Don't Be Concerned Because You Can Do THIS 

I'm watching this video for a friend 😂

Moral of the story... Must become a professional dom at all costs!!!! Got it, thank you brother

Best sexual partner equals maximum commitment. If not, there is residual distance and bitterness due to 'settling'.

Anakin Skywalker: Is it possible to learn this power? Palpatine: not as a jedi

I have a FWB with a high body count and she told me that her best ever was a dude with a smaller-than-average tool but he knew how to dominate.

Stirling being a good big brother that a chap never had in life to answer questions... Unlike George Orwell

Stirling, a huge fan by the way, religiously see all videos and try to follow as much advice as can.

I'm an amateur dom/daddy/primal and have been into kink for a few years. I 100% agree professional doms would be my biggest concern. It's one reason why I would never consider a kink non-vanilla woman as LTR material. If they had a dom that knew his shabari and how to use a (Hitachi wand) she's probably going to be an alpha widow.

it would be interesting if you could get a woman (that is an open size queen), on the show to speak about women's preferences when it comes to male genital size and how they underplay it at times, so they don't lose out on attention from seemingly viable/dateable guys.

Hearing your explanation about a pro dom leaves me with so many questions 😭😂😂

I'll say this, as someone who Dom'd for several years, the bond you get from a sub is different. Even years later they still call me Daddy or Sir lol... The dynamics are powerful for sure, especially if you truly know what youre doing on the mental side of the game

Yes! You never want to be her "Plan B". If you discover you are her Plan B, get out immediately.

#1, it's bigger than hers #2, she should have stayed with him #3, get another woman and you'll be the biggest for the rest of your life, instead of her settling for you #4, you could be top 1% and she still wouldn't be impressed if she's been with 200 guys. Should a man be ashamed of being top 1%? No, she's the problem, and it's the same if you're too 50%. And it's the same if you're not.

This man actually helping men

The best no bs channel on yt. Love the content. Much love from Croatia

I agree size doesn’t matter if you know how to please your girl and keep things fun in the bedroom. Learn a little massaging, get your oral game on point, fingers should be magical, also when you’re bumpin and grindin switch things up! I’m not just talking about positions but sometimes go slow and passionate, other times be a beast but most importantly make your actions show that you want her BAD! Hell get her going a random times of the day or random places. Lol whatever it is just be confident 💯

We all need a professional dom video

Just because you have a nice pencil, it doesn't help your penmanship.

Lol, that thumb nail made me hungry. I hecka want bratwurst now.

Guys need to stop worrying so much about the size of their dick and do a better job taking care of their health so it keeps the ability to get rock solid. Exercise. Eat right. Get enough sleep. If they are over 40 and getting ED then get their testosterone levels checked. All that health stuff is to keep you getting hard. The guy it's attached to will have far faaaaaar more to do with how a woman perceives a man than the absolute size, but the ability to get it up sure matters. For the most part, the super majority of people who fetishize penis size are gay men. Most women only care about your dick size if it's so small as to be a legit medical condition, OR so girthy it's painful (super rare, we're talking 7" girth or more). Also, if they are complaining that it's too long then that's user error because you can control the damn depth. If you're really long then slow down your thrusts and don't high speed into the cervix. This stuff should be basic common sense, but that's not so common anymore sadly it is now just "sensibility".

Yep, I dated a young woman who was seeing a full time Dom (and I was not inexperienced at sex), but she admitted she could not stop seeing him.

Dude that Dom description of feeding a girl through the cage fucking killed me 😂 lmfao that’s also very fucked that people are into that but I guess it kinda makes since.

Yo that background sick

The main truth starts at 4:56 fellas. Bravo!

Very informative video. Will keep this info in mind.

Answer is at 3:17 & 6:40

I would me more worried if her ex had a a bigger thicker wallet. What would make you feel more inadequate.

I want to know more about what it means to be a "professional dom"

Really like the beard! Love beards , neat ones like this .

4:35 (you never want to feel like a girl settling for you) gold ...

Please teach us how to be professional dom's

Her: Who do you think you are going to satisfy with that tiny thing? Him: Myself (courtesy of Irvine Welsh)

I’m packed in girth as well, but my length is 5.5 inches lol

I would only be okay with it if she's relatively tight. I'm 7 pbel 5 EQ, so even though I'm bigger than average, I would still require her to be tight in a sense otherwise I'll feel like she would prefer a girthier guy like she had.

Use what you have to your best advantage....fingers are great to hit the right spots in a concentrated fashion...a guy who can do that and do all the general things Sterling discusses here is going to be memorable. He is right...size just isnt the be all and end all. My first experiences were married to a large Italian...too big for me and we were young he wanted sex everyday. I COULDNT handle that much, just anatomically, not everyday, and he had to be gentle not the best circumference and circumstance for memorable sex. I perfected my OTHER skills with him though to give that part of my body some relief, so that was a longterm benefit to me tomadd to my skills and for my future partners as well. I was married twice, my second husband died when I was 32 he was premature and small ....small wasnt a big issue, premature definitely WAS....I am a small woman...I had two children and I went back to being small...I will forever be small, so a supersize I would avoid...learned my lesson the hard way between mates...yeah just didnt work... SKILL for me is what counts and I have been with my current mate many years, a former swinger...HE knows what he is doing. My body count is low...Im a different generation, before the internet. Certainly since the 60s anyone who WANTED a high body count , that was certainly available, esp. In urban areas, and definitely for women...I was busy doing other things and not so inclined, though to each his or her own. Sybil Francis PhD clinical.psychologist

I like the backdrop Stirling...Exoplanetary Dick Game has always been the goal.

