Dr. Daniel Amen's 6 Family Rules to Raise Happy, Well-Behaved Kids

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Kids (and families) needs boundaries. But it's often difficult to draw lines between acceptable and unacceptable behavior. Then there's the dilemma of how to police or discipline children when they act poorly, which can further complicate things. In this clip, taken from Dr. Daniel Amen's television special "Raising Mentally Strong Kids", Dr. Amen's gives his 6 family rules, which if incorporated in your family, can radically change the family dynamic and encourage good behavior and strong relationships.
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@jennylhenry78 2 месяца назад

Family Rules 1. Tell thr truth 2. Treat others with respect 3. Obey what your parents say right away 4. Put things away that you take out 5. Ask permission 6. Dony make a problem

@AmenClinic 2 месяца назад

Nice

@j11k22 Месяц назад

Yea Dony. Be nice

@Haveuseenmyjetpack Месяц назад

I do not see how this advice will get a child to do it the 1st time asked! 😂

@towkukus Месяц назад

6. Don't make a problem

@th14pros90 Месяц назад

You sure it won't make them rebel if the parents are not fit for purpose? If the parents can't lead by example it won't work.

@SuperDrewH 2 месяца назад

My wife and I are high school sweethearts and thank God we had the same beliefs in raising our children. One of the things we did was not adopt the counting to 3 deal. When you were told to do something you then needed to do it, immediately. First time obedience.

@yvonnes7412 2 месяца назад

Yes, 💯 kids like it less when you don’t check what they’re up to. They think you don’t care… I experienced this in my childhood. I was youngest kid and my parents had problems. I think on some level my parents cared but I didn’t feel like they cared when I was young… Next to boundaries, I would say routines are highly important. It tells the kid they can count on you. It really doesn’t matter what the routine or tradition is (bedtime story, game night, Saturday grocery shopping, Taco Tuesday, whatever)-just as long as the routine is consistent. Thanks for the tips on what good parenting looks like. I want to be the best parent I can be ❤

@angel-no5sy 2 месяца назад

Thank you Amen 🪽🪽🪽🪽

@furattaraf3001 2 месяца назад

Hi Amen I am a mother of 3 kids ( a teenager, and 2 preschoolers) we live in IRAQ unfortunately, it means that a husband who is the father is more spoiled and a tool for destroying the family more than babies and how to raise them, cause he was raised in the wrong ways ... I was a translator and lived a beautiful life with English-speaking educated people, when I got married he treated me differently and said No to everything I asked or said... One of these is your videos and instructions, Please pray for me and for my kids especially a teenage boy who become a lived copy of his mean, ruthless, selfish, muscular father

@bls5160 2 месяца назад

Divorce him and move back to where your family is.

@milkimobdi4264 2 месяца назад

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

@furattaraf3001 2 месяца назад

@bls5160 It's harder In Iraq, a divorced mother is meant to be a servant in her parent's home without any hope of change ... The servants including my babies, And the eldest who is now 13 should live with his father under Iraqi law... I am surrounded by misery. But I won't stop praying for my husband to change and walk with me in the right direction, I got it from you(the Western community ) to raise my innocent kids correctly ..

@rachelduke8273 2 месяца назад

I am praying for you!

@bls5160 2 месяца назад

@@furattaraf3001 I am so sorry that you are in such a terrible situation. I thought that you were from another country since you were an translator but I assumed wrong. Would your own parents treat you and your children like servants. I wonder if the nice couple that you once worked for would help you. Anyway I will pray that your husband comes to his senses and treats you as you should be treated and becomes grateful to you for the wonderful wife and mother that you are. Please God let him see the light and change his selfish ways. Good Luck to You.

@travelingismypassionh7486 2 месяца назад

I just discovered him and Im obsessed with his videos. As a young mother of 3 kids ( 4,2,0) I want do all right but then sometimes I feel like I am doing everything wrong. His tipps are just what I needed..

@AmenClinic 2 месяца назад

Thanks!

@CelineShiko 2 месяца назад

I’m the same. Young mom of 4,2 and 6months. His videos are truly based on real life experience

@WilHun-ec9qd 2 месяца назад

000000

@sussanolaleye8499 2 месяца назад

I am the same here too!

@deliashanahan8375 2 месяца назад

Same here: 4, 2, and 3 months…

@Deanforbes Месяц назад

He's ahead of the game just by having rules. Most families don't even consider it, and kids can feel lost without direction and purpose.

