You nailed the social type. While it feels uncomfortable, I loved the encouragement for us to embrace the odd and quirky! That has been something I have secretly desired. 😊
That’s because we have all the sub types in us, so you’d naturally do so. I think ultimately one just gets more occupation of the space within us than the others. But it may just be a slight one. Glad your wrestling with it and trying to figure it out, Drew
Great video. I’m a SP 1 and I cried because of how mean I am to myself. I am working hard to change this and the best part is I’ve got God helping me do it.
So sorry for the delay. Thanks so much for watching! I put a hard boundary on my time in the last year so I could write a book, which I just finished the first draft 🙌🏼 Know that I always appreciate every remark/response and try to get back to each and every one. If at all interested send me your email through instagram or my email to be on my mailing list Insta - @drewnewkirkpsychotherapy OR Drew@DrewNewkirk.com Hope all is well and thanks again Drew
Thank you Drew! I am making my way through your catalogue of videos. I just wanted to express appreciation for your depth of content, and original and aesthetic interweaving of this with the backdrop of the Swiss mountains... (especially for waking up early to film sunrise 😉). I will watch 4 with 1 next.
This is a great way to start my day Leoni. So pleased you get it, and understand the heart I tried to put in to it. Keep watching and keep digging deep 😉 Drew
❤ the intensity in the background is like how a Sx-1 can experience life-it’s intense and yet jarring at the same time because so much is going on inside that a type One has to balance with the outside. I loved the loud noises and church bells. So iconic-and the syncronicity of it while describing sexual 1 was amazing to me!
Me: oh my what a FUN idea to relate enneagram with cultures of countries! 1 ok, 3's ya, 4 yes 😂, 7 I can see that.. 2 think about mothers and grandmothers 😑.
I really wanted to be a social, i really desperately wanted to be a social, since i always thought it was the ideal type one , while i thought the sexual to be the unhealthy one , apparently i was wrong three times in a row, cause i am a self preservation, and i was brought to tears , i shouldn't be saying this here since i am sure everytype and subtype has it's straggles but it's so painful being this , it really is , your brain never shuts up , you hate people's judgements ? imagine being subjected to that 24 hours a day , every day since day one , but i will still take it over being a sexual dominant , sorry sexuals but the voice in my head is already bad enough, i can't imagine being that type of existence to others , so yeah i guess that's my own version of one's superiority , the martyr complex, the fact that i self destruct every time i do something wrong to another ,every time i judge another , i am instantly reminded of the million things i should be judging my self for including the tendency to judge every thing that moves , as messed up as it sounds, the one thing the inner critic doesn't criticize is it's very existence, man i reeeeeaaally wanted to be the social one . on a side note , the nature you filmed is gloriously beautifully healing, glad you enjoyed it in all it's beauty , you ,your self love , your pride of uniqueness and celebration of human adversary as a four are incredibly inspiring and warm to witness, hopefully i will be able to take a page of your book one day , sevens don't seem like too much but a delight to be around even i don't know any in real life , and "whimsical " is effective immediately added to everyday's dictionary 😉🤭
But, did you want to be a social? Ha! I get it. But they are equally good. Depends on the health of the person. Anyway... So sorry for the delay. Thanks so much for watching! I put a hard boundary on my time in the last year so I could write a book, which I just finished the first draft 🙌🏼 Know that I always appreciate every remark/response and try to get back to each and every one. If at all interested send me your email through instagram or my email to be on my mailing list Insta - @drewnewkirkpsychotherapy OR Drew@DrewNewkirk.com Hope all is well and thanks again Drew
omg as a sexual (thanks to your video now I am sure) 1 I really love the intensity and depth of your video. the best channel of this topic. i am subscribed! keep up the good work. I am enfj 1w2 sw/sp
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Sexual 1 (sx/sp), but I wish I was a self pres 1 😅😅😅 I’m an INFJ so I am always seeing things from other peoples point of view and try to keep harmony when possible though. Thanks for the growth tips!
Im a sp l. I feel the need to be right and on myself. To me the sx l is selfish and they seem narcissistic. It just seems so wrong to me. I mistyped as a 4 for 4 years so I wonder id theres any correlation.
in the last years even at different working places, I always had to confront that type. And it's regularily a nightmare for me. Will actually dismiss my job this time as I simply can't bear any longer the 1sx this time. In the meantime I am sure that I am confronted w/ an narcissist which is so self-righteousness and disdaining towards me that I only have one wish: to rescue myself out of that detrimental work-relationship, as this person leaves out no occasion to belittle me in presence of his grandious moralistic norms!
No problem. So sorry for the delay. Thanks so much for watching! I put a hard boundary on my time in the last year so I could write a book, which I just finished the first draft 🙌🏼 Know that I always appreciate every remark/response and try to get back to each and every one. If at all interested send me your email through instagram or my email to be on my mailing list Insta - @drewnewkirkpsychotherapy OR Drew@DrewNewkirk.com Hope all is well and thanks again Drew
If narcisstic - and Alas this type can be - the goal is even not to perfect "things" - it is mostly an inner hidden void which drives such a kind of 1 if very unhealthy. In reality, they try to correct others as they feel very insecure, little and void inside themselves. Yet not being able to be aware of that (as this self-view is mostly deeply repressed) the others become the focus of interest of their socalled moral or whatever "betterment". Very tragic! I can tell. As I had experiences and still have w/ those kind of ones!
