I love the genuine answers of minghao... He dint try to compromise he understands both sides.. He was so smooth without hurting anyone's feeling he sorted the situation
I know Minghao is known as "the friendzoning idol" but I think that's exactly what all idols should be. Like, they can keep doing fanservice and be a little flirty and whatever, but every once in a while we need a reality check to remember that it's just a celebrity/fan relationship. I think the kpop fandom would be a lot healthier that way. I really liked when Minghao said he wants fans to love themselves first, then their parents, and THEN him. He's very admirable 💙 EDIT: I wasn't expecting this to blow up thanks everyone 😅 Remember idols are human and show them respect always! 🥰
Thanks for saying that, that's so true. Sometimes I feel uncomfortable reading some comments, the way some fans talk about idols, i don't even know where jokes started and ended. At the same time I'm scared of some of them future relationship, will they keep looking for someone like their idols?
BUT i would like to add that celebrities and fans are both still people. a different celebrity might be a bit more intense about it and feel comfortable with that. people are different like that. they can feel differently and wish to act differently. their boundaries may lie somewhere different. like if i were an idol or celebrity in general, i personally would be absolutely fine saying that i'm dating my fans. i would likely simply say that any fan that wants to date me now is. b/c i would feel comfortable with that and i would like to. other celebrities might not, but/and that's their prerogative.
The8 was so real in this episode. You can clearly tell that he is so genuine with everything that he says to the Dad. I love how consistent he is with who he really is, his ideals and personality was clearly shown in front of the camera. He's so warm and comforting, listening to him talk felt like a warm hug. Xu Minghao I really love youuuu!
Minghao is such a perfect example and artists for this inspiring show. So grateful for this show, carat and his father as well as our minghao for keeping it real and sharing us their inspiring thoughts thoughtfully. This is for the history books.
영상 보면서 느낀건데 디에잇이라는 아이돌이 그리고 서명호라는 사람이 얼마나 평소에 마음이 따뜻하면서도 생각이 깊고 진중한지 느껴짐..게다가 말하는것과 설득하는 것에서 마인드도 진짜 남다르고 본인도 힘든 과정을 겪어왔기 때문에 누구보다 팬과 아버님에게 진심으로 얘기할수 있는 멋진 사람이라고 생각함..
나는 이 컨텐츠를 다른 멤버도 아니고 디에잇이 출연했다는 게 너무너무 의미가 있다고 생각함. 외국인이여서 어려움이 있을 수 있다고 생각한 내가 무안할 정도로 역시 연차가 쌓인 아이돌이라 그런가 팬문화에 대해서도 잘 알고 있고, 아버님 의견도 경청하면서 자신의 이야기를 조리있게 할 줄 아는 명호가 너무 멋있었음. 팬의 사랑을 당연하게 받아들이지 않고 표현하는 용기를 알아주는 에이사…팔랑해🐸💚
명호가 활용하는 대화법이 상담기법 중 ‘적극적 경청’의 성격을 띈다는 점이 매우 놀랍네요.. 외국인이 다른나라의 언어로 상대의 말 뿐아닌 감정에 집중하고 있다는 것을 상대방이 느낄 만큼 표현하는게 신기하면서도, 명호가 평소에 얼마나 사람과 사람의 감정을 귀히 여기는지 알수있는 면모네요! 아버지도 딸도 본인도 존중하는 멋진 대화 정말 좋았습니다🥹💖
안녕하세요 민주입니다!💎 제 진심이 다 전달이 된지 모르겠지만.. 누나의 주접 편지... 힘들었을텐데 들어주고 위로의 말, 응원의 말 해줘서 너무 고마워요♥️ 언젠간 꼭 다시 만나자 팔랑해💚 추가로 저희 가족에게 또 저에게 좋은 추억을 선물해주신 제작진분들 너무 감사합니다🖤
it's such a well-written letter, me laughing and sobbing halfway while listening to the content, coz I can relate so much! hope one day your family could attend the concert together :)
타팬인데 저희 부모님을 디에잇씨에게 상담보내고 싶다는 생각을 했어요. 사실 이런 기획은 (한국 사회 특성상) 연예인이 팬의 부모님께 일단 숙이고 들어가는 구도가 되기 쉬운데, 정중하면서도 스스로를 과하게 낮추지 않는 디에잇씨의 현명함이 참 좋게 느껴지네요. 팬의 마음과 부모님의 마음 어느 한 쪽에 치우치지 않고, 결국 문제는 부모와 자식간의 소통이라는 걸 계속 설득하는 모습도 아주 감동적이었어요. 팬의 사랑을 그대로 긍정하며 자랑스럽게 여기고, 자신이 개입할 수 없는 부분에서는 뒤로 물러나는 균형감각이 참 멋있는 사람이네요. 저도 디에잇씨의 말을 들으면서, 제가 부모님과 충분히 깊은 대화를 나눴는지 반성했어요. 아직 젊은 청년이라고 알고 있는데, 이 정도의 내공을 가지고 있다는 게 참 대단한 것 같아요. 그만큼 자기자신, 그리고 타인과의 관계에 관해 오래 고찰했다는 뜻이겠죠. 저도 디에잇씨처럼 누구 앞에서나 떳떳하고 동시에 따뜻한 사람이 되고 싶어요! 디에잇씨를 좋아하시는 분들은 자신의 가수가 이토록 좋은 사람이라 정말 행복하실 거 같아요. 😂 +) 그리고 한참 어린 외국인 청년의 말인데도 깊이 경청해주시는 아버지의 모습에도 감동을 받았답니다! 아버지가 좋은 분이셔서, 따님들도 좋은 사람을 알아보고 좋아하시나봐요😊
The way Myungho answer the father is honestly very similar to how an educator would answer a child's parent's complaint in a parent-teacher conference. Very understanding, but at the same time also very logical. He provides reasons and tries to understand and place himself in both perspectives. He makes sure to point out the child's positive image, reassuring parents, sugar coating here and there but is very firm in answering questions and did not hesitate to tell parents when it is outside of his boundary of him to fix the problem. Honestly, as someone who is just newly jumped in the adult working environment as an educator, this video is such a good reference to look on.
