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Elizabeth Gilbert on Life and Love 

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“Life is both fleeting and dangerous, and there is no point in denying yourself pleasure, or being anything other than what you are.” - Elizabeth Gilbert, City of Girls
From the dive bars of the Lower East Side to the beaches of Bali, the Connecticut Christmas Tree farm where she was raised to the Mumbai ashram where she sought solace after a difficult divorce, Elizabeth Gilbert is a world traveller whose unending search for answers to life’s biggest questions have made her the voice of a generation.
Aged 34, she left her home, husband and career to travel alone across the world; her chronicle of that journey became Eat, Pray, Love, an international bestseller so popular Time magazine declared her one of the 100 most influential people in the world.
Since then she has produced one critically acclaimed bestseller after another. From Committed, her memoir about making her peace with the institution of marriage, to Big Magic, a book encapsulating her the joyful spirit she brings to her creative work, her works resonate profoundly with all of us who wish to confront heartbreak, tragedy and desperation with openness, imagination and wisdom.
In celebration of the release of her new novel City of Girls, she joined the How To Academy to explore her life to date. In this conversation with journalist Hannah MacInnes, she considered her thoughts on genius and creativity, sex and adventure, wonder and fear, leaving no stone unturned in her remarkable story.

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@maddyharvey7414
@maddyharvey7414 4 года назад
I swear she makes me feel better no matter what is going on with me. It's amazing how she touches so many women and men through her wit, her poise and her wisdom.
@extraextraeverything1279
@extraextraeverything1279 2 года назад
Me too. She makes me feel better no matter what she's saying. Magic human.
@heididupont4582
@heididupont4582 2 года назад
She is amazing
@mindsigh4
@mindsigh4 2 года назад
plus she's got balls🙏 Edit; i forgot which interview, she says to follow ur curiosity, not follow ur bliss, or this or that, but if u wonder what to do creatively or what is the book u want to write, what draws ur attention? Liz is so good at ditching the non vital, we can Iocate what we're curious about, why do we have to make every thing so f'ing complicated? Liz makes it tangible , ya?
@MundoMiyabi
@MundoMiyabi 5 лет назад
I cannot get enough of Liz. What a magnificent human being. A true treasure.
@dimplesharmalyngdoh628
@dimplesharmalyngdoh628 2 года назад
So beautifully spoken
@audreyoreilly4055
@audreyoreilly4055 Год назад
Feeling a bit stressed and depleted so I listen to Liz and always feel the better of it. What a speaker.
@JulianneJessop
@JulianneJessop 5 лет назад
I just burst into tears over the bit about women now being able to own their own property, travel, not have to have children, freedom to be single..WOW
@lauraindira8421
@lauraindira8421 5 лет назад
Julianne Jessop 💛✨
@divinegrace5002
@divinegrace5002 4 года назад
she is my guide ,,,,she is my mentor ,,,my fairygodmother,,,,when she speaks she speaks the language of my soul,,,,thankyou liz for showing us(women) the way love you
@dandeliongreens4664
@dandeliongreens4664 5 лет назад
As time goes on I respect Elizabeth Gilbert more and more: an intelligent, articulate, insightful, authentic person.
@teresawilkinson6231
@teresawilkinson6231 4 года назад
love that quote 'perfectionism is fear in high heels and a mink coat'
@tammycurry4843
@tammycurry4843 4 года назад
I love you Liz, you are amazing, I was married for 20 years to a man and 7 years later after I divorced him, I could never see myself in that kind of relationship with another man. I truly, through heart, I believe love has no gender,. If a love of my life, if I am ever blessed with this experience, if she is female, so be it. I have no label for myself, not lesbian nor one who has appreciation for men too which society expects this of us to be with the opposite gender. Not same gender. Anyway, I don't date, I can never see myself living with another human again, I love myself and I am good in my own skin, I don't need another human to validate me, I have always lost myself in the other person, I lose myself and I don't desire this anymore. Love my animals! Stay healthy everyone in these times we are experiencing today. Love and cyber-long distance- hugs to everyone!
@perkasapropertindo6316
@perkasapropertindo6316 3 года назад
Stil there is sun in the darkness.dont gibe up.warm regard from Bali
@chantallourens
@chantallourens 5 лет назад
I literally just got up from my bed to give this talk a standing ovation at minute 41:00!!! Elizabeth is a hero. I'm single, 37 with no kids, and I swear I have accumulated the best stories and experiences in this lifetime. 100% Elizabeth Gilbert approved GUILT & SHAME FREE
@jesterminute9472
@jesterminute9472 4 года назад
You sound just as self indulgent as she is. Give yourself a round of applause. "i have accumulated the best stories and experiences" ......bloody hell.
