Ep 8: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli 

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HIGHLIGHT COMMENT FOR SURE

I don't. "You a woman you should know your role" and the men behind him nodding is concerning

@@kairanelle1380 compare to all the previous casts of men worse has been said

@@kairanelle1380so you shouldn’t know your role as a woman? So many women want men to know their role but it’s a problem for men to want a women to know her role??

Is it? The guys seems to have an arrogant take on a woman's submissiveness. Like they want a woman who wouldn't talk back or anything

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Best line up so far. Not shallow at all!

Agreed

Loved how they all actually waited on responses from the women no matter what their preference was.

And they all look pretty well put together for the most part / are actually handsome . Brava t✨

She was an intellect, not meant for this group of men.

BIG

She was built like a line backer and she cry herself to sleep on her deathbed alone

​@@aguy9071😂😂😂😂 I love how woman look at things men don't even pay attention too.

​@@sandrafernandez3839 she was an intellect huh ? You must be as bright as her

Exactly!!!! This is the best episode thus far.

Or the ladies was just attractive that’s y like 😂

@@emoneroberson5026 ok….. but I’m glad that they’re letting them respond 😊

Because at the very least, they wanna get laid😁😁

Maybe the women can learn from the bruddas when they're lined up with they're balloons ready to reject mandem off rip.

Right😂😂😂

Same thing I said 😂

That was so random 😩

He was too cheeky for that 😂

She was petty and immature

100%!!!!!!

She got swayed by the smooth talk

Yesss omg

Only dude hiding behind shades and a hat, and the fact that he brought his 1 and 2 yr old up once he was the last man standing. He knew what to say and what not to say to get her. Textbook manipulator

He a PIMP🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ She trippin

Omg I thought I was the only one. It was driving me crazy. Every time he talked I had to skip that part. I think the only person Keyshawn could match with was key. He seems to really love that side of himself 😂😂

Lmao right! I was like “who is ‘they’??”

Fr he was annoying with that.

Unlike the bad shallow minded representations of ur gender, that are quick to pop balloons becoz the female next to her pops hers or coz of the way the man walks out

Yeah but it doesn't seem honest though. It's like they're just waiting because they don't want any backlash. I preferred the raw honesty

@@advanced8998Exactly. Most of them were not interested in the second woman! They were just waiting for a moment to pop and potentially go viral! lol it’s too obvious. Secondly the men don’t pop right away. The women do.

Lol it ain’t that they looking for depth , men are simple asl lmao that’s it meaning they passed the looks test initially

I think they just don't want to seem shallow

I agree! These men had real depth! Give them another round!

Yes!!! Love this

Because they are young. The older men above 30 do not have the time for endurance 😂

agree

They gave the 2nd woman a chance even tho , respectfully, she was a bit out of shape. Yet here she is talking about ‘I’m not a ride or die’….‘I like to travel and eat’ 🤦🏿‍♂️

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She's gorgeous 😍🩷

Cringed everytime he open his mouth. His African parents must be stressedddddd

But did you guys notice how he spoke eloquently when he shared his understanding of the “ride or die” phrase. He’s probably really well spoken but putting on a front. I would’ve popped his balloon as soon as he opened mouth.

I thought it was just me. I expected so much more from him growing up in a two parent household. He kinda gave off he was playing a character and that’s not really him. Like suburban kids that try to act hood.

Him & the first dude was genuinely getting on my nerves 😂

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I agree !

She's African women, she Carry herself with class ❤

I agree☺️🩷

She is so fine. Glad she is married and don't have to get on a show like this

@@titanjake8640 She's definitely beautiful & hopefully happily married💕

lol what?! She’s an absolute fool

definitely, I never thought about it that deep, but I have at the same time; because I associate with negative things too, as well as positive, but in a lot of her answers, similar to her reason for why she doesn't do ride or die is because she doesn't want to stay in a gray area, but be direct.

