Okay so basically the moral of the story don't change who you are change what people think of you because everyone is beautiful at any time in moment and you should look forward to the beauty that you behold not the beauty that others want to hold
Uhh no, the lesson here is to not care too much of what others think, that it. Don't be a narcissistic and try to change what other think of you either
Well it’s not wrong. Many years ago being larger was seen as beautiful because that means you have wealth or was hard working farmer with food. But now it’s about being hour glass or super skinny. Years ago it was the larger the women was the more beautiful she was
Yep. For a while, women were constantly getting filters to remove superficial things like freckles. Now they're getting filters to ADD freckles. The fashion industry as a whole is a sham anyway
Ok yea but 300KG is over 650 something lbs doesn’t matter how cute you think you are that’s not the issue at hand in no world is that going to be ok because it’s a health concern at 600lbs you’d be lucky to see 28…
It is. And also it’s a message that beauty is subjective. You could be ugly to one person but beautiful to another person. It’s all about perspective. For example: I find women with a caring and bubbly personality attractive and I don’t care about how much she weighs or any of that bullcrap. To me what’s attractive is authenticity and seeing you have a nice personality. I don’t want to date a bitch or be treated like 💩 😅
@@LeathermanSoftwash health doesn't equal beauty, health itself should be taken as a different matter people will not promote health but promote beauty and call it health that's the problem, no matter the weight I would consider it beauty but for health probably not , I would assume the best and give actual advice on geting better (unlike many people who associate beauty with this and think if they destroy self image of beauty someone will want to be healthier even tho many obese people suffer with eating disorders) so I think it's best if we don't associate beauty with health at all, don't risk health
@@call_me_Rbro didn’t say anything about health being on par with beauty and no one in their right mind ever does except the f@t exceptence movement saying things like “health in all sizes” just straight up fallacy
@@call_me_Rnobody is promoting health as beauty, every body builder I’ve ever talked to has only ever mentioned workout as being healthy and not beauty.🤦🏽♀️ Funny in no universe is working out and losing a few pounds as “destroying self image” and eating disorder is an excuse, yeh eating feels great but like smoking you can quit eating too much at any time💀
Moral of the story: Love your body for it and don’t change it to the beauty standards. The standards change so often making people hate themselves for not fitting in. Unless you want to change for yourself and not for standards, and make yourself suffer
Exactly don't change it because you think you're ugly change it because you're unhealthy and it's causing pain. Ryan and I am talking about the people that are way over. As a person that is too heavy set myself I am dealing with so many problems as I'm sure everyone within my amount is doing
People are gorgeous…. Perfectly flawed. Stop worrying about how you look to others, and worry about how you wanna feel for yourself. When I stoped worrying about how I looked and acted for others a lot of people stopped talking to me but I’ve never had more fun in my life than I’ve had with the people who have stayed. Stopped working out to bulk up and started working out for my job, I talk to people more and laugh at my own jokes. Eat what I want and do what I want… in reason. But I feel more alive than ever. Like the definition of living is to *live*
No one could've said that any better than you. My comment was gonna be similar but I'm glad you spoke the truth . More ppl need to hear it and live by it. 🎉❤ Thank you for such wonderful wisdom. ❤
All bodies are beautiful, but if ur unhealthily overweight or underweight that's a problem Edit: what im trying to say is beauty is subjective so theres at least 1 person who finds you attractive, therefore no one is “ugly” Edit 2: this is jst my opinion yall😭
@@ClaimingSera1010 it's more for clarification sake, as some people(especially these days) may look at this and think OP's message was a fact by some weird ass logic since you're saying toivoni4221's is an opinion.
@@ClaimingSera1010 All bodies are not beautiful. The definition of beautiful is “possessing qualities that give pleasure to the senses or mind” which is something subjective therefore it’s impossible to say that all bodies are beautiful. You can’t just always say “it’s your opinion” on a topic where clearly theres a right and wrong and u happen to be wrong.