@chantallourens
@chantallourens 4 года назад
I am indeed and I will, thank you!
@sandyavalos3305
@sandyavalos3305 4 года назад
Chantal Lourens I’m glad you have. If no romantic relationship works for me, I have a plan to go full on single and try to do shit for not only myself but for others. Doesn’t mean I already do, but I feel that there is more freedom.
@chantallourens
@chantallourens 4 года назад
@@sandyavalos3305 I like that. And who knows what beautiful things life brings when you focus on your own path rather than so called "shortcomings". Enjoy your journey xx
@sandyavalos3305
@sandyavalos3305 4 года назад
Chantal Lourens thank you so much :). I’ve been needing to hear that.
@divinegrace5002
@divinegrace5002 4 года назад
her words r so impactful they fill me up i cant watch her interviews in one go,,,,i get so filled with love n wisdom i have pause take it in then come back,,,,,,,women need to hear this ,,,,,u r my mentor liz
@nicole-secondaryemail-mort9617
@nicole-secondaryemail-mort9617 4 года назад
@43:50 [her 4th grade teacher[ "she just believed that we were infinitely educate-able." Awesome term.
@nicole-secondaryemail-mort9617
@nicole-secondaryemail-mort9617 4 года назад
Timestamp correction @42:50
@juliedew6669
@juliedew6669 3 года назад
Self stewardship is a great start. We should all strive for that before we strive for love. So well said.
@thesmartgene
@thesmartgene 5 лет назад
I really agree with this--I used to view art as involving pain and some kind of self-destruction, and then, years later, I became really playful with my art. Of course, the later was much more fun!
@szumsia
@szumsia 5 лет назад
Elizabeth I can listen to you for hours..... I need you in my life... thank you for speaking like you do
@litaarias9127
@litaarias9127 5 лет назад
Your connection is blessed , love and Light
@sharaswitala6296
@sharaswitala6296 2 года назад
I can always breathe more deeply whenever i listen to you
@angelamp6270
@angelamp6270 4 года назад
“Tell the truth, tell the truth, tell the truth!” You are doing this amazingly well, with so much authenticity and vulnerability Liz! You are setting us free! 🙏
@Monique84Maneveld
@Monique84Maneveld 4 года назад
Absolutely LOVE this woman! Thank you, Elizabeth. I needed this especially today!
@KatieMonk
@KatieMonk 5 лет назад
Thank you so much for posting this. I couldn't get to the talk in person, so this is great. Liz Gilbert is one in a million. Always tells great stories, isn't afraid to speak her truth, and thus inspires others to do the same. 🙏
@jeanniecampbell1374
@jeanniecampbell1374 5 лет назад
I have been living in a cupboard ...love her .
@zsuzsagrosz1000
@zsuzsagrosz1000 5 лет назад
What a bubbling, amazing personality she has! Utterly and brutally sincere and honest. Good conversation, thank you!
@jennybugg8
@jennybugg8 5 лет назад
This interview is so brilliant, from everything... on creativity on being a woman on death on being stewards of our own bodies and mind... I cried several times during this interview and continue to. Thank you Elizabeth Gilbert for being you and for sharing yourself, transparently, authentically and with complete abandon to us all. You are magnificent.
@carolynmaryscott
@carolynmaryscott 2 года назад
Liz Gilbert: Translucent, genius, passionate truth teller and lover of life.
@sensavia
@sensavia 5 лет назад
WOW. Just Brilliant... I am in awe of this woman and her incredible skill to put things in perspective. Ive never read the bible and now I want to go read that throw down speech! Thank you for this Liz Gilbert, I hope I meet you one day on a plane. ❤️
@kt9230
@kt9230 4 года назад
What a grand journey we are all on! Such perfect timing to watching this today for the first time. Such great, insightful, deep conversation into the plentiful well of our hearts, our existence, our being. Thank you, Liz and Oprah, for such a wonderful co-creative journey captured on camera! The alchemy of souls! LOVE IT. And, thank you, Rayya, for flowing thru as well. Gorgeous!
@nenebugs
@nenebugs 5 лет назад
The opposite to depression is the acceptance of your powerlessness. Fucking hell, there is so much power in that acceptance!
@dandeliongreens4664
@dandeliongreens4664 5 лет назад
At about one-hour 15 minutes, I so appreciate Gilbert's authenticity and humanity in back-tracking on that "trope" which is problematic. To the woman who asked the question, from my own experience and learning, I would like to recommend re-placing the word "love" with "value" and say, in all that you do, make sure that your choices come from a place of valuing yourself (your time, your energy, your needs etc.) and do not value somebody else more than you value yourself. You can value yourself and another person at the same time, but do not value another person at the expense of yourself.
