It may be common in that part of America. It is not a reason for cheating, just because she tells him she had cheated. Sounds like the town bike. Nasty.
In the first case it’s a toxic relationship but she can’t blame him for the doubt of paternity. If he was so dreadful why sleep with him and make a baby. Nobody seems to have heard of contraceptives
@@audrey7009 A contraceptive prevents a woman from getting pregnant. It can be in pill form or most of the time it is in pill form. If you have heard of plan B and ECT, that's a contraceptive.
The first case- She said he gotta stop calling her a Cheater and a Liar but she told the judge she cheated and she lied...... sounds to me he's calling it how it is🤷🏿♀️
Then she shouldn't have married him. She wasn't forced into it. Also, it is very possible from the area of the country they are from it was a chance to lift her out of poverty and give her a chance. It is not the same world you are from.
Mini rant (I am early in the vid) - I am tired of many of us thinking skin tone have to match. Also, some dudes think their kids have to be spitting images! 😂
the first case: the woman really should stop playing the victim here🙄, the real victim here is her children not her, and the way she repeatedly saying he verbally abuse her by saying “she a cheater” or “she a liar” ( we don’t know what other word he says because she just repeats those two)honey that’s not abuse that call the truth if you don’t like it than STOP DOING IT. but he should stop saying those things to her in front of the children in my opinion
He has every right to leave her and just coparent with her. If you stay with a cheater that’s on you. It sounds like he just likes having something to hold against her so he has a verbal punching bag.
She said she made a bad choice and she changed. That was an amazing statement. I pray for her strength and continual growth. It takes alot to admit what she did.
I don't feel sorry for none of them. Case 1: she's a cheater and trying to play the victim. Both of them can leave each other alone, it's not on one person to stop coming around, you can make the choice to not let that person in. He's trash for being verbally abusive. She's a cheater, but you keep putting yourself in a situation to be hurt and upset. Case 2: smh
Also they BOTH cheated is a messy messy relationship he showed he's capable of abusing her verbally yet they stay together, those poor kids are going to suffer
I agree. And it's annoying when the judge says it's a mistake. It's NOT. It's a conscious decision to lay on your back and cheat and way worse when you're decision results in not knowing who your child's father is.
But waitttttt… although I don’t agree with the guy being verbally abusive AT ALL!!!! SISSSSSSS! If you busting that thing wide open for someone other than your man…that makes you a CHEATER CHEATER PUMPKIN EATER!!!!! I’m sorry to make a joke about something so serious, because it’s not funny …it’s just crazy how ppl want automatic forgiveness/understanding when they’ve actually done what they’re being accused of. Why judge had to be all dramatic with the chambers reveal… I’m weak😫😫😫 you knew he was his…the whole chamber pull was just so extra lol I wish them the best.
At some point as a man you either have to leave or get over it. If you choose to stay, it’s on you to forgive. Emotionally abusing a woman in front of her children is not acceptable. Nobody is stopping him from leaving the relationship and just being a coparent with her.
In the first case: The name calling must stop now that the truth has come out, but she IS still a cheater and a liar. She needs to be patient with him and never cheat against. And she needs to give him time to heal and regain trust.
Although she did cheat, the judge said he cheated too. Also, to choose to stay in that relationship and verbally abuse the mother of your children in front of the children is ridiculous. They should definitely break up cuz it'd not going to stop any time soon and no child should have to witness that happening to their mother.
@@l.austin2371 they both have the baby lol. Those children are both of theirs. They're going to have to learn to cooperate in front of their children cuz it's not good for a child to grow up in that dysfunctional environment.
He's a fool for still dealing with her knowing she cheated multiple times. Would she have confessed had she not become pregnant? He's a good dude for wanting to be there for children he suspects aren't his but at the same time, he cant keep beating the mother up with harmful words because he can't forgive her. He should just leave her but be there for the children.
Yea he should but depending in the state they were in, it was probably legal. I just hope when that girl turns 16 and she has her friends around he don't look at them or her some type of way. I fear for their daughter.
She can't blame him for being doubtful, but at the same time he's not supposed to keep baggering her with her past, if he wants her to be a queen he have to treat her like a queen, turn her into the good mother and wife that you want her to be
Second case I think they've made an error on the ages I think the woman is 41 years old and the man 51 years old I hope they've made a mistake because if it's their real names, they look very old for their ages
1st case : Just because you are honest and transparent about your transgression, does not mean the person will automatically start respecting you for the honesty and get over your betrayals. It takes courage to be honest, granted but it does take more to forgive. Just because you have told the truth about you cheating doesn't mean that the person will be able to get over it right away. There will be reactions, some times for a day or two and sometimes it continues. The man you have lied to and cheated to, needs time to get the hurt and betrayal out of his system. The rage continues until that happens. Some relationships get past this time and some dont
In the first case... you can see a good example of a woman gaslighting her husband... you will see how despite the fact that her infidelity and dishonesty is the reason they're in court... she still speaks as if she is the victim... somehow, him stepping up to be a father to a child he isn't sure is his... is a bad if he doesn't continue to be the father after finding out it isn't his. She cheats, but he is supposed to be wrong for being mad about it... How she feels is the only thing that matters in her world... it was disgusting to watch, honestly... and the judge just allows it to happen. 🤦🏿♂️
She gave him a very clear out. He doesn’t have to stay with her. He chooses to. It is unacceptable to verbally abuse a woman in front of her children. That’s why he’s being vilified. He has every right to walk away and peacefully coparent. Instead he uses her as his verbal punching bag and keeps making babies with her.