Honestly, society sucks. And we know this. As a big girl all my life, you're told horrendous things even by parents, and it affects you even in adulthood. But once you find your footing in life and what you love, it doesn't matter. But never forget to take care of yourself in the meantime. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. If you're skinny, people assume you're on something or have an eating disorder. If you're fat, people assume you're lazy and unwilling to change. We don't know everyone's story. But of course people still judge and we can't change that. But, i learned that after so many years of dealing with body dysmorphic disorder, I'm literally not here to impress people or gain approval. As long as I'm doing good and looking after myself, I'm doing OK. It's ok to not look like everyone else. It's ok to self express. Never forget that you're worthy ❤
@@justjamesAMX But then what if I say that I agree with op and I also assume extremely malnourished people and extremely obese people can both become ill due to their weight? By your own words that would also invalidate your statement will it not?
Look I've been called ugly my entire life, did think about plastic surgery a lot when I was in school but decided against it as failure is a possibility. So I accepted that I was ugly, I didn't blame my parents I just drew the short straw in genetics since my parents and siblings are beautiful. I was jealous but never resentful because I learned that even beautiful people have problems, problems I excel at, I have more talent and skills than everyone in my family combined. I may never find someone to love me and my looks but at least I know business and how to fix every electronic around. Not to mention I'm also the most physically strong too, though it's a bit of a low since this only involves my family but I want to be proud of who I am since I'm ashamed of how I look.
Чувак, ты не имеешь право называть себя уродливым, только если ты не запойный алкоголик, чье лицо раздуто как у утопленника. В любом другом случае, ты являешься просто прекрасным референсом✨
@@КрошкаСорока А кто ТЫ такой, чтобы отбирать право у другого человека считать себя уродом? Ты этого человека в лицо не видел, чтобы судить о его внешности. Если бы все люди мира были одинаково красивы, то стандарты красоты не существовали бы.
i can’t find it either, not even under the title kannenbach gave. if anyone knows the source, i’d really appreciate it. i wish videos like this were better about telling viewers where to find the content they’re discussing.
Moral of the story is don’t change yourself to impress others. God made you in His image. You’re beautiful jusssst the way you are. Big,skinny,tall,short,white,black,Hispanic,Asian,etc. you’re beautiful.
Why can’t we accept that people can be beautiful no matter what? It’s a matter of perspective. You can have your own preferences but that shouldn’t be based on trends or what others perceive as beautiful. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Also, this artist did such an incredible job on these gorgeous drawings.
I remember how I once found your though you're Venti video where we were in the cathedral with him and throughout these years you gotten even better with his voice and personality! And of course this one is also great Luna ❤
Lost 10 lbs when I started working. I'm still not in the best shape, but I don't sweat as crazy and temperature seems to be stable. Plus it would be nice to tie my shoes without struggling lol.
