Don Trip saved my life with this song. can't count how many times I took the trigger from my dome after listening to this song. She took my boy from me. Spent thousands of dollars till I went broke. Depression set in deep. not to mention already had my previous wife die by my side @ 3 months pregnant but I fought and lived through that too! Finally worked past nearly being homeless and losing my job. found strength and after a year not seeing my son I won. now I see him every other weekend. thanks Don Trip
I'm SORRY you had to deal with all of that. Some people TRULY ARE just HEARTLESS and ALL they CARE ABOUT is either BEING RIGHT or else DOING WHATEVER THEY CAN to make us LOOK as AWFUL as POSSIBLE. My ex is EXTREMELY NARCISSISTIC and just NATURALLY a HITLER CLONE at heart and thinks he can do NOTHING WRONG.....and when he DOES DO SOMETHING WRONG....there's NO WAY IN HELL he'll EVER APOLOGIZE for it because with NARCISSISTS....they're just CONVINCED that they WEREN'T WRONG and NEVER WILL BE. Co-parenting with a narcissist is probably the BIGGEST NIGHTMARE and CHALLENGE I have EVER had to face in MY LIFE and I don't WISH for ANYONE ELSE to ever have to deal with it. ONE DAY though our kids WILL be ADULTS and IF by SOME MIRACLE of a CHANCE the OTHER PARENT hasn't COMPLETELY BRAINWASHED THEM....they WILL eventually come to KNOW the TRUTH....so HANG IN THERE....it's NOT just the MEN that get pounded in the ass by the courts and the legal system as I'M LIVING PROOF it even happens to GOOD PEOPLE.
Bro I know I'm seeing this late but the resilience in you is inspiring I know what it feels like for the existence of a kid to keep one from killing themself. Be blessed and stay up
on folk's I was just zoning out but I seen this comment and can't be live how true it is. Men gotta stand strong even though the court system believe women more often. STAY STRONG ALL THE HOMIES FIGHTING. I PRAY U STAND TALL
Man. I got a 32 year old daughter that i just started building a relationship with. My first born. She came to find me after she found out the truth. How I fought for her and her Mom alienated me from her. This the best time in my life building a new future with my Babygirl. There is still hope fellas... Im just glad I lived to see these new days with her and my Son.
Same when I'm wit my Mama my Pops listen to this song it's like a anthem to him he will play it on repeat for hours and hours on end thanks for letting me share YOU KNOW!!!!!
me!! I used to have this song downloaded on my phone and played it every day. Lost all my music files and haven't heard it untill just now, I still love this song.
Thank you Don Trip for making myself and these other fathers not feel alone.. Speaking for myself, this song makes me tear up! God has our backs fathers.. It's not over.. It's not done!! Never give up fellas
This brings tears to my eyes what I put my son’s father through. I took time away from them. Luckily now we moved forward and are best of friends all step parents too! Still never sits right with me what I did to them!
Glad to see a women finally taking accountability,,,, this always goes on and it's a ending cycle,,,, but just have to say thank you for your bravery to stand up and thank you again,,, another father from the internet that can relate.... peace
Appreciate the honesty...I dont know how my son's mom sleep at night causing her own child to be alienated from his father. Her Selfishness even towards her son is amazing. he is innocent. Karma!
@@jonathanlyman5705 my son's mom lost him to the state and so I fought for his custody. I had to do everything that they were making her do. She showed no interest in the case and didn't fight. They make you do classes and all kinds of shit I had to do outpatient rehab too because she was on drugs when she lost our son.
@@jonathanlyman5705 they did but you do have to prove that you're stable and have to pass drug test and hair follicles and cannot drink if you're underage of course
This song right here.... This song. Don Trip, you will forever be the greatest rap artist to me. The greatest. After 8 long years, I finally have my son, who I'm raising without his mom, because he chose to be with me. Not the courts choosing, not his mom choosing, but because HE chose. Keep being powerful.
I love this song. My son daddy is barely ever in his life & the fact that women who has great men as the father of their children keep them away is ignorant. I always tell my son daddy that no matter what we go through or who we date you are welcome to see your son. He has nothing to do with our feud. Women fail to realize not only are you hurting the father but the kids as well
It basically pushes the father further away & causes resentment towards the mother. Like killing someone who's already dying, it's better to allow the child to see for themselves if the absentee parent is deserving of such access. Personally I find it utterly disgusting to play house until the moment of conception, 9 months later a baby is born then all of a sudden the same bundle of joy is in the middle of the "adults'" sadistic game of control 😠... GET IT TOGETHER!!!
You can see the pain in Trip face 😢 so much pain that I feel it. We gotta do better ladies. Because if the shoe was on the other foot and they didn't want nothing to do with the baby then you'll be crying... Praying for the real men who actually want to be father's in the child(s) life🙏🏾
this song breaks my heart.. no matter what my sons and i father ever went thru, ill always allow him to see our son because i know what it’s like to grow up without a father. people go thru things just like they grow thru things. fathers keep your head up‼️❤️
+Hoody Man All the best, homie. The road ahead is littered with cracks and craters, but is no match for the resiliency of the human spirit. Stay strong, and congratulations on being clean.
I'm eleven and live with my mom and I can't see my dad only once a year and she won't give me a phone to talk to him on I'm writing this on my tablet crying I love my dad so soo much
I delt with this. Missed my son's 1st everything. Had him young, I was still in the streets. All I gotta say is keep fighting for what's urs! I stayed at my BM with constant pressure. It took 4-5 yrs of court and arguing, but I got my son 50-50. It was all worth it in the end.
iroc King my son is 1 year 8 months old, I’ve seen him for maybe 15 hours in total since he’s been born, she won’t let me see him at all, is there anything I can do? She refused me on the birth certificate too, so as of now I have as much rights as a stranger in the street. Also I’m not wealthy enough to go through court proceedings. I am really stuck! Someone please, any advice will be much appreciated! Thank you in advance
+Scott Batton First homie u need to get a DNA test if you get it it will look better in court. If you are the father from there get a lawyer or go to local court house with proof see what steps to take next.
Years later I still listen to this..I went from being with the mother of my daughter,to losing my daughter completely with no communication out of pettiness.....And now she just turned 5 in December..2 years ago I won residential..couple months ago I won full complete custody. I listen to this song to remind me the journey I took to be where I am right now. It was not easy. But in the end I got my Aurora and mother isnt even in her life....who wouldve known. Stay strong fathers..
This is song is poetically beautiful...its nice to hear a man love his children past the bs and still want to be there! Unfortunately some women are like this..smh!
Dam this came out 12yrs ago?, I used to play this song HEAVY when I was going threw some BS with my son mom 12yrs ago where I wasn't able to see my son. Now in 2024 I'm 33yrs old my son will be 12yrs old this year ( i get to see him a lot now ) But dam life's a trip and it will fly by quick ⏳⌛
Who's still here. (2020) This song is so real, I haven't been able to see my son except for maybe twice last year and baby momma is still refusing to let me see my son. I've been trying to reach out to contact lawyers but ain't got the funds to pay out. It's so unreal and I feel like everything around me I'm letting down because all I really ever want to be able to see my son and be able to have the chance to help raise my son to be the man he needs to be. I've tried to commit suicide more than a couple times but I also realized of how unfair that is for him for him not to know who his father is. I'm hoping and praying that either I can continue to save up for a lawyer or he will find his father one day.
I work so hard to see my son his mom fights with me all the time. I work and give her child support plus more. But I ok only get my son for a couple days weeks apart.. I cry every single night knowing my man isn't with me. Making memories and telling me he wants to be like me. Shit hurts when you have a bitter baby momma that keeps the only reason you haven't took off your cap from you. Stay strong dads we finna be alright. Stay up make sure your kinds crowns are held high through this.
Ay my homie in highschool and got a girl pregnant she blaming him for her dropping out s school she said she was gone abort so my nigga slapped the bih she got a restraining order on hima but she had his son but wont let him see him rest up king it finn be better youll be wit yo little man soon🙏
back when i found this song, i hadn't met my ex yet. years later i come to listen and read the comments for therapy. for everyone with bm troubles i hope you find comfort in this song.
I feel ya on dat one mama! Keep ya head up! Love dis song and only wish half the babies I knew had fathers like DON TRIP spitin bout they kids. These deadbeats out here don't give a fuck bout they seeds, muchless fight for um!! #SALUTE #SUPPORT #BQ
AMEN! funny thing is only reason I ever came across this song is b/c my dead beat baby father posted it on his fb. If only his "friends" really knew. His family most definitely does! His entire family always sides with me because they know how he is!
@@BlackSuan_513 your comment is dumb, if you write like this then i can only imagine how you talk. So many women have had their kids taken away from them for stupid reasons like picking them up late for school, no second chances at all. So again i ask, if SHE was the deadbeat then why was HE the one that lost him?
@@akiabowens5395 like i said, yo comment dumb. You throwing a hypothetical in for what?? Just to challenge his comment (his truth) so you can be protective of woman. your typical. Why do you think he has to detail you on how she was a deadbeat. he spoke his truth. You should shut up, looking crazy.
I LOVE THIS SONG ITS SO REAL. I want to say to all the fathers don’t give up don’t stop doing what I got to do to see ur kids. I went through hell. But I hung in there and he’s 19 in college doing well. I’m off child support. Know know matter what my son loves me and he knows he can call me for anything and I’m right there. It’s never to late to stray a relationship with ur kids. GOD BLESS!!!!!
I'm a mom fighting for custody over my kids and I felt every bit of this from the dads side. Got some bitter baby daddys that's don't understand how trying to make a way for your kids is the real love
“Cuz I don’t love her like I used to, so to get back at me she know she gotta use you” I felt that, my BM was doing anything and everything to keep my daughter from me. I wasn’t lettin that happen.