@antoninatatarchuk7618 Месяц назад

Thank you. Greatful.

@readaloudkids1407 Месяц назад

Great advice! These policies are so true. The commenters who don’t like them are part of our current society which doesn’t believe in discipline or guidelines. Look where that has gotten us. Our country used to be full of much stronger people 100 years ago when kids were raised with discipline.

@renukakariyawasam7915 2 месяца назад

Thank you for the great video.

@SuperRicky1974 2 месяца назад

Wow I wasn’t expecting this to be about power over dynamics and punishment

@Clea-vx3fy 2 месяца назад

I love Dr.Amen!! Celebrating 3 years sober 5/5 due to his age work, thank you! 💜

@bri9684 2 месяца назад

Congratulations! What a milestone. I’ll be three years sober June 9th

@Improvemypronunciation Месяц назад

Such great teaching! 👏🏾👏🏾

@IOSARBX 2 месяца назад

AmenClinics, You're amazing! I hit the like button as soon as I saw it!

@AmenClinic 2 месяца назад

Thanks!

@AllThingsConsidered333 2 месяца назад

Best parenting book I ever read is “Raising great kids” by drs Henry Cloud & John Townsend. All that I hear Dr Amen say in these videos is what is said in this book. Good stuff. Very accurate & effective!

@AmenClinic 2 месяца назад

Great book!

@AlinaTowers Месяц назад

Truth is so important. Even if my child grows up and chooses to believe something different than I have taught them, if I’ve taught them to think critically and to value and pursue truth, I have done my job. Our society today has put experience above truth, so that people literally think they can “own” their own truth like a pet. And that “truth” is entirely dictated by their feelings. That creates an incredibly unstable world. Always honor truth, even if you’re not sure what it is!

@aknshab9874 11 дней назад

I feel you❤.

@MadChickenz42 9 дней назад

Even if you don’t want to tell your child something due to age, you can tell them truthfully “I can’t explain this to you at this age.” They are okay with that.

@contentmeow 2 месяца назад

#3 is great. I have some work to do.

@lesleywillis6177 2 месяца назад

Talk to them and listen to them would be my starting point.

@TShirtAndReeboks Месяц назад

This is 3 minutes about family rules. Of course you should talk to and listen to your family. That seems to go with the respect rule. But he's not covering everything in this short clip!

@DavidArmenta78 2 месяца назад

Excellent video!

@bneum 2 дня назад

Great stuff!

@nads8nads8 Месяц назад

I have 3 kids. All this is wonderful and easy and makes sense with normal kids. My middle one has ADHD you can throw all this into garbage.

@swordphoenix Месяц назад

Same here, middle child has adhd and this simply doesn’t work. Not to say it is bad to do regardless, but it won’t click the same.

@CharlotteG754 Месяц назад

I have ADD 😂 I cannot stick myself to any rules

@curseofsasuke 13 дней назад

@@CharlotteG754that’s a rule you keep

@aawrnnc 2 месяца назад

Listening to this, I thought of the instructions to parents in the book of Deuteronomy. Regarding the Ten Commandments, God (through Moses) instructed parents to ”Teach them to your children. Repeat them when you are at home and when you are away, when you are resting and when you are working.“ ‭‭Deuteronomy‬ ‭6‬:‭7‬ ‭GNT‬‬

@lesleywillis6177 2 месяца назад

That’s ok but I’d rather teach them some facts.

@kathikathi5301 Месяц назад

Treat others with respect does apply for ALL family members. Kids will respect us as much as we respect them. No shouting, name calling, hitting (or threatening of physical violence). And in my opinion this contradicts the idea of obeying blind and punishing kids for not doing so. Of course parents and adults have the responsibility but that doesn't mean that children's feelings, ideas, and needs don't have the SAME priority. Not more, not less. The same.

@himanshukhinchi 2 месяца назад

Can you elaborate on "don't make a problem"

@gabudeancaharnicuta3059 2 месяца назад

❤

@ioanacrac 2 месяца назад

Thank you for all your amazing videos! Love them! This is very helpful! But I am struggling with number 3 and the consequences. What can be the consequences if they don’t listen the 1st time. For the trash? For dressing up? Do you have examples?

@AmenClinic 2 месяца назад

Read Dr. Amen's new book Raising Mentally Strong Kids he discusses this. You can buy on Amazon.

@zibifranz2429 Месяц назад

I am so happy I found this channel, and thank you for sharing your knowledge!