I was crying half way already because this really what being a fangirl is like. You get to have SEVENTEEN's good energy and inspire you to be better people which some may not understand. They are not just artists, they are people that creates an environment to fans that are very much comforting and healing when you need courage to move forward in life. I could relate to the Carat because I am working too and I can't tell my parents everything because I don't want them to be worried. But when I'm in Caratland, I also get to meet people that are in the same situation and we all comfort each other while we are listening and appreciating SEVENTEEN's masterpieces. Thank you HeyNews for this. We really loved it! I feel like we are also heard now. I hope parents sees this video to understand more our point of view as fans.
What a perfect sentiment! I am an old Mama Carat with college-aged children. Older fans feel the same way. Seventeen's music helps heal our anxieties and inspires us to keep being creative, compassionate, and passionate in life. Being an adult and especially a parent is filled with worry and many of us lose that sense of fun in our hearts due to heavy responsibilities. Seventeen makes me laugh at their content and soothes/energizes me with their music. And my little Carat family around the world helps me to remember what it was like to be enthusiastic and reminds me to enjoy life and never stop being creative. I think I've been a more fun and more understanding parent because I'm a Carat.
minghao is such an eloquent speaker, that even if the father was intimidating from the start, he was able to gently relay his thoughts really well and understand things from the father's perspective. the longer the father talks to him, the more he is able to really know minghao firsthand and not just from how his daughters view hao. ++hao is so right on the point on why the people surrounding us fans (family or friends) do not understand why we spent so much time and effort supporting our idols, liking their songs even though korean's not our first language, etc. is because they don't try to know our interests. its not like you have to be a fan too, it would just be nice if our loved ones understand why we say that "they saved my life", "they're my happiness" and many others. i really enjoyed this segment! its such a rare opportunity for a fan's parent to directly talk to their favorite artist andhave meaningful conversations like this, so thank you heynews!
It's also a good thing that they invited the8 among the other members. Especially you do know that among the members, the8 was the one who taught us how to be realistic at first. He was the one who taught us how to set our boundaries as a fan and as a person. The8 was the one who would occasionally give us his motivational quotes so it's really a good idea that he was the one who came to do the interview with the CARAT's father. (No hate please! This is just my opinion ✌️✌️)
i 100% agree with this!!! this type of show is perfect for him as he gets to really advocate how fans should treat them as their escape rather than revolving their entire world around them. no hate to the other members too but these type of conversations are ones only minghao can properly voice out and im glad he doesn't hesitate to do so!
@@wonhanmanhimanhi true. One thing i love about the8 and the boys is that they teach us the boundaries of being a fan and an idol. That we can't always focus on then but we should also focus on our daily lives too and also our future. They want us to be successful on our lives and to our future. Us being able to succeed is also a gift that we are able to give them back as much as we love and support them.
Waaaah The8 fits perfectly in this episode! His genuine love for the fans and his admirable principles are commendable. He knows how to articulate his thoughts well. He empathize well without compromising the impartiality.