2nd episode he should left her ALONE.. But NOOOOO!! you wanna take her back each time.. You can't change someone who you want them to be .. That has to be the other person who wants to or not.. And looks like she was upfront about it.. And still staying the same person she's been before
So that second case: there's a 10 year age gap. They got married when she was 16....... We're just gonna gloss over a man in his 20's pursuing a MINOR????
10 yrs which would've made him 26. He had no business marrying a 16 yr old. Just trifling. Then you expect this 16 yr old to be a mature woman. Like what did you expect?
The problem in the first case is he doesn’t want to be with her anymore, but he doesn’t want her to put him on child support either if it happens to be his soul right now, he’s playing a role in order to save his money
Second case - It’s pretty obvious that she is charging for services in the car outside, next door etc. probably to support her ‘habit’. She doesn’t look healthy.
I feel absolutely nothing for the older guy in the 2nd case, he deserves everything she did to him & will do to him in the future for the simple act of embracing her at the end !!! 👀🤨😝
To Mr. Ramirez you are teaching that little girl that it’s ok to be abused by a man when he’s mad. Also, teaching the little boy to be verbally abusive to little girls. This is how hateful angry men are started. Kids are taught to be disrespectful. Than trying to justify yourself for being verbally abusive towards her, smh.
1st case... Her "He calls me names in front of my daughter, It's hurtful." Him "it's hurtful a but it's your fault though. " Wow... this guy is something else. Verbally abusing this woman in front of a child, knowing it's hurtful?
I wish the judge would start addressing these ages.. you, at 26 married a 16 year old I saw a previous case where the girl had her baby at 16 but was pregnant at 15 and that guy was also like 10 years older than her.. so he was 25 messing with a 15 year old.. and the judge did not even mention their ages
1st case she wants to save her relationship yet she talks like she dosent care, she's still a cheater and a liar, and he does too, the difference is she can get pregnant there is something called birth control!!!
She can only get pregnant once. He can get 50 women pregnant all at once. Either way they can both bring babies into this world. Cheating is never okay whether it's the man doing it or the woman.
The guy keeps saying she cheated. She said he leaves, break up. She was dating the other man then he keeps coming back. That's not cheating. He leaves so he can be with other women. She has a right to date when they break up. It's not cheating. When you're my age if a man plays that game once you don't let him back because no woman needs a man. She needs some self worth and pride. He's verbally abusive. Manipulative to her.
first case the man is 24 and been in relation with his women for 10 years ??? cmon give me a break .OMG the look on his face @ 10.12 is so scary ,I will runaway from him
That first couple needs to separate asap. Love doesn’t lie, cheat, or hurt you. That man has an evil streak in him. No matter how mad you get, when the respect is gone and you are comfortable tearing each other down, it’s over and done. Walk away!
First case.. the mom is sooo woe is me. You can tell she’s trying to make the dad look as bad as possible. Anytime he got any sympathy she’d immediately talk about all the “hurt” he caused her and used all these trigger terms. Now I’m not saying he’s perfect but he does seems like he means well and is hurt by all of this. And the fact that she kept telling him he needs to leave if he’s unhappy…. That works both ways. Clearly she’s unhappy so why doesn’t she leave. You can be good (sometimes better) parents if you split up and focus solely on the kids instead of toxicness that you’re bringing into these young babies life just trying to make each other miserable
And the first case she trying to Guilt Trip him into staying with that baby cuz he was there for 9 months if the baby's not his I hope he walks away too bad for the kid but you did that to your child by playing games and sleeping around
if you don't want to be with me , don't be with me ....... I like this ....... the first case man is someone who is very greed and wants to get love , respect , family and a home but gives nothing just verbally abusive and ego behaviors .
The woman(Brittany) from the first case is so deeply sad. I feel really awful for her. I hope she finds happiness for herself and her kids! Ditch the verbally abusive man! You can and will do better, I truly believe it.
@@jacobaustin3562 They were separated when she slept with someone else. He's nothing but an abusive, manipulating, gaslighting, self-righteous prik! He couldn't even control himself in the courtroom.
@@jacobaustin3562 Didn’t he also admit to cheating though-??? I mean like cheating has nothing to do with the fact he’s verbally abusing her. I mean him calling her a cheater is obviously true, but that is not an excuse for the OTHER things he says that counts as verbal abuse . Let me remind you of the fact that she is human and has feelings… it obviously hurts her when someone she’s been with for years is calling her all these names… and I’m sure that’s true for many people if they did cheat or even if they didn’t! It still counts as verbal abuse no matter the reason.
Wow the husband takes wife to court re- infidelity, suddenly the husband is placed on trial as the villan, what a world we live in, where adultery and infidelity is applauded, what a tangled wed we weaved.
Sometimes you watch these shows and ask yourself “how dumb can he/she be?” That was my first thought. But as I watched and listened, what comes to mind is that for whatever reason, Mr. Simpson continues to put up with Ms. Davis’s shenanigans because he loves her and love doesn’t always make sense. I also believe her looks played a big part in his desire from the beginning-it happens with men and women. I hope Ms. Davis wakes up and realizes she has a good man because all she has to show for herself is a string of men who didn’t want anything permanent, pretty face notwithstanding.
She out in the car with other men, but thinks he shouldn't be jealous. Please. She is completely dishonoring him by doing that. And honestly I think she is just needling him and pushing his buttons.
