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Don’t Fight for Attention || Coach Ken Canion 

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Don’t Fight for Attention || Coach Ken Canion
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Комментарии : 181   
@GLeon-ov9yu
@GLeon-ov9yu 2 года назад
“If a man doesn’t fear losing you he will always devalue you.” This is golden, thanks for sharing. 👍🏼
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
My pleasure!
@ChoeneNkoana
@ChoeneNkoana Год назад
Very golden. ❤
@dpharrison7
@dpharrison7 Год назад
Always be willing to walk away. I rather be alone than settle for disrespect
@shevettejackson.
@shevettejackson. Год назад
Amen girly !!💗
@megsmurphy7777
@megsmurphy7777 2 года назад
I have ALWAYS said, "indifference is so much more damaging than active hate."
@reginamitchell975
@reginamitchell975 2 года назад
Thank you .
@carriemoore8207
@carriemoore8207 2 года назад
We must protect this man by all means necessary. I love listening to him. He always on point and giving u valid advice from a mans standpoint and how they think.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
I want to add value to peoples lives
@kimyork4945
@kimyork4945 2 года назад
@@CoachKenCanion Kim from London 😊 I'm looking through RU-vid... And came across you... Your videos are so right and I know that... I know you are so so so right... and yes I need to pull back... But it's not easy 😔 and I love that you recognise that... I appreciate your time in posting this... I think my fear is what if it doesn't work... But I know I need to do something different... Every word you say resonates with my situation.. I know I need to self reflect (your other video) wish me luck.. xx
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
@@kimyork4945 You got this. I am here to support u
@kimyork4945
@kimyork4945 2 года назад
@@CoachKenCanion thank you... Appreciate it... It started this evening and I feel good.. one step at a time and I am trying to be kind to myself... Xx
@SeekingGod77
@SeekingGod77 Год назад
I agree he valuable to us women this stuff works
@rijajones4811
@rijajones4811 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for helping me realise that I do the emotional heavy lifting in all my relationships. It stops now! I'm worth more and deserve more than I've been getting in return.
@aleciamoten6867
@aleciamoten6867 2 года назад
We don't demand what we deserve. We demand what we tolerate. That's good Coach!
@beverlytriche4111
@beverlytriche4111 8 месяцев назад
I have done everything you have requested. I am getting married in June of 2024. Thanks for all your help directing us on a positive path . I appreciate you and all your advice. Now if my grown son can get right, I ll have another blessing.
@shaunierockett4964
@shaunierockett4964 Год назад
A woman must create the standard✨and a man must either adhere or not♥️chin check tht ninja if he falls below the standards‼️Got it✅
@yolandawestbrook8240
@yolandawestbrook8240 3 месяца назад
I miss my father. He would give me good advice like this. Glad to find a RU-vid daddy.
@angelfire402
@angelfire402 Год назад
I agree. Happened to me twice. When I decided just forget it. Months later they both started calling at the same time. I was so hurt. I don't feel anything anymore. I ignore there calls I no longer rush to answer the phone. I don't want to be bothered anymore. Now i get more text and calls. what a shame
@sunshinesunflowerz1647
@sunshinesunflowerz1647 2 года назад
Not chasing anything, not even goals. If it’s meant that I have it, God will make sure that I have all the tools I need to complete it. In regards to a man, he needs to be whole before he steps to me because you ain’t getting anything for free. Yes. I made the distinction between ‘hate’ and ‘indifference’ years ago. Indifference is when you don’t want nothing to do with that person. Fall back game on ♾…
@carolirvine7663
@carolirvine7663 Год назад
Excellent advice - Tolerating bad behavior becomes a habit, so when our partner does something nice we think this reaffirms commitment - This is false security and clever ploy men and sometimes women use to stay in control of a relationship.
@misstruth1115
@misstruth1115 2 года назад
That’s why I’m practicing no sex outside of a marriage bed.
@adaofcharles1217
@adaofcharles1217 Год назад
Forget how I feel, think on what I deserve 👏👏👏
@anastasiasharidaali8217
@anastasiasharidaali8217 Год назад
We dont demand what we deserve. We demand what we tolerate. Great advice.
@user-je7qx6ft9i
@user-je7qx6ft9i 6 месяцев назад
When I see your content, it comes through my feed as shorts. Right now I’m going through a breakup and decided to come to your channel, and I am sooooo impressed!!! Thank you so much for doing this work ❤❤❤ binge watching tomorrow
@tonyaparrott7242
@tonyaparrott7242 Год назад
Absolutely agree with the posture of INDIFFERENCE!! You are spot on Coach! Keep telling us the RAW truth! This is not easy and I'm so very thankful for your help❤❤❤
@DB-gu6tf
@DB-gu6tf 7 месяцев назад
Thanks Coach Ken. I used your advice. I pulled back just a tiny bit and he knew he needed to adjust himself. That opened up an opportunity to communicate. It was so beautiful. Our connection continues to grow because I’m not making the mistakes I used to. I’m really happy right now….thanks to you coach.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 7 месяцев назад
Great job!
@sony3246
@sony3246 Год назад
It's crazy to me that any of this game playing is needed. Two human beings should be able to respect and love each other without all of this extra.
@mzdee7021
@mzdee7021 2 года назад
Until the pain of staying the same becomes GREATER than the pain it takes to CHANGE....you WON'T ❤️❤️
@falishatucker3486
@falishatucker3486 Год назад
I love this message so much. I appreciate all that you do. I'm newly single and it's a struggle out here in the dating world. But I'm up for the challenge with your guidance.
@shirleyamccreemccree6323
@shirleyamccreemccree6323 6 месяцев назад
I love this guy! Very smart advice!❤
@wandasmall1433
@wandasmall1433 2 года назад
This video has very great information. Thanks for sharing. Now how about hitting that like button to show our appreciation
@donnajordan3540
@donnajordan3540 Год назад
I had to stop fighting, I’m gone
@AnnieTangerine8714
@AnnieTangerine8714 6 месяцев назад
I have done like EVERYTHING wrong.... everything.....and now my once amazing relationship is a mess....and yes, I dont wanna lose him. He is a great guy. I hope I am not too late. And actually I hope that while pulling back, if it doesn't work, it will prepare me to walk away. Cause right now I am not willing to walk away...God help me
@MS.M1220
@MS.M1220 9 месяцев назад
God is my guide first and foremost. This should be everyone’s declaration.
@rahdancecompany5443
@rahdancecompany5443 Год назад
Chin checked mine and he got mad and went silent.
@marialacerda6593
@marialacerda6593 Год назад
My guide is the Holy Spirit !!!!
@chiobabe2180
@chiobabe2180 9 месяцев назад
Best advice I heard from a guru. And a sane blk man at that. Lord protect this man! ❤
@lawandalivingston3603
@lawandalivingston3603 2 года назад
So glad I came across the video. So applicable to me right now. Thanks ❤️
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
Thank you for watching my channel. Please share
@iwig2714
@iwig2714 5 месяцев назад
Omg this was FACTS so on point. Keep blessing us. I walked away 10 years was too long 😢
@Mikeismybaby02
@Mikeismybaby02 Год назад
in my current situation I'm so happy I ran across your videos they help me in my weak moments.
@r314522s
@r314522s 2 года назад
I totally agree with you especially with the toy analogy. Thank you
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
Thank you for watching
@latrice3748
@latrice3748 2 года назад
I could really use your help lol
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
@@latrice3748 email me at kencanion@gmail.com
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
@@latrice3748 email me at kencanion@gmail.com
@farahkibriya6311
@farahkibriya6311 Год назад
At least he is articulate and can speak eloquently
@ayrakwa1
@ayrakwa1 2 года назад
Very good advice Coach!
@nikkinikki3001
@nikkinikki3001 8 месяцев назад
Chasing vs attracting, I love that logical breakdown. Thank you.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 8 месяцев назад
You're so welcome!
@luzimarah8907
@luzimarah8907 2 года назад
Thank you sir! Thank you for giving valid advice from a man’s standpoint and telling us how they think. It meant a lot for me bc I don’t have that male figure in my life that I can pick up the phone to ask for advice from. So since I don’t have that in my life I look forward to your videos. So…. Once again thank you for your advice!!
@demechiakirkland5146
@demechiakirkland5146 Год назад
Thank you for showing me another way to communicate how I truly feel without feeling like I am the one that's running him down. This video was extremely helpful 👏. I was raised in a house full of men but I still have a lot to learn about the man in my personal life. Thank you for helping me to understand on my journey.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
You are so welcome
@angeg100
@angeg100 2 года назад
I just came across your videos. You are a God send. I was meant to see your videos.. I have made colossal mistakes in with this man.. I am going to correct them now, by walking away. It's been almost 3 years. My needs are not being met, I have complained, said I am done and still allowed him back in. I wished him a happy birthday yesterday, he did not even reply. My pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of changing. Thank you so very much for what you do. Stay Blessed.. 🧡🧡🧡🧡
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
Thank you for watching
@christinaringo2535
@christinaringo2535 2 года назад
After listening to this I had to subscribe You are Amazingly HONEST!!! Thank you ❤️
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
Thank you. I really want to empower people
@kimbellas6874
@kimbellas6874 11 месяцев назад
Coach your saving my life love you❤
@sherondadavis8907
@sherondadavis8907 2 года назад
I kept going back only to go through a repeated cycle.