Very true! He didn't please the father by imposing anything to the daughters cause he know that it will just make the daughters hate their father. Knowing he really can't control fans by doing that specially at those age they intend to be rebellious, instead he ask the father to be more involved, have that bond w/ his daughters so that he can understand them more. As his one daughter pouring out that feeling of how The8 help her with her inner battles the father realizes what just Myungho said and ended with wanting to go with his daughters to concerts and that just amazing!!! Really proud of Myungho! 👏👏👏
Our Minghao really suit up for a content like this! He thinks from both perspective, on daughter perspective and on her dad perspective and he really talk so well here. I'm tearing up when the father read his daughter letter because it's so warm for both of them. Hopefully they can reunited with Minghao at the concert later
Minghao has always been sincere, and I think the meaning of this show is instantly revealed on this episode. The reason why the parents of fans and idol are arranged for interviews is to let parents understand the behavior of children stan idol, and the idol can also understand how parents feel when they see such behaviors of children. This episode of Minghao and fans' parents is really meaningful. When parents said they didn't like it, Minghao didn't shy away from it. Instead, he listened to the voices of parents and protected fans while respecting them. He is a foreigner. From not being able to speak a word of Korean well to now : able to speak admirable words in a foreign language. It is really a touching growth process. The father said at the beginning that he hoped his daughters would stop this behavior within three years, but I believe that after a sincere conversation with Minghao, not only will the daughters not end their love for Minghao within three years, maybe they will support Minghao with their father for three more years. ❤ ❤✨
minghao is such a pure soul , i love him so much. he is truly a therapist , there's a reason why he stole my heart and has been my bias since the start. i hope he gains all the success in this world and may all his dreams come true !
어쩜 저렇게 말을 예쁘게 잘할까 한마디 한마디가 너무 똑부러지고 따뜻하고,, 괜히 울컥해지고 나까지 위로 받고 있는 것 같고.. 이렇게 멋진 아티스트를 덕질 하고 있다는 게 너무 자랑스럽다 명호는 진짜 배려심 깊고 따듯한 사람이라는게 넘 잘 보여 고마워 명호야 팔랑해 🫶
섣부르게 다 이해한다고 하는게 아니라 본인의 입장에서 할 수 있는 최대한의 이해를 하려고 하는 명호의 마음에 감동ㅠㅜ 아버님도 정말 따님 생각을 많이 하시는 것 같아요. 명호 말대로 진짜 부모님의 믿음 하나만 있어도 용기 낼 수 있고 앞으로 나아갈 수 있으니까 따님 응원 많이 해주세요.
lolll minghao basically said yesterday during his bday welive/weibolive to just accept you didn't get the photo card and print out photo cards of the selfies they post 😂😂😂😂 he's so real~
명호 아버님 말을 진지하게 듣다가도 칭찬을 들으면 귀가 점점 빨개지고 팔랑해라는 말해 입꼬리가 올라가면서 긴장이 좀 풀리는 느낌이 들었어요 ㅎㅎㅎ 명호 말 한마디 한마디가 따뜻함이 느껴지고 현실적이면서도 배려하는 모습이 정말 사랑스러웠어요. 아버지께서도 따님을 정말 사랑하고 응원하는 모습이 정말 멋있습니다.❤❤ 명호, 세븐틴 모두 정말 사랑해 ❤️ (이 댓글 보시는 분들 대댓글에 있는 이상한 놈들 신고 좀 해주실래요? 나중에 이상한 댓글 사라지면 이 괄호도 지울게요)
This is the real definition of fangirling. The8 is really a realist. His love for his fans is unfathomable. But I can also see the sad eyes of the father here. I wish the daughters will let their father feel that he is special too. I just love The8 being real here and is honest of what he really thinks. He shows that he genuinely cares about everyone. Best boy indeed! ❤️
30대중반 나이에 더이상 입덕이란 없을 줄 알았는데 우연히 본 명호 춤에 반해서 하나둘씩 찾아보다가 이 방송을 통해 입덕 도장을 찍었습니다. 13명의 얼굴과 이름을 외우는 험난한 과정도 참 즐거웠고 ㅋㅋ 이젠 뒷통수만 봐도 누구인지 알겠는정도까지 오니 이 그룹을 안 사랑할 수가 없겠더라구요. 알아갈수록 배울점이 참 많고 제가 점점 긍정적으로 바뀌고 있는걸 느껴요. 계속해서 새로운 매력을 알게되는 이런 보석같은 존재를 늦게라도 알게되어서 행복합니다. 입덕하고 첫 컴백이라 벅찬 마음에 슬쩍 댓글을 남겨봐용.
