Ep 3: Lebogang Motsepe on Marriage, Church Pressure,Disappointments | healing & Restoration 

After we met, after 6 months we started the lobola negotiations and we stayed together. He was unfaithful a couple of times I stayed still. After 10 years we did our wedding in September 2017 the same day we were celebrating our daughter's 10 years birthday. In 2018 May he had an affair, I saw flames. We got divorced in October 2018. It was very painful that he chose to leave and forgot all the years we were together. 😢 I'm still healing , God has shown me grace.🙏

The interviewer is not giving the guest a chance to tell her story freely,she's interfering a lot and makes it hard to listen and learn coz while on one point she directs the guest to a different one before she can finish the first one

Lovely story thank you ladies. but just a quick one to the interviewer, please let the guest speak and articulate her story without interfering. yes i understand you want to interact, but please listen, and listen and listen more❤

The interviewer keeps derailing the conversation and we miss the best parts of the story

I'm loving these episodes so much❤ thank you Ms Rammy 36:29 there's truly so much error in the church rushing couples to get married in the name of "Sexual Sin" We forget that sexual sin is a result of a person having a lack of self control. Marriage will not fix lack of self control. Lack of self control is a sign that an individual hasn't surrendered that part of their life and hasn't allowed God to deal with the root. The minute you feel the urge to get married to your partner out of the fear that you guys will sin , that should be a sign to you from God telling you that you are not ready for marriage because there's an area of your life where God is not the one who has authority. Marriage is ministry and ministry is inspired by God to fulfill a purpose, not something that is rushed into because of the fear of sinning. As much as church is there to guide, it definitely shouldn't take the place of the Holy Spirit.

I just want to thank sis lebogang, your story so much healing to me. I’m going through the same thing where God took me out of a relationship, everyone is forcing me to remain but God said it’s not his will for my life. It’s hard because I’m dealing with so much shame and guilt but God is healing my heart. Thank you so much

Such a powerful testy, I love the fact that she highlighted but not detailed much with so much respect. The what and why, I can relate in my brokenness when I was divorced I was so hurt in such a way that I cried to God many times yet focused on the why. Indeed God healed my broken heart and revealed the why things happened the way they did. I need her book. Will search it. Because I can relate to a lot of experiences especially where she said she been through a lot and almost every she touches failed. There’s so much I resonate with her and I loved her. Wish some day I can share my experiences with being emotionally and breaking down.

This can't be a coincidence!!! Thank you to Lebo for this bearness, as someone who is still battling a familiar case, I believe I didn't stumble on this story by mistake or by chance!

What an inspiration you are.... I have watched you grow up, and yes it hasn't been easy but then through all you remained focused and never lost hope, Keep the light shinning always we have daughters that will learn from you and all that you have accomplished!!!!! God speed my sister!!!!!❤❤❤

Ahhh marn she is so beautiful. The scene of neighbors singing ngemini yomtshato. I had tears. So many lessons here.

Pls let the guest tell her story.

I always say that church is like a hospital and not everyone there is spiritually safe to be with or have recovered let alone done the works or walked the journey with God

The real conversation starts at 17 minutes. Interview is great, just work on direction the guest right into the gist, shortly after introduction.

Pain before purpose! Yoh! Powerful

We are here woman of God...🙌🏽❤️

God warned her a lot usisi but she was really too in love to see all of the warnings. I’m so proud of her for rectifying her mistakes by leaving, even though it was rather way deep innnnnnn 😅

Painful story 😢. God is the most reliable source 🙏🏾

This lady she revived me I thought I was the only one facing the unfortunate always being disappointed thank cc

I feel so relieved to hear ur story coz I thought I was the only one who went through the same challenge

May the Almighty continue to strength us when it comes to disappointments 🙏🏽❤

😢😢😢😢! So deep! The part where you mentioned that you did not want to pray anymore And the anticipation part

I love our host ❤ she says Amen so many times 😂❤ Great Episode

This is relatable. I can't wait to share my story. thanks for sharing sesi.

I hope the interviewer takes the tips given in this post and use them positively. The guest had a lot to say but was not given the opportunity to do so. If you can do a part 2.

This was a conversation between two sisters speaking the same language. The interview was executed beautifully. I think Lebo was vague with letting out the details, maybe she wants people to buy the book.

Lebohang muhle 🔥🔥🔥

I love that enquire from the lord my sister Lebgang God bless and protect you in christ Jesus the lord amen.

I am so glad Sis Lebogang that you are admitting that you were also at fault and it could be that your then husband was under a lot of financial pressure and because you were both not talking about it he then became short tempered, but this interview is an eye opener.

What an emotional and yet powerful session. Lebogang is extremely wise. Siyabonga ulimele kahle ivangeli

Queen Rami, you were born for this!

