Ep 2: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli 

Whew this one!!! Lmao

A true narcissist 😂. The fact he told ole girl she was insecure and need help. Like what. Everybody insecure like no sir not everybody 😅

And one of the weird things that I feel like no one talks about is the charity question! When that lady asked him what type of charity organization he runs, he couldn’t answer. He gave some broad answer like “to better the world” and tried to deflect by asking her to elaborate on the charity she does. Even though “mental health” is a more specific answer.

Exactly!!! He was super vague about every question ask​@@kallie9059

Yall so pressed

Didn't he say he can offer therapy to someone lol just to find out his a dentist

I would hate him as a boss 😂😂😂

Ok. I was sure he said he pulled teeth. 🦷. I was wondering how we got to mental health from that. 😅

I was lost when he said he could offer therapy sessions 😂

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Not the last girl who he switched up so hard for 😭 he fr saw a chance to mold someone so young and open, and probably was scared bc he knew if he didn't match with her he'd be going home alone. Dude needs serious help

I noticed that too!! Using culture as a vulnerability… what a shame she should’ve picked the one next to him.

You can't call someone yo don't no a narcisist yall need to stop this. You are not his doctor you have not assessed him to give him that diagnosis.

frfr

Idk if it’s even narcissism it just seems like he needs therapy lol

Don't forget the bulk of them drooling over the first young lady because she is thick.

That just winded me up.

It makes perfect sense. People don’t lie excess. Not too high, not too small.

@@JuleneSings it doesn't because the lady before that wasn't even big she just had thicker thighs and they still judged her. seems like to me they want some girl with plastic hips n booty

😅😂😅 seriously!! Jessica is very rude, to all the men that popped on her.

As a doctor myself, I agree. 😂😂😂

As someone that dated a doctor, I agree. 😅😂😅

Bingos

My aunt is a doctor but she refuses to tell anyone lol I admire that

Exactly.. dr is not your name.. it’s a title

you didn’t lie . at all .

He seems to have some sugar in his tank.

@@ebonynaomi108580% of them seem to 😅

by the end of the video when he was throwing the balloon, he raised his arm and you can see he wasnt wearing underwear now what type of doctor...

@@buttcheeksguyHe was wearing what looked like a reddish colored plaid boxers. And no t-shirt or tank underneath his sweater. What did you see?

AMEN

Womp womp

SAME 😂 watching him finally get stfu was a healing moment for me lmao

You love him.

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MEEEE

He’s such an asshole 😅

Facts

the fact that this guy wears manicure says a lot abt him💀

😅😅

I was about to say same thing 😂😂😂😂😂

Absolutely

He’s full of himself 😂

He's throwing me...hes God's gift to Women...o. a pop ur balloon dating show! Wearing work boots😂😂😂😂😂

Dude is definitely a narcissist. Thinks he's the smartest in the room type of dude. And corny. He going be single for a long time with his attitude.

@@stuckinthe90sThegoldenera actually quite the contrary. I hate to say this but usually Narcissists are very successful in having relationships. It might be a revolving door, but most can find people. Mainly because there are so many broken, emotionally hurt people seeking love. They come swooping in because they see them as prey, and opportunity to rise their ego.

@@Stroproducedit They are good at starting relationships due to the charm but they never hold them.

@@Cayorootsbro isn’t a narcissist everything he said was so on point and came from experience + seeing other people’s mistakes that’s so evident especially when he made the statement on the fact that they’re on a platform where they should expect criticism so him just speaking his mind shouldn’t get the girls turned up the same way the girls putting down the men and the men just take it

@@aizensouske6440 Oh you haven’t seen his other videos..

right cause why is he introducing himself as Dr. Elom on a youtube dating video??

Rightttttt

you mis heard

I think you listened to respond. What I got is the guy picked up on her being the stubborn type, he’d want someone that’d hit the gym and sculpt the booty but since he thinks she’s stubborn she would likely not be agreeable with what he’d want.

@@user-sj5ju4jb7t they are not used to having to qualify for a man. At all.

@@user-sj5ju4jb7t this woman is thin for real I think it would be a struggle for her to build up. so I know It would be off putting for me somebody asking to change my natural body that I worked hard to be confident in but people can have different requirements

I’m so glad everyone else felt the same way 😭 😂

He was talking about humility and integrity, like he has any of that himself.