Are there any dom trainings for dudes who don't work in the sex industry but what to become good at it? Any recommendations?

Nice topic

When is your next live happening, love watching your opinions and the guests that come on too, Can't wait and a huge fan of your work.

Stirling can u make a video on how to become a dom?

I will have to agree with Mr Stirling here. If she have experienced a Dom and/or Master, i'm sorry guys but your "game" does not even exist against them.

If a girl settles she settling for less

Well said

Been there. Just try your best.

I now want to become a professional dom :D

Wow this really put me at ease…

I dont feel bad. What kind of a void do I got to fill?

Thanks!

good to know ill be unforgetable

What is "Alpha Widowed"?

I’m 7” but sometimes I feel like I want to be bigger 🤣

What is a "professional dom" ?

I just slip the 5 inches and if they like it fine; if not that's fine too. As long as I get my rocks off I couldn't care less. Shrimp Roll 4 Life.

If you can't paint the ceiling, paint the fuck out of the walls 🤔

GEMS.

so if the guy is a dom with a 6 inch (length) and 5 inch girth wang... are you still gonna be worried, Stirling?🙄

They call me snake , anaconda , among friends . The length its enough but the gurth , o boy , rather o girls , fringes ....

Hell it shouldn't. matter to you because they 304s. 😂😂😂

Love you ❤️❤️❤️

Watching this for my ex's friend.

Unless you are Dredd or Mandingo

How do you become a professional Dom?

I had a "first" for the first time. My girlfriend has been with a guy who was huge. We've always been open. I'm really big, so I've always been the guy that was the biggest guy a girlfriend has been with. I'm like Johnny Sins, and the other guy is Dred(example). I don't know, it bugs me a bit. Who knows it's probably all in my head.

Interesting

My takeaway: become a professional dom.

Didnt you post this before? I'm quite sure I've seen this before

What about when you find a video they made and he’s got a micro… I felt bad bro. Lol

Marry a virgin. Problem solved.😉

I have been in 2 women that were honest with there sex life. Both had been with men who were packing on multiple occasions. Both said the sex was not terrible but not really satisfying. They said guys with big D’s think that’s all they have to bring to the table. None of the relationships lasted more than a month or so.

You said you grew yours, what method/s did you use?

04:43 Wow. This.

How do I become a profesional dom? Im into that and feel like i do it well

How do you get girth???

a woman who truly loves u & has morals wld never broach the subject..a sane woman.. there's no good reason to discuss it with her..nothing good will come of it

Wish you had addressed the issue from the audience point of view, not yours necessarily as a pro pôrn star. Could’ve been a much better video. But thank you

Can you provide an example of a professional domme?

How do you make it longer please tell us

Just have a lot of money and nothing will matter.

Girth😍

Dead lmao 🤣

it'd all f'in work. i get no pleasure. MOST IMPORTANTLY i look for someone i respect/admire particularly in the intelligence category. anything that would put her below me makes me lose attraction to her instantly. f'in sucks but it is what it is. this applies only in the bedroom. outside the room i'm....well.... not subservient

Anyone searching professional dom after this?

Professional doms???? What’s that???

Teach us all we need how to be dom man?

men got no choice how long is his sausage so what's the point to complain about it by women?

Did you keep your thumb in the thumbnail intentionally? 👀

I'm average sized and the attractive women I've dated all cared about size and wanted at least 7 inches .

Dredd 😂

Mr. Cooper I think you're trying to be politically correct sir. If it's attractive to women if a man to have a big dong and the lady finally gets the big dong you are gonna have to become a magician or a professional Dom that still needs to prove himself in other areas to get a chance to prove as a Dom that she the big doing she had wasn't her best. All I'm saying is, there's too much work that needs to be done which many may not even be able to get to the point of being her best. It's a lost cause, the relationship is dead. A man convincing himself that he is the best she has had is 10X the delusion of fat/ unattractive women when they say they are 10s.

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The comments about professional doms in the last 2 min are hilarious.

At the end of the day if you can really learn how to be great in that department it doesn't matter. I have FWB's who's husband's, boyfriend's, etc have huge members. I'm above average but not huge. Some of these guys are ridiculously big but their wives, gfs, whatever still go out if their way to come have sex with me on a regular basis. Like Sterling I've also grown mine and I'm a comfortable size but it's the skill that I bring that keeps them coming(pun intended) edited to add: NOT huge lol

The answer is not to date or marry non virgin women.

Stirling where’s your willpower u noob

Get to the point

Second

Why even bother with a girl who had ANY ex. Bigger or not. No hymen, no diamond.

First

Mines 7.5 x 5.25 and apparently to my ex im “puny”

what is dom?