She has no idea how to interpret ride or die 😅

She gave off masculine energy that no man likes. That's why she wasn't matched.

It amazes me how some women see women like her as inspirational when she has her head up her butt

But he’s short, so he’s unattractive.

Yes!!

Yes… I can to the comments looking for Styles

Correct. And That also shows you the women STILL need a lot of work to do

Yes unlike the last group of men! Hopefully the next group of women will do the same because they were off the chain too

@@HoneybadgerQWhy are you so dense?

Men are visual and it doesn’t make them superficial. You can dislike that but it not changing

Agree

Ironically wearing sunglasses actually gives you a higher chance of success on this show😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I agree. That's not even something an adult should think of wearing in this situation!

He's hiding his eyes because he's high. POP!

the finest chic went for the guy with the lamest outfit and shades on tho lol

@@mzgymeni and a 1 year old and 2 year old she found out after picking him. Probably 2 mothers.

Nah. She has a reasonable size of delusion. She has no clue what role a woman plays in a family. Oh, I forget, she is a woman😂😂

She's a fool and will remain single. Mark my words!

She was masculine

Men scared of a strong & intelligent woman

@@mariegordon97 you're delusional

They sure did

And looking like she ain’t never been provided with nothing but a heavy meal.

The women were just off, the men were more on point. Asking and answering questions they took it more seriously.

like most BW

The 2nd lady sounds like she don't need to be dating at the moment. She got alot of stuff to unpack personally

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Yes please !!!

That’s life, man. Equality is counterintuitive.

Yes and the age rang. She has young women with older men. They get rejected for being too old. It should be age groups.

Hell na, thats too old

why is your comment not a top one?? I 100% agree!

She was toxic

@@zcam7939 how? Explain

@@KennyBeeezto me, she seemed too stuck in her own way. She came off as someone who is close minded which is a huge turn off to men because a man wants to lead and doesn’t want to argue over every single decision.

@@indigopapi8667 in my opinion I didn’t get that from her. As a woman she was asking all the questions that most of us fail to ask which quite often gets us hurt. She was vetting them and owes it all to her self. She was very soft and well spoken. Most men nowadays want to cheat in peace. Every question to them is an argument.

They all self-eliminated because of their incompetencies and insecurities.

It was foolish of her to share that. She’s only 20 ppl outgrow and live full lives with heart conditions.

It was brave not necessarily wise

I receive that. I Honor transparency. God Bless that Queen

How is that noble? It is a challenge which she will overcome that's all.

Ameen! Felt the same way

Yea that’s weird cus ppl be looking different without shades & hats too 😂

@@Sumi2379 but most girls on the show wear make up, I could say they would look different too lol

Literally what if he had only 1 eye or was cross eyed. Not that it’s a problem but it should have been presented lol

That part.

@@kelsey7546 lol okay ? What if she had dermatitis...should that be presented as well lol. It should be rule in that case. girls cant come to the show and contour their face. I need to see your real cheekbones, nose shape and skin conditions 🤣 but crazy thats not realistic scenario.

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She said if the guy don’t listen to her and things go south she’s out…..she has baggage

Lol yea no she was tripping

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Nah she was tripping I ain't gonna lie

God works in mysterious ways. It could be a reason for that not in a good way.

Facts 👐🏽

I loved that she was vulnerable enough to share that. ❤ I wish her happiness.

Man popped the balloon as soon as she said she had a heart condition. 😂😅

@@snicholson8884and it’s nothing to laugh about…

Several ladies were not good with rejection, however, the fellas didn’t reciprocate. Definitely a step up from previous line ups.

I Must COMMEND the guys on their MATURITY👏👏👏👏👏🎉

The one comment about the forehead was the worst it got I think

@@bleeka325 I thought it was unnecessary until they zoomed on the edges. It did look very unnatural.

Attraction is necessary. To call them "shallow" if they immediately popped their balloon, is pretentious and pseudointellectual

I'm with her. I'm not a ride or die.

