Don’t mess with me, I know kungfu 

This is the skit Ramsey was referencing btw ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ifVuQ4Au4ZM.html

I’m one of the people that made a crappy comment about your voice about a year ago. You responded with class and a brief word about this. You pointed out that what I said sucked and while you accepted my apology, I still cringe when I think about what I said, to this day. Thank you for being the bigger man and leading with calm and collected behavior. Much love and respect man.

I've had a thug off the street tell me he knows UFC and that he'll beat me up. I couldn't help but giggle. It sounded funny cuz he was so serious.

The thing that I love about this channel is realizing that manyof these questions that are ostensibly about fighting are actually in fact questions about human psychology. Especially when it comes to most of the "on da streets" questions.

In my vast experience, (and I use this term with intended sarcasm) telling someone you know Kung g fu is a sure fire way to get them to test that claim. And keeping your trap shut is likely far more advantageous to you than not.

Had a guy in college who'd leave after a 3 hour karate class in his gi, belt and everything, and go run errands in town...grocery store, etc. Needless to say he got into way more altercations than anyone else. I'm sure he also smelled fantastic in the process.

One of my favorite "fighting without fighting" moments was in Brixton, early 90s. An extremely aggressive dude, harassing a shop owner with whom i was on first name terms with. Simply addressing the pair of them with confidence to remain very calm and unaggressive really diffused the situation almost immediately. i don;t doubt some luck was involved. But if you have ever seen the brilliant Derren Brown, an extremely talented performer and psychologist, he had one amazing tip for avoiding fights with aggressive people. "My hedge isn't four foot tall." Apparently he said that to a guy who was intent on giving him some grief, and the would be assailant, in his adrenaline fuddled mind, took up so much processing power to try and decode this nonsense that he completely forgot he was angry in the first place.

I'm 6'6/265lbs and extremely easy going so I never get into fights, but when I'm out at bars drunk people do occasionally try be aggressive with me, but honestly I've never told them about my Boxing and Judo experience to like, de-escalate. Better to just be friendly, because telling a drunk person you know how to fight can easily be seen as a threat.

I'm sorry you had to go through bullying. I'm a victim of bullying as a child myself, and the funny thing is, while bullying often turn people into aggressive people, all it did was instill a great level of empathy and patience in me.

Your story about the aggressive manager showed that a little compassion can go a long way. The best way to win a fight is to not get in a fight at all.

The best weapons to have are those your opponent is unaware of. Skill sets and training are weapons, of a sort. The less anyone knows about anything, relating to one's self, the better. This holds true for damn near everything in life.

I think it's a good point - most people who end up finding trouble are also people who knowingly go looking for it, in some manner or to some degree. This is also the problem with a lot of people who pursue martial arts in the name of "self defense" - they let on that they only want to "look after themselves" when what they really want to do is "win" the encounters that they secretly want to get into, whether they acknowledge that to anyone, even themselves, or not. Far from wanting to "avoid a confrontation", these are people who are just looking for fights that they can win with the benefit of enhanced skills; they're really passive-aggressive bullies looking for some kind of revenge or thrill, but it's something that is seldom talked about. And, for what it's worth, I never thought that Ramsey's honestly broadcast-quality voice was ever fake... but whether Ramsey is sometimes in love with the sound of his own voice is a different issue. Either way, it IS a great voice, no question... and I think he's a good guy.

Ramsey. Your voice is amazing. I love it and think you should love it as well. It's one of the reasons I love your channel on top of the amazing advice and information and wisdom you provide. Everything from your tonality to your pronunciations to your exaggerating expressions are all dynamite. I love it all. I hope you can overcome your trauma one day and learn that the haters of your voice just wish they had your voice as well.

I once had a supervisor yelling and screaming at me right as I showed up to work. Pointed his finger at me and everything. Well I fixed his wagon, and fixed it good. I went upstairs to his boss, and reported him. I never got messed with again.

Worked with a guy who bragged about being trained in "Mai thai" (he pronounced it like the alcoholic drink, not the martial art), this was at the same time another coworker was ex military and another was big into MMA and I myself tend to be a stirrer of feces. We had much fun at his expense. And watch out Ramsey, I've watched the Matrix.