Basically the way I take from this story is no matter who you are you are beautiful and also the story does connect to me in a peculiar kind of way if I would have known back around 10th grade 2008 of how much weight I would have gained and me not being very confident in myself and having issues because of how my adopted parents raised me more like my adopted mother and biological great aunt I wouldn't have become obese and I wouldn't have had issues with my health I've had to realize that I'm beautiful how I am but I also tried to eat right try to get enough exercise even if that means just walking around the apartment my point is I try but I'm still trying to lose weight for me it's a reminder the story of that gaining weight just because someone more like because it's a trend to be heavy set and then to be skinny that means that you need to do what's right for you if you're happier skinny then being heavy set then do everything you can to achieve your goal my advice is to be careful about what you eat the reason why I became obese is because of not just drugs messing with my body and causing me to gain weight but also stress and the hormone known as cortisol and my own peculiar things that happened when I was younger that exacerbated me gaining weight and is a part of the reason why I'm still trying to lose weight life gets kind of chaotic and stuff happens life happens do what makes you happy if you're happy and not miserable being skinny but not being anorexic another words looking like a skeleton and the polar opposite as well if you were heavily obese not just like 200 or 300 lbs but worse that's also not good I can tell you from the things that cause me to gain weight that the bones between my feet the cartilage and my knees and basically between every bone the cartilage in between throughout my body even up into my neck going from my feet all the way to my neck and where it connects to my head I have to deal with the fact that my body makes all kinds of peculiar noises when enough of a certain thing I think it's hydrogen but it might be something else that starts the h anyways I know that the word that I'm looking for starts with the h basically if you've ever popped your knuckles is what I'm trying to say my feet all the way up to where my neck and head connect basically because I gained weight and my body doesn't like it and especially gravity doesn't help either has caused a whole lot of health issues as well my advice for everyone is to love your body to love and respect yourself life gets kind of crazy life gets kind of chaotic but still you need to be able to take care of yourself basically what would be considered self-care and self-love also another thing some people have to be reminded even when they're having a pretty bad day that they are beautiful you don't have to gain weight just to have someone love you do what's best for you and what empowers and inspires you be yourself and not change just because of a trend or someone else saying that you should look a certain kind of way don't get me wrong I know everything's getting super expensive which does tend to complicate things just know that because it's towards the end of the month and paycheck hasn't come in yet that a lot of people are like you or they're just barely have enough money to do anything with inflation that makes everything a lot worse my dad has a lot more money left in the bank than I do so for now I have to wait until the next month to have money to do stuff and buy groceries and things anywho like everybody else I'm just trying to get by any who y'all have a blessed day❤.
u really just have to accept yourself and ur own unique beauty. the standards are CONSTANTLY changing- if u spend ur whole life trying to keep up with them, you’ll never be happy with yourself. there will always be something u feel like u have to change
I remember when I first went to Africa and met my Neices I told them at the ages of 9 and 10 that in Africa to be big is wealth but in America to be thin is wealth and to this day they listened to me and have enjoyed a good life
Even if there is a trend of beauty and people make fun of you don’t mean that you have to change your self because good made you beautiful the way you are
Thus is the cycle of beauty trends, unfortunately. Just love yourself bro. Don't focus on the trends, focus on whats healthy for you and what makes you happy
moral is that dont try to fit beauty standards because they change so much that you never will / you will some day fit them too because of how much it changes. this is also a true story technically because a long time ago being fat was beautiful and everyone is beautiful in their own way no matter their body really
Just be healthy, don’t follow those beauty trends/ standards, they would never last, the only thing that last for you is your own health, mental and physical
Fr. Beauty trend, be changing left and right so if you don’t have a positive opinion about yourself, you will never be happy and they will always be people who hate you and people are more likely to hate those who don’t have a good opinion of themselves because people can pick up on that and take advantage of that.
Makes sense. Moral of the story: Don't keep up with the trends guys. You are beautiful the way you are. For the record, i for one, like red heads and frekles. Even heterocromia is cute. So don't lose hope, someone would find you attractive for sure.
This is just me talking but I used to want to change to things that society appeals to, but rather as time passed I realized that wasn’t a good thing to strive for. So instead of seeking for human satisfaction why not seek for a greater satisfaction from God? Once I started to pursue that my heart, body and soul became more at peace
Love your body and always be yourself instead of changing yourself to match beauty standards because its probably likely that you are gorgeous in another state or country. ❤
Honestly, teaching us to not follow beauty trends cuz it’s not healthy and unreachable at this point. Just do what is healthy for your body and what is authentically you because in the end if we don’t customize our shell before we kick the bucket, we won’t get another chance in said shell
Lol so true... just be yourself and love yourself. Being envious or jealous of other people is so counterproductive.... find your own beauty and embrace it!!!! Men prefer women who love themselves .. low self esteem.is a turn off. Just be healthy and take care of your hair skin and nails and be nice! That is the key