@aspyn31
@aspyn31 4 года назад
Watched the movie years ago. It always intrigued me, so I was walking through Barnes and Noble and I seen the tenth edition and I was like okay let me read the book and see how it differs from the movie. So glad I picked up the book! Now i've been watching all the interviews and I'm blown away by what happened since the book ended. Really hope she writes a book on Rayya! I don't agree with everything in the book, but that's okay, because it challenges my own thoughts and beliefs and I think we always need a review of these from time to time!
@florenceerinlarsen7026
@florenceerinlarsen7026 5 лет назад
I just finished City of Girls while on a beautiful vacation in Corsica. Liz - what a triumph -- brilliant brilliant hilarious real -- you are BIG MAGIC GIRL! Thank you so for City of Girls 🙏🏻✨💫❤️
@kadraeissmann1632
@kadraeissmann1632 5 лет назад
Thank you Liz! Just thank you!
@bobbireichtell8973
@bobbireichtell8973 3 года назад
I love the concept of us being stewards of our own being.
@rhythmoflove2
@rhythmoflove2 4 года назад
This was so refreshing. The interviewer asked good questions too and I liked her energy. All interviewers don’t do well.
@liznorth4028
@liznorth4028 4 года назад
Exactly!!
@MotherIsRising
@MotherIsRising 3 года назад
So greatful for this woman.
@jiseonhwang6644
@jiseonhwang6644 2 года назад
I enjoy so much listening to her talk everywhere! ❤
@gaieellis9376
@gaieellis9376 4 года назад
So liberating - the gift that keeps on giving. What a friend to share with articulate, compassionate and healthy confrontation.
@CarniBarbie
@CarniBarbie 5 лет назад
I never read fiction, but I can’t wait to devour this book! It sounds like I will relate so much to it and it could be very healing! Thank you! 💕
@tinabirdshafer
@tinabirdshafer 3 года назад
"The Universe seeing itself through your creativity"
@chloeb.8677
@chloeb.8677 4 года назад
What a beacon of light you are, Elizabeth. I’ve decided that we are totally best friends lol-and this interview is absolutely golden. Gratitude for such quality content 🙏🏾
@anastasiahesketh6618
@anastasiahesketh6618 3 года назад
I also feel like she's my best friend!!😁💜
@TheZGALa
@TheZGALa 5 лет назад
"To the consequences!" Indeed. Amen sister. I love this talk so much.
@andreaandrea6716
@andreaandrea6716 4 года назад
Elizabeth, thank you from the very bottom of my being for saying you wake up thinking "Oh, f*ck, F U H C K! OMG, NOoooooo!!" because I DO TOO and it is always encouraging to know that 'others' (especially 'others' as lovely and successful and bright as your very human self) are having this response to BEING HERE. The things I do to manage that moment of transition from unconscious/sleeping to conscious BEING HERE ... ugh, Jesus. There is such deep, awful psychic pain in waking. Thankfully, it doesn't last toooooo long anymore... but having to fight ones way onto the day is so weird and such a pain ... and I wish I understood it better. Since so many admit to this these days (and really YOUNG people!!!), I have come to believe that we are all connected and psychic/sensitive ... that THAT is the energy on the planet now. And my thought is ... that COLLECTIVELY we have to heal out of separateness.
@michellereynolds6999
@michellereynolds6999 4 года назад
I love this beyond words. 💫 I have yet to ever listen to an Elizabeth Gilbert interview, that I didn't learn something that was eye opening and life altering for me.🥰
@makingchanges9353
@makingchanges9353 4 года назад
Deep GRATITUDE!!!
@shrir.amarasinghe1575
@shrir.amarasinghe1575 2 года назад
Looking back I realize that listening to her is the one thing that kept me going this year
@verotexier5475
@verotexier5475 4 года назад
I'm French born artist woman and I so much agree with Liz about London/ versus Paris .... I was a resident In UK for 10 years and there are fundamental societal differences ..... veronique
@oliveblanco
@oliveblanco 3 года назад
I love Elizabeth's soul!