I just turned 60, now on my 40th year repossessing vehicles in So Cal. I have had several hundred confrontations, some with weapons in hand or close by. I am 5'10" 140 lbs currently & never broke 150. I know of no other agent's with the same amount of risk exposure that has come out of this industry unscathed like me so far (1 year left to retire). It's learning how to handle yourself emotionally and learning the verbal techniques and stratagies so it's less likely that they perceive me as the actual villian and NOT tear my head off! Keep my head attached to my neck PRIORITY ONE, the vehicle a distant 2nd!

Well I managed to avoid a fight once by advertising my martial art. I was in a pub, having some beers. Stepped outside for a while, and one thing let to another and a dude started to have beef with me. He mysteriously calmed down after I invited him to visit my boxing club where we could duke it out safely in the ring. But I can see your point about painting a target on yourself by doing that, enough beers in your belly and any dude might think he is the next Mike Tyson and beating some nobody like me will be easy

I did hear a story once about Royler Gracie - he was surfing and apparently surfers are turfy, and some dude went up to him and gave him a hard time, telling him go surf elsewhere. Story goes that he told the guy "look, happy to go on the beach and take care of it, but not sure you wanna do that, I fight for a living". Story goes that the guy backed off. Sounded like a reasonable reaction on Royler's side when I heard the story at the time. Royler by the way is a small guy, quite famous for having accomplished pretty amazing things in BJJ with his size.

I hope your doing okay with the lockdowns Mr Dewey , stay strong !

My jiu jitsu teacher always says the best defense is a good 100 meter dash. Even he, a 2nd degree black belt, avoids all physical altercations. Kinda inspiring

This brings up a memory; I once witnessed a 'fight' outside a club where the aggressor proudly declared he was a green belt in Kyokushin. The other fella hit him so fast and hard the aggressor's next noise was almost a whimper as he sat on his arse cradling a sore face. The other fella turned and said to those of us watching "i'm a brown belt in Kyokushin, but there is no point telling the world and his dog on about it."

You said in another recent video, too, that intense violence witnessed as an adult was nowhere near as traumatic as the things that were said to you when you were six years old...Thanks for sharing that, it's a source of encouragement and patience when I wonder sometimes why I can't not overreact to triggers that take me instantly back to things that were said to me at precisely that age...Knowing that that flare up of emotion is still experienced by someone as wise as yourself makes me hope to be able some day to speak and chuckle about it like you do!

Ramsey! Way to keep cool (and keep perspective) during the stressful moment with that former employer. We can reprove gently, oftentimes. Thank you for the Lesson. Pure respect.

Ramsey As someone who has gone through bullying in childhood himself I feel your exact pain when people say or do things that remind you of that period. Personally, and I think I speak for the majority of your viewers here, I adore your voice, it is so calming and watching your videos brings me peace regardless of topic. Your voice is beautiful and it is a gift, use it to spread peace and wellbeing, I wish you the best the world can offer!!!

I completely agree with “if you don’t have anything good to say don’t say anything at all”

i enjoy your distinguished voice and your eloquent way of speaking, thank you

Sorry to hear about how you were bullied as a little kid. Unfortunately, I can sympathize. Your shirt is hilarious by the way. You kind of went off on a side tangent about society needing parents to do a good job raising their kids (which I agreed with), but then you got back to it in the end. Thanks for the video.

I liked the story about your manager. It reminds me of an experience I had in a parking lot where a guy was zipping through way too fast and I was backing out of my space not looking around as well as I should have. Fortunately, I cought him out of the corner of my eye and slammed on my breaks, and he wizzed past without the vehicles touching. It was a bit jarring. I pulled back into the space and got out of my car and he parked and was coming over somewhat aggressively, and while he was some distance away I called to him asking (quite sincerely) if he was OK. Man did he look confused. He said something angrily about how I should look more carefully where I was going, but his heart wasn't in it anymore, and he just accepted my apology and walked off. (I indeed should have been more careful as I backed out, so it was true. I had a feeling that he knew he was going too fast for a parking lot and so it didn't need saying, so I didn't say it.) It's interesting how hard it is for people to be mad at someone who expresses concern over how they're doing.

I've had so many managers like that working in the food industry, it took me so long to realize that it's not about me. After you realize the world isn't out to get you it's relaxing

Well your voice is your voice. It is you! And the fact that you have the perfect voice for radio and book reading, well people are jealous! You have a Great day coach!