Expeditiously 😂period

@@Cobras17 right. half the shit he was saying I was in awe. like😟

I know . The skinny girl was very pretty but I feel doctor was upset that she had a sassier attitude than him

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Looking for clients. 😂

That he’s unqualified to treat. 😂

Yea, it just seems like the doctor is there to belittle those who are younger than him and stroke his ego. At 38 years old you shouldn’t be telling a 22 year old that they would be a liability to you especially when they are still trying to figure out life themselves. He was in her shoes once upon a time so he should understand being young and trying to figure out the unknown, the unknown being what you like. It just seemed so rude to me. She’s not going to act 40 in her 20s, she is a baby adult at that point.

Facts!! Speaking of proving points.

RIGHT🤣

Let’s hope no woman ever has to deal with him. I hope he finds the man of his dreams.

That’s a fact !

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😂😂😂😂😂

Not Legion 😭😭😭

He a banker too 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂

@@amandaclbn8324 baby, he don’t know who the hell he is. His face is fine but then you look at his clothes and listen to him speak and it’s an absolutely not!

Yeah same☺️

He would have definitely been my pick… dark skin, nice teeth, a trade career, and I’m sure he can cook being from the south. And I love a man w toys ( fast cars, 3 wheelers, bikes, atv’s etc)

Yes, and seems to be fun and funny, too! 😂

He was such a chill dude, I hope he does too. He doesnt deserve all the rejections. That height is runnin em off sadly lol

fr i hope so too

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🤦🏾‍♂️ They literally still wanting his zesty azz too🤷🏾‍♂️😂😂 I’m convinced Blk women just like the “Look” and not nothing else.

He’s so annoying 😭 He thinks he’s HIM

Somebody call they auntie and get them off this dating show. What is that hair🤢 these men are young they don't want no ogre looking female. And she pregnant? Omg.

@@Akhona3well he’s right. She’s annoying and immature. He has to pick what’s best for him. Not his type. Just to be honest😊The fact that she said you is. In this day and time Ugg . We as black people shouldn’t be saying you is.

Dr was definitely the main character

Ima be real ion think it was the fact she had no ass it was the unwillingness to put in the work natural to build ass and it’s not like that wouldn’t have benefited her if she’s really a model having more curves or define curves especially for her slim build would have been a plus she don’t gotta get major ass but a slim gym fit bod with the nice butt would have made that girl a instant 10 scale breaker imo plus yeah she did get defensive about it and I mean aye it’s a bunch of guys 🤷🏾

Exactly but that's all BM ever care about when it comes to BW & they'll never say a WW has to have a Body.

@@briasworld8 no mam that is false men hell even black men really like women with nice body features either ass or tities, the men you are mainly referring too or about are goofies who are weird asf. But a majority of men love women of any color especially black men retaining black women love a woman with some nice physical features it’s not all we care about truthfully cause majority of black men date black women and in the majority im pretty sure not all of em have nice or over bearing physical features but it’s just how men are 🤷🏾

Right, whenever I've mentioned that I'm trying to lose some weight (10-20) pounds in front of a black man, they're always like nahh I like them slim thick, then Dr. Elom talking about "your health problems are a risk." Which is it? Point is, don't listen to these men & definitely don't change in a way you don't already want to for a man. Especially one that is not your husband -- not a boyfriend, not a fiancee, a husband only. And even then, proceed with caution. We're not blow-up dolls or avatars. Looking in the mirror and liking what I see is more important -- that's where confidence comes from. If I will be happier at a lower weight, I'm losing it.

like girl that pissed me off so bad 😂

He deadass said that to the woman that works out everyday and lost over 100 lbs but he was fighting for the 21 year old that never has never set foot in a gym.

@@kay.gochiiHe acts like he’s the shit or something

I didn't like her vibes but I see what why u might say she's entertaining

Yes!

I peeped that with the first girl

Absolutely. He’s so full of himself.

Yes lol 😭 although some of his points I get , but still.

Doc was on point though

I’d doubt she is because no psychologist worth their salt would assume they could make a diagnosis based on someone’s behaviour on a dating show

@@AT-mu6ov a) the word diagnosis was used by me and not by her; b) it's not a formal diagnosis, it's a bit of fun; c) his narcissistic personality traits are so pronounced that even without an assessment she is certain that he is one. There are just too many behaviours in such a short period, how he positions himself above others, how he attempts to assume power, the way he switched into charm when there was competition, etc Anyway, believe what you like bud. Well done for learning the psychology disclaimer.

@@callme_fakezthat person who did that to you and didn’t let you again to confirm is horrible and I’m sorry that happened to you but their girlfriend mentioning it in passing with the obvious signs isn’t a issues. Search up the signs and try to compare he hits some of them. she isn’t saying that the doctor has to take that as fact just an educated opinion. The funny thing is he tried to diagnose someone else and offer them therapy without really knowing if she was insecure or not. Makes sense people are pointing out things he may have

@@callme_fakezman shut up

Which is why he dates younger women. He assumes they are easier to control.