영상 보고 더 느낀게.. 명호 진짜 중국 보내고 싶다 명호가 하이청 가고싶다고 하기도 했고 생일 00:00에 가족들이랑 같이 있는게 가장 원하는 거라고 하기도 했고.. 명호 중국 가서 가족들이랑 원하는 시간 마음껏보내고 듣고싶던말 많이 듣고 먹고 싶던 거 많이 먹고 진짜 고향에서 행복하다 오면 좋겠다
원래 그렇지만 영상보면서 느낀건데 명호가 마음도 따뜻하고 착하고 깊게 생각하고 진중한지 느꼈는데 모든사람의 마음을 이해하고 존중하는게 중국멤버인데도 이러는게 뭔가 장하다.. 늦덕인데도 에잇이가 깊고 진중하게 생각하고 말하고 하는게 감동이다.. 8년이라는 긴 시간동안 무대도 항상열심히 해주고 행복하게 무대하는게 너무 고맙고 아파도 항상 캐럿들이랑 멤버들 생각만 하는것도 고맙고 항상 아프지말구 행복하게만 무대,고잉만 해주면 너무 좋을것같네.. 명호야 너는 최고의아이돌,세븐틴멤버야! 사랑해💗💗
명호 진짜 멋지다.....👍 중국에서 왔음에도 불구하고 어릴때부터 연습생 생활을 했을텐데 그때부터 한국어를 배워서 지금 이 상황에서 유창하게 타국에서 왔음에도 불구하고 한국어로 잘 설득하는게 눈에 보인다...... 자신을 과하게 낮추지 않고 현명하게 설득하는게 너무 좋다....... 디에잇! 앞으로도 지금까지 열심히 살아 왔으니 앞으로도 열심히 나아가자!💜💎💙💗 명호야 팔랑해💚🐸
The fact that some parents might not understand why we adore such artist like The8, as an adult this people are the ones we relate to the most and they give so much comfort to us after a long and busy day. This video ia just hart warming
명호가 팬들의 입장과 팬들과의 관계에 대해 얼마나 진심으로 고민했는지 보여서 참 좋다. 팬들에게 진심으로 감사한 마음을 가지는 것만으로도 연예인으로서 충분한 마음가짐일텐데도 그 이상의 것들을 고려하고 도움이 되고 싶어하고.. 진심으로 자신을 좋아하는 그 감정이 팬들에게 좋은 경험이자 양분이 되길 바라는 것 같아서 참 좋은 사람이라는 생각이 든다. 우리 앞으로도 서로 좋은 영향을 주고받는 관계가 되길 바래 명호야💚
진짜 서명호는 내 가슴 깊에 있는 나조차도 못 여는 문을 유일하게 열어주는 사람같음.. 항상 좋은 말 해주고 따뜻한데 가끔씩은 캐럿들 말고 먼저 자신을 우선으로 살아가는 사람이였을까? 라는 생각도 드는데 이 영상을 통해서 더 뚜렷하게 알 수 있었다고 해야할까.. 진지하게 고민을 들어주고 해결방법을 찾이주는 명호를 보며 오늘도 재미있고 따뜻한 영상을 보게되서 기쁘네요 세븐틴 화이팅!
this is wholesome :( minghao really deserves to be loved by everyone because of his self-attitude. i adore him and every words that he said will always comfort me and i can relate, understand to them. minghao, i hope you also find comfort in us like we do with you 💗
I'm glad they send Minghao for this. he's the one always putting carats back into reality whenever we act delusional, always reminds us to put ourselves and our family first before idols. Im so proud of him and myself cuz i stan the right people. 💎
명호가 참 깊고 단단한 사람이라는게 너무 잘보인는 영상이다.. 그런 사람이라서 아버님과 팬분 마음을 섬세하게 헤아리고 말하는게 너무 잘 느껴지고ㅠ 무엇보다 팬분이 저희가 명호한테 하고싶었던 말과 주접을 대변해서 전해주신거같아요ㅠㅠ 정말 명호를 더 사랑하게 되는 영상이네요
minghao is so real. he offers his perspective and thoughts but never takes the position assuming he knows what is the right move forward; he speaks from his own experiences in consideration of the father/parents like him and carats
저도 딸래미를 통해 쎄븐틴이라는 아이돌그룹을 알게 되었어요. 딸래미는 밥먹을 때 아이패드 켜고 세븐틴 예능 켜고 밥먹는 게 필수가 되었어요. 결국 저도 저의 신랑도 세븐틴 알게 되었구요. 근데 서로 좋아하는 멤버가 달라요. 딸래미는 정한이하고 원우, 막내 디노를 좋아하고, 저는 승관이랑 명호, 우지를 좋아하고, 신랑은 우지를 좋아해요. 순수하고 정직한 명호여서 제가 좋아하는 이유에요. 낯선 타국에 와서 적응하는 게 얼마나 힘든건지 경험자로서 너무나 잘 알기에 명호 열심히 응원하고 좋아할거에요. 명호 화이팅!!!
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