What a beautiful song that shows the understanding how fucking complicated it really can be. But that line, "you're not his missing piece" "dont play for keeps" and "you're worth more than that" just speaks to my soul on a level I didnt even know I needed. Brilliant lyrics. Brilliant
"The saddest end to a relationship is one where you have to break up with somebody when you're still in love with them. It sounds bizzare but it happens, because the truth is, as powerful and as thrilling as it may be, being in love doesn't always mean you're happy. You can continue to love someone even after they've hurt you, but you know deep inside that it won't ever be the again."
Weekend trips Phone calls on friday night Secret texts You delete in the morning light You'll fight to find Reasons that justify Something so wrong, that's so right The sun rises and sets And he still ain't single yet And you're just left alone With the voices in your head, girl get back to bed He ain't yours So don't play for keeps Baby, she's got the crown Honey, she holds the key And a signed piece of paper And a diamond ring And that's all you need to know Where you stand with a married man Woah-oh, woah-oh, woah-oh Don't tell your friends Tie up all your loose ends Get out girl while you can, if you can The sun rises and sets He still ain't single yet And you're just left alone And he says baby come back to bed He ain't yours So don't play for keeps Baby, she's got the crown Honey, she holds the key And a signed piece of paper And a diamond ring And that's all you need to know Where you stand with a married man Woah-oh, woah-oh, woah-oh Yeah, maybe you both want what you can't have And you're willing to take some good with the bad But, baby, you know you're worth more than that He ain't yours So don't play for keeps He was messing around You're not his missing piece It takes a signed piece of paper, and a diamond ring And that's all you need to know Where you stand with a married man Woah-oh, woah-oh, woah-oh With a married man
I fell in love with a married man. We purely talked online. He was a wonderful man but I know he just clearly used me. I got attached to him that I think about him everyday until we parted ways. I always want him to be happy. To you, Luis..wherever you are - I hope you are happy, healthy and loved. I wish you all the best. You are a good man, and I know you will be a good father to your little parasites (babies), yes he calls babies as parasites. Idk why. I think I will never forget you and all the things I did just so I can call you mine..but you aren’t mine to keep. Thank you for loving me. You know I have loved you, in the way I know. - Lila
There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go :')
I love how you approach it with so much compassion for the girl where others just hit her with straight condemnation. Such a beautiful and special song. 💛
I still want him even though he won't leave his wife for me and every time I think about him, I want to cry. If he said he wanted me, I'd be there. I want him more than anyone yet he hurts me the most.
I’ve just never in a million years fathomed how this could even happen . I have had many men in relationships that I may have liked not knowing they were in a relationship once I found out they were I was quick to shut it down no matter how much it hurt me . And if he didn’t stop pursuing me I let him know that I am a woman and I will never disrespect another woman that way . I was cheated on I know the feeling of sitting up waiting up wondering where he is . And I swore I would never be in that situation again and never be that woman who does that to another woman . And here I am now for the past 8months dealing with a woman who knew he was in a relationship and is very disrespectful about messing with him to the point she has text me looking for him. I have laid many nights crying hurt broken seeing the words he had told her about me private situations I confided in him about . Lies he spoke about me cut me to the core but now that he realizes he has lost me he is in panic mode .
We were destined to meet, no matter the distance between us, we return to each other again and again. It's that once in a lifetime connection, the ones that make you feel more alive, just sitting next to them, even the silence is perfect because you feel whole in their presence.I don't know what it is about him, only that, when I look into his eyes, I see a reflection of my soul staring back at me :')
Weekend trips Phone calls on friday night Secret texts You delete in the morning light You’ll fight to find Reasons that justify Something so wrong, that’s so right The sun rises and sets And he still ain’t single yet And you’re just left alone With the voices in your head, girl get back to bed He ain’t yours So don’t play for keeps Baby, she’s got the crown Honey, she holds the key And a signed piece of paper, and a diamond ring And that’s all you need to know Where you stand with a married man Don’t tell your friends Tie up all your loose ends Get out girl while you can, if you can
I'm at a crossroad, I'm attracted to a married man and vice versa. I'm trying to resist, I'm praying about it and asking God to take away the feeling, each time I try to walk away something pulls me back in, last night we kissed for the first time and it felt so good. Sinful things always feel good. I don't want it to go any further but the temptation is so strong, I need strength, I need prayer.