This song got me threw the toughest 6months of my life when I was waiting on the courts to grant me visitation with my daughter and son and I felt every word of this song down to the bone
Man as a baby momma yall stories break my heart😢 but then u have the fathers who just walk away from their children because the mother dont want to be with them but willing to give them n their family all access 24/7 to their babies n they pay pennies for support if anything n the courts do nothing! But yall wanna be apart of ur babies lives n the courts fkd n fkn over yall men who wanna be good fathers! I just wanna thank yall for trying n not giving up on yall children no matter their ages!!😢❤
Jerrell Harris mad respect man. I'm sorry. i had a similar situation but it was obviously a gay relationship. raised him as my own for 5 years, we broke up, never got a call, blocked online, letters returned. 3 years later, I still cry. hope it works out man.
I love this song when I first heard it. Just cuz it was dope and from the heart. But now that I'm going through some shit why can't even see my own son... I feel you Don. I don't wish this pain on nobody.
I swear if a father hasn’t heard this song it really speaks about what we have to deal with and go through a lot with these women just to see our children cause they bitter or being petty it’s a shame
My niece was taken from my brother after her mother said she didn’t want her. Even with notarized documents she kept her, after only agreeing to do Thanksgiving with her! She saw his name on her birth certificate at school and asked who was that? She found her dad!!!! Aye man keep hope fellas! I been in ongoing battles with my daughter’s mom! Stay strong. Keep hope! Better days are ahead 🤲🏽
Ima baby mama...no matter what WAR me n dad go or have gone through....our childs mental health and stability is priority. I dont care who you are, when you have children certain things have to see growth so your seeds can GROW. 💪 Sorry for any fathers going throu this, remain that father they knew and let them be the ones having to answer for it on judgment day
I'm going through the same issues as we speak! I did everything & more 4 my lil man. She won't let me see or talk 2 him & it's been a yr now. It's sad i have 2 go through the courts just 2 see my son!!! #Classic #MOE #HOPE #WeStillOutChere
I could never imagine keeping my son from his father. Me n him may not get along but I’ll never make my son hurt just to get back at him for anything. I don’t even ask for child support cause I know he will help when he can
Haven't seen my son or daughter since like 2014 gonna be 10yrs this August and I am not going to give up hope they try finding me in the future 😕 😔 🙏💯💯💯
Some people secretly see things from the perspective of their being a lot of money and power to be made from other's desires to be righteous or decent human... but Those who are guilty will pay. Most importantly thank you for sharing your gift to help other's Mr. Don Trip. I been needing this song brotha! Thank you.
Sabrina Calvente I pray that every man and woman going through this gets to see their child including myself this really hurts I pray for all of us I try to keep my head up as a man buts it hard just keep me in your prayers and keep your heads up
Going through the exact same thing as Don trip, just with my baby girl Skylet! Her nickname for me haves always been daddy baby and I just want her to know that even tho her mom keeps me for her daddy haves never gave up on her and never will, I will always be here for you and am fighting for you to this day just know daddy got you and got people looking out for your safety and I will always be just 1 call away, But the most hurtful thing is my BM BF puts his hands on her and the system will do nothing about it and tells me if I take matters in my own hands I'll never see her or have her in my life just don't know what to do but to keep trying and fighting for her and her safety just hopes it works out before its to late!!!
The song got me through some of the craziest days I've ever experienced as a black male in America who grew up searching for "a Father's Love" and the concept that drives certain men to love their creation to lead and guide their creation and to ultimately be a man. During the stages that I was forced to get custody of my daughter do to her mother's drug use I had set out on a mission define myself and defy all the opposition. This song gave me life....and I love how I'm loving it
I don't know how this song made it to my phone , but I'm listening on a loop all teary eye . Funny thing is I live with my kids , but I guess I feel y'all pain . Just the idea that maybe one day I could be that guy ........
i feel you have been fighting for the past 11 years for my kids and only get 3 hours a week with them but it will all work out in the end they know daddy love them
killa cam these courthouse make the most fucked up laws for the woman…the guys get screwed on that… it all about the bitches….never the father that wants nothing else but to be there for their son or daughters…..fuck these man made laws….and fuck them skanks that put us good guys through this shit…like he said it hurts the kids even more….
Today's a fathers worth is treated like a curse, We're distracted and tossed up in da dirt, Screwed by a system that ain't never work, Cause in the end it's the kids that are hurt. That's a preview to my single, FTK, aka for the kids
@@steveward798 stay strong have you looked into your local resources I'm Minneapolis we have something called The Father's project is there anything like that in your area
Are there more rap songs like this? There are many songs about men being abusive to women, and it's a real issue, but there are so many relationship when the women is actually the one who abuse the man, but it rarely mentioned anywhere
My Dad told me he cried whenever he hears this song been with him for a few years and dont reget it one bit, mom went crazy on me now we play this everytime we in the car, cant imagine a world without him, he aint the best but he trying, he didn't have a father figure growing up, gotta say could ask for a better dad ❤❤❤
