Ep 5: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli 

Dawg!! Too crazy right 😂

Exactly!! But want to talk about someone else’s fit!!

And she claims she’s a therapist

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She was corny AF , probably been sliding by all this time on her tatas and cakes without developing a real personality. Therapist / wannabe Rapper tells you everything you need to know, a virtual walking red flag. 🚩

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Man like wtf there’s a reason all these women single they got issues

They aren't ready 🤣

The most daft way of thinking ever

That’s not just a woman thing, men do that too and I will never understand why

You're right on that, that man was amazing

I know right

My God fearing brother, I appreciated him leading with that!

I LOVED Malcolm!!!!!!

He was awesome

When she said that he doesn't look it, that confused the hell outta me. I'm 5'3" ish and he looks 5'10. She must be blind.

@@welicatiganaw he wasn’t 5’10 trust me

@@aga-un7cbhe’s clearly at least 4 inches taller than her in the video and she’s wearing heels. If she’s 5’2 he’s def in the 5’8-5’10 range.

The audacity. She could wear 6in heels and he’d still be taller. That’s doing too much.

Quality women don't waste time with.... smash or past 😂😂😂😂

@@easy-toyou right 😂😂😂

We need to stop judging these women for having standards and preferences. Rejection is subjective, people have their reasons for what they want and what they feel like they need in their life. we aren't women so we can't tell or know what they think of really in what they need. best thing we can do is ourselves and eventually the right woman will like you for YOU.

@@LuvvM4ttokay Dr. Phil

Well ofcourse preferences are subjective. But the mere fact that you reject someone based of frivolous superficial things like an astrology sign or a beard instead of the content of your character says a lot about them and where they are as a person. @@LuvvM4tt

ABSOLUTELY

EXACTLY she need to grow up

Just weird

Well that explains why she is single

Right.

Clown world we live in

That industry isn’t worth the money or being a spouse

These women are grown in their 30s. Why would they want to date a 25 year old in a profession either constant female lusting? Same reason guys dont date travel nurses, etc.

Lets not normalize age gap relationships just bc of money, something might be wrong with you

But then y’all turn around and call women gold diggers for getting with a man who has money…..y’all just don’t like women, flat out. Age is a valid reason to reject someone.

Me too 😂

I been binge watching gang 😂

Me too! It’s not as “harsh” as the other balloons popping shows.

Yesss meee tooooo

Exactly

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yep, very childish. reminds me of elementary or middle school

I PEEEEEPED! I was like is it just me or what

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!

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This was my thought the entire time!! They popped for some goofy reasons! 🥴

A simp, he showered them with compliments after getting rejected knowing damn well some of them weren’t even his type.

He graduated already

Yessss I actually liked him

He gotta pass the bar

It brings me joy that so many women will be single because at the end of the day it will be their fault because they had so many opportunities when they were young but when they get older and their options dwindles they will suffer the consequences of their mindsets as they become inaccessible in the dating marketplace

@@ramzyy5362 I get it, the show is starting to desensitize me to women because of the arbitrary things they reject men for. Astrological signs, height, shoes, WTH. Whenever I hear a woman say “he was a narcissist and abusive” I chuckle to myself and I want to ask her “ How tall was he?” 😂

@@vereen70 yeahh thé more and more I watch these type of shows the more I become emotionless to women like it feels like I’m become a hard stoned cold man because I’m no longer sensitive towards women because I just accepted reality

Welcome to America 🇺🇸

@@ramzyy5362 don’t give up. There are available women who don’t think that way. Disfunction is usually given a platform for entertainment not to take serious. I’m blessed to have a husband and be happily married at 32. If it’s something you want it will happen for you.

Facts bro. Its called self-sabotage.

Snapshot of the current environment

Damn shame cant have a good sense of humor all yall want is do men's shi save yall money and by a AI bot and have the programmer program it and spec it out just for you 😂

It's probably cause he was the first one.

He’s a Simp. Love that the second guy kept it real. A guy should have a type!

I like her hat

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Me too

Too bad the rest of the women don't dress as classy.

She’s married and I think she’s Christian as well

Cause she's married. She's know to dress appropriately not just for herself but outta respect for her husband and their relationship

True. She is so classy. I love it

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Make it make sense 😂😂😂

right like girl he's taller than you LOL🤣

Be easy on me lol 😩

As woman who is 5’ 8” nothing wrong with his height. He is the same height as my ex husband 🙏❤️ He has an amazing personality. I hope he finds someone who deserves him.

I was thinking the same.

taco meat is an actual slang word for chest hair. it's very known. I'm surprised you thought that was an insult or something she just made up. but yeah I don't get how showing chest hair is a no.

Exactly my thoughts

You hit the nail on the head.

​@@hellyeahjeremytaco meat slang or not might be offensive to some men tho 🤷🏾‍♀️

Right my parents been married for almost 43 years according to astrology their not compatible!

😂😂right, they really believe that crap

Astrology is bullshit. As a Christian, Bible condemned it too

Yes!!!

Right

If you were there I would have choose you again & again😊

Facts! Red flags everywhere. 😣

Fax! 😭😭😭

These women are PETTY!! Watching the guys pop balloons, they actually give high quality reasons, not just “l didn’t like his joke”.

Preach

He pulled up to troll 😂

he won tbh😂everybody there should be in fashion because they keep judging what everyone’s wearing

Dude seems like a dope person they did him a favor

cause its only funny if they giving the petty comments! I was confused on their "pick and choose sense of humor"

Ironically, Goku hair and Ramen hair matched up… 😂

These women are petty and focused on ridiculous things

It’s crazy

😂😂😂😂😂Ikr! Like get over yourself

LITERALLY IM 5’11 LIKE GIRL WHAT😂

😂😂😂😂Ikr... 🤷🏿‍♀️

Literally I am 6ft and get so annoyed by these damn height pops

RIGHT.

Facts I'm 6ft and it irritates me.

😂 they ass to picky that why they still single

Lmao the skinny jeans? Girl he can change that 💀

The beard can get fixed up and I think both girls lying those are not the real reason they popped it

I know where you’re coming from, but I think he talked his way out of it. For example: 1. When he was being rejected he was too complimentary to the women rejecting him. Be quiet and listen why then give a brief response. Other women with balloons want to feel that they are the better choice compared to the other women. If he’s complementing everyone then the woman with the balloons feels less and less special and then pop! 2. The ramen noodles joke was no malice. However, modern women band together for protection ( think safety in numbers). So, if he throws shade at one of the women the others feel like they have to back or side with her. Other than that they might be thinking ‘ what if he’s like that with me?’. 3. He was too talkative in general. Women like a reserved guy. He’s got enough personality not to blabber all of the time ( like some stereotypical women ie their girlfriends). Saying less than he needs to would have built an air of mystery and charisma for being able to wow people when he rarely speaks. That will make his woman look good. Also a truly feminine woman communicates nonverbally with the movement of her body, eyes, breath, touch etc. Similarly, as a man he can communicate a lot with a look, facial expression instead of speaking. This is no shade to Mr Malcolm, because he did really well. I don’t know his name, but the gentleman in the brown roll neck who admitted that he was nervous had the same ‘talkative’ issue hence leaving with no match.

I liked his outfit 😭 regardless skinny jeans can be changed

This comment is so true. This show is real life

Agreed! Lot of insecurities.

Yes!

I think a lot of woman suffers from sheep mentality tbh.

I noticed that

Honestly.

Agreed

Yep

Completely

Yup , all these dating shows just cashing in. Its for entertainment purposes. Dating is a complete joke nowadays

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They are all so dumb

Absolutely

Absolutely agree!

So why are the men single? Or is it ok for them to have preferences Ms Pick me

Exactly. Not like they are all the fashion police.