Yooooo! I could not hold back tears at “through it all” 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Thank God you didn't end up with debt🎉

Love, love this ! So inspiring! I thank God

I feel like we need part two with her because so many things were left unshared

I so wanted to hear the part where she stayed for 2 months in marriage😢

There is something great about both of these ladies. God is coming through big for you Sis Lebo❤

After reading such comments before watching im dissapointed because i saw a small part on tiktok and was like let m go look for it on RU-vid ..

She didn't give her a fair chance to narrate the original story. She eventually pushed her to general scenarios 😢

Intervention from the interviewer makes it difficult for the guest to go back to that most important part of the interview. Yes some of the questions are valid but at the wrong time. We missed the vital part from this interview.

10 minutes into this, I can relate to Lebo where relationships are concerned. I dnt enquire, and I get hurt. My heart does deceive me.

This healed me

Tuned in🎉

Take notes/lesson from Lynn Ngugi

But what was this interview all about coz the title says something but nothing was said here, maybe it's because the interviewer keep disturbing? 🤔 She said a little about that marriage, and the rest was something else.

“When the rent is due, we didn’t sing.” Wow powerful (I laughed though.

What a story🙏, the pressure in church with regards to marriage 😮

Our story looks similar but God was there for me❤

What was this interview about?? We saw 2 months on the title, the guest couldn’t say what happened 🤷🏽‍♀️ .. i watched the whole thing and still dont know what was it about

58:05 Àll things work togetger for good to those who loves the Lord.

I think the follow-up or clarity must come after The interviewee has finished on 1 part...most parts were interrupted n not concluded

We are watching 🙌

so proud of you Lebo

Spiritual growth matters

Honestly people, I feel like God takes his time to answer 🙏

Sequence please interviewer

The guest is a good story teller and is expressing herself very well. The host is interjecting just a little too much and not giving her enough time to tell her story. Let your guests do the talking...other than that lovely guest. Host just needs to improve on her listening skills

But who decided that you guyz must cancel the wedding and secondly what did the guy did exactly????? Hai mna I am not satisfied

Our queen must work on not interrupt people 😢

This is so ironic We share a surname we also share the same story woow and we have never meet. Bless u Sesi

Personally, having read the title of the interview, I feel like the interviewer structured her questions around that rather than the cover title of it. Which is why she was moving around her questioning and redirecting the guest to cover all those aspects. That's why it seems like she's interrupting the guest because the cover title of the interview screams tea😂and the interview ended up being an overview of those aspects instead of a detailed Tea spill of the 2 months marriage😅 overall very educational educational, thank you for sharing ❤

Yooo interviewer …. Every minute you are talking tjooo

This was powerful 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

Its good podcast but next time let the guest talk with interfering the guest

I am also learning that we don't fix things by fighting. I used to slap him each time I found that he was being unfaithful. 😢

My grandson passion to have a podcast can you help. He is an opharn who is always preaching that you can grow up better than kids who has both parents.

Part 2 plz

Painful story

Hey i need to buy Lebo 's book.How do i get hold of it

I wish the interviewer can let people tell their stories without interfering so so much and disturbing free flow of the person's story.

What is the name of the book

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I am at the stage wer i think i am done praying

All I can say is shuuuu Lebo🔥

The interviewer spoiled the interview

Omg the comments about an interviewer..It'll be damn hard to get the gest of the story here 😔

I'm 15 minutes in and sorry guys but besides Praise the lord nobody has said anything. Either both ladies know each other very well or somebody is not interested in sharing their story except about God's love...😢

Kindly share contacts of the guest, will need tge book soon.

I have a VERY relatable story omg 😅😅.But I feel the interviewer kept interrupting and robbed us of the story , please learn from this and do better next time .WHEN I COME TELL MY STORY 😂

Close that door with prayer my sister. INSIST THE DOOR TO REMAIN Closed I Jesus name. Remember, you hv AUTHORITY n whatever you bind on earth......... DEAL with the Door. Ebile I get angry on your behalf. Satan wa gafa

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The story would have been so interesting if not for the interviewer poor interviewing skills😢😢😢

😂😂 we go through a lot in bazalwane thing

Please re interview her, most important things were left out, you interjected the cigarette part, why they stopped wedding was not fully said, did they divorce, was the guy abusive or not

The nofication gang🎉

At 50 min i am sp disappointed coz we are missing the important parts by derailing😢

Please nxt time give the person time to explain their story

Remember not everyone who tunes in to your podcast is Christian. We have Muslim, hindu women etc, who also go through the same challenges so cater for everyone and minimise the preaching. Get to the habit of getting straight to the point after the intro

Didn’t enjoy this😢the interviewer keeps disrupting

Redirection from God worked in your favor

The interviewer ALWAYS has something to say😮 we dont get yo understand her guests. She has distractions everytime🤨 Tiring😢