"The most important advice I have is about family dynamics. I have 8 sisters who were troubling my wife with hurtful words. I stood by my wife's side and protected her throughout, despite knowing about my sisters' behaviour. It's crucial to stop protecting your family and focus on fixing your marriage. Your family might not support your marriage, especially if you are the main provider at home; they may try to alienate your wife. It's time to realize the reality of the situation."
@user-ok9kw9kk4r Yes, they create stories and lies, and if you are a provider, you need to stand your ground. I stood by her until they all made peace with it. Now we are one happy family
Your next girlfriend must not see this interview. “You can’t allow your wife to come between you and your family”? Some mothers hates their sons😢they make sure that they don’t marry.
How right because the man has proof that the house was built b4 they got married. He also mentioned that porch was not working from 2016 if not 2015. Come with proof MoGirl to show that you are working and bought all what you claim.
This guy is protecting is family. For as long as he does this, he will never have a wife. Not this one and no one else ever. Because he is their lotto, abamthandi.
Tlang ke le botjeng hle they are bith right in their own way 😮 Sadly their marriage involved lots of unnecessary people. Guys marriage is for 2people hle. ❤🎉Marriage is beautiful🎉❤
Let’s be honest to each other guys Porsche ha a kgaogane le ntlo ela and focus on the other assets that her husband has. That house does not form part of her joint estate with her husband. If she bought furniture and she has slips or bank statements to prove it she can claim them but she should leave the house issue.
Mina what I've learnt in life is that if you're falsely accused just keep quite, somehow the person making noise about you will be exposed. But if you try defending yourself, even if you're right you become questionable. But then that's just me.
I applaud the man for coming and saying his side of story. We turn to support women more than man without hearing their side of story. Men endure pain and abuse as much as we do.
@@lucyteffomooi.theres no need to choose he needs them both just like us women we need both family and partners we dnt have to choose they can co-exist
Exactly ...women always put their family and children before their men ..but when men do it its an issue for them .....i think he is right ..no relationship should break down family bonds ..and if thats what women want..then its completely wrong ....learn to co..exist ...@zandiletshehla2877
My advise to Promise: Allow the guest to explain his side, then ask. The probing is is slightly linear to the one you 'potentially' believe, removing the mutual stance you'd like to have in such a scenario. Apart from that, Well done sisi, you are doing so well. Will keep watching
@@Mohlala18Karabo-xc1wd ka nnete people are just protecting her cause ke mosadi, she says she built the house for Mamazala yet Google proves the house was built 2 years before she was married. People will just take sides because they can.
Same- when he said that, I knew that Portia was telling the truth. Because he's basically saying that he'd protect his family over his wife. Even when Promise asked him gore but you're the one who bought her into the family
Is not all the time where you stand for shit,, am a wife and I will put my husband in a awkward situation just because I feel he owes me loyalty, y’all should be fair to your husbands and do the right thing,, don’t marry someone who don’t or will never respect
True, she even said she is challenged. By what exactly, long answers while he contradict himself?eg, He says he never cheated he was flirting with the gal along the way says he cheated and so what🤣🤣
I believe Portia has been through psychological trauma, she needs to get help, heal and let it go. Husband loved her, but a lot happened including third parties and that led to the end of their marriage. Life happened
She did say that she is CURRENTLY unemployed but not that she's been unemployed since the early stages of the relationship. I think that's why Promise is ''shocked''.
Nna ke Shap banna ba Mapedi, these men literally live for Bomma mxm. This touched me because somehow it reminded of my ex family in law treatment of me. And having a husband this weak will make you have a mental breakdown.
Give Portia what’s rightfully hers, I don’t think I’ll even finish watching this podcast cause I’m sure this guy was forcefully sent by his family to come and clear their family name.
Arg xem Mmatswale le dikgaetsedi ba mo apeetse ka meetse a di panty tsa bona, he contributed a lot to Posh's behaviour. She made her feel like an outsider ko ga bo. If you marry her then you must be ready to protect her. Otla mo kgala lele 2 in ur room nd not infront of ur family
Marriage isn't pap &vleis guys. That's why it's important to attend pre marital counseling. Love, sex and attraction don't build up a strong relationship. But good communication is the key to a healthy relationship. A marriage certificate doesn't guarantee anything, build a solid foundation from the beginning. My wife and I have been through all such challenges and we've conquered All. We've just celebrated our 18th anniversary. Life is a journey not a destination. Forgiveness, tolerance, love, understanding, long suffering are but a few keys to a strong marriage. We're not perfect 👌🏿
We need to be honest about our fellow sister she was not an angel in this relationship she needs to be accountable and stop playing a victim and blaming other people she also contributed to this toxicity🚮
I am with you, when she told her story I did not hear her say what her mistakes were. I am married and I would never let my husband cause a rift between me and my family same way I would never let them do the same it’s my job to manage both
@@Mamaofthree792exactly all she did was to blame and accuse other people but not owning up to her flaws this guy is owning up to his mistakes, i am married too and i will never allow my partner to get between me and my family if they dnt like each other its okay they can co-exist but tht does not mean i have to choose, when he says something about 1 of my family member i must believe him coz we are couple.
This guy o weak weak weak. Let him marry again the girl stated she wasn't working in marriage. The lady should go to court. She is in denial about their separation, the man cheatered she can't stay with .we waiting for new makoti round 2.the ladies gave each other senyama thats why she smell. They are both wrong but his family enkga lefotha
Why?i feel you judging this man, actually i feel this man is telling the truth, ladies and being biased by the other ladies, something is fishy with that lady, either entitlement is her issue or she did not think she will lose all this luxury , she is depressed
Yhoo Promise this interview you seem disorganised and didn't have enough time to plan...so many red flags about what this guy said but you didn't dig deeper..
I feel like they should have listened to Portias story before interviewing da husband to comprehend everything she said. Looks like she was misquoted on what she said.
Joint estate is everything they have, if she had 0 and he had 2 then you add zero plus 2 and get 2 then the equally to the couple he is being fair it’s how it works whether she worked or jot
@@Bee-zl2gqeven if you are in the wrong he must defend you? A true wife knows to shut it and fight her battles quietly in the battle field. Portia lied too from what I picked up
😂😂😂😂 elders who lie for no reason 😂😂😂 while we are waiting for important issues...wa bora this guy but the is some truth to his story the lady can't be completely innocent they must just grow up nje..
The way Promise went out of her way to accommodate this guy? Giving him a platform to share his side and even moving her episodes around to air his first and he’s being so rude to her? He’s so arrogant! Men for you! Promise leyena was being too accommodating
Portia could be toxic but what led to her being like that i dont knw. She only mentioned all the bad things about this guy and his family coz she wants to play victim. The guy has his weaknesses but how do you deal a person who burns your clothes and sleeps with a knife
Let’s not take sides guys all relationships has problems 😢problem ya bona they gave up too quick and bringing it on social media Where else it could be fixed both of them are wrong period Ge taba ele so just move on and learn from your mistakes
he said she worked at a college when they met in 2014 and she lost her job in 2017, so she never worked during their marriage since they only dated in 2017 and got married in 2018
The moment he said to Promise “listen to me, listen to what I am saying” nahhh 🤮 even if everything Portia said is a lie, as in all of it, I still stand with her because the other option isn’t up for consideration yuk!!!
1:00:12 now i understand why Portia said her in-laws were saying to their son let's leave the house Portia o tlo go bolaya if you stay behind. Yoh hai go hlakahlakane makgowa
This guy disrespect Promise in her own podcast,,,imagine what was he doing to that poor lady in private....we have lot of women in mental institutions because of such guy then they come forth and Claim that women are crazy mnx😢😢😢😢sthuphethu lesi