That’s not what it typically means however it is more common that the women that we typically hear who are ride or dies are the ones staying beside a man that does those things. That’s on women to choose a better caliber of man to be a ride or die for. Ride or die means extreme loyalty. Everyone can understand that much which is what the men were saying. The lady in the green back peddled to the negative connotation of it cause it was making her look bad. She knows she truly meant she not staying around too long if a man was to lose his financial stability when she said she can’t be with someone with just potential and who cannot self-start themselves if they were to lose their job/career or maybe even have health concerns since she brought up the whole “what guy is staying with a woman who lost a limb” to gaslight.

But that isn’t what it means.. and none of the men that she was interested in and that were interested in her thought it meant that, and didn’t seem like the typa men to do that.. she said she didn’t wanna let her past control her but she did.

@@indigopapi8667 Yes! She is leading with her damage and what she doens't want instead of what she actually needs and what she has to offer.

Maybe only for people with a certain upbringing and area. You have to grow from that and break through those walls. That thinking will hold the her back and show that she just isn't willing to be loyal and dedicated. You can tell by her statement on potential. The gentleman even popped his balloon and stated that she wouldn't have dated him at a time because he was in his potential stage. You have to be willing to put in the work. She wants to skip that and reap the benefits. No thank you. Keep doing what you're doing, but stay far the hell away from me.

Because you’re a real man, and that’s exactly what I was thinking. If there were adult men there, they would have understood

She didn't articulate her definition of it well. The men were explaining it correctly and she made up her own definition.

@@ChaseMitchell-yo8tv the men were right about the definition (the popular example being a ride-or-die drives the getaway car for her partner after he commits a crime), and she is right in her stance to not be one. My (maybe unpopular) opinion is that having a moral compass is incompatible with being someone's ride-or-die. e.g. if the woman believes in God, her allegiance is to God first, and if the choice is between her partner and God, she chooses God.

You're a man that thinks of it in a Negative way. Any Marriage that has lasted over 30 years would be considered "Ride or Die" which means you were there thru thick n thin. The good & the bad ,etc. There are many ways to describe that term but most focus on the Negative‼️

Or even “I don’t know! I’m not sure, I didn’t read the book but I like xyz signs of affection”

I didn't either😂 but I'm in my 50s and been married forever Lol. I googled it so I know now.☺

😂 Had me guessing quality time... He figured it out, I think

And then she randomly threw in that she had a dog… like girl HUH?? 😂😂

@@audreyjones1499 it’s all good. It might be a millennial thing., idk. We all learned it at some point. I was around 27. Some girl asked me and I was clueless.

I saw that too

Exactly!!!

I was definitely looking at him sideways...

Best match on the show today, and has the potential to be a blissful mess. Ivory is TOP TIER! I would have fought for the spot too!!

Also the 2 kids are 1 & 2 yrs old. There’s definitely drama behind that. She should’ve asked if they were by the same woman.

Yes true 🎉🎉🎉

Guys are but the females on the show were terrible

What? Bro yall keep yallselves single with that nonsense.

@@anonspectre1796 HOOOOOOW?! i think men got this false narrative of what being a ride or die is. healthy love is boring and safe wtf!

​@@theedanishow they are applying ride or die to "for richer or for poorer, through sickness and in health".

​@@anonspectre1796 A man cant say he wants a woman to be his peace then complain when a relationship is consistent and "boring"

@@samanthayates8812 the only ones who do that is women. And thats word to the divorce rate of 80 percent all initiated by women

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Every time Jasmine spoke

Same here. I'm watching and thinking what's up with these outfits? 🤦🏾‍♀️ I like watching these videos but the mindset of the people on the show is wild. They're young but woah.

Okay, I was thinking the same thing. The outfits were missing this time.

Same, I actually loved this video. Shame on the women.

Yeah.. The lady from Terrence episode looked nice in her yellow dress and i wasnt mad at that and the 2nd lady in the green jumpsuit

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U bugging. Grown men with braids? Not attractive. Every episode everyones a model or marketer.

