Dr. Umar Johnson Admits Snowbunnies Play The Long Game When Marrying Brothas 

Dr. Umar been playing the LONG GAME with building that SCHOOL 🏫. 😅😅😅

BW have stated many times they will not date potential. Why is Umar wasting his breath?

I don't give a crap what color you are as a woman, and we have all heard this saying before a MILLION times: If you don't want me during your prime then I don't want you on your decline. Period!🤷🏽‍♂️

It’s not just potential. They look for men on the come up. So they’re catching men entering/graduating law school, business and medical school. They’re catching guys in undergrad who play football before they go pro. So they’re better at picking winners. It’s not just potential. My brother has potential but he won’t do ish 😂😂😂😂. It’s about catching men who are on the ascend

The minute Dr. Umar says anything favorable to black men or holding black women slightly accountable, his most loyal fanbase turns against him

This is why the creator, speaks so strongly on patient, The lack of patience will cause one to sell their soul

Wow, Dr. UJ actually completed a statement with repeating himself 3X. Also, he is spot on!

Getting the bag is the worst statement

I agree with you Phil because I know Black women who saw potential in Black men and they elevated together. I get tired of our people putting all Black men or women in the same category and comparing us with other ethnicities who have not experienced our struggles, life history, etc. And we must still go to the root cause of these behaviors. Trauma that has not been healed, a renewing of the mind. Counseling and mentoring are so vital within our community particularly if there is not a father with strong male leadership skills and habits, leading by positive example.

The only thing that can change Idiocracy and dysfunction is repetition of discernment and discipline.

I love how he spoke on both sides of the coin on this one, because most black women see potential in black men to a fault.

Phil, 100% on point. I recall sitting in the Livingroom one evening. I dated a lady in college, and I was interviewed by the father and mother for an hour. My date was not in the room, because she had to stay at work late. They asked me some questions about my parents, my intentions, my career plans, etc. The relationship did not work, but I remained friends with the parents for many years.

For those of us who attended a non-HBCU, we saw numerous exceptionally attractive nonblack women with the raggediest, dorkiest, nerdiest, guys and wondered what she saw in him. Later, you learn that he was in pre-med, pre-law, engineering school, etc. with a 4.0 GPA.

For a more concrete example instead of just saying potential. What other communities are looking for is "Competence, responsibility, consistency AND hard work". If all of those things are already present in a man you can actually build him up to a degree. But never fall in love with the potential to be a great rapper, ball player or anything else if he doesn't have those 4 qualities.

So true. Unfortunately, a lot of women will sacrifice their happiness as long as their bills and materialistic needs are met. Not changing anytime soon.

I was telling black women on different platforms that women of other ethnicities are going after the black men they see potential, for example Bronny James, Marques Brownlee (millionaire content creator) picked by white women. I be trying to school black women but fall on deaf ears

The problem is that when black women build these men with 'potential' at their lowest, they will upgrade once they achieve success. They have learned from the struggle love generations before them to date the best man for the job. I had a neighbor that worked at the time to put her then husband through medical school. Once he finished his residency, he bounced and left her with three children. She eventually remarried a provider some 10 years later and moved to a bigger home.

We definitely need to have our villages in our community.The sad thing is,is that it didn't seem as bad when I was growing up. A lot of the attitudes that are accepted now wasn't acceptable decades ago.

Great video coverage Phillip 💯 Dr. Umar, is on point and you're speaking facts

Time change Phil, No one man can cover every single bill in the household these days, unless you are a millionaire or stupid. (If you can good for you.)

Dr. Unar is dropping knowledge for once in his life. A lot of successful black men were rejected by black women early in their life.

My sister use to say she's not getting with a fixer upper! I often wonder why, she had more than enough resources to help a person excell in their life together. She died alone, no husband, no children, and left cousins and friends fighting over her estates.

Umar sounds like he might be warning up to the vanilla ice queens. Maybe he should find a snowbunny who sees his potential, and is going to help him build that school.

😂 Dr Umar, we conscience people already know that 🤷‍♂️

Phil is actually arguing against himself here. A woman cannot invest in a man on the ground floor, while expecting him to be the sole provider simultaneously. That makes no sense. And when you factor in that most of the accelerated programs are for girls and women, how are men expected to be these super providers in the face of outstanding inflation? None of that makes sense. Do most men naturally want to pay all the bills? Yes. That's how we're wired. It makes us proud and feeds our souls to build and prosper financially for the family. However in this US-based society, most functioning households need 2 incomes to get by. Hell, that logic applies to most countries these days. So this is a false reality. And believing that this is achievable en masse, is destructive. Don't be a hero. Just adapt and survive.

