but with time, support, and self-compassion, it’s possible to reclaim your peace and move forward. ❤
As the Narcissistic person doesn't want you to get back to your previous independent self . This seems to be very doable in all relationships except an intimate partner relationship.
She really explained this topic very very good I really appreciate her !! I was searching for it for soo long…very knowledgeable and she answered every question sooo good in depth
Mai 30 salon se jhel rahi hu,Mai janti hi nhi thi ki narcissist bhi kuch hota hai, Mai 1 confident aur emotional lady hu, sochti rahi Mai inhe theek kr lounging ye theek ho jaenge.. aaj mere dimagh ki bat buri halat hai kya karu
Thanks alot....this podcast will change my life in positive way......much much much gratitude, u just changed my life.....this podcast should be million views......
No....narcs never apologize......they have no remorse.... for whatever they do t u.....narcs are evil.......narcs in my life tried to take my life and finish me
Amazing podcast! She explained everything with such clarity and using easy vocabulary so anyone can get insight and learn. Thanks for conducting this insightful podcast!
Very nicely explained excellent thank you very much for this podcast knowledge about them is must so we can live with them.. Understand them.. Keep distance with them..
It was a great video!! I went through all of this and crazy part is he acts so nice infront of my friends. He also convinced them that I am at a wrong and how he tried to save the relationship. It would be great if you guys can make a video on discard phase when they leave you and ghost you act like you don’t even exist and how to cope after and what techniques to use!!
This video explain everything about a narcissist. I have been searching about this topic for a veryyyy long time just to understand how a narcissistic person thinks, as i am dealing with one . He is really good with the outer world but with me ....just a nightmare. Everytime i try to leave , he blames me for his health and bp and what not and threatens me that he will commit suicide and the next thing i know is ..he is just sitting in the other room in a very calm state. He has hit me multiple times and then justifies it by saying ..."its because you said those words and provoked me ...i had to take such step . This is how you stay quite ." He gets angry at things nobody can imagine. In his brain , he thinks everyone wants to harm him in a way or another. He thinks if he is angry ,it other people's job to babysit him , to take care of him like a baby. And you must accept whatever he is saying otherwise he will continue to fight even if it takes you hours. But at the end everyone must agree that he did nothing wrong. These people are the nicest people on planet for their friends, nobody will ever believe that they are like this .
Very very important topic you have covered. Must listen to all ages and all genders. Beautifully explained. Can relate to each and every point 😢. Please share a podcast for burnout and survivor guide too. Thanks a ton 💐
@@Badlozindegi122 traits harr ek ke alag alag hote hair.andhere se Matlab raat ke want koi aaspaas nahotoh inhe bahouth uncomfortable hota hai kyoun ki ye kisiko Control nahi karsakte .Control karna inki taaqat hai.
Thanks a lot for such an important vedio that outlouds the exact behavior of a Narcissist that always goes under the table. The vedio has given a lot of clarity to the empaths who are unknowingly blaming themselves and are facing a hard time to heal. Eagerly waiting for the Part 2...
Such an amazing podcast! I have watched so many videos on this topic since I went through narcissist abuse in my marriage.. i could relate to every single thing she mentioned….. This needs to go out to more people and make them aware if they are in a narc abuse… Thanks Ayush for this wonderful podcast!!👏🏻👍🏻👌🏻🙌😊
Thanks for very detailed information. As per your explanation, yes i am also staying with covert narcissist partner. I am suffering from her torture since last 20+ years. I have gone through phycological depression, stress , medicine treatment, sleep disorder. She always shoutes, force's, blackmail her opinion, threatens of law , never understand or listen. She never remember her any bad word but even single word of us she never forgets and tries to Gaslight relatives, her family as she is victim and only we are torturing her. Staying with narcissist is hell. But now days, meditation, real understanding of npd with your tricks are helping me. Thank you.
Yes the percentage of narcissists is definitely a lot more all over the world because at every podcast on narcissists there are thousands of comments where ladies are pouring their hearts out 😢😢😢
Gerat video, This podcast is very informative and please upload more informationative videos..i would like to suggest other topic like difference between emotionally unavailable and narsist person .. and practical way of dealing with procrastination
Maine bhi jhela he ek narcissist ko, itna pain, itna torture, itna humiliated to mere khud k ghar walo ne bhi nahi kiya jitna usne kiya, mujhe kuch samgh hi nhi aaya, kitna suffer kiya mentally, physically health kharab hui, confidence low hua, ab slowly slowly sab recover ho raha he empath hone ki saza mili mujhe 😞 lekin vo narcissist mera picha nhi chhodega phir aayega is baar to uska gussa satve aasman pe hoga ki Maine use ignore kaise kiya, silent treatment kaise diya, I'm scared me akele defend kaise karungi, jise me apni life ka love one samgh rahi thi vo itna bada narcissist niklega pata nahi tha
Don't worry, dear my all inlaws are narcissists, I myself am an empath, my relatives are narcissists. Only my husband is my support, I don't know, how would I survive without my husband. Even had childhood trauma. Some of my friends parents are narcissists. Even siblings.
