i feel like it's because you have this like "he's so impossible to get" energy that it kind of makes it a challenge, but then when you DO get him, you realise oh.. he's just.. a normal person, and i just spent ages fantasizing about the idea of this guy, when he's just a normal person and we're not that compatible, lol
@@xnngright that was weird lmao, I honestly don’t blame her for being scared cuz honestly same like wtf you mean😭just bc you went to her graduation, talked and hungout for weeks? At least he was a gentleman about it cuz you’d think he’d try kissing her before leaving but he wasn’t sure if she felt the same but dang poor guy got ghosted and prob didn’t deserve that but yea it was kinda out of the blue and I wouldn’t trust it honestly like wtf is “the one”?? cuz nah😂
Okay but Ashlyn leaving and acting tired so Sarah can talk to her crush IS A FUCKING W FRIEND RIGHT THERE IGHT?! Like bro she knew, she made all the plans like SHE WAS THAT FRIEND OKAY
No because same i don’t usually listen to a lot of story times or when I do I end up skipping thru half of them. But I’m invested everytime she talks. And the way she tells her stories is perfect.
@tianam2302 so real. When my friends see a guy's feeling me they get jealous. " Hey girl, remember when you sh!t on yourself at that party." They suck!
@@spac3c4d3t there's something about that linen white shirt for a 19 Yr old guy, I think it makes him look more mature hence maybe the attractiveness 😂😂
The saying “ you always want something you can’t have and when you have it you don’t want it anymore “ fits here lol. He seems like a good guy considering he was out of highschool and didn’t try to sleep with you all those weeks.
This is the most relatable teenage love story to me. I was always "leading guys on", then when they actually reciprocated my anxiety would FREAK OUT. And I had no idea what was happening or how to explain it. I would literally vomit every morning until I broke up with a guy.
I feel so much better knowing y'all been through this too. I feel like it's genuinely: we're just not ready. It wasn't our time yet, which made ourselves emotionally/physically unavailable #latebloomersclub
All the edits of the random men in this is top tier 😂 Also your hair came out so good ! I feel like I’ve done this too many times of chasing after a guy and then once he likes me I realized I just liked the chase and fantasy version of us together rather then actually being together. It’s rough
Dang, it is fun tho to imagine like writing fanfics but then when it actually happens to you it’s definitely scary esp being inexperienced. Her story reminds me of Lara jean in a way😂
yesss and idk if it’s just cuz i’m young and don’t really know myself well enough to be in a relationship but it sucks. the only time i’ve been in a happy and healthy relationship was when the guy liked me before i liked him.
Amazing story as always! When you create a false self and someone “falls” for it, of course you dont trust them! Its like bro, the person you think is “the one” isnt even me lmao kudos to you for trusting your instincts and honoring your real feelings, no matter how confusing at the time, at such a young age
This is such a classic teenage girl story time lol I’ve gone through a similar thing and I know others girls have too, scheming to get a guy then being disappointed😂 it’s canon!
Sarah, you're legitimately one of the most beautiful girlies my eyes have been blessed to see in my 29 years of life so far. Inside and out. You can also sell me anything NGL cause you make these videos so relatable and convincing 😄
OH MY GOD"?? when i tell you i screamed in the end watching this, sarah! i felt everything like the story was happening to me, and when you said 'avoidant attachment style ripped through my being' I F- SCREAMED AGAIN home alone in my earphones like, it was THE story i needed to hear, thank you, your storytelling skill is something else girl, like i feel less alone now, LIKE YES crippling anxiety OMG
I want to thank you for bringing me and my now ex together when nothing else did. I can't sit and watch this right now cause it hurts but I just wanted to thank you for bringing her joy all these years.
Sarah I saw you and Caitlyn at the Driver Era concert at the end near the exit and I was too shy to come up (I was having a bad anxiety day 😅). I was fanboying and my friends had no idea who you guys were (that changed). As soon as I gathered the courage to turn around and come and say hi, the security lady told me I couldnt reenter. Anyways, I know I speak for everyone when I say you bring such joy and laughter to our lives and since I missed my opportunity to tell you in person, I still wanted to let you know. Take that, anxiety! Lol anyways, I hope you guys had fun (I'm sure you did). Keep on rockin 😎
watching this at age 18 having just experienced a very similar situation, feeling like this is a big sister talk mixed with group therapy! genuinely needed this as a reminder of how the future could be, it was both funny and entertaining but also v comforting :) ps hair looks great as always!! ❤
I really miss Cheers Brother! You and Caitlyn are beautiful and amazing and you guys represent the type of women, friends, people I’ve always wanted to be and be around. I hope you guys keep sharing that beautiful energy and continue representing what a true friendship is really like. More girls need to see that.
Man you truly are one of the very very few youtubers that I can just watch and forget about my world for a moment, been by my side for years haha I love this parasocial relationship and you
I have been watching you since your chubby bunny video, and it’s so odd cause now I’m watching you now as I’m feeding my second child. You got me through college and feel like such a friend. ❤ love ya Sarah.
My friend and I were rolling in M last night and she wants to get into RU-vid. I gave her my old camera and send her your videos and the fact that you posted a new video today of all days! At the same time we were rolling! This is the style of story time she needs to learn from. Brilliant, relaxed and natural. Thanks for the inspo
I love these simple videos SO damn much. Like, you are never watching a Sarah Baska video you are HANGING with Sarah. THIS is why I adore her and have watched her for so long. She is so chill, herself, makes you laugh OUT loud, relates, is real, I could go on and on. I mean I usually don't leave comments but, Sarah fills that hole us girlies have when we don't have many or even one close girlfriend. I love how I used the word girlies which Sarah uses a lot HAHA. Thank You Sarah truly for your videos, being yourself unapologetically and being real.
sarahhh the editing is so fucking perfect ive been dying the whole vid. the ONE is crazyyyy mans was really ready for the world with you lmaoo, love you and this vid. also my goals are to be as good of a friend as queen ashlyn🥺 and YOUR HAIR = absolute slay, its perfect
I did the same thing 6 months before i met my husband...i met this guy and he was super hot, had everything i shouldve wanted in a boyfriend, was super nice and super into me, and for some reason i just did not like him romantically. I literally beat myself up about it, and continued to go on dates with him until i ended up being a huge asshole and ghosting him bc i just could not like him back like that. I feel awful about it to this day.
i havent finished the vid yet but just wanted u to know that the reason the box says not to dye ur hair if you've ever had a reaction to a temporary black henna tattoo is bc the chemical they use in cheap henna (para-phenylenediamine, or PPD) is the same one they use in dark hair dye to make it darker!!! i learned this the hard way lol PPD allergies are real and they're a pain in the ass
i remember watching you bleaching your hair during quarantine and i truly believed it changed the trajectory of that part of my life so thank you for this