They’re black bro. Highest rates of single motherhood. I’m not surprised by these dumbass answers at all, even all the fashion related ones lmaoooo

Kip si Umejam 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💔💔💔

@@H_TRIVIA 😂😂 lakini surely, nguo enye mtu amevalia siku moja ndo mnatumia kujua if he's the right man for you?

@@aking1196 these woman prefer swag over education. Becky will scoop him up and they will complain

I totally agree. fear of rejection so in a way keeping the power on their side. rejecting feels better than being rejected.

@@pamelamuzambi2363 100%

Facts

Accurate. She was smart enough to retract an she left with a man unlike most!

@daviddavid-tt3fk FACTS. What a little but of self-awareness and accountability can do.

58:08 😂😂

I am too 😂😂😂😂

Big facts

Absolutely ridiculous these women. These basic looking chicks searching for perfection. Dating market is done.

Very superficial

That’s the main thing ppl should take from this our woman are so superficial it’s embarrassing

Right like will he wear those pants forever

Absolute buffoonery

I think she was clapping back because when she was on last time.. all the guys popped their balloon and gave the same response.. "auntie vibes" she looked very hurt that day

Thats a woman for you

You can tell shes deeply insecure and uses jokes and laughter as a buffer. Very sad

Their reasonings were off the wall. The man's skinny jeans, his beard is a little off. Things that they could work with. Just dumb

Right cuz a man can dress in a suit and hygiene be bad smh

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Right? The answers were so rich. We need more of people who are gonna take it deep

Agreed 👍🏿

That was a quick 20 mins

He read tf outta them, I honestly had a good laugh about it 😂😂😂

He read tf outta them, I honestly had a good laugh about it 😂😂😂

Imagine rejecting a man because his beard wasn’t properly lined up? This is ridiculous. That’s why I advice Blk men to date non Blk women

RIGHTTT LIKE HUHH

Black women are like that

They were water and earth signs if yall haven't recognized most of these signs tend to be on these dating shows

Beard not shaped up, colored shirt 😂😂😂😂😂 pissssed me off

Yes indeed...

I'm mad about that one, he asked basic questions and made good conversation.. Then got put down because of it.

​@@IshiroaKimitanaa they felt threatened by it because when he speaks everyone girl likes him, most BW wants a good conversationalist until he's in front of them then it SCARES them because they don't know what that is

He just speaks a little ignorant for someone that just graduated law school!

He was a millennial clown, practicing his talking points yet NOT effectively listening while tryna communicate “hood style” to show swag. Boy bye

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Some of these women are dizzy!!! 😂😂😂

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Yes, he was that. And when she said, "I am the table," he immediately asked, "So, what is on the table?" She couldn't handle him.

They were intimidated by his intelligence that’s why

They were intimidated for sure !!!

He came out like a clown and made me immediately eat my words.

They was weird rejecting him for having a sense of humor. I think he was too nice and that turned people off ex. the girl with the glasses who said they'd just be friends.

What you said makes an inch of sense. Why didn't you criticize their brainless reasons for rejecting him? Everyone said his height but he seemed to be a great dude. Lol. Make it make sense, condemn a bad attitude, even if it is the man!!!

@@cephasmee6456 wtf are you talking about luv😂😂😂😂

I'm saying give a full rap sheet on both sides. These women give a bad image for our community. We gotta help each other to grow. ​@@anadennis2000

Difference between men and women

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If it's not one thing, it's another. The most weak excuses for popping the balloons. SMH

Bruh on gawd. The devil man walked in and they all said "POP!"