I believe Umar was on point. I don’t like everything he says, but this was spot on. Judge Mathis talks about his wife’s family taking him after he just got in college and his mother died since they were better off and a middle class family. He always would mention them on his old show and show his gratitude

He's right and the main thing is the white family is going to support and help their child. African parents wants everything from you.

There's time when women are with the man when he has nothing and helps him and when he gets on his feet, he decides to go get someone else forgetting the woman that helped raise him up.

I always felt like that as a Black man in regards to going back to a girl that didn't like me when I was broke. Why would I or anyone get to that level to intentionally move backwards?a A lot of them want to do that with Pookie & Ray Ray, but a White Woman/Other Woman ain't going for those types unless she one of those too. Yeah, there are some Ratchet White/Other Women in America fellas.

I disagree with Dr Umar. I'm a black woman & and have always been of the mindset of dating black men not for what they had. For me, it s about their integrity, being respectful, values & morals,. I've never been materialistic. I'm the type of woman that will support her man to reach his potential & would want him to do the same for me.

I've been saying the same for quite awhile. White women in general (of course there are exceptions) don't stand at the finish line waiting for the winner of the race. White women can see the potential of the studious brother in class who rides the bus to school, while sisters are mainly checking for the star quarterback, point guard, or Pookie. This is why so many sisters miss out on successful Black men. Despite the popular narrative, most men don't forget the woman who gave them love when they had nothing.

Retain skills is rare regardless of race in America. Protect yourself at all times, Gentlemen

I disagree. Lots of black women 'build a bear', and end up as single parents.🤷🏾‍♀️

He shouldn’t generalize because there are a lot of us who have been with black men who have potential and it didn’t work out.

I disagree with investing in a man who’s NOT your husband. I unfortunately was a fool and invested in the dreams of two relationships and got screwed over. Both men and women should be able to care for themselves and thats a fair expectation 💁🏽‍♀️💜 I also wished I had a father to guide me through my dating endeavors, I would’ve made better decisions.

13 years, no school, no progress = the long game

I don't agree at all! A lot of us have helped them when they were nothing, and when he is together with the help of our hands and work, then they leave for the white women or other races. There is some truth to this, but not all!

When You Build Your Man Up; He Appreciates The Work You Put In Him & The Belief You Had In Him (Potential)

Black women have done potential. And potential left us for someone else. Hell no. I'm not Barbara the builder.

DAMN, THAT SCHOOL AIN'T BUILT YET?!!!

ALL OTHER RACES OF WOMEN PICK THE LONG GAME AND BLACK WOMEN PICK SWAG… Dear black women, how’s that working out for you?

Umar needs to get his donations on the long game lol

Just admit it Umar. YOU GOT SNOW BUNNY FEVER.

We have been doing this for so long already Dr. Umar‼️‼️

My uncle is like that. He is a fantastic father-figure!! I absolutely adore him!!! ❤❤

Respect - excellent info. I’m dealing with this right now with my daughter. He’s a good guy, had a couple of setbacks but work ethic, character, and integrity are intact.

Keep hearing this myth that BW makes more than BM, and the stats do not prove that.

Hypergamy happens across cultures BUT it is generally more pronounced in Black American culture. That's why many black women go after athletes and entertainers (have the 'bag' now but likely not in the future) when they should be dating dentists, engineers and CPAs with a solid future (a 'bag' that grows and grows for decades, maybe generations). Like he said, short vs long-term thinking.

The SNOW BUNNY 🐰 is competitive and taking the BM that BW want and the Snow Bunny is WINNING ✨

We play the long game too ,real long 😂

Everybody had their own opinions but the man knows what he's talking about and he's good at it and if you can't understand where he coming from he's not the problem you are❤❤❤

My Father Heard A Comment My Daughter Father Said About Me 16 Years Ago, He Gave So Advice & I Left Him A Year Later Thank You Dad; Miss You

I will say he is making a good point about mindset in potential wives.

I agree it takes both sides that children should listen to

Real words by a controversial man in Dr Umar, regardless of his other stances. So thanks for the post Unc

I always did dislike how people refer to WW as "snow bunnies" as if they are something "top shelf" to be coveted. Love who you love, but to me they ain't deserving of some ridiculous ass stamp of affection nickname like that.

As a black man who was evicted from the COMMUNITAH. This is bad comedy.