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Because of physical attraction. It's not that hard to understand.

What does it tell exactly? Maybe she's just open

But the short girls allot of times be the worst ones because they short themselves they also want a super tall guy , its been my experience that the girls that give "short" (I'm 5'7) guys the most love are the average height girls like 5'4 , 5'5 .

Omg me tooooo

me tooooo

that boy gotta stop dressing like he don’t got no money 😂😂

He was side eyeing the whole time 😆 Can't hide anything on his face.

100%. He should have his pick if there wasn't something off.

🤣🤣

But there were 41 year old women on the dating show. What does that even mean? Lol. The Dr. was doing too much tho lol.

And settling for a 21 year old!!!

He lacks so much self-awareness

Frrrrr

Exactly he’s pretentious and arrogant and I can't see anyone putting up with his foolishness

Yea he’s clearly the one with issues. That was definitely proven when you’re 38 and choose to date a 20 year old. Sick

It gets him between them legs

Y'all say this and still go for guys like that hoping they treat you well then the nice guys you girls don't go for get the left overs 🤣🤣😂

You kinda just answered why they were doing it in your own sentence you literally just said “it’s like they wanted her to be insecure because she wouldn’t agree to changing herself”……….BECAUSE SHE WOULDNT AGREE TO CHANGE 🤦🏾‍♂️ The slowness

Let’s say I was a confident crackhead and didn’t wanna change, wouldn’t you assume people want you to be insecure about yourself ?

Her body being compared to being a crackhead is wild. Stick to music

@@vontevbb8922you’re slow because why should someone change their BODY??! That’s like her asking them to lighten their skin and if they say no…they’re stubborn. Like uhhh noooo.

@@vontevbb8922crackhead is a terrible example because crack is actually bad for you. Her body is what it is. She isn’t unhealthy so why should she change it to suit someone’s preferences?!

I had my eye this way😏😏😏😏 the moment he first opened his mouth...

Facts 😂😂😂

lmaooooo

I’m saying

Facts

The wmn were still rockin' with him regardless, so what does that say?

Yesssss

@@user-xk5ng4fd6y she is young and dumb

And to find employees. The first girl, he made that clear

half these men look like they want men more than they want women-- the dentist included

You guys just don’t get it 👀She’s truly not his type. Just being honest. When she said you is. I was done ✅

@mrs.p4349 He tricked her. He wanted that 22 yr old girl that went with his cousin.

He had his way. Every woman wanted him. You mad?

@@blissdad13that’s a problem. They wanted him because he’s attractive and many women on the street would give him a chance thinking he’s a catch and find themselves with an emotionally abusive man

@@lv2756 you don't get it. he didn't hide who he is.... he wasnt up there selling a dream.. he was brutally honest.. unapologetic. Confident. And every woman chose him. Every single one.... the chose him BECAUSE he is "abusive" not because they didn't know he was... He was the only man up there that not one woman could control or manipulate.... thats the man that women call narcissist...

Might be the best and committed dude in there, who knows. But because of height, he may have been passed over. Imagine the young lady going for the most egotistical dude on the lineup vs the dread guy who said come back if you don't get matched AND the guy who asked for a balloon back. Tomorrow, it'll be "men" are assholes.... nah your decision making is butt lol

@@fistandpen2505Looks matter. Everything else is an after thought.

yeah, the third girl showed him some love though...she also was the best I think

😂😂😂😂 y’all don’t know how to pick em

@@fistandpen2505 as a fellow dreadhead I would've picked him 1st so quick!

And you writing about him

Right, that Dr needs help

Right, I did think that was weird. If she got a bbl then ppl will complain but she don’t and she’s happy and now that’s still a problem.

He’s obnoxious AF

Naw dude was right about her

😂😂Fact!

That took me out

It’s really not. Most women make better workers than wives today lol

I honestly don’t think he meant it as shade but it really came off that way lol. She didn’t seem offended though, I would’ve said f*ck your job 😂

I caught that! lol 😂

Explain

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"But he can fly me out" 🙄 smh GURL RUN!

‼️‼️‼️ this I was soooo mad at her decision, like girl he literally told you he’s not paying for your tuition ( the embarrassing way ) & he just wants to mold her… smh she fell for the game like 2nd pick said. 👎

@@LaBrittanyAmuThomas she will be chasing that high from the first trip for the rest of that relationship.