@maimohamed3590
@maimohamed3590 5 лет назад
She is such a joyful soul, thank you✨
@judegrindvoll8467
@judegrindvoll8467 5 лет назад
If you can't love yourself it doesn't mean you can't love other people, but I do think it impacts the quality of your love. When you love yourself you aren't afraid to do what's right rather than what's easy. You aren't afraid to speak truthfully rather than soothingly. You don't want to placate rather than be honest. Loving yourself means not allowing those you love to take advantage of that; not loving yourself enough leaves you vulnerable to loving people too much. And, yes, that is very possible. When Elizabeth ended a marriage that was just not working for her, that was self-love. Would you be able to do that without loving yourself as much as you need to?
@Solerisa
@Solerisa 5 лет назад
I enjoyed this tremendously and every bit of it made me stop and think and rethink. Thank you!
@aiyanarosel101
@aiyanarosel101 3 года назад
wow, what a powerful conversation.
@kemi1744
@kemi1744 Год назад
My greatest motivated women in the world. She has the special way to touch my soul. Love you Liz
@fifiemayasari8778
@fifiemayasari8778 3 года назад
What a remarkable woman. I really love the interview. 👍👍❤️
@evl457
@evl457 5 лет назад
I needed to hear this
@EyeHaiti
@EyeHaiti 5 лет назад
Amazing!
@adanharo
@adanharo 4 года назад
just great chat. I learned a lot. Big hug from México
@anastasiahesketh6618
@anastasiahesketh6618 3 года назад
Oh my.....Liz Gilbert, you touch my heart and soul in so many ways. When I read, or hear your words,generous,open,honest,full of wisdom and compassion, I could literally kneel before you to express my gratitude to you for who you are, and how you touch my life every day. I live with bipolar with mixed moods,and rapid cycles, and creativity-artwork and writing are integral to who I am. Recently, my psychiatric nurse did a care plan for keeping me well,and listening to your talks,and reading your books were number one in the list of things that make me feel well. THANK YOU!💜I loved what you shared about making yourself get off the couch crying, to stand in the middle of the room on one foot,crying! It was like you were in my head!😲😊. I told my sister today that I wish I could be your friend...the truth is, I feel like you already are. Thank you Liz, for what you do for me,the world, and for the amazing woman you are. Love you 💜💜👩‍🎨
@TamarChante
@TamarChante 4 года назад
This conversation and Liz herself is such an inspiring, brilliant expression of life! Thank you :)
@nishasankaran
@nishasankaran 3 года назад
Go ahead Liz!💕
@drelenashirleydvmcvama8517
@drelenashirleydvmcvama8517 4 года назад
yes!!!! the world of threaded binding of books, and NYT reviews
@kaout4737
@kaout4737 5 лет назад
I'm only at 53min and have to comment. This is the most profound interview I've ever heard!
@RennyMmusic
@RennyMmusic 5 лет назад
Such an amazing interview. I love Liz's honesty and openness. So refreshing to listen to 💜
@jmc8076
@jmc8076 5 лет назад
52:13 ‘Please don’t bombard us with cures or horror stories.’ Thank you Elizabeth. I think many relate (silently) and want to ask the same but don’t for fear of hurt feelings or rocking boats. Speak your truth. It’s your life and right. You owe to yourself. 🙏 I also admire how open to love she is even after the passing of a partner. She seems to walk her talk... amp.nine.com.au/article/37886e11-680c-4976-aafd-7a34af18efb9
@doreenhamelsmith9486
@doreenhamelsmith9486 5 лет назад
Lady, what a sweet rainwater shower you are! Read some of you.. yes... but just want to say, you sing my soul. Thank you for all you have sat within yourself, as you have the gift of connected sharing. I Live in stewardship ( I guess...loveit). A doula, support in souls and have been graced to support souls out, the breath is constant until it isn't.
@burnellvassarmd4670
@burnellvassarmd4670 5 лет назад
Elizabeth, so loved the Signature, I wanna sit next to you on the plane
@amygiangregorio2956
@amygiangregorio2956 14 дней назад
Thanks!
@sorayameah8216
@sorayameah8216 3 года назад
Excellent conversation. I enjoyed the company, yet I am only a virtual participant. Thank you to Elizabeth for sharing her creativity , and everyone who made it happen.
@xaos791
@xaos791 4 года назад
what an amazing woman!
@Curare8
@Curare8 2 года назад
Thank you this video it is amazing.
@dimplesharmalyngdoh628
@dimplesharmalyngdoh628 2 года назад
I really feel so much like her, managing my mental health.. Everyday
@trannyglitter12
@trannyglitter12 3 года назад
great! really enjoyed this one
@verena9085
@verena9085 Год назад
I love her :) she is so cool, positive and honest and nice and a beauty too.
