Speak Holy Spirit. I just removed a gentleman out of my life today for that very thing. All he wanted to do was talk on the phone and text every now and again and act like he was making plans for us to eventually get together but it never happened. I came to myself and realized what he was doing, and I had to let him go.
@@anitragilmore3239 ghosting is the best revenge in my experience. I cut him off when his behavior patterns started to change. It was like a weight lifted off my shoulders I felt good. He only wanted to text. After six months I stopped and ghosted him and he then calls out of the blue from a different number saying he was going to take me on a date. He thought I would start texting again but I never did. One day he sees me out at the store looking very nice in my nice car and he wants to talk and make plans to go out. I get a phone call and he heard the voice say that said my plane was waiting for me at the airport and pilot was ready now. He got excited and asked if he could go. I told him if he was interested he would’ve called and made plans to spend time with me in person but he never did he only wanted to text so he missed his opportunity. I wished him the best and gave him my business card and said if him and his girlfriend want to use our services we would be happy to assist them and said I have to go. He stood there looking shocked
Bishop, you, Lady Blake and Tony Gaskin helped me through my "layaway" time. I walked away and into the arms of my loving man. My dad passed away. Thank you ❤
Oh, yes! Layaway. I too remember that from childhood. And admittedly, as a younger woman I’d allow men to put me in their back pocket(place me on layaway) hoping they would someday get me out. Sad but true. Praise God for growth.🙏🏾
Happened to me recently. This guy had me on layaway on and off. We met last year. He finally “threw in the towel” with me 2 weeks ago because he realized I wasn’t going to put out unless he would take me out on proper DATES, IN PUBLIC. These incels are really despicable.
Wow! This video should be heard by every young lady who wants to start to date. Even the older women who are just dating men without going anywhere in the relationship. Stop allowing ourselves to become a layaway item. To Know thyself is to know thy worth. Thanks pastor. Passing to every young lady I know. ❤
Amen Pastor! This is good teaching! I will not allow a person to put me on layaway again. I value my self-worth and love myself way too much. I value my heart and my soul🙌🏽🙌🏽
I remember those layaway days. It was good for those of us who didn't have all the money upfront. We made payments on it. If you didn't have it paid in full by a certain day, you lost your items. Even layaway has a boundary and a cut off date ladies.😅 Not a 2-3-10 year holding time. I love how he compared this to relationships. Great topic.
Thank you, Bishop for talking about this topic! It needed to be said. I've been talking to GOD about this topic every since I heard the opinion of what my kingdom husband prefers/likes. I've had 3 kids, two pregnacies. I'm 80lbs away from my weight goal. I've done it all by myself. My beauty is inside. I look at my body and I like it. If someone else doesn't like it then that's an internal issue with themselves. I'm loving me inside and out. ALL PRAISE TO THE LORD GOD ALL POWERFUL IN THE MIGHTY LORD JESUS CHRIST.🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️🌟
I Thank God For You Pastor Blakes Because of you I have so much Wisdom. Oh my Goodness every since I purchased your book Queenology nobody can ever run a game on me. I’m blunt I ask questions I’m aware of the games men play. Oh My Goodness I Thank God for you. I watch your Videos everyday. Thank you again for everything! God has given me Discernment so nobody can whip a game on me. Thank you! Thank you ! I Wished I Had met you 40 years ago! Lol 😂 But it’s never too late for Wisdom 😂❤😂
I follow brother and I agree we as women, Queens we should no longer allow ourselves to be held hostage like that we deserve it If a man isn’t ready to pay full price wait, go get ready and come back and get her.
For whatever reason, the video cut off. I too am from NOLA, however, the point I believe he was about to make; was clearly understood. And as we are, well put. 💋❤️😘
I loved layaway. I could get all of my shopping done at once and then pay it off, interest free, in installments. Not so good when it comes to relationships, though. Thank you 🙏🏻
Inspired by Pastor R.C. Blakes Poem: Layaway Remember the days of layaway... When you got to put things aside and slowly pay? Tell the clerk, "Can you put this aside?" Perhaps some cool duds to look fly in when you were going for a ride. You drop a small down payment just to hold it back. Then you go in once a week or two and put a little more down to keep it off the rack. Now, the good thing about layaway is that you knew that it was yours. As long as you paid on it, they would keep it out of the store. No one else could get it or buy it off the rack because that one right there, you paid to hold it back. As soon as you paid it off, it was really yours. You could take it home and sport it, this thing that you adore. Now, you could change your mind and tell them you didn't want it anymore. Typically, it would just go back out to the store. But did it lose its value while it was put aside? Would someone else come buy it and wear it with pride? Would they be proud to wear it out for all the world to see? Sometimes, I feel like layaway. Is this Layaway me? DROD 5/11/23
"...I won't get caught up. We won't be the way I thought we could be because, girl, I now see how you are. Nothing comes for free, baby. I gotta pay your fee... I gotta put your love on layaway to make you stay. I can't afford your love. " Song: Layaway, Artist: Jon B feat. AZ
They put you on layaway just in case some one else comes along so they can cancel the layaway and get money back it’s like you were just on hold just in case they find something new in that time frame