Same here , don't know how I left him😢 sometimes I feel unki bhi galti nhi h , ye disorder ke wajah se sab ho rha h par ye bhi pta hai ki ye change nhi honge , it hurt alot
Ap kavhi Narcissists ko badal nhi sakte. Unke sath zada deal krne jaoge to ulta apka physical and mental health kharab ho jayega. Ap medication pe a jaoge. Yea log andar se khokle hote hy ap inko kavhi happy nhi kr sakte. So best option yea hi hy ki inko scilently akela chor do and let them suffer. Don't even think about them. They don't deserve you. Your time, energy, efforts, attention..... They don't deserve anything at all.
Understand and read a lot about NPD is the only way to come out of the addictive love. Else that trauma bond is very difficult to cut off. I have watched many videos but this one is the best and clear solution. Excellent video. There is lack of awareness about NPD and other disorders. Our society justifies such behaviour especially if it is a Man. These covert NPs get please in torturing people. As Mam mentioned the emotional reaction is their fuel, be it positive or negative emotion. NPDs don't understand emotions or empathy. They find it interesting ifvone reacts as they don't know how to react like an empath.
I am practising Clinical Psychology and dealing with a Narcissist family member, Everything she is explaining is 100 percent true. Please use the coping mechanism she pointed at 43:35
One of the best Indian podcasts on narcissism i have heard . Bring her back for mkre topic. This podcast will be helpful amd healing for so many people. Thank you so much 🙏😊
I am an empath, but for the whole of my life I have been attracting narcissistic people when it comes to relationships, how can I balance this to ensure I attract like-minded empaths like myself for a productive relationship that can potentially lead to walking down the aisles?
👏🏼 yes, psycho neurological pattern. In therapy, without therapy is same. 🙌🏽😄 Exactly, others should learn to cope up. 👏🏼🎯 Thank you so much 🙏🏼 I must say your findings are so very accurate. 🙌🏽 Damn accurate you are
Amazing insight 🎉 and beautiful explanation looking forward for 2nd part and also consider a bit about empath brief explanation on it to would great..,
Really, well explained, while listening to this podcast I can relate every aspect what I’m living and going through. Thanks a lot. If you can share the info for the Dr. Singh that would be much appreciated. Thanks again!
Amazing podcast! Thank you! I would request you to create awareness about empath and NPD amongst the helper (say maids) community as they also need to understand these things and how to cope. It is important to reach these people as they are suffering too at the hands of NPD’s. These people do not have access to therapists especially in India. 🙏🏼 I myself am an empath and a survivor of narcissistic abuse all my life since birth. I have a narc parent and a sibling and then a husband. At a point I thought I must be one coz everyone around me especially my loved ones cannot be one. But thanks to the internet became aware that I resonate with Empaths This happened in my 50’s. That’s half a lifetime gone not knowing how to take care of myself. I want now that more people become aware. But alone I don’t know how. You have a platform please do something for this worker community coz they do watch youtube. On humanitarian grounds please to make this world a better place. These people cannot go for therapy and they do make a good percentage of our country. I live with one and have learnt to cope with but cannot leave as children involved. If I can help in any way I will. I agree no shortcuts its been a hard journey but have risen above all the crap I have been put through. Boundaries was my lesson amongst others 👍🏼 She is absolutely right but we need to empower the worker community in the manner they will understand.
If a person can introspect in him or herself then he or she is not a narcissist. A narcissist can't introspect. Apni galtiyon ko pehchana nhi chahta narcissist. Ho skta hai koi insan narcissist ho aur usko lag rha hai ki vo empath ya victim hai. Ya koi empath khud ko narcissist smjh skta hai kyunki usko narcissist na blame kr krka esa mehsoos kra diya hai ki vo narcissist hai. Sb accha tool hai ki kya hum khud ki galtiyon ko pehchan rha hain ya nhi aur phchan kar unko accept kar rha hain kya? Narcissist apna andar chupa sehtaan ko dekhna nhi chahta vo ussa darta hai isliye vo introspect krna sa drta hai. Narcissist choose to die but not accept his or her mistakes.
I disagree.....i tried everything.....i cleared CS at 40... After 15 years of marriage...... and performed arangetram i.e. dance performance at 46 of my age.... after 21 years of marriage.... and then he was furious..... and had to leave..... As u said... once u file a police complaint..... relation is over..... and u trigger narcs badly.....NO CONTACT is the only option
4 and half year...a relationship with narcissistic and my soul get drained out from my body ...every single thing she said is right ...need more awareness in the society for this issue🥲🥲🥲🥲 trust me nothing is more depressing than dealing with such person 🥲
I was in a 2.8 years of relationship and my ex was a covert one , extremely charming and influential personality. It's been almost 2years still mentally and emotionally drained.