Agree , the first man in the line up got my attention most definitely 😩

@@Liz_yo1 True! He even has a book on Amazon. He seems to practice what he preaches.

Definitely the best batch of men by far , and I was surprised only one had kids

@@anisaantoinette6381 I know right!

Nah she back peddled to the negative connotation of the phrase after Preston made her look bad. It simply means extreme loyalty, however the women who display such loyalty choose to give it to bad caliber of men, who may cheat or do illegal things. that’s on women to choose better who they will “ride or die” for. Men just want a woman who will still be there thru the downs as well as the ups. Till death to us part type shit. She knew damn well she meant that she’s not sticking around with a man if he loses his financial stability, has health complications or etc. As she stated she not going for a man with potential or who can’t self-start themselves if they lost their financial stability. Also when she tried to gaslight dude by saying “how many men staying with a woman who lost a limb”. That’s when she back peddled. She’s not worth a man’s time and resources with her mindset.

Marcus just happy to be there. He was ready for a girlfriend 😅

Same and we say all 37 of his teeth when they started talking 😂

Thought nobody else caught that. Everbody talking about him saying it wrong nobody noticed when he said it right 😂

him and styles was feeling her from the jump . was smiling as soon as she walked out

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LMFAOO

Why would the women go over questions? You're right this is best group of men, after 8 episodes. If anything they're most likely responding to all the valid complaints that the women had on the show, about the men not dressing appropriately, and eliminating the women for very superficial reasons like the color of her dress or not wearing a watch. Most of the women have always dressed nice and asked solid questions to the men, now these men are stepping their game up trying to match the women's energy.

@@missyd1215I thibk they are saying they should come prepared. Some came on the show as if they hadn’t considered their own deal breakers or what they what in a man or even a couple questions to have ready since you know you’ll need to ask some

I agree 100%. This time the women were a let down when it came to depth and self awareness. These guys were top of the line for sure.

Idk about the best group of men a lot of them didn’t have real jobs/ careers the majority of were putting on fronts like they were “deep”.

@missyd1215 For instance, the guy with the tight plaid pants kept having to tell some of the women to ask questions of substance. The lady in the green spoke well but ended up shooting herself in the foot. The girl in all black from Phoenix was extremely shallow. She just wanted a guy with money and had nothing to share with them about herself. She likes going out but couldn't even figure out how to say that she's clubs. She said multiple times that she goes out and she likes dating and going out to eat. She recently lost 65 pounds said something about the gym but couldn't really communicate that she goes. Several guys were models, and the 2 on either end are heavily in the gym but she never ask them questions that would tell her anything about them.

I swear he is Spritual ❤ so handsome. Instantly gave me londrelle vibes 😍💕

He just smacks his lips too damn much. Mr attitude lol

@@YettaDean , 😅😂😂

I agree. He stood out the most to me.

He needs to be on the show again. Let’s find him love. He gives everyone grace and that’s a beautiful hard trait to find.

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As if they had control over whatever happened when they were children 💀

Want us to go cry nd shit 1:45:44

I don't think so, I actually thought it was a genuine question.

Even on a 1n1 first date that’s a heavy question 😳

That was by far the best question I’ve ever heard. She definitely got her therapy sessions in and applied it in her life!

This has been demystified...the whole idea of pre-determinism is wrong. You are not the sum total of what happened to you.

⁠@@martinmusyimi2008I agree that you’re definitely not the sum of what happens to you. However, because there is the literal science of child development psychology with a plethora of data proving the effects of one’s upbringing, we cannot omit one’s upbringing when considering who they became and how, especially when they’ve beat the odds based off said upbringing or rebelled against it.

Isn't 'subtraction' the thing that women do?? Let's face the fact, most women in relationships only subtract, most of you'll don't add anything of physical value apart from take take take.

