For the first story, I would recommend that instead of perusing extramarital affairs or sahara of her family, try doing online courses and become financially stable enough to leave her husband.
I would say that she'll need to divorce him first if she has to become financially, that disgusting man wont let her do anything good for herself, but then again where would she go after she's divorced.... this so frustrating
she shouldn't wait for anyone just get seprated she could do job as teacher for living her life mesirrible already dont wait۔ for second question send brothers to police n court simple as tht
People should start educating themselves on their own, I am a Motorcycle Mechanic myself and i am only an 8th class passed person from Government School,(Due To Family Financial Problems) haven't even done matric. But that couldn't stop me from learning, educating, grooming myself. I have learnt everything from RU-vid, (i also make videos) And i am still learning tons of things day by day which will never stop insha'Allah. ♥️
For the last question, I would recommend don't be rude or straight forward in front of your brothers and parents. Play smartly! Tell you parents, my salary has reduced due to company crisis and I can't bear all the expenses. Now brothers have to equally contribute.
45:36 that's why it's important to educate yourself and improvise on your skillset. Branding yourself keeps you current in your chosen field, opens doors for you, and creates a lasting impression on clients. By successfully marketing your brand, you'll have control over people's initial perception. If you don't brand yourself, someone else will, and the outcome might not be in your favor.
Sadly our education system never thought us how to think and how to become problem solvers thanks junaid bhai to become our adviser and I wish that someday I will think like you with more respect.
Because they want to create slaves who work 9 to 5 for someone else, that is why they don't teach us to do taxes and how to make a company legally because they don't want us to work for ourselves and just become slaves to this system. That is why they teach everyone the exact same thing even though every human is different and what they teach us is only enough for us to get a stupid jab and then work for minimum wage for some rich person.
About the third email. Its a fantastic idea. Let me tell my story, I graduated the top public research institute or university. I am among top ten toppers of the class and possess many volunteer works, 2 experiences. But when I graduated in 2021, there was no guidance available. I am done with my first year of MS and started research work . Now I have enough info about how to apply for masters abroad, scholarships etc. I heard erasmus, daad etc first time in my life when I was in my MS. Also professors in Pakistan are so unsupportive they don't guide their students well. I now try to guide and encourage my juniors, provide them with links, check their statements so that they don't miss the opportunity. My cousin had a GPA of 2.6 and I stand far ahead of him not just in GPA but all of my skills. He is doing his masters in Belgium and I m here, just because I had no guidance.
To the lady in 1st email, another alternative solution for your personal matters would be "self care", which is safe given your situation and probably help alleviate the issue a bit. All the best
Junaid bhai, your every single episode teaches me thousand times big lessons than I learnt from my 35 years of life.. May Allah grant you more wisdom and courage to educate the people... 👍👍
Junaid sir I'm from India and the thing you said about senior citizens troubling the youth in any way they can is so true. My own grandma is such a toxic lady, she always abuses everyone my mother,my father(if something in her service goes wrong), even my elder brother(my dad's brother's son ) going on to the length of saying that he should die! He does so much for her and his father but they are never satisfied,they always want more. She is staying with us for last 3months and I cant tell you how negative our home's environment has become. That lady single-handedly is responsible for every bad thing that has happened to our family in these 2 decades
Is budhi ko reaction na do...sunanay pe ae to headphones lgao ya idhar udhar kaam mei lg jao air ignore kro.kisi b chez pe reaction mt do. Budhi khoosat dekhna kese confuse hokr chup hojaegi
@@harismansoor5733 sorry listen but i just prayed for her. Im not here to debate or educate someone on whats morally right or wrong and also when you are coming across as society ki aunty so much concerned about someones private life. Its not worth and rather not waste anyone's time here 🙏
first case: definitely the first thing is to get financially independent. does she have ANY SKILL through which she could earn money? If her english is good then she could go for freelancing (learn programming etc.), cooking. I doubt she could go to the workshop and learn the skills as I assume she wont feel safe while working with her husband
I know so many betiyan well, Junaid, who are providing for thier parents. Three of my cousion(girls) got married and paid all of their marriage expenses and fathers took all the credit.
