That’s why when my husband paid lobola for me 13yrs ago and I was only 19 I stood my ground with my in-laws .when my dad gave speech he said daughter if you go through difficulties come back home as he understood that I was young,he took further by paying for my varsity fees even when I was in marriage.four years later we separated bcz he lived for his family and he never took anything I say.after 2 years he realised that all the good life and beautiful things he had in his life was bcz of me.he came back to my family to ask for forgiveness and I gave him 2nd chance .we living happily and he realised that he has to please himself,our 2kids and me.i hope when he realises it won’t be too late for him.mostly m proud of you for the decision you took and wishes you all the best going forward
This story reminds me of my cousin who was married in Limpopo, being a Motswana. She never knew her in laws because they didn't want her as she is motswana. When the hubby died, she was not even allowed to go to the funeral. She only found out later, after being married for over 20 years, that the guy had another wife in Limpopo.
It's sad how the in-laws treat us especially mothers and there daughters. I think they should not let their sons to marry in the 1st place. My ex mother in law asked me to pay back lobola because I'm the one who filed for divorce. Tjo ku ningi in marriage guys😅
Portia...sorry sesi 💔..o itlhokomele tlhe..baska gobolaya those people...if possible tlogela diphatlho tseo tsa ko polokwane and move on with your life..God will bless you even more..ke dintho tsa lefatshe your life comes first..❤❤❤o be strong this shall pass..
Her family was supposed to do their part with the portions that were supposed to be taken to her in-laws irrespective of who is going to receive them and who was invited. In life do things accordingly don’t mind what their actions so your path is clear
Portia take them to court these people are wicked. Your story sounds like Queen Lee's I saw you on own narrative with Promise and I thought of Queens story. Hold on God will reward you
Sister in Laws who got divorced and come back to their childhood homes ba opisa hlogo shem! They often bully their brothers' wives. I was never going to allow her to walk all over me!! I am not a pushover. Almost 30 years later they still fight me. My children are adults but ntwa ga e fele.
Queen Lee Lesotho mona ha u le mojalefa meaning you are the elder brother in your mothers house and your father is also the elder brother you inherit habo ntate oa hau that's your grandfather's house. That house becomes fully yours and your children. but if bo Rakhali comes back from their marriages you were expected to welcome them and feed them akere u jele all their parents belongings like land, but the elderly executed that with love now u can refuse and no one is gonner do anything 😃
0:40 My advice to people if you want anything pray to God, and have faith he knows what is best for you, the problem is we don't pray, and if you don't pray u invite the devil to destroy you, so if you want a future husband or wife pray to God he will give you the right one trust me,,,
New subscriber from 🐨🦘🇦🇺. Glad to be here!! Amazing hostess and guest. I loved this interview so much!!! Nkebe o ngathile grocery eo before o isa ko Limpopo mosadi😂😂😂😂😂. Le wena o ne o sena strategy😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Nna nkebe ke e ngathile.
Joh sis Ke hloile ho nyalwa ke last born nna ha qeta ho ba romella le Di siblings Di atla Di tlo kadima each nd every month le Bana ba bona ba tla o feral dibete ba dimand
I really enjoyed this, I wish the host understood Sepedi more because hai shame she was lost at some point, missed really good points. Please work on it host especially since you're Sotho
Sis in law is naive………were you going to make those babies alone? Why she was not shouting “let’s make a lot of babies” to her brother when he sees him?🤔
I don't understand why you and husband couldn't help his family to extend their home so that they are sorted before you build your own house. Now you build a big house in your inlaws grounds while they don't have a proper home 😢
Nna i was in vat n sit, my ex boyfriend molested my 9 years daughter. After ka roiwa hlapa engwe ke ausi wa gage wa lekompo, a feletsa a roga le ngwanaka o a tlaishitsweng ke abuti wa gage, lena mapedi in laws can act so crazy. Like they condoned their brother's behavior who has molested and tried to rape a minor, where as they are parents to girls...to this day i am still woowing, i knew ba tletse bokompo ne, but i never thought they can go this extra
Taba ausi Le abuti lithata hobane balouoe hona hona ke boloi bo serious ene ntate Molimo omoholo hobane ausi oa phela abuti orata molisali oahae fla boloi jooo 😢😢😢😢😢