Ramsey beating up 100 people who wrote the funny voice comment in a row would be the peak of his youtube and martial art journey.

This worked for my dad once, but it was the right after Enter the Dragon came out so different rules. He ripped of his shirt, screamed his best Bruce Lee noises, kicked at the air, and the two guys decided to move on to someone less crazy………It should also be noted that the extent of his training was having seen the movie

One I use all the time is "Come at me bro, I used to do bowling for 10 years!" That usually confuses them enough to just want nothing to do with me. 😂

Your voice is perfect, don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise.

No you never tell no one, how skilled you are, period. The reason being is that it could serve to escalate into a fight. You try to talk someone down if you're sure that you could seriously hurt them. You try to reason with them, unless you have no choice but to fight. The way of martial arts is not to prove how tough and skillful you are, it is to use when you have to use it. Sparring is good because it builds skill. Some use it as a way to exert power over another and that's usually the one who engages in cockiness.

Dude. I listen to your videos just BECAUSE of your voice. I love it. It sounds soothing. Keep up the good work!

From day one i have always thought your voice was pretty cool actually! Its different ya but a good different. Like someone you would want to listen to read an audio book. Be proud of your voice no matter what anyone says!

People are just jealous that they don't have that beautiful voice. Awesome to see an accomplishment martial artist who is articulate and well spoken. In my experience people who insult others are just masking their own insecurities.

Aggressor: "I am going to fight you" Me: *_"You Must Defeat Sheng Long In Order To Stand A Chance"_*

Ramsey, I like your voice and your calm and calculated delivery is one of the things that drew me to your channel. It's sort of the polar opposite of icy Mike

No one thanks their parents for being easy on them. Coddling your kids over everything doesn’t turn out well.

I think your voice is so calm and soothing, I love it. I can't believe you were bullied at school for that. Some people are just nasty to the core.

Man your voice is smooth af I could listen to you read congressional roll call votes and be content.

I actually like the sound of your voice. To me..........it makes you sound like a happy, friendly and confident person.

Well, may sound silly but actually one of the reason I watch your channel is because of your awesome deep voice ! It is actually very grounding, as is your personnality !

This is a really good question that no one with any sort of experience with illegal violence would ever ask. If you can get out of a fight by telling someone that you know martial arts then you could have most likely also gotten out of there with a wide variety of much safer and more pleasant conversational topics! As the shit draws closer to the fan everyone wants to make them selves look dangerous. Some people are really good at this, and they primarily use body language to convey their scaryness. Sometimes also sounds, but rarely more than two or three actual words. Anything more than three consecutive words is a conversation. That's the direct opposite of an illegal fight, and shows that you really don't want this fight. This is not a deterrant in any way shape or form. If you even mention martial arts i will see this as more or less of a guarantee that you haven't been in an illegal, or really intense fight before and will be easy to just shock and overwhelm. This might not be true, but it is what you are going to make me believe.

I think - never tell them anything. Appreciate your honesty. I notice your voice sometimes, find it adds to the enjoyment of what you're saying.

"Grr, I hate your face. Let's fight!" needs to be a character's intro line in a fighting game

Cool head's prevail in any conflict or sports event . At 2:40 .. Man you got the voice for radio and the face for television ! Keep up the great work .

Can’t believe I heard that! People actually talk sh!t about your voice?! Ramsey. Bro. The tone/sound of your voice is actually a small variable, that actually adds to the excellence of this channel, in case you didn’t know. “Iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit’s Ramsey Dewey over here in Shunghai (Shanghai) China” is something I always look forward to here. As bizarre as this sounds, your voice actually exudes; somehow, some sort, of intelligence. Lastly, you are UNDISPUTEDLY one of the best well spoken RU-vidrs out there. Excellent content, excellently articulated. Like what the heck. Till next video man!!

I've been doing tai chi and various other things for 25 years and the only person that really knows I still do it is me. Don't advertise. And dude your voice is totally original. 👌

Absolutely! Never say to an aggressor that you do martial arts or a pro / amateur fighter as the aggressor will look for the fight.

Hey Ramsey, you sound like a great speaker to me! Keep it up, I drive a van all day and love to listen.