When you introduce as I'm dr so and so..big red flag..she could not get past DR...😂😂it's silly

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Exactly! She was so graceful & that man is NOT qualified to be anyone's "therapist," when it's obvious he's an egomaniac sociopath, himself 😂😂

Yeah she took the criticism with grace.

Nah she def was feeling some kinda way about it lol. Her feelings was hurt n she had a lil attitude behind it.

@@SAVAGEoLIFEno shit… they were dogging her for her body

Lol this dr is self absorbed and rude

He’s very condescending and he always has to have the last word. Likes to hear himself speak 🤢

So how do you think us men feel if these women open their mouths? These women who cant do absolutely nothing. They cant do nothing and bring absolutely nothing to the table but still act like theyre the prize. So how do you think we feel? At least the doctor is a DOCTOR, is smart and well spoken. You just dont like him, bc he destroys you womens delusions

@@tcfranco6228yall dont like him bc he puts yall on your bullshit. He makes yall realize how delusional yall are

He is. 🤷🏾‍♂️

yes!!

If a high value man with options has a high value demand, he is automatically toxic?? Nah my brother, he knows what he’s looking for in a woman.

But then they matched!! I'm so confused

​@@MistyMarie You're only confused because you do not know the nature of your own sisters. A lack of observation on your part, a trait most of you lack.

​@@warrioreon11facts

THIS. OMG ENERGY VAMPIRE😭😭

Unless you’re offering free sex to the men in the comments, we really don’t care.

He was literally projecting what he is, how ironic... Also funny when he is asked his name, he feels the need to present himself with his title to hide behind it to act superior. He has no right to "evaluate" the girl based off a few minutes observation.. which isn't his field in the first place. Since when do Dentist's give therapy sessions?

What’s crazy is some of his clips went viral on tik tok and he everyone’s talking about he’s amazing

yes, his energy is disgusting. yuck

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​@@_iamkadijakimAnd this is where the ignoring of red flags and heartbreaks come in.😢😂

@@_iamkadijakim His only saving grace.

@@berniceabenaboadi4829 I’m working on myself 😩😩😭😭

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agreed that was nonsense

Agree🙄

Agreed. Not all women want a bbl and are content with what God blessed them with. I can appreciate that…those men have issues within themselves

INSANE. I had to come to the comments bc I knew I wasn’t tripping 😂. Now if she had a bbl they would say “these women don’t love themselves”. This guys were cringeeeee

My wife is fat now since she already gave birth to 3 children, she’s no longer what she used to be before, but I love her anyways, I’m not deceived by physical beauty, no even by her interior beauty, because I made up my mind to make that lady happy, and what I do for her, makes her love me, I receive the love I provide and I teach her to be a good woman and person all the time.

😂😂😂

He watched Kev Samuels one day whilst having an angry w**k after hearing his high school sweetheart cheated with the mailman. He only became a dentist to so he could have “DR” on his credit card hoping it would stop her cheating ways, but it didnt. Now Dr Elam just runs around the planet smoothly destroying cute women because they all deserve to pay for what his ex did.😂😂😂😂😂😂….. just kidding! Elam is doing too much though for real😂

Omg 💀💀

You study psychology on your way to dentistry

@@Theberrychica😂😂 goofy a55 😂😂😂 🤦🏽‍♂️

Where's your ring at ? 😂 The truth hurts doesn't it

😂😂😂😂

@@bulletsRflying where's yours?

@@yadinoba I got mine since 2016. You?

@@bulletsRflyingthat is quite sad, to be married and to worry about other women's marital status... thoughts and prayers for your wife

lol people use that term so loosely

Foreal. "I'm a model" 😂😂😂

They just let anyone be models these days. I remember when it actually used to mean something 😭

Fax 😭😭

One key thing to remember is there are now different types of models 🤐

Right! I like her strong charisma!

He's trying to garner brownie points. It really seemed like he was hoping they'd be interested in his job and not notice how creepy he was the entire time. My eyes were like this every time he spoke: 😬

What's wrong with that? No disrespect I'm only asking

@@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801😅😅I’m an MD and it’s so weird to introduce yourself as that in a social setting. These women are not his patients neither is he at a conference presenting a paper.

@@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801Having a career and being your career are different

@@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801 Nothing, this is just bozo logic. If they put in the work and dedication to achieve that title, they would also call themselves doctor

Terence, he seems cool

Me too. He seems like he wouldn't be a headache

She should’ve chose him.

But notice none of the sistas picked him. They look for the wrong things.