It is my personal views, that i salute you for listening to that stories continuously,like i just listens to the first one,and now i doesn't have courage to move for the next one because it left me in complete shock that how f***ed up mentalities are being operating through our society 💔
To this last girl with toxic parents, please learn about narcissism, Everything will start making sense. Dr. Ramini on youtube has great videos. Your parents (specially your dad) IS a narcissist.
The first two issues are such a representative our society. Is trha key issues jab Soul sisters Pakistan per discuss hotey rain aur inka solution dhoondha jata hai to log kehtey hain key yeah group talaqaein kerwata hai. Lakin is trha key issues ayee din udher discuss hotey hain.
@54:14 ...honestly if she will live her own life and take all the opportunities, she will be in a better position to help the parents out. She will also have the guts to tell them that dinner parties are not needed
Again a great episode the last one I can totally relate n I also agree don't show full income. I am a woman. I used to send all my income but than I realized that way I will never be able to do anything. I started saving aside got married and got out of the cycle. I still love my family but sometimes u have to take that difficult step to survive in life.
Lack of consistency not allow this channel to grow bhaiyya its not necessary to shoot the video on studio Askganjiswag content can be make anywhere you are.
No offense but i think he likes the fact he is in a comfortable spot while he helps us too , and also looking at the video , him being in a nice spot and sitting and paying attention gets our attention as well , Aesthetic and Aumbiance of the video is important for the engagememt as well , Professionalism 💯
@@zainahmed5688 I understand ur point my friend , BUT , its HIS choice if he likes to present stuff the way HE wants , like he already takes out time for us and our life stories , plus hearing those problems is ofc mentally taxing for him too , so i think we should atleast let him decided how he wanna present himself in the video , right? i hope my point is clear but sorry if i don't make sense because im writing this over 4 cups of coffee 🥲
2nd Person with dual PHDs How is this possible to do 3 bachelors 1 Masters and 1PHD at the age of 25 4 years of bachelors 2 years of Masters 4 years of PHD that's 10 years of education if you start at 18 you should be 28 rn She started her bachelors at the age of 15 how's that possible
Because when I did my BBA I was 21 years old. At 22 years old I get admission in LLB( and it is an affiliated college ) then at 23 years old I get admission B.ed and MBA. Same year but different semesters different universities. Then covid k bad se mene exams online he dyes hn. This year is the last year for a law degree. I did my master's. Get Ph.D. admission this semester and do publications for scholarship
Junaid Bhai this concept is amazing! I have always been a firm believer in learning from other people's mistakes before committing them yourself. Thank you sir!
first sister with marital issues, khudaara dont step out of one hell to step into another (prob bigger) hell... hosla rakhain, patiently come up with a plan of how to progress further, aksar hamaray paas proper solutions ya ways out hotay hain hum apni options ko limited ya restrict kr leitay hain... 2nd sister, meri behn aik aisay banday se shadi karnay se (jo most probably apki zindagi ko neechay hi kheenchay ga directly ya indirectly as per ur situation), behtar hai ap bhi plan figure out karain on how to get to australia and proceed with your life... bhaiyon ki jahalat ya toh ap ko marwa de gi, ya kisi dangar k hath lagwa de gi... behtar hai take a chance with ur education...
In case the first woman decides to take the bold step of getting a divorce, I would recommend she contacted Jamia Tur Rasheed for her next marriage. They have a marriage bureau that specialises in getting divorced and widowed women married.
1st: I'm a Molecular Biologist and perform PCR I would like to know how much expensive that test was 2nd: I'm earning good in a private sector health care. I can guide people with bechlors or master degree related to biology
can you tell me about bachelor of pharmacy and Bs in psychology what i do after i done my bachelor, name of courses or any guidance about related to the it will definately help me out and the scope of these courses cause i want to move to abroad with a scholarship in EU countries so please help me out and the last question is from my friend that he complete his matriculation with computer and now he's pursuing Pre. Medical so is it possible? Thanks
@@kabirkhurshid176 I can answer your last question, to go into pre med or med you need to have studied biology, physics and chemistry prior to getting admission if not then you cant opt for med in Pakistan, you also need above 70 percent marks to be eligible if you're under fbise, not sure about other boards, I faced same problem after matriculation and then I had to choose between computer or commerce because I wasnt eligible for medical, hope my answer helped you.
@@kabirkhurshid176 No pre medical without Biology as @aman answered And your 1st question isn't clear first you're asking becholors options after completing bechlor? Both degrees are good.... psychology needs human emotion and pharmacy needs chemistry and medicine formulas.... so first check your interest..... every degree has worth abroad but in Pakistan Pharmacy is better..... you'll get scholarship for both if you gain good scors not an issue
@@abdullahansari8759 canada has quite good scope for marine biologist... check that out and apply for master progrrame there....... if you have grades you'll get scholarship and 1st year will be tough but after that students manage own thier own....
The last question, I think you should talk to your brother about your shadi first. They should talk to your parents about getting you married. Once you've tackled this issue, you can then put finance talk on the table
Sir AAP hum se na bagye. Eis mulk me aap hi "hamary issues aur unka Haal" k Sahi tarjuman hy. Aap se bahut Kuch sekny ko milta hy, Apna koya Howa Rasta, motivation, guidance aur bahut Kuch. Shukriya for the great content.
Life is a gift. The first woman, married to an illiterate duffer paindu must leave him immediately . She is 36 already. She's missed out on a life in youth and is in danger of wasting the entirety of life itself. No life should be given to a spouse for any reason atall.
For first question lady, I empathize with you but don’t leave your husband when you are in an emotional state. Where will you go after leaving him? Would he let you keep the child? How will you fulfill kid’s needs/kharchay? So first of all make yourself financially strong however you can. Save money. Make a plan about what are you going to do after leaving him. Agay ki zindagi aur us k kharchon ka intezam pehle kren. Phir bachay ko le k niklen.
A master's graduated bioengineer here from Estonia, now working as a fermentation specialist in the industry. I love the idea of raising awareness in our kids in Pakistan. I have been making RU-vid videos teaching them how to travel to Estonia for University education. I would be more than happy to be a part of this cause. I can even make videos/presentations/ideas for you scientific RU-vid videos if you plan to start that. We badly need a platform like this. I guess I'll write to you with to help propel this cause forward.
Bhai, Can you tell me about future course of action for bsc Chemistry & Biotechnology there in Estonia?? I have recently graduated and how much cost for doing masters in Rupees, how should I choose university and is all education in English?
@@truehuman6553 I have uploaded videos on a channel called Tähe Talk. Search that and you can find all your answers. For what you don't find, read the comments. Almost every comment have been addressed there.
Question #3 - It is impossible to keep everybody happy at all times. Prioritize helping people from your inner circle and stop letting greedy and opportunistic people take advantage of you and your close ones. Stop overthinking and being overly sensitive about “what will people say?” Zulm sehna bhi ek tarah ka zulm hai. Cut off toxic people from your life asap. Telling from experience of being in the exact same situation for over a decade. Now at peace with everything by following what I said above.
Personality types hoti hain. I'm an introvert and enjoy my own company. I travel, eat out, watch shows etc alone by choice. However extroverts would feel bored and uneasy spending any time by themselves. Both are fine in my opinion.
Same hum b Saudi main hi they Phupian palli Humaray kharchon per Takreeban Saari Ghatay b dala aik Business main loota Abbu ko 😂😂😂 Yeh Common phenomenon hai Pakistanis living in Middle East specially.
Please be careful all of you guys who is listening junaid bhai i watched all episodes and i am saying that everything is good but in some points Junaid bhai is giving wrong advices that's not allowed in our islam please everyone think and do what's allowed in islam or not
For First case : i feel so sory for every body suffering..you are a victim of our cultural norms like so many others. I wish i could do something for every living soul. This makes me so sad. First of if u want to be free to make decisions, u have to become financially independent, alot of online skills, which to me seems the best way out. Id like to mention something, i have a bitter experience of helping a person in such situation and after a while they changed in a way like they were never there. Anyways Allah asani kre ameen.
The second email sounds fake. Nobody can have multiple graduations or dual PHD at the age of 25. This is impossible even if you are a genius which she is clearly not because of her poor writing skills.
@@maliharehman6666 Its not your fault .Its human instinct .Whenever they see someone from a worse background then theirs and having so much education ,they get jeaolus . But they dont speak it out unlike u
@@comradesalman7625 lol. Clearly you don't know phd timeline or international publications requirements so you are coming up with this nonsense to attack me. I laid out a fact that has no emotional connection to it.