@gletsayaaasantewaa2793
@gletsayaaasantewaa2793 2 месяца назад
I’ve been there too sis. I had to decide I was more important than the relationship, and finally walked away…
@stephaniebaker5519
@stephaniebaker5519 2 года назад
Thank you!! Much needed insight. Love this!! Thank you!!!!thank!!!you thank you!!!
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
You are so welcome
@carolarchibald6944
@carolarchibald6944 10 месяцев назад
Thanks coach Ken you have opened my eyes so wide. I put in so much and get nothing back.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 10 месяцев назад
Excellent!
@peacelove280
@peacelove280 11 месяцев назад
Awesome, Beautiful, and Wise message!!
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 11 месяцев назад
Thank you kindly!
@ChoeneNkoana
@ChoeneNkoana Год назад
I'm back in the dating pool, and your lessons are valuable. Thank you.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
Welcome back!
@neicyluv553
@neicyluv553 Год назад
I deserve BETTER! Amen.
@Amaviv09
@Amaviv09 11 месяцев назад
This got to me at the right time, thank you coach
@cathyjackson5675
@cathyjackson5675 2 года назад
I Thank God for you
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
I thank God for you
@amaal1
@amaal1 Год назад
Much needed to hear this. Thank you. Back in the dating pool.🙏🏽
@angieangie9062
@angieangie9062 Год назад
Thanks
@ms_may_gyen
@ms_may_gyen Год назад
💯💯💯 I have a few different “guides” as long as their aligned with my core values. -relationship -financial -spiritual -academic -entrepreneurship
@empressnaja
@empressnaja Год назад
This is Absolutely!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✊🏿✊🏿👍🏾👍🏾 Spot on advice to live by.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
💯
@JusttRaquel
@JusttRaquel Год назад
Wow, some nuggets here . Thank you 😊.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
So nice of you
@sharhondariley
@sharhondariley 8 месяцев назад
I appreciate this wisdom so much ❤
@neicyluv553
@neicyluv553 2 года назад
Man, speak yo ish! This is so true!!
@annmohabir5043
@annmohabir5043 9 месяцев назад
So true
@Cherryblossom-fg1pl
@Cherryblossom-fg1pl 8 месяцев назад
Thankyou so much ❤
@alicialandrum2048
@alicialandrum2048 2 месяца назад
This is good information
@tiffanycrenshaw5421
@tiffanycrenshaw5421 7 месяцев назад
This is some dam good advice!
@Almediale
@Almediale 2 года назад
Great advice
@Braveh3artGirl
@Braveh3artGirl 8 месяцев назад
This is AMAZING advice. Thank you so much ❤
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 8 месяцев назад
You're so welcome!
@aviwedyantyi5535
@aviwedyantyi5535 2 месяца назад
Thanks alot
@giaalston9092
@giaalston9092 8 месяцев назад
I’m afraid of losing the friendship. Which is why I keep fighting for the relationship. I make excuses that he is dealing with grief, and loss of a close loved one, that he is adjusting to being a single father, he just isn’t ready for a relationship. I know and say all these things but still fight for the friendship and relationship that we had for so many years, and he is inconsistent, and pushing my love away. How do I be there for him without involving my emotions or feelings for him? Which normally leads to sex and giving into what he wants?
@virginiaharvey
@virginiaharvey 2 года назад
Competing.trying to get someones attention.trying too hard repels.attracts opposite.
@kellymarsh8541
@kellymarsh8541 2 года назад
Excellent advice
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
Thanks for watching
@Stella-kx3lt
@Stella-kx3lt 2 года назад
This is so good!!! Thank you sir
@Gg-rssystG8
@Gg-rssystG8 2 года назад
There you go.
@Mikeismybaby02
@Mikeismybaby02 Год назад
dealing with this now with my husband I'm separated from. Thanks
@mosedimayo1919
@mosedimayo1919 2 года назад
Just came across your Channel and i must say u made a lot of sense for me...much love🙌🙏keep teaching.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
Thank you. Glad you are here
@preese100
@preese100 2 года назад
Impactful!
@jollymboya1069
@jollymboya1069 2 года назад
Well put..
@pamelaclary6805
@pamelaclary6805 Год назад
It takes too much to be with one, don't put yourself through it, you'll be better off.
@RosemaryBashiru-pn3ns
@RosemaryBashiru-pn3ns Год назад
Thank you coach
@reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100
This message was powerful. Thank you so much. 💪🏽💯🙏🏽
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
You are so welcome
@taraday3719
@taraday3719 16 дней назад
I needed this thank u!
@user-by6ol1es1f
@user-by6ol1es1f Год назад
Thanks so much for the advice 😊
@QueensFirst
@QueensFirst 2 года назад
I needed this TADAY!!!!
@dkay1888
@dkay1888 Год назад
Truth.... Thanks
@paulaharvey186
@paulaharvey186 Год назад
Thanks!