So much projection lol

exactly, and better yet, she's a MODEL. she's out there to represent herself because she's comfortable in her own body. she also agreed to join this dating session, there's NOTHING insecure. if anything, the "doctor" was throwing shade because she wasn't willing to change her appearance for somebody. I mean come on, most of these guys want a thick woman, and when they can't get it, shade is thrown. ridiculous

THANK YOU! My sentiments exactly!

His point wasn’t about looks. His point was about humility. That she needs therapy cause of her humility. He even popped it after he heard her continue to speak. 2 totally different things

@@dblxdei mean They are all little boys there! Haven’t seen a single men there

Right! They're so weird. Anymore butt and she's not fitting in tbe model size clothes.

He’s literally a DENTIST with the mindset of a surgeon talking like a “qualified” therapist 😭

Yeah, inflated ego for sure

I’ve worked at a few hospitals & the doctors behave as if they are gods gift to the planet.

FACTSSSS

He thinks because he’s a doctor, he’s such a catch but that arrogance is so unattractive

Like a true short king 😂

I want him to get chose so bad 😂

My dawg fr🤣🤣

Lmaooo fr! He calls every woman gorgeous

@@daeona a true short king? I’m screaming 😭

hes funny

@@m3vm3yea if you’re weird and insecure

Everybody so obssessed with the doctor. lol.

Third girl was definitely a model. She had such a pretty face and smile. I’m athletic so I like them slim. She seemed really nice too

I can tell the first guy was good with number #3. He kept looking at her

But they're Drs tho

​@@shizman8037yeah but no. He probably got his degree from like ITT Tech or University of Phoenix before they closed down 😂

my goodness he has a stinking personality!

Ikr😂😂😂

Lol for real and he is SO creepy he was always preying on the young girls 🤢 if a woman was 38 and she chose a 21 year old guy she would get DRAGGED. This old man is creepy asf for choosing a 21 year old girl. Actually all the girls were too young for him 😂 at his big age he should be married with kids by now not in a RU-vid dating video

Especially if I was in the middle of talking

Same 😂 I’m a Leo I’m too sensitive

@@alexia8365🤣🤣🤣 yes!

😂😂😂😂😂

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

i hate when women use the terms gaslighting and narcissist but this guy is a raging red flag and comes off as all of those and more .

😂😂😂

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​@@cocotrain2002I thought it was only me. Good lord he's so annoying. Honestly he's like an epitome of what a true narcissist is like and more like u said😅

Facts

This 😂😂😂😂

I would too if I had worked hard all those years to earn those credentials…put some respect on my name

Very cringey!

​@southernkeyz1 I hear you. That was my first thought when I read that comment. However, I also think people need to have some humility. There is a time and place and the way its said matters too.

Annoying

FACTS, I so agree with you … lol

I would walk out with any man of my choice 💅🏿

You do realize BW are the least wanted women in the dating world 🌎

Have fun

@@Krystolsenergygworrrrlllllll 😂😂😂😂😂😂🙈

he is probably not a doctor

A walking red flag going somewhere to happen😅

THANK YOU!!!

He's Legion😂😂

This!!!! I feel exactly the same way. He is full of shit.

The goalpost always moves

She was very attractive, but no blk man wants a microphone stand.

Your average black man is not complaining about black women being over weight, in actuality most black men like thickness. And black men are known for dating overweight women.

Status is power.

It really pissed me off. She's obviously such a child and he was so hard on everybody else

In a lot of cultures, age gap relationships are very common, especially when you have accomplished men.

He was playing in their faces, he just wanted to win 😂😂😂

​@@j.baldwin3012 just because its common doesnt mean its right, in my culture men beating women is common, old men marrying teens also common, also spousal rape is also common and legal (Muslim country)

@@seashellsff5er8691This isn't a man beating a woman, spousal rape, and it isn't an old man marrying a teen. She is a fully grown adult. That is, unless you're telling me that women in their early 20s shouldn't be treated as adults. Either she's an adult that is capable of choosing who she should be with, or she is a child who needs to be protected and have decisions made for her.

You ain’t never lied

Nah KS made sense and was consistent with his points. The dr is a hypocrite and reeks of pride and arrogance

​@@ratpoisonaddict444Try get out your feelings and attack the message not the messenger.

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And more power to this doctor for speaking his mind just as unapologetically as women are constantly begged to do. So in the name of that equality that women so desperately want, I say Anerica desperately needs more men who are openly and unapologetically willing to speak his mind. And like a wise black man named David Fizdale once said: "Take That For Data cus You Ain't Gonna Rook Us'" B*tche$😂

Exactly

You xeroxed my thoughts.

Somebody called him legion and I'm still laughing 😂

I feel bad for the girl he chose.

Exactly