@@maliharehman6666 Ohh why so serious lol . You are getting angry is the evidence that u were jealous . Instead of talking about how she could solve her problms ,u are judging her . She is not in jail and u are not a judge . Nobody asked u to verify her story . I am not hating but honestly u are one of those self absorbed karen on the internet . What your qualification lol .metric ..
Junaid Bhai ki 70 saal ki burya nai lay rakhi hai. If you are with Old people. Trust me your are lucky. You need to sit with them and discuss you issue. Croc tears are the best weapon. You need to tell them, they are the best and always visit them. You have to reach to this age. Sit and talk to you parents and old people arround. Build a society like this. You can not win this fight. You will never win. If you wanna try. You will get the answer.
Junaid bhai, Prophet s.a.w said in his last speech to muslins not to be oppressed and don’t be an oppressor. HE also mentioned to be careful about the female. Why this is not preached by scholars?
I'm also suffering from sex desire issue I'm not married but Pakistan ma shaadi krna bohat mushkil ha . girl's parents ki 1st preference Rich or akela beta hoti ha oper say kabi koi dekhne a raha ha to kabi koi or mostly after 3,4 meetings k bad girl's parents ya boys parents kahty ha hum ko rishta pasnd nhe Aya WTF .
Regarding the first story (I am not supporting the husband's attitude) LGBTQ men and women are being forced to marry; this will continue until the government legalize homosexuality. If legalized, they will gain the courage and confidence to stand up for themselves no matter how much society hates them.
Please pin down those 15 questions one should ask after 6 months from his/her future spouse. You said you will add it in the comments section in your podcast#77.
I think the lady in the first story havent shared the full story or even she doesnt know the problemin her husband. The question still remains why is her husband not doing it. Iam a 30 year old married man i know a man cannot hold this long. She didnt wrote the issue also why did she not discuss with her husband. And if her husband have psychological issue or some pressure you can always contact a Dr.
I was practically doing marine biology related work on my Farther's fish farm, I used to breed fresh water fishes and sell their fry (small fishes) and I wanted to Breed Asian Sea bass (Barramundi) here in Pakistan for the first time and I wanted to go to KU (Karachi University) because that's the only university in Sindh that offers Marine Science program but my admission was cancelled because my Domicile is from rural Sindh and that program is only available to urban Sindh students. I'm living in KHI since 2007. So now I gave up on that and now I do freelancing on Fiverr because 3D modeling was my hobby and I had a computer on my farm. Now I'm learning Python so I can become an AI developer. I'm a self taught freelancer and I discontinued my traditional studies after college.
First lady question: try to go to land department and ask for duplicate papers if possible for you and tell them that original has been stolen. One of our uncle did this to us to sell our property n it worked
For the last question I recommend that you tell your parents that if your brothers abstain from contributing to your parents in this age, then atleast take them out from property inheritance as they have indirectly cut themselves off from the parents.
I just want to let people know that my own mother was the WORST person in my life, up until i started earning money and giving her money. Honest to god i still sometimes can't believe that she is the same person. She even used to say "yeh to mar gaya hua ha mere liye" and i remember that more then a year would go by and she would not even talk to me but now that I am earning money she is the politest. I remember being suicidal because of the way I used to be treated at home and i used to cry my eyes wishing god to take my life. I would complain my grandmother about it and she would say "Wo tere maa ha wo yeh kar sakti ha tu na agay se kuch nhe kehna". And the way she treated me she expected herself that I would leave her as soon as i start earning money. But I didn't. I left the matter to god. I will fulfil my role as a son but on judgement Allah hisab le gaa mere maa se.
Islamic rule is if a man hasn’t been with his wife (because of negative intentions; animosity) like men send their wife to her parents place and there is temporary separation. If the duration is around 3 months your Nikah is ended. It is sad that majority Pakistani Muslims don’t know their basic Islamic rights. She can confirm this from a scholar she is already divorced according to sharia.
For the second question apply for your sister in some education program inAustralia, book a flight and leave. Call your family from Australia you are there and never go back. Start a new life!
I thought about that so many times but I can not do that because after that they will do more backbiting or maybe my sis would face abusive behavior. And may do honor killing if I ever come back
