I am also a victim of dowry system...before marriage in laws said they don't want dowry but when the marriage was fixed they started asking for dowry ..we were trapped and everybody in my family thought it's o.k .....ladke Wale Aisa karte hai..shaadi ho gayi par mere husband aur in laws ka behaviour pehle din se kharab tha ..I got pregnant but nothing changed ..they left me in my parents home and after some time when I asked my husband to take me back ..but instead of that he fought with me and my parents and blamed me for so many things and when I said that o.k. I myself will come to my sasural ,he send me divorce papers within few days....after that my papa never send me back even after the intervention of so many people,I remember he once said that my in laws will kill me ,he said me to be strong and loved me and my daughter so much and never listened to any relative who told him to send me back .....today he is not with me but the strength given by him will always be with me....love you papa and miss you
Sahi bola bhai...mere pita ji khud 15 lakh dene ko ready h...pr 15lakh mujhe dekar mujhe azaad karne ko taiyar nhi.....wo bhi is samaaj ke dikhawe ke liye??? Maine bhi lalchi se shadi karne ko mana kardiya..
Once the other party starts putting on conditions before marriage, that's the red flags. I often used to tell my parents that instead of wasting money on my marriage, invest the same money for my overseas study or do the fixed deposit for my future and their future. Luckily my parents supported my decision and sent me Australia where I have been settled now for 15 years. I chose my partner here and we did simple wedding ceremony here in front of the celebrant. My parents wanted us to travel India for wedding and I sent no as I didn't want them to spend any money for our marriage. Don't ever think that if you keep giving money to inlaws, that will make your daughters lives happier. There is no remedy for greed.
Marriage should be a Spiritual ceremony and not a grand party with booze and guns in the hands of two legged animals. Dowry should be banned, all transactions between the families should be monitored.
Are yarr.. ye dahej pet varne ko lete he kya.... ye 1 bite ki pet he isse crore ki kya avysakta he.. ye to kutte apne kuchh aur hi jagh varne k liye mangte he bhikhari, ye to kabra ki mitti se v nhi varegi inhe jite ji thoos thoos kