Emotional & Invisible labour - Why Women Are Fed Up & Tired 

This makes me glad I'm not in a relationship. Most people these days just try to use you and disrespect you not worth it at all. To many hurt people are running around hurting other people and usually it is an innocent people. Just plain wrong to me.

Wow! Thank you for your share. I learned loads. Keep up your awesome shares 🙏😀💃🌞🌍🌌🌠🙏🌈🌞🌍

Glad this is getting attention. We're so tired and we need help. This idea of the "strong" women often entails being overworked and exhausted. We deserve better.

I always enjoy your videos, you always choose such interesting topics. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this, well said and thought out. Have a beautiful day! 🌷🌳🍃🌷🌳🍃🌷🌳🍃🌷🌳🍃🌷🌳🍃🌷🌳🍃🌷🌳🍃🌷🌳🍃🌷🌳🍃

This is the reason why divorce is on the rise, women have crazy double jobs, at work then go home do it again at home. A roommate contributes more than my ex-husband in household chores. So I decided to be single again! Didn’t get married to get an adult child

People need to learn to care about each other.

Ruth I really enjoyed your emotional & Invisible Labour video how we all should try to appreciate & support one another 🙏🌟

Haha - I best start pulling my finger out!!! Thankfully we have a nice balance... Hope this video sheds more light on the subject helps a few guys step up!

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Interesting topic, thanks for sharing 🌸🙏

my sociology lecturer recommended that we watch this video to gain a better understanding of the topic we have to write an essay on it

When my daughter comes to me with a story of how person X has done her wrong. I encourage her to tell the same story with her name switched for person X's. If the story seems silly or ridiculous there is probably something she could change about how she is thinking about it. If the story seems to make sense from both perspectives then maybe there is something that both could recognize about the other that would be a good thing. House work and child care. OMG! Its unrelenting. We had 3 girls in 3 years. One of the 3 kids could mess up 3 just dried cloth diapers in one change despite having had the chat with her and her assuring me that she was done. Two hours of cooking can be consumed in fifteen minutes or it may not get eaten at all. Later on the school lunches that come home totally intact with the exception of one bite out of the home made square that the teacher wouldn't let her eat because it wasn't labelled peanut free. Its enough to make Steven King cringe. I dealt with most of that for the first 5 years while my wife worked in a nursing home. She was expected to get 5 residents up and ready for breakfast in 17 minutes all the while being kind and caring. She had to deal with being perpetually under staffed while trying to give a few moments of quality time to a crying resident who only wanted to know why her long deceased husband was not coming to take her home. I couldn't have done that job. I can only imagine how soul sucking a 12 hour shift of that must have been so I tried to take care of things so my wife wouldn't have to when she got home. My wife came home one morning after a night shift and said "I feel so left out. You do everything. I'm missing out on my kid's lives." I was stunned. I had no idea. I was just trying to help. She quit her job and stayed home with the kids and I got a job on a golf course. I think both of us found out that the grass wasn't as green on the other side as the fence lead us to believe. If you are still reading, I award you 43 Brownie Points. When we got home with our first baby and the breast feeding wasn't working and the pump we borrowed from the hospital wouldn't work and we all cried for two hours, I decided to get a "good " breast pump like the hospital uses. I found out that was $1400 so I built one out of a VW wiper motor, two pop cans, a transformer and a piece of mahogany that worked off of batteries, the car or house current. We didn't have a wash machine for all those diapers so I found 3 that were thrown out and made one that worked. I made a huge folding cloths rack that sat over our floor furnace that I also built. I cut, hauled, cut up, split and piled in wood as our only source of heat. I plowed our driveway, replaced wheel bearing, glow plugs, alternators, mounted snow tires and checked the oil, windshield washer, antifreeze, brake fluid and tire pressure so everything was ready when my wife had to go to work. My wife never expressed interest in learning how to drive the tractor to help with the snow plowing or hauling wood. She never came in the house after her 12 hour shift and told me she filled the lawn mower with gas or sharpened the chain saw or checked to see if anything was broke on the tractor so any of those machines would be ready to go if I got a couple of hours to do anything. She never told me that she seen a set of metric ratcheting wrenches in the hardware store that would be great for getting those glow plugs replaced on the car. Would this be my invisible labour? My spouse didn't help with any of it. Should I have expected her to? Should I feel Fed UP? Would all the men laugh knowingly if I said that I felt unappreciated because my wife doesn't automatically know that the windshield washers aren't working because the reservoir is empty and I'm sure the way to fix it is to keep nagging her about it? Now if you think all of this is silly and ridiculous I refer you to my first paragraph.

“women are so tired because nobody cares about the work they’re doing” wow, stuff it- this is a situational argument. I do the largest share of household labor and childcare, not because I feel indebted, but because it’s right- you can’t see the forest because of the trees! Men feel this way too but that doesn’t feed your narrative.

So glad I never had kids. Nothing more appealing than adding children on top of a grown man child . 🙄

Your HAIR is blocking my view sweet cheeks …..it’s Labour to hold in all your issues with your pattern and wait for him to start reading your mind …yes….it’s not Mature

It’s funny that AT NO POINT IN HISTORY…have MEN ever complained about THEIR ROLE….THAT is where our incredulity comes from as men in the face of childish nonsense like this

the cognitive invisible labor of men