Ep 2: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli 

The doctor calling the slim girl insecure when she stood tall and firm on loving her body even though a ton of men were insulting her for being slim is the biggest gaslight I’ve ever witnessed. I hope she knows she’s always loved and valuable no matter what size.

As a doctor (physician) myself, be weary of people who introduce themselves as such in social situations. It's very telling when someone introduces them as Dr. such and such unless you are at work or a work-related event.

The dentist trying to diagnosis people's mental health is CRAZY

'Ur 38, ain’t marred, never been engaged… what’s wrong?' hahahaha jeez I love this girl, she so right.

the dr. guy is a _text book_ example of a person with narcissism.🙌🏼 the girlies dodged a bullet fr

Dental guy didn't come for a date. He came to hear himself speak and put people down.

Telling someone they can’t handle criticism and need therapy just because she said she liked herself the way she looked and wouldn’t change is crazy

The guy who introduced himself as doctor every single time is talking about humility?😂😂😂😂💀

Dr Elom is a nutcase. He was analyzing everyone but himself 🤣😬

Man...the Dr looked a lot better when he was silent.

You're calling a woman stubborn bc she doesn't want to change her body and make it bigger for you is the wildest thing I've ever heard

“I can afford you financially but not emotionally” lmfao he called himself out. He knowww damn well he ain’t ready for no damn relationship

I'd kill to hear Elom's exes talk about their past relationships with him. I know those girls have stories to tell ☠️

Is it just me or the doctor purposely waited last minute to pop his balloon so the host can go up to him & he can give lectures? 😂

I mean roasting the girl because she’s confident in her body. It’s like they wanted her to be insecure because she wouldn’t agree to changing herself.

I now fully understand why everyone gasped and popped their balloon when “Dr Elom” came out on a future episode.

This show is ADDICTIVE and part of the reason is because it showcases so much about human behavior. The ones who look most presentable don't necessarily have the substance to back it up - meanwhile the ones who carry grace and kindness really leave a lasting impression even if they weren't that compelling at first glance. You really see that people's energy matters most at the end of the day.

Imagine a room full of people saying you have no ass and then them getting upset with you when you say you think your body is fine the way it is.

The doc is displaying all the attributes of why he is single... He used his job title to win the woman, but that only goes so far.

As an African woman who’s effortlessly slim/skinny, I felt like crying for that woman. It’s very relatable and brings back memories. She was ridiculed and still stayed polite and stated her opinion with respect. Sadly a lot of black men that I’ve encountered ( so called friends, coworkers, family members) have a preference for thicker women which I can completely understand but to make condescending comments about another person’s physique is inappropriate especially on something that I can’t control. I feel the same way about comments made on short (men), dark skinned, etc. From a young age being made fun by your immediate family members that are supposed to protect is very hurtful. And the black community is not always welcoming to skinny women encouraging them to eat to gain weight to look more like a woman. For us who idealize black love, sometimes it seems like that your perfect match will never look like your own skin color. And then people get surprised when the weak minded women go out there to get their bbl’s in order to conform to the current standard of beauty. Women or men for that matter regardless of your shape if you don’t have any’ health issues, learn how to love yourself because you can’t please everybody and that’s not your mission on this earth to do so. Embrace your natural beauty and as I say often to some of the idiotic remarks : if you have something to say about my physique take it up to my creator. Just venting, I know.

The doctor is making me think he’s not an actual doctor. He says he’s a dentist but then speaks to some like he’s a therapist saying he charges by the hour. Sir, is your name Legion?

Everytime the doctor opened his mouth I was hoping it would end soon😭 he needs to be humbled EXPEDITIOUSLY

Dr came thinking he's the main character is cracking me up

The last woman just shows you how so many people would be able to compromise their standards if they find attractive enough the person they’re talking to. If they’re too old for her, they project her as mature for her age just to justify their attraction.

“Not married, never been engaged no kids, your 38 and a doctor? What’s wrong ” CLOCK IT

I'm going to need them to get some short girls that like short guys for Terrance. He seems so genuine and down to earth. I be rooting for him so hard!!

Telling a complete stranger she’s insecure and tried to convince her he knew her more than she knew herself was crazy. She stood in a room where everyone spoke on her shape and she was still confident enough to sY shes happy in her skin took strength and he took that as insecurity. Thats why he's standing on the line now.

You can literally see ”The Doctor” waiting and thinking about how he can manipulate each person. Strange character.