I’ve seen it as well Phil. I know of a guy who had a good women help him out but the brother just couldn’t and still can’t get right. I’ve also seen it the other way around.

He spoke facts

These are the bullet points that Kevin Samuel was saying. It’s about time he got aligned.

Jeezy bout to find out the hard way

Dr Umar is spot on with this.

Brother Umar be dropping knowledge. Salute to brother Umar 💪💯

I'll take the long game over the one that never begins.

There is nothing wrong with wanting the bag. The problem is how they want to get it. A smart man would gladly provide for a woman that put the work in by being at your side when all you had was values and,grind and intelligence and you were in shape and a regular job. The problem is they just want to do almost ANYTHING outside of morals,putting in work and empathy.

A perfect observation by Dr Johnson right there. He is talking about under normal circumstances and the vast majority!

He makes a Good Point 😎👍 Just Stop 🛑 explaining Why those others are better for you. It's just history repeating itself and Black Women and Girls will be okay. 🦋

Because we have never heard the story of a Black woman standing by a mans side, and as soon as he gets rich, he leaves her for another race. OK

Phil, you should be an expert in this!

All women look towards potential, most people get together young, that's all you got at that moment.

And then he'll leave for a ww anyway, so 🤷🏾‍♀️

My son is at the Air Force Academy. This white girl is playing the long game with him. He is going to be a black fighter pilot. But I am on my job so this won’t turn out like she wants. But she didn’t get him to the Air Force Academy. His mother and a I did.

As a BM, I tried working with the BW here and there in the US. I wanted someone to start with me while I am working towards the top. All I got from the American BW was stabbed in the back. When it comes to US bw, I almost have to sacrifice beauty to obtain loyalty. I can't give up beauty, fertile, youth, and no kids, in order to have a submissive loyal woman. Even if she's hispanic, if her close friends are under that sick influence, she's gone to. I'm in Brazil next month, let's see how that works..🤷‍♂️

Blk queens potential doesn’t mean a man who is unemployed and the king of 2k while rolling around his bed with a ash tray but he 6ft tall😂

Black women are getting their getting dating advice from Nikki Minaj and Cardi B. And random dating blogs online

I agree with him on this one he’s speaking facts for sure💯

1990??!?!! What video is this?!?! 😂😂😂

you both are correct both of you are correct yes black sisters help black men they do I've witness it

I don't agree one of the biggest differences with African women and European women when it comes to African men is that European women hunt for African men for which is African men that are already rich.

I left a trail of angry black women that preyed on my downfall after not choosing/cooperating! I thank God for that motivation! Me winning is an understatement and my example is nesasarry for future generations. I'm an example for both the young women and men in my vicinity. Bring back shame & Black Excellence.

Unfortunately this doesn’t work for us sisters Unless your a preference aka white he will rarely invest in you We see this Even Kanye rapped about this

To each his or her own me personally I rather go outside the bl community because the chances are higher for success js

Umar becoming red pilled in real time is hilarious 😂

Why does Umar keep bringing up snow bunnys all the time

They date Pookies and NugNug thinking they have potential. A few kids and a decade later, they have too much baggage to date based on potential. The bills are do today. They need the six figures now. That’s pretty the dating cycle in our community.

Lovely ladies as a Foundational Black American man I'm going 2 tell u if invest in some dude's dream business 1 don't go bankrupt 2 your name has gotta be on that business papers real talk & get a prenuptial agreement nuff said .

Wow!😮Dr Umah is talking Facts! Facts!!!

Umar is the king of half truths but he is correct. MinisterJap made a video "Men Like What They See, Women Like Who You Are" that basically sums up this topic

I see what he's talking about doe

Dr umar is obsessed with snow bunnies instead of building his school

Some BM no matter how much potential you see in them and strive to help and stick around them for “the long game”… Already have their mind made up of leaving you for a WW anyways!

Dr. Umar is spot on. A lot of Black women are proving this everyday on video.

I ain't gonna lie them snowbunnies be addicting and fun

Black Nation let's just support each other spiritually,emotionally,psychologically,financially and socially. This isn't a competition. The grass is always greener when BLACK love and progress conquers

Boy that sounded a lot different from the usual . Great Observation Dr. Umar.

He told not one ☝🏾 lie and I don’t even like Umar

He finally makes sense on something…

So he’s saying the yt women believes in bm more than be women do and are more supportive wow lol

BW are not worried about what BM are doing 😂

Umar is a clown imo. I agree with him on this point though. Vet the man be with him in the building process and reap the rewards at the final stage.