Get it without telling her,save some money and get it, it's not the end of the world,it's not a bad thing,the problem is maybe she's gonna want to do it with you,like a mother daughter thing.
When I was little I had earrings and the next day after like I just pierced them someone touched them and it got infected but today I got them pierced and they are the December Blue ones :)
I have my ears pierced. It was scary getting them done it hurts like crazy. It hurts a little bit but it will heel after and then you have to clean them and then when you are ready you can change them after
Mary Murn it didnt hurt for me and I was 8 when I got mine. All of my friends say that it just stings after. I know that it probably depends on the person but that was me.
starry night Yes. It got infected my left ear about 3 months later. It got swollen rlly big that puss started to come out. I had to take the earring out and put the thread around it. I started to put alcohol on three times a day and pushed out the puss a little bit a day. It got better 10 days later. Now it got my earring back. Thanks to my mom.
If it gets infected, don’t give up. Keep cleaning with alcohol 3 times a day and make sure to push all the puss out of the lobe until it’s down to regular size.