Who else thinks the Doc is the one who actually needs therapy 😂

The guy standing next to the Dr just keeps laughing every time he talks 😂 I'd be laughing too, he's so full of himself 🤣

the doctor being 38 years old on a dating show LMAO he definitely ain’t the catch.

Being submissive in a relationship means that you are ultimately giving of yourself to your person. This is a beautiful thing when two people are in agreement to this.

A doctor in a dating show is a serious red flag.

THE DOCTOR STAY AVOIDING QUESTIONS ABOUT HIMSELF. HE IS THE ONE WHO NEEDS THERAPY AND HE'S A PLAYER 😂😂😂

My girlfriend is a psychologist and she diagnosed the good doctor as a narcissist. He gaslights, he attempts to assume power over others and he's condescending.

My guy the electrician just wanted to jump on something THICK 😢😂😂😅

Dr Elom be popping his balloon just so he can hear himself speak

The guy with dreadlocks is really down to earth, very kind and respectful can't believe all the ladies are concerned about his height I pray that he find true love

Every time the doctor opened his mouth I got the immediate ick. He really thinks he’s all that 😂

🗣️“He’s old enough to be your FATHER!!!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

That doctor was insufferable. He is literally the worst kind of man to encounter: delusional, self-centred, arrogant, gaslighting, and pushy. Going on these diatribes on a dating show with no self awareness.

"i may not be able to date you but i would hire you" is so condescending omg 😭😭😭😭

I wish the electrician the best. He seems like a genuinely sweet, hard working, family oriented man.

The guy in green is dying of laughter 🤣🤣I’m sure he’s wondering how the doctor won’t stf up!!!

Not the girls melting over the Dentist whilst he repeatedly insults them 😭😭

the dentist guy was talking about humility but has none 😂

The woman hosting the show is soo beautiful and professional love her classiness

Dentist introducing themselves as Doctor is so much lol

No Dr she isn’t insecure …. She accepted the fact all rejected bc of her size but she kept the smile bro she is confident and loved at home

Man really said "Did I say I was a Doctor?" ..... that's how you know that man just be talkin

That "doctor" guy is the definition of an energy vampire with a superiority complex.

The first girl has such good energy. She’s beautiful as well!

The fact that everybody is a “model” is hilarious lmao

it was irritating to see everybody say they didn't want Jessica because she was plus-sized. Then, immediately after, they all criticized the skinnier woman for not being thick enough.

I like how the young 22 year old noticed how toxic "dr" elom is and dismissed him, his whole insecurity showed and he wanted to talk all over her.

"You're 38 and a Doctor. What's wrong?" 😂😂

Navy lady was the ONLY one doctor Elom COULDNT tussle with and I fuck with that

Wait them calling her stubborn for not being open to changing her body just because she’s slim is actually insane

The fact that the chill guy with the locs was related to Dr. Elom is absolutely crazy… like total opposite😂

The 21yr old girl saying that 30 is a bit too old for her but yet leaving with a 38yr old man is crazzyyyyyy😭

The Dr is so full of himself. The guy with the jordans bothered me too. I loved the one lady asking the Dr what was wrong 😂

Doctor is for sure the type that tries to get into your mind FIRST and basically rewire it to fit his reality! It’s insane to come across these types. But what he’s doing is, he’s seeing if you’ll submit to his version of reality. This is exactly how it starts out with a narcissist, he’s playing cat and mouse with their minds, literally testing how far he can go. If that girl at any point said “maybe I do need therapy” and believes it, you best believe he’ll feel accomplished! He’s the truest of a toxic narcissist. Take note ladies!

Jessica looks like that 50 y/o auntie from the country that makes the best buttermilk biscuits. At 31 she’s already there, and not “approaching” her child bearing years.

That Doc 😂 We still gotta call 9-1-1. He's a Dentist. And took every opportunity to call himself a Doctor. So much for Humble. lol

Terrance!! I want Terrance to find his match. He’s so genuine, very respectful & so funny. He did his best to be nice to everyone even when he popped his balloon. I love him he’s so precious

the fact that all these dudes were trying to imply that girl is not ''willing to compromise'' cause she loves her body and doesn't want to walk around with a fat ass is absolutely INSANE WORK.

The guy isn't a therapist and maybe not a dentist. Arlette is giving him too much time.