Don't usually comment much but I was bullied as well when I was a kid and this video resounded whitin me. You are absolutely rigth that we never know what kind of package others migth carry and what migth set them off. I too had to deal whit being agressive and easily offended when I was younger. Trough training martial arts and calisthenics plus being a nurse by profession, working whit kids has given me a lot of empathy and understading towards people. Also training has increased my confidence. I used to be afraid of being infront of people and now I am a volunteer coach for my Karate clunbs youth and children groubs. And to my suprise I have found I like teaching very much. I have also worked whit mentally ill people and working whit them forced me to face a lot of comments and agressiom I had to learn to answer profesionally whitout showing anger even if something trigerred my past traumas. I so believe that my experience of being bullied has in the end made me more empathic person. But coming where I am today has been a long journey. What comes to de-escalating a situation I would be very cautios of mentioning my training becuase it migth escalate the situation. As a de-escalation I would try to calmy speak whit the person. Resorting to my training only if I have to respond to physical attack. Another reason to keep the training to yourself is that if you tell an agressor you know karate or kun-fu or whatever you also give them information they can use against you. This is not a wise course of action because you don't know what kind of training the agressor migth have. As a default I would always asume some level of competence from an agressor.

Re your voice. I keep watching you because you are smart about philosophy. Fyi I am a black belt aikido, and find your respect for other arts amazing. Being able to walk in another person's shoes I one of the most valuable skills I practice every day

Thank you for this video excellent lessons as always this was one I really needed to hear. PS I never noticed anything about your voice until you said something now you almost sound like Optimus Prime to me.

Dude your voice is awesome, it's one of your big sellers

I've had a couple of instances where I could diffuse the situation by non-verbally indicating that I didn't have a problem with a fight. I.e. once I was coming back from kickboxing training and at the metro station, there was this aggressive guy making lots of noise approaching people challenging them to fight. Kind of shouting stuff like "Wanna fight? I'm gonna beat you up! Pussy!". People would move away as soon as they saw him coming. Usually, I would also just go away when I see trouble coming up, but somehow my ego didn't want to do that (probably was still in a fighting mood from training before), so I took my mouthguard out of my gym back and bladed my body off. And when he was about to come to me, the moment he saw me, he got slower in his walk, eyed me up, then mumbled to himself "Nah, not that one, he's a good guy.", turned around and went away. But usually, I don't show that I want a fight. If I can't avoid aggressive people (i.e. sitting in a metro wagon, doors closed) and they approach me, I give them a look showing that I'm fully aware of the situation, but I neither show that I'm intimidated (=not a victim which might kick off their predatory instincs) nor do I challenge them (=escalating ego battle). Showing zero emotions confuses them as they can't read what I would do in case they'd escalate further, so so far, it worked and they left me alone.

Ramsey, I love your voice. It is beautiful, and it is so pleasant and relaxing

"if you're weak, pretend to be strong... but if you're strong Pretend to be weak.." -Ghenghis Khan

We all pray to have a golden voice like Ramsey Dewey.

From my experience, people didn’t need to be told I was trained, they knew, if you’re trained, your aura speaks, even pissing you off in the slightest scares people. I empathize with the bullying aspect of this video, I’m the same way, I was abused everywhere I went, from being called dusty for my shoes, to having my head stuck in a toilet, to having desks thrown at me, to people harassing my girlfriends, to calling my mom a clown, and I had no one to back me up. It was the reason I took up martial arts, but I grew up with a lot of rage from all the bullying, I made animations and music to provide an outlet, and when people make fun of me for it, it triggers my trauma of that kid coming home and curling up in a bed crying because he had no one there to understand what happened to him in school. I deal with aggressive people from time to time, I remain calm and still try to be polite, but after a certain point, the psychotic in me comes out.

I've learned a ton from Ramsey and really enjoy listening to him. Big fan of his voice as well! I'm going to disagree with him on his thoughts on whether or not you should advertise your martial arts ability. When I was first learning Judo a fellow student who finished runner up at Nationals, was on the grappling level of at least a BJJ brown, and was a bb in a full contact Karate as well, told me a story of how over a parking dispute a guy wanted to fight him. He calmly told the guy his experience and the guy got in his car and left. I never forgot this and used it twice. Once was at a bar when a guy was starting crap...I calmly told I've been training MMA over ten years and asked him if I was really the guy he wanted to mess with. He sat back down with his tail between his legs. Once at a party a drunk guy was bothering people and came over to me. I told him why things weren't going to end well for him. He made a face saving comment like "ohh you're going to kick my ass" but then he mellowed out after that. I can definitely see how it could backfire if someone is being aggressive and hopped up on liquid courage but I think a large percentage of the population will think better of picking a fight with someone who knows how to fight.