She should go buy a dog

You're not in control, however. None of us are. I can have a 10 million dollar hustle, but what happens if things that are outside of my control make me lose most of it? You're just going to run away? Lol she has more red flags than a Chinese new year parade, although i do like the way she carries herself. She has a very bright aura, and itll get brighter when she leaves you 🤣

@@lejamesbron5880 she offered enough insight to convey that she would stick around in that kind of hypothetical scenario you offered, granted that said partner has a capacity to get back on their feet. The "ride or die" she is referring to is to do with not wanting to tolerate acts of disrespect, harm or dysfunction, which no self-respecting person should settle for regardless.

​@lea1000 no she didn't she clearly stated she wouldn't stick around🤦🏾🤷🏾

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when bcches ask you do you like to travel say NO becuz traveling and having fun is for bcches…that doesn’t build legacy…MEN HAVE TO PUT IN WORK

Yea..... she was definitely different, at 1st I was thinking maybe she isn't a talker and then I was like but neither am I ..... I still would've said more especially for the sake of the experiment.

Basic

😂she just wants to be spoiled by her man

How😕

Not really lol

Her level headed perspective on things threw the men off. I love how she handled herself.

@@blackbutterfyeLOL what do you mean that exactly? She will remain single forever. Nowhere near an attractive women and her beliefs are pretty one side and not putting her thought on another perspective.

@@blackbutterfyeLOL she will remain single forever and if you think otherwise you’re crazy.

@@blackbutterfyein what way? She will never have a man take her serious.

Me too. She spoke very well and was firm in what she was saying. Those guys talking about ride or die know damn well it's usually on the lady side to stick by some trash men.

Yes, he’s very handsome ❤

God took his time creating him 😂😩

Styles is smooth, and seems sweet

reach out to him lol

He my type but just a lil too young 😊

He popped because of her forehead

@@robertneal8244exactly, great episode

​@@robertneal8244Is it petty to have a preference?

​@@robertneal8244that's not really petty, it's just preference

​@@in_vas_por8810 It's one thing to not be attracted. It's another thing to say it the way he did. It's like saying I don't like you cos your lips are too big. It was disrespectful. She was a nice lady so totally unprovoked.

I said this in an other comment Seems like the safe occupation to say is I'm in entertainer or Entrepreneur To act like they making moves but don't have anything really going on So they masked it like you said

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I agree or list 100 different occupations, it’s like come on. 😂

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All Jasmine said was she needs a provider and likes to go out and have fun.

Agreed, ladies, us men don't like strong independent women who are not ride or die, .. who are petty and go out on dates, (which men pay for) and the weaves are getting longer and longer...

@@indianrider956you sound so bitter 😭 no woman has ever been near you, and if you don’t like ‘independent women’ what do you like??? Children?…

Semen retention and delayed gratification is 🔑 as a man When your lens of life isn’t focused on pedastalizing the power of vagina and looks, you can fairly judge women better

@@onikapinkk fam, no shade at all from me...but us men love your natural hair...not the weaves, wigs or attachments...

Is the best episode

Arlette is so good at it is like it's a who tv series.. can't wait for her to post a new video everytime

Bro she is the best at this. I tried watching other videos and they’re goofy and silly, not saying anything is wrong with that, but on other channels they play too much

she might as well just copyright the idea.

I absolutely agree. Actually worth the watch!

Arlette is the best hostess of this show....classy

LMBO facts

I caught that lol…like is there more in between?

Literally all I was thinking like err Sir you have roughly 5 ok. And I don't remember him saying he had kids before this when it was asked 🤔

Yes!! Like I was caught off guard when he said he all of sudden had kids lol

Right he ain't said nothing about them middle kids😂😂

I was thinking the same thing off rip too

No Diddy

Yep

Dude with the shades on indoors was a no but otherwise yeah! Lol

@@cvokoyedon’t turn ts into sum real cus i be seeing everyone saying “no diddy”

I was embarrassed for her

​@@maiyarene_very

She been watching sprinkle sprinkle

It was embarrassing. She couldn’t at least hide her motives. Like girlllllll 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

@@maiyarene_ it’s when she couldn’t even explain her hobbies 😭

Right!! I hope she brings some of them back!

lol not all of them but most are def better than previous men I’ve seen on her show 😂

It gets me every time😂

He seems to impress himself a little too much

That's good though you can tell he is proud of what he did.