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
I appreciate you!!!!!!!
@tinatina4131
@tinatina4131 2 года назад
Thanks for keeping it real coach. 🙏🏼
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
Thanks for appreciating the content
@vixter28
@vixter28 12 дней назад
Yup I took whatever he gave me 😢 Urghhh Let him get away with BAD BEHAVIOR! Disrespectful I let him in my door at midnight! Dang ! So mad at myself now! Right I stayed & went bk bc I thought i couldn’t find anyone else or better
@chrisharris2367
@chrisharris2367 2 года назад
Hi, can this dynamic work in marriage? Thanks for the video; I like the positivity.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
Yes, absolutely
@Mikeismybaby02
@Mikeismybaby02 Год назад
@@CoachKenCanion that's exactly what I needed to know cause he is tripping. i never thought I would have to play cat and mouse game in my marriage
@Pacifica74
@Pacifica74 Год назад
Staying with him when he's like this is giving up.
@shirelsummers9185
@shirelsummers9185 2 года назад
Love your wisdom.. Very good info!
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
Thanks for watching!
@gaylabrown8028
@gaylabrown8028 2 года назад
I recently subscribed to you! I love listening to your videos and you’re a major blessing to me seriously!!! Thank you so much!❤️
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
I appreciate you!!!
@nivniv7844
@nivniv7844 Год назад
I like your personality. Subscribed
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
❤❤
@Delaine2005
@Delaine2005 2 года назад
Thank you! This was on time!!!
@avanellejean-marie6740
@avanellejean-marie6740 Год назад
Awesome advice thank you appreciate you coach blessings.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
You are so welcome
@newyorkdiva3
@newyorkdiva3 2 года назад
Thank you.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
You're welcome!
@yolandagreen9180
@yolandagreen9180 Год назад
Good stuff thank you
@kashmeererock7261
@kashmeererock7261 2 года назад
Love ur vids. Wish I found this one a month sooner😪
@neicyluv553
@neicyluv553 2 года назад
Wish I knew this 32 years ago but here we are...
@ElaineSimplyEL
@ElaineSimplyEL 2 года назад
TRUTH!!!! THANK YOU!
@Chilly-Bibee
@Chilly-Bibee 2 года назад
I just found you and you are awesome!! Thank you.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
AHHHH, Thank You so much. Please share
@Chilly-Bibee
@Chilly-Bibee 2 года назад
@@CoachKenCanion I did already!
@donnajordan3540
@donnajordan3540 Год назад
I appreciate the advice you give always 😊
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
You are so welcome
@sherondadavis8907
@sherondadavis8907 2 года назад
1st time seeing video.
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion 2 года назад
Hope you enjoyed it!
@sherondadavis8907
@sherondadavis8907 2 года назад
Yes it was very useful. I keep asking why i keep going back..what am i doing wrong..feeling like maybe it is me..why cant i openly talk to him about shifts that i see without it turning into him getting upset. Me learning things not going to change. Its a lot sir lol. Im just looking ti be better for me and if i ever meet someone who really sees me and wants to grow with me i wont be so untrusting and nervous that they gonna do the same thing. And that im not either through my triggers and trauma from hurt in life and relationships. Sorry for the ling post.
@patricadyson778
@patricadyson778 Год назад
This is where I am now . Do not care.
@pelegrineginindza5605
@pelegrineginindza5605 Год назад
Im definitely going to apply ds
@naomirivera4837
@naomirivera4837 Год назад
I have zero toleration it's good to miss each other love is action I learn you don't got to say I love you all the time you feel it and if you're so damn good, I'm about respect peace elegant classy yes I had to put it out there independent,Not me I don't play respect compromise communicate priority number one no I'm not tolerating that if you leave and don't come back and I don't know where you are you ain't told me nothing you can come to me it's a rap goodbye I might be hurt but I see now that's a big red flag no sir nope I'm dating now it's going on a year I was settlement for 3 years I am taking my time there's time that he don't even come in my house he rides in my front of my house I come downstairs and we leave I got my own car he doesn't have to come to my house everytime taking my time I wanna no him no me not lose bf because we are because couple 🙏🏼 pray I'm doing the right thing 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@patricetrotter
@patricetrotter 2 года назад
I need reassurance because I don’t get enough
@oliviabarr2986
@oliviabarr2986 6 месяцев назад
I had to step back when I realized,,,, I was begging for time, for dates, for attention. It was always left in my corner tot figure out….. I heard him say once, just come on so u can stop nagging wow😮
@lala5061
@lala5061 4 месяца назад
Ugh 🤮
@classykatina3574
@classykatina3574 Год назад
Thank you for sharing this. It makes a lot of sense. 💎
@CoachKenCanion
@CoachKenCanion Год назад
You are so welcome
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