EP.35 PART 1 of Thandeka on surviving being buried alive and life from one abusive relationship to. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-HAquC6i5ySQ.html
Its so sad that our generation today iis choosing to ignore redflags…..we need more mothers like mam Thandeka to remind us that ukubhekezela akusebenzi
I use to judge people who goes back into abusive relationship ,Until listening to this Podcast ,I have learn that some we collecting testimonies and the courage to avoid being a replica of the pepetrator.❤🎉 .
Research says that it takes an abuse victim about 7 times to attempt to leave their abuser. Unfortunately sometimes even more. But people will judge, as if abuse is nice. We need to kinder to victims of abuse ❤️
Mam thandeka reminds me of my baby daddy’s mom….. she is soo bitter i wish she can watch such podcast so that she can heal from the abuse she experienced
Wow sis Thandeka you are a very strong woman, when they talk about mbokodo u are 1 in a million and may God bless you and thank you Madam speaker for bringing her back ❤
I just hope and pray 😢he doesn’t come back to fool you again yoh. He put you through enough and your kids too, i pray to God for you guys to find peace that surpasses all understanding 😢
This one is better there us another . A boy friend gave his side chicken to shoot his girlfriend after that he hit her with a car got amputated still.married him tjooo hayi shem bantu besfazane siyahlupheka shem
Wow sis'Thandeka❤ your story is very touching. You are a very strong woman, a phenomenal woman. May God bless you and may this trauma not extend to your next generation. You are loved❤ Xolelwa Mngaza East London
I dont know whether to be angry with this woman or to sympathise because WOW!!!! while i dont minimise the trauma she had faced as a child which led to making unhealthy decisions, agh at some point as an adult one has to be accountable for what they CHOOSE as an adult. This woman had so many chances of making it right and leaving this man for the sake of her children’s mental wellbeing. Agh man, i can imagine how the people who helped her felt each time she chose to get back with him, agh.
@@user-ow8ps5qr3iBecause she is absorbing a lot of this kind of tortures & painful stories.And Remember that we are only getting a quarter and summary of the overall gist she got from our fellow guests.
That is true, these stories are so raw. No matter how strong she is, it somehow hits somewhere especially because she gets to hear more than we do, she gets to deal with emotions that we sometimes don't see because of editing etc. Your idea comes from a good heart & I know you are suggesting it with love❤