Whew! That Dr. Is a Quackadoo! 😂. He's single and trying to give therapy sessions on a dating show 😂😂😂

The doctor is giving narcissism! He craves attention and admiration from others. He’s puffed up arrogant, and thinks to highly of himself. While lacking empathy and compassion for others. He’s very critical and pessimistic and would NOT make a good husband, (which is probably why he’s almost 40, alone, and on a tv dating show). 😆🥴😂

Dr. Elom is the kind of man who writes doctor everywhere. Once when he is on the plane they will call him for an emergency and he will have to admit he is only a dentist 😂 so embarassing 🤭

Love their faces when they get rejection immediately, they’ll be like they can’t believe it 😂

That beautiful young woman just earned herself the privelage of getting to hear Dr Elom talk about himself for two days straight 😂😂😂

I feel so bad for the last girl bc she doesn't even know she "matched" with a predator. She fell right into his trap. As soon as he heard her age, and she said "I'm looking for a leader and a mentor", his ears perked up. He turned on the charisma, turned off the aggression, and sold a delusion of grandeur to seal the deal. You can tell by his interactions with the previous women, that he is a malignant narcissist, and all he wants is control. The way he was almost preaching and diagnosing the other women is a clear mark of a controlling and dangerous man. It's a tragic story of a blind and unsuspecting 21 year old girl who thinks she found love, running into the arms of a guy MUCHHHHH older than her who lures her into his life for his own nefarious and controlling reasons. He's just found someone to "mentor" to "shape" to ..... "groom".

The fact that Dr.Elom calls himself Doctor means he is caught up with his career and it's all he identifies with! Your career is not all of who you are.😮‍💨

I can’t actually believe the Dr ended the show booed up 😂.

The way they treated the third girl was crazy ! They complain and say black women are all over weight . This woman is slim and they tear her a part . She was confident enough to still love her body regardless and actually didn’t get defensive. I think she handled them well given how badly they talked about her frame. I’m stunned that all the women still wanted the doctor after he opened his mouth sheesh .

My boy Terrance the electrician ain't popping his balloon for shyt even when he hears them say specifically that you have to be a tall man 😂

It's so strange introducing oneself with their professional prefix, Dr, in a social situation. I think that says everything you need to know about that bloke. Finding out someone is a doctor afterwards is much more attractive. Humble qualities are endearing.

Loved the 3rd lady, the cousin. She has a great personality & didn’t take offense. I hope she finds true love.

The doctor guy is talking about humility while he introduces himself as a doctor in a social experiment 😂😂😂😂

I can see why the “doctor” is single 🤣🤣

So, she's insecure because she's fine with the way she looks and doesn't feel the need to change it.... That's literally what it means to be secure.

I am so sorry for the girl who chose the man who calls himself a doctor lol

Homeboy thinks dentistry qualifies him as a psychologist 💀

“The only reason I didn’t pop your balloon is because you’re thick” is crazy work💀

The conversation with the “doctor” and the third girl has my mouth on the FLOOR. He is unbelievable

If this is how a dentist treats people, I definitely don’t trust his practice

The host is so beautiful from the inside out she really brings the glow to the show with her personality and looks

Her asking dr alum why he 38 not married no kids and not engaged senttttt meee cuz I was thinking the same 🙏🏽‼️‼️‼️‼️

That doctor just proved why he is single at 40

Guy in the white pants was looking for a guy he was more into dude next to him 🤣🤣

The guy with the dreads is sweet, blue collar worker, nice smile, good energy and has a peaceful spirit. I hope he finds a nice woman

What I’m not understanding is the men calling her “stubborn” and “insecure” and need a therapist because she’s confident in her body and doesn’t want to change it for someone else validation…. I think every man in that line needs a therapist more than her.

My cousin used dated this guy that he doesnt even work as a Dr no more but he makes sure every one calls him Dr and he wears his stethoscope in every picture even if he’s on the beach for vacation 😂

The doctor is a gaslighter, strongly, the fake calmness and lack of humility, gag reflex 🤧

what a blessing that “Dr” elam chose to come on this show because i hope EVERY woman steers clear of this gaslighting holier than thou sad facade of a man after watching this🙄 good god

This Dr is a wholeeeee RED FLAG🚩

MY BOY REALLY LIT THAT UP FOR POSITIVE ENERGY!!?!😂😂😂 Heck naw, caught everyone so off guard

These women are strong. One person pop the balloon on me I’m walking away crying.

My man Terrance be out there loving everybody😂