Thank you as always man

Remember my first fight in first grade. Came home crying everyday for a month from the nice American child bullies. Had a crew cut and never heard the end of it until my grandpa was there when I came home crying. He said “Sup?” I said kids making fun of my short hair. He says “Whaaaat? You come home crying again and I’ll beat your ass, handle your business boy” or something like that. Soon as I show up next morning, right off the bat, someone started in. I’ll never forget that crisp fall sunny morning, 20 feet inside the playground entrance, bully laying spread eagle at my feet, head turned to the right because I hit him with a right. Everybody on the playground quiet, looking at me, looking at him in surprise. Felt gooood not crying that day. Listened to everything my grandpa told me after that. Stand up for yourself, even if you get your ass kicked, feels better than the alternative

Trolls talking crap on the internet would not even look you in the eye in person. I would listen to you reading the dictionary. Love the videos coach

During a confrontation the body language is more important than your actual words. Someone who comes across as calm and confident can be more intimidating than someone who just talks shit. Pointing out your martial skills just puts a 'kick me' sign on your back, while firmly telling someone to back off will probably do the opposite (results may vary, depending on body type, number of people involved on both sides as well as general circumstances)

If you wan't to fight then let's fight, but I warn you, I know Sumo! Plus, I'm a commando!

Some people just dont know what's right in front of them...Personally I love a voice with character and some voice actors and speakers get paid a LOT for having the vocal tone that you have. I work in the audio industry and an agency can pull in a lot of work from a voice like yours, they're not common and it's not something you can imitate or force with technology (before deepfaking anyway and that's still not trivial). You are really good at keeping a flow going too and thinking on your feet. I properly appreciate your contributions to the knowledge pool but that includes the clear cut and well articulated way you explain these things.

Well, I can testify - I did that a few times when I was a teen - in a real situation of aggression it makes people laugh at you and challenge you immediately; in a normal day-to-day talk, when you build that aura around yourself, it makes them muster their courage (or annoyance ?) for weeks or months and then - challenge you. Come to think of it, short of directly insulting or attacking someone, I believe there is no better generator of hostility than informing them that you can fight.

I think men feel intimidated by your masculine qualities, Ramsey, including your deep voice. It conveys strength.

😂 i think your voice is very soothing. its jazz radio host quality

Bro, I love your voice. As a fellow deep voice guy it doesn’t bother me a bit. In fact, I often listen to your channel just because I enjoy your voice. Be happy, be safe.

Absolutely no bully from my past would last more than two seconds against me now. I still have a lot of deep seated rage about them as well. It kinda never leaves you. And if I met one, on the off chance, they would find I am a normal person who would gladly give them the time of day. At least I hope so. Life is a very long journey. I have no desire to double back toward the start.

Weird that someone has an issue with Ramsey's voice. I think his voice is manly, authoritative and it makes the story more interesting.

Love your voice dude not gunna lie I hope this doesnt sound weird but sometimes your voice makes me fall asleep which is good because I have bad insomnia

I remember this one knucklehead coming to a training session once, wearing a tank top that had "BIGGER OPPONENT = BIGGER WIN" written on it. That just about sums it up.

Oh my god Ramsey, I have to buy the Kimeowra shirt!!!!

4 lot of people bullying stops at high school or college but for me it never stopped even learning martial arts I never truly had the confidence that is supposed to supposedly build simply because as an adult now I have to contend with the law and as you know the law says that fighting is illegal unless you are professional in a ring and it is sanctioned

All of us were raised “Right” the question is.. do we change what we need too..”

I enjoy your sense of irrony and humor... Thanks Sifu..for the stories and lessons...Respect for your perspective..Peace.