I'm so sorry about that. Have you been in your Bible? Maybe if you have fighting verses and put it on the mirror something, it can help you. I like a married man myself luckily there is nothing going on between us, but in a way is hard. Again, I am so sorry about that. Remember, Ephesians 6:11-18 says ¹¹Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. ¹²For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. ¹³Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. ¹⁴Stand therefore, having your loins girt about the truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness; ¹⁵And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace; ¹⁶Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. ¹⁷And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: ¹⁸Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints; And remember Galatians 5:22-23 kjv ²²But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, ²³meekness, temperance:against such there is no law. People say temperance is self-control, but we can have self-control when we don't believe it's called psychology, but temperance is more than that it's Spirit-control. Though you still have to push yourself to be in his Word.
Been here. She didn’t care anymore but her friend talked to me. We just clicked. Her husband was abusive and we talked about our situations. We let it get too far because of how they were treating us. We ended it but we still talk. People can always talk about how wrong things are but when they don’t know all the details they just don’t know the hardships that your heart can lay on you. Having another person to talk to is just so worth it. She will always be my friend now. I know she will be there if I need her.
It’s been 7 1/2 years, wasn’t married when I met him, but it was his high school love he always wanted yet he talks to me every day and comes and crawls in my bed. We have a very close friendship and that’s what makes it hard. I don’t get him at night, she does, or holidays, she does. He makes me happy but makes me sad at the same time. I can’t not have him in my life. He’s my person.
This song is absolutely gorgeous.. and such a real topic to write about. Your voice is incredible and comforting. I stumbled across this in my feed... and so happy to have found this! I have many family members and friends who have been in this situation and it’s so hard... especially watching your loved ones get hurt or be alone. ❤️❤️❤️
I have been in love with a man ...I was 17 years old when I met him and he was with his highschool girlfriend well things happened and he then got married to her and it broke my heart...2 weeks after he was married he came and saw me ...even though I knew it was wrong he was my first love we continued to see each other almost every day ...then after awhile I lost contact with him and 10 years later he sent me a message on Facebook messenger and when I read it all my feelings came rushing back to when I was 17 and now I'm 44 and we still talk and even though I love him so much but he still is married and even though I love him I know in my heart he will never be mine...but I can't unlove him either so I feel this song...My advice to anyone Don't Get Your heart involved with someone else's world...
I have been in this situation with the same man on and off for 33 years, today I sent this to him hes been. Married 4 50 years. There was a baby that was forciably aborted because my mom set it up destroyed me, for years. Every person even thinking of this listen firat really know how awful even if you love him.
3 years, even told my parents he was going to marry me. He nearly destroyed me. I was so depressed and drinking. Finally almost 2 years free of him it still hurts but less
❤ could happen to anyone My husband got a girl pregnant when he was my husband. Now we happen to be in different roles❤️ I’m sure your baby is an angel❤️
Not me thinking of this song while falling for a married man with a kid. Context: He’s my coworker and he’s switching jobs sometime next month. I wasn’t thinking of getting involved with him even if given the option. It’s just a sad feeling. You know the “can look but can’t touch” rule? Even looking makes me feel like the worst. Let alone when he crosses my mind. When I talk to him I seem to forget about all the lives I’d reck. The moment he leaves the smile on my face fades and I’m left with guilt. I’m just struggling with wishing he’d hurry onto his other job and wishing he’d stay longer.
I'm a wife. Husband had an inappropriate situation with a female co worker. We have 5 kids. I'm humiliated and I don't just blame her. But please please don't be that woman
@@antzval754 it is not my intention to pursue anything with him. It’s human decency. It hurts but I’d rather not live with the regret of keeping someone up wondering “why did he cheat on me” or “why did dad leave mom”.
Music has always been a huge part of my life. Your song really spoke to me. It helped give me the strength to end a short relationship I knew was wrong. I still love him, but I know I did the right thing, for both of us.
I ended up dating someone in the marines. He lived on his own with roommates so I didn’t question anything. Turned out he was married. His wife was across the country. She has cerebral palsy. I felt all the emotions you can ever think of. He said he loved me. He lied from beginning to end. Told me he ended up getting stationed in NC, when in reality he got out and went back to his wife in Ohio. To think you were the “backup” or “side piece” was the worst feeling. He treated me so well. Like. How could someone ever do that. He knew I wanted something serious. & he still played with me.