@jodieelizabeth585
@jodieelizabeth585 5 лет назад
love the last question and answer :)
@jodieelizabeth585
@jodieelizabeth585 5 лет назад
ooooh "its like you're auditioning for a part you already got" toooo :)
@KaterinaTalantliva
@KaterinaTalantliva 4 года назад
She said that Raya wasn't in the book. But all this time I thought Elias Ray is exactly her! Even in the name
@liznorth4028
@liznorth4028 4 года назад
Goodness, what better time than this...i hope you find her or someone healing, encouraging..."this time will pass"
@paulaplaster934
@paulaplaster934 5 лет назад
Superinspirational, I love her and a really good interview!
@TheZGALa
@TheZGALa 5 лет назад
Thank you for the tip to speed up. I am going to try the write it all at once method.
@cubiclegirl7075
@cubiclegirl7075 5 лет назад
just love her awareness and communication.... the best! among the best rather
@clareunderwood6690
@clareunderwood6690 5 лет назад
So many emotions watching this. What an amazing human! So much depth and courage that she offers to us all.
@melmjetset1876
@melmjetset1876 5 лет назад
I can listen to Liz talk all day. Remarkable woman. Thanks for posting!
@diannathefirst
@diannathefirst 2 года назад
Love her!
@yagmura6564
@yagmura6564 2 года назад
This was beautiful
@1piw544
@1piw544 5 лет назад
What an inspiring talk! Love it!
@b.d.walters4410
@b.d.walters4410 3 года назад
I want to comment on perfectionism. I tried lots of ways to let it go...including Elizabeth's way. But.. alas...I ended up not even trying to create. Today I have this perception... I am perfect for all that God has prepared for me to each day...I can do all I am prepared to do. Whatever I create is perfect for what I know today. So, I can create quickly or slowly and be ok either way. I am a Communications Artist and Collage Illustrator... I can agonize over a piece... I can quickly compose some elements into a message... I can work, nap, finish Every day is unique...but perfect for me. Caveat: I have no publisher pushing me to completion. 😎
@lindakingshields1126
@lindakingshields1126 5 лет назад
BRAVO FOR SHARING!!! 🤗
@nbh36
@nbh36 5 лет назад
The best talk ever!!!
@J.Moyine
@J.Moyine 5 лет назад
Love you liz, thank you for being such a bright and beautiful light in this world 💜
@dianemorris9561
@dianemorris9561 4 года назад
I love her.
@TheZGALa
@TheZGALa 5 лет назад
OMG! I have the same job and similar hobbies. Much Love, Love, Love. Play Love Play. ;)
@flyingcheff
@flyingcheff 4 года назад
What an intro!
@chitrasingh44
@chitrasingh44 5 лет назад
Precious.. The Ideas, the honesty, filled me, made me pause n ponder, kept me seated and again ..filled to the brim!! ...oh Also reminded me - the things that I must/need to/ should do.. Just cause.. Thank you!!
@juliahaw
@juliahaw 5 лет назад
Elizabeth rings so much truth, always. "Hand me your shame."
@romanarseniy
@romanarseniy 5 лет назад
Julia Haw She says shame does not exist because you can not pass it. And at the same time she keeps talking about god as something real. How are they different? Both concepts are invented. Why does she believe only in one of them?
@Catherine-zq1kb
@Catherine-zq1kb 5 лет назад
This is Great
@New_me2024
@New_me2024 7 месяцев назад
It's true...my religion ( Islam) says that...not only your qualities but Your problems your turbulence have also been tailor made according to your capacity...so even it might be difficult for some really blessed people to love others, while some really abused people will be willing to give and love more, it's more about understanding your self what you can take or not, some times we are kinder because it gives us better sleep, being unkind is not a thing for us ...
@joytulip2
@joytulip2 3 года назад
The most interesting and beautiful woman i could listen to forevermore…
@laurafmartinss
@laurafmartinss 5 лет назад
what a gift she is!
@sanag5053
@sanag5053 5 лет назад
I love herrr!!!
@laxvce8308
@laxvce8308 5 лет назад
God let her talk!!!!!!
@taraqueen58
@taraqueen58 4 года назад
I'd heard of Eat Pray Love but not necessarily taken much notice of who the author was having exhausted a glut of self help books in my 20s 30s 40s.....only just via an interview with Russel Brand become aware of her.
@tropicalbohemiansage
@tropicalbohemiansage 4 года назад
Rare breed...🦄wish we could clone EG. 💓
@dominique1773
@dominique1773 5 лет назад
Superb, she certainly lives her life.
@Nhionlyone
@Nhionlyone 4 года назад
I like her so much
@irisstumpf9732
@irisstumpf9732 4 года назад
❤️❤️❤️
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