So much of the time, in any altercation, its all about perceiving the mental state of a person, as well as how dangerous they are/size/strength/conditioning, etc. And also if they are on drugs, because unfortunately, some folks on drugs will literally KILL for a few bucks and will be nearly oblivious to pain... Someone who is quite drunk is not an issue... Someone who is a heroin addict is a MAJOR, MAJOR issue. That fight will be VERY, VERY DANGEROUS... Someone who is sober and in good shape, trained in fighting, esp. if they are bigger/stronger than you will be quite dangerous in a fight with you, yes indeed... Someone who is a beginner or has some experience in martial arts, or they have a black belt from a McDojo, etc.-not so dangerous. Probably best in some cases to let them show their stuff to you, as they are probably itching to use what they have learned, and just focus on the martial arts themselves and complement when they execute some move very well. In most cases, they are not going to be a real threat. Come on now... So much of the time, it is about conditioning, anticipating movements in another person, weight classes, and doing what works BEST for a person. Personally, if I got an elbow strike in someone's face, MAN, game over. Of course, if I was at fault, I'd be going to jail, sure. 😬😬😬😬 So I'm not planning on instigating anything... 😁😁😁😁 Maybe against Putin... 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

I was approached by a group of teenagers in a silver car about a week ago. I was on my way to my Muay Thai class and they began to shout out at me from the window. They told me that I was "built like a female" and that look like a bitch. I pretended that I didn't hear that but then they noticed that I train in a combat sport because of my Muay Thai shorts and training bag. They were like, "do you box?" and I just told them no and that I was just wearing swim trunks. They were still questioning me so I just told them I that I don't want any trouble and to have a nice day. They looked confused and drove off after that. Even though I've trained in multiple disciplines besides Muay Thai, I'm not going to attempt fighting off a group of guys. Things could have gone the other way but I succeeded in avoiding danger.

Agree i was being bullied and I take action. I take boxing class and surprisingly i was good at it. And I also take taekwondo class and I love it. Now I've won 2 Indonesia national taekwondo championships. And Ive retired and start training muaythai n kickboxing

If you see aggressive people everywhere, it's probably because you are giving off that vibe yourself.

“I train in UFC!” 💪🏼

The law of attraction works both ways. The irony of learning martial arts is that as you cultivate virtue and become more self aware through your training, the dark world that pushed you towards "self defense" begins to become clearer. Our perception of the world changes as we change. If there was something to be taken from TCMA, let it be lessons like this.

My friend Ed Latimore has a good saying based on his experience growing up in a ghetto: "good manners never make any situation worse."

This reminds me of the Seinfeld episode where Kramer takes karate, and starts telling everyone that he dominates the dojo. Turns out he was in a class with a bunch of ten year old who end up ganging up on him in the street and beating him up.

Dude you have an awesome voice, thats a weird thing for people to make negative. Maybe they're jealous?

I never used my skills list on anyone verbally. But I did prove it many times.

Great video as always!

My personal and perhaps less popular opinion is that the only thing that might impress an agressive individual , is to deal him higher volume of damage than the what he dealt to you. Important note: no one has to fight, for every disagreement there is a way to speak out off, and if an idiot wants to fight it wouldn't matter if there is a conversation at all. Like Ramsey always say "get out there and train", because you get benefits both from being a peaceful worrior who never drew a sword, or being a peaceful worrior that always used his sword.

The sadistic response to “I know king fu” = pulls a gun or knife and kills you. That’s “the streets”.

Thanks, tough Love. No it's not necessary to let everyone know that you practice fighting. I think it's great!to be able to share your Art with people who are part of friendship circle. But you gotta ask your ego.. 'Why?' if it's a because of fear, it's a bad strategy. If it's in order to put yourself on a pedestal, pride? maybe that's not real confidence, you know... When i learned martial arts the main key point my trainer told me for general reasons is:.. that the power gained from practice is to serve character building. Gaining self-confidence. And true confidence does not need to prove its self. However you do want to know. . .your truth

My Mum was first generation & always had an “unplaceable” accent….we do spend a lifetime overcoming our Childhood

Don't ever and I mean NEVER advertise your martial arts background to an aggressive or hostile individual during a confrontation. If anything they will only be more willing to attack you. It's better to just either walk away or if you have to defend yourself do so in a manner that inflicts as much pain and damage to your attacker as possible.

The only advantage to announcing that you know kung fu is that it makes it easier to beat them up with judo.

I just tell aggressive people that I watch the Ramsey Dewey channel😉

If you are lucky on the street, you could still become unlucky in the court, because judges are often of the impression that you as a martial artist could have been "softer" to the aggressor and still won. So they may charge you too.