I literally was saying the same thing !😂

Oh my gosh I was thinking this everytime he had to say I wrote a book.

😂😂 facts

😂 for real

Aye😂🎉💪🏾🥳

and in heels!

😂😂😂😂 thats what I was thinking the whole time

Facts they kept trying to change her answer, but she stood ten toes. But I love this group both men and women where very respectful.

I respect it because most women don’t mess with ride or die, but they’ll lie about it to be politically correct.

Nobody even asked her if she was a ride or die tho lol those were her words .. she brung it up . I was confused about that 🤔

Red Flag - I'm a strong woman, Takes charge = stubborn, hard headed and a non listener.

She was masculine, not feminine, seems like she likes to he in competition with her men, admitted to not being loyal and committed, and didn’t mention God a single time. Major pass. Blind leading the blind. If you don’t center Christ in your life, you have no idea what you’re looking for in a man

Facts, and as a result you see the guy she left with. 😂

Finally

yea they were very united, similar to how women be, especially when dealing with other people and handling unfavorable situations.

The quality of women was dire though.

@@SuperMuneera I wish the batch of women from the last episode were on this episode. They would’ve matched very well with the men on this episode.

@@RealdealKobI wanna see more success of this show with better pairs on both sides. Depth with depth. Shallow with shallow. Love with love

The Men are always like this, you must not be watching Arlette's channel for this usually

@@Mr10before9why u lying 😂 this is the first time

⁠@@Mr10before9 lol YOU must not have been watching on this channel because they definitely have popped right away in the past. Literally the comment section is full of comments like this. If the men were always like this then why are people just remarking on it now?

It's a shame that the women can't do the same when they're lined up with they're balloons ready to pop.

@@BlackSavage946 this is literally the first time the men have done it, so hopefully in the next video the women wise up too

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I said this previous episode about having a 2 year old. Not saying you can't date... but a dating show when you got babies at home seems like a red flag!

False! You can have family and friends take care of them while being on set for one day. There is people who don’t mind dating someone with a kid. I go on dates too.

@@EmilyIntsifulfacts

@@EmilyIntsifulNo, that just means your priorities are not right.

I like his bald head! He looks like a classy dude that takes care of himself

😂 they always going in on my man Isaac man. He just caught that make pattern baldness early.

exactly he looks good too they tried that man

They always put the darkest one in the middle. And they always get violated. Pisses me off.

How when another guy earlier said a girls forehead was too big lol

Girl chill it's not that serious

I agree i. I think they should brief everyone before the show starts. It doesn’t have to be long. Like a quick 5-10 minute run through of everything. And I really want them to send the singles out with a tooth pick so she doesn’t have to keep asking for one

I mean they probably brief them on how to conduct themselves but they may forget especially with nerves, cameras rolling, and actually being in front of the line up. Have some grace, they aren’t actors..just regular ppl

this

THISSSSSS!!!

Me to i love it

The spread hand on the leg deserves more recognition!! Arlette is a sophisticated host. Respect 🤣

Facts. I've been watching the ghetto ones waiting patiently for her balloons popping video to be released!

@@doubleb_tv YESS!!!😂😂

She do better than most but when it’s a cast of woman and it’s a guy doing the line up she should not ask if that woman’s the guys type. Because most of the time if the man says yes. The woman get jealous or insecure and pop because the man saw something in the woman in question

Lol I love his look and accent 😂

He sound like terrance

@@kenalisonkaruga exactly what I was saying the whole video

@@kenalisonkarugafuture *

Rico is very attractive I love his accent 😍