He's a muslim and living abroad. We're in a relationship. Now, he said he got engaged by his parents. Whenever where on call he end it everytime his fiancé is calling. He said I came before her and he don't love her YET. I wish it's easy to leave him. I love him so much but I don't wanna to be a mistress.
Oh girl...it becomes like an addiction! I did it for 3 years I moved to HI to get away cause I knew it would never stop! I don't judge you and I hope you meet someone you deserve 🖤💔
Hmm... Girls i feel you guys... But what we can do? We can't help it.💔 To think that he would hug her wife after he send me back home.. it's hurt like hell... But i know it's wrong to think it that way.. becoz i wish i could forget everytime he touches me the way he talk to me..but it keep hunting me every lonely night 💔
He is married with a forth kid on the way he is perfect and completes me but he loves her and claims to love me too the difference I know about me and she knows me as that pretty friend of his she is nice and sweet and polite but I can't kick him he is everything I ever wanted and more I just don't want anyone end up hurt but face it someone will and most likely her or me.
It happens! Just don't cross the line of mixing emotions with sex. Support him in his relationship with his wife! Encourage him to stay and work it out! But if she doesn't care what he does, the marriage was in trouble long before he looked at another woman! Marriage should be more than a compromise, more than an obligation! It should be 2 hearts ❤❤ that become one❤. If there is one heart, he won't be looking and she should care! 😮
This song cracks me up! My husband of twenty years was having an affair with a much younger woman. She kept sending him this song that I found on his phone. Bottom line ladies......don't be a tramp and songs like this don't have to be written.
Totally going though this. My boyfriend is married but in an open marriage. His wife has had a boyfriend for a little over 3 years now and I'm his first actual girlfriend. She has actually moved her boyfriend in with them and I think it's just wrong. She won't even allow me to come over to their place. We however have all 4 went on a date which was very awkward but it went alright I guess. I can tell that he's not happy with her but I honestly don't think he will ever leave her because they have two boys that he is afraid to lose. Their oldest isn't technically his but he did adopt him. Someone actually told me that he would actually get custody of them because she moved her boyfriend in with them being married but I don't know.
Open relationship means that they are actually sleeping together still. She is probably having sex with both. If he “loves you” he needs to grow some balls and make a decision. You deserve better
Anyone who sleeps with a married man or woman is shameful and disgraceful and does not know the pain and trauma it causes to the betrayed spouse and family ..
I don't think that is their goal, it usually happens to a young girls, they just fall in love, u should blame more the person that is married and doing that
Absolutely the married spouse is more to blame but my husbands AP was his age she wasn’t younger and knew he was married with 4 kids and I was sick fighting cancer ..There are plenty of men out there that are Unmarried, it’s a new form of disgustingness When you go after a married man You haven’t a clue of the devastation your causing to the entire family ..shame on you
@@TheLindajean777 I am sorry for what happened to you but you should know your husband was wrong and doesn't deserve you. You deserve better, be strong.
The reality is that married men who cheat aren't looking to end their marriages, the cheating is often what keeps them married. Once the other woman moves on or once he is caught, he's forced to deal with whatever led him to cheat. That is the point where marriages often collapse. I've never met a woman who WANTED to be in either position of these women.
Weekend trips Phone calls on friday night Secret texts You delete in the morning light You'll fight to find Reasons that justify Something so wrong, that's so right The sun rises and sets And he still ain't single yet And you're just left alone With the voices in your head, girl get back to bed He ain't yours So don't play for keeps Baby, she's got the crown Honey, she holds the key And a signed piece of paper And a diamond ring And that's all you need to know Where you stand with a married man Woah-oh, woah-oh, woah-oh Don't tell your friends Tie up all your loose ends Get out girl while you can, if you can The sun rises and sets He still ain't single yet And you're just left alone And he says baby come back to bed He ain't yours So don't play for keeps Baby, she's got the crown Honey, she holds the key And a signed piece of paper And a diamond ring And that's all you need to know Where you stand with a married man Woah-oh, woah-oh, woah-oh Yeah, maybe you both want what you can't have And you're willing to take some good with the bad But, baby, you know you're worth more than that He ain't yours So don't play for keeps He was messing around You're not his missing piece It takes a signed piece of paper, and a diamond ring And that's all you need to know Where you stand with a married man Woah-oh, woah-oh, woah-oh With a married man