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Fan

Right it’s ghetto and showing that she’s actually his biggest fan 😂

She’s 25, but yeah

That's an old ass looking twenty five year old ​@@DrippinSwag305

Bh therapist... lol

They dodged bullets like a mf

Popping your balloon after you see a guy go google eyes got your competition but being unaffected with you is Smart

⁠@@christenameleastupid terrible advice. All men are googly eyed for beautiful women, with that mentality you’ll be single forever

@@christenamelea respectfully disagree, this is a dating show right? if the host is telling me to look at each girl and decide which balloon to pop or which girl i like them you shouldn't let your insecurity pop your balloon lol

@@NewJackCity1988 it’s called observation lol like obviously you want this girl, you put the Mac on her. lol What’s the point of her waiting for him to come back down the line just to say oh I think I have more chemistry with this girl than I have with you.

Trying to be a girl’s girl 🚮

She bought someone else’s issh…. Cmon!😂

I think a lot of these women are playing follow the leader.. I feel like because she already didn’t want him that badly and then didn’t want to be the only woman left with a balloon she just popped it

@@anisaantoinette6381no she popped it bc like she said she didn’t like his misogynistic joke….

​@@amandamorgan8047 what does misogynistic mean? He conpared hats you dope.

The girl with the hat was a catch but she was too dark ….oh well

I feel like he was out of their league and they knew it which is why they made up dumb reasons to say no to him

Malcom is handsome and confident and they all took it for cocky arrogance. Being overly sensitive about a little fun shade. Smh

Maybe I've got bad humor but I thought he was funny

He's handsome and witty I'm sure he'll be okay

that's what I said 🤣🤣

lmao good let the trash take itself out 🤣

Atleast she was honest , because it’s something she doesn’t have ….lol😂

😂 I cried

Yooo that shit had me weak lmao

I concur!

Black women for you. Leave them be

Agreed

I think it was some insecurities shining through. The two ladies who matched were open and knew what they wanted.

@@doms5755 you sound obsessed over a staged show 😂

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I love how he put each and every one of them in the hot seat, and the girl in the black miniskirt said she popped the balloon because of age..gurl you popped before he started speaking

The girl in the black mini skirt looks older than 29 yrs.

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Now if he had told her to trim those lashes she'd been pressed. 😅

Imagine? How petty!!!

I wish his type was around so I can pick ..he is even funny

Right they done made me mad. They not even cute to be rejecting him.

​@@myzabanks2180 comments like this is why they rejected him. They feel insecure based on his looks, they felt they weren't his type. They rejected him out of fear he'd embarrass/reject them first.

most of the woman's reasoning for popping their balloon made no sense but like you said he probably did Dodge a bullet

@@brishaberries0101 it’s not fair cause guys usually are the ones getting rejected. Some women should learn that’s okay to be rejected too…

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Real these woman are so immature and

Exposing how shallow they are!

I actually think the opposite

@@iamledgend247me too

@@iamledgend247 This is good I do believe we can learn a great amount from differing opinions would you like to share.

accurate

Yeah, one of them held on to the balloon, waited for the guy to talk to a few of the females and then popped the balloon claiming she don’t like his pants, Bih you should have popped it from the jump.

Yeah they’re insecure

You're right 💯

As a petite women if i was in the show i would pop it too. Why the heck would anyone want to date someone whose heart is elsewhere. If he likes thick he should go for thick. There are the ones who prefer petite women, we belong to those. This way everyone is happy and satisfied. Imagin sitting in a room with a guy who is craving meat and all i have is bones. Its like punishing him honestly, he should go get himself a thick girl

Exactly.

Nah frfr dead ahh

Yupp.. the others are ratchet and childish.. This is the only one that is well produced and feels like an actual dating show on T.V

Facts the other ones are ignorant

Watch the Nigerian ones if you want a good laugh, it’s a battlefield 😭💀

That Girl is toxic. JUST READ THE SHIRT And THAT ALONE Tells you ALL You need to know about her.

@@LadyDeVonne33 exactly she kept saying she ain’t like somebody outfit but her shirt 😭😭😭

@@LadyDeVonne33 Yes, I agree. She definitely gave me masculine hood chick from the Bronx. She’d be a great fit for the show baddies.