@dorisle6646 2 месяца назад

At what age do you start this?

@msmagnificent807 2 месяца назад

Where can i get the whole lecture?

@AmenClinic 2 месяца назад

We will be releasing in segments on YT. Full lecture is on PBS.

@courteneyhall9640 Месяц назад

Too bad my kids are 16 and 15 with narc dad pulling strings. He won’t have them over but he has power over them and does everything to turn then against me.

@thatwifelife2138 Месяц назад

I’ve been there. She is 19 now. You have 2-3 years to go. Don’t speak bad about him. It may be a good thing he doesn’t visit with them. His presence will harm them more. Keep God first and work on YOUR healing ❤️‍🩹. He’s done more damage to you.

@jssfrk161 12 дней назад

How do you work this with very different kids, I have one kid who does anything I ask the first time I ask, but I have to ask for everything as she never puts anything away after and has many different (relatively plausible) reasons. My son acts like he didn’t hear me the first time (he is a daydreamer so it’s true most of the time)but he nearly always puts things away afterwards, he loves to tidy his room

@boreduser12 Месяц назад

They don't do it the first time they are told. What can I do? I've tried "consequences". Doesn't work.

@user-ds5jd5zy2d Месяц назад

Could somebody explain me please what does forth rule mean? Can't get the point

@youzerneim5431 Месяц назад

It means that if your kid takes out a toy to play with, they also need to put it away when they are done, so they don't leave a mess behind.

@user-ds5jd5zy2d Месяц назад

@@youzerneim5431 Oh, thats a tough one. Thank you, and have a nice day

@comicahmet Месяц назад

what are “consequences”?

@sarahw.mcelyea5655 2 месяца назад

I was laying in bed awake this morning crying about spankings I got when I was a kid. I'm 50 now. .. I just remember being terrified of spankings. I don't remember now what I did. And I did not know my parents loved me. They never told me.

@MadChickenz42 9 дней назад

Sorry your experience was so abusive. While spanking is not the preferred method of consequences these days (especially if you were hurt by it), some of us had a different experience. I always knew what I did wrong, and it was the extreme consequence reserved exclusively for direct insubordination or disrespect. Hopefully if you have kids, you broke that chain of unreasonable consequences or abuse.

@liz0707 2 месяца назад

How can I subscribe to these extroadinary lecturs? There is no subscribe button .

@jehannehardwick6311 2 месяца назад

Hit the bell. They are good lectures!

@barrick4807 5 дней назад

What are consequences we have a hard time with consequences

@Chimemwe Месяц назад

Great advice. Now, if a child doesn’t obey, which consequences do we ‘threaten’ them with, like in the example of putting away the trash? Especially when the are teenagers, it’s not easy. As you will have to execute the consequence if they don’t listen..

@MadChickenz42 9 дней назад

No expert here, but we’ve learned from others that the consequences should fit the offense. Creativity often takes a minute-maybe just say “there will be consequences” and give yourself a little space to think of something. And it is not a “threat” if you will do exactly what you said you will do; it’s a promise. Ex. Staying up late on Instagram when told not to? Take the phone away. Didn’t take out the trash? Maybe now they have to go wash out the trash can. Example: A 19 year old boy was speeding on his motorcycle and got a ticket. His dad chained the motorcycle to a tree and told him that he had to wash and was his motorcycle every day for 30 days. If he missed a day, the count would restart at 0. If it was still chained up after 3 months, it would be sold. Shiniest motorcycle ever by the end of the 30 days.

@Mari_Selalu_Berbuat_Kebaikan 29 дней назад

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@mitchjohnson4714 2 месяца назад

This guy looks like the Heaven’s Gate cult leader.

@kellywoodwardcore5360 2 месяца назад

But he’s not he’s a kind and helpful psychiatrist

@g.r.picard2726 Месяц назад

😂

@MrSzordrin 9 дней назад

Wow. This is terrible. Thata how you get a lot of issues in puberty. Have fun...

@matsa2620 Месяц назад

Weird gestures

@RussMarion-il2lx Месяц назад

Full of lies this guy

@BronwynRoberts-t2p 15 дней назад

Sorry, lost me at "obey". Not my style of parenting. Thank you anyway.

@curseofsasuke 13 дней назад

You’re the parent not their friend. They want to obey you. Sounds like you have some healing that never happened from childhood trauma. Hard stop. Good luck.