@@LadyDeVonne33her outfit and energy gave toxic 😂

She also have a OF I think and her IG she's showing her body a lot

goofy in what sense?

Super goofy !

@@LuvvM4tt Like… saying you don’t like men in skinny jeans then leaving with a man in skinny jeans… or rejecting a guy for a ramen noodle joke but making a taco meat joke lol

Me too

@@LuvvM4tt”I am the table” then proceeding to literally say nothing worth while bitches on here just saying any and everything 😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️

Same thinking here

Correct, they are all trying to be polite but they come up as if they dont know what they want. They just shut up and say nothing! 😂😂😂😂

grown indecisive women are a nightmare!

It’s sad how women are convinced that it’s a dude’s height that even gets them wet. They gon hyper focus on height until they keep getting played by height

Black people

He perceives well & definitely not going to just take it on face value. Lawyer!!!!

He needs to sound like a lawyer!! Leave all that street talk, n wannabe hardcore

he was hot

Energy was hottttt

@@kwaseb Rubbish. Have you not seen legally blonde? Reese sure didnt speak like a lawyer

Yes his maturity was impressive. I get why they didn’t like the fit but his unfazed demeanour after getting rejected was endearing. Good communicator and you can tell that he’s taking all their criticism and will improve. He came to have fun, learn and chill. Didn’t take it to heart

He was the opposite of chill, just as the 1st lady said, he likes to constantly debate. He would be draining to a chill person with the all the going back and forth. And as the 5th lady said, why is he giving full interview to women who already popped their balloon, he should be saving those questions for the women who didn't

@@ohreally404 For starters, every lady popped their balloon before he said a word. The women who got another balloon got the balloon off of how he “communicated” to her, so clearly every girl is getting a conversation and Arlette enforces it too. If he has to get to know someone to like them then that’s more commendable than calling someone a debater or flirt because you got called out for being superficial or wrong.

He should of keep it nice & sweet definitely was doing to much for some females that pop they balloon

He was a complete gentleman. The ladies are a bandwagon type that are probably single because of their single friends who talk down on their potential partners.

It’s screaming hey ex look at me i know you want me

And a gum chewing bro

Maybe a blind one?

Blind and deaf

Shes a good fuqq for sure

Fa real..wth is wrong wid these ladies....

And the year/month you were born matters a lot apparently

Im tellin you, straight contradictions😂

Don’t forget the dirty shoes and being successful is definitely a no no😂😂

They haven’t faced reality yet, and if that beard thing is really a thing i don’t have faith in humanity anymore, losing a great guy just cause they didn’t like the line 😂

I agree he was great and had amazing energy! They tried to make him out to be like a big red flag because he said he’s a lawyer and likes to talk and get to know others before judging too soon?! They’ll give the excuse of not wanting a lawyer because he’s a man that “likes to argue” like boooo he was great and dodged bullets. Let’s see if they can represent themselves in the courtroom if they ever need one 😂

I absolutely loved how he was diving into those questions. I love people who always have a come back. For some people it’s threatening but it I love the banter

Notice how after the lawyer they waited for the next dude to state his profession 😂

Homie does have a good personality and potential, but let me put u on game. He wasn’t really connecting with the women. He simply rapid fired a bunch of questions but couldn’t remember what they were saying, proving he wasn’t listening. But also, your language exposes you. Men who generally ask women “what you bring to the table” and if she’d stick by him while he’s on the “up and up” u should keep a eye on em. It’s not an automatic red flag. But generally the guys who asks these questions bring some toxicity, sometimes unintentionally, but still damaging to “you” nonetheless. He wasn’t genuinely listening to connect, but to respond, which shows a shallowness. I’ve been thru that phase with women already, that’s why it’s easy to identify. The woman thinks we are connecting but that just makes it easier for me to get what I want. He can evolve and grow out of that stage, he already doing good and take advice well. Just food for thought. People tell you who they are directly and indirectly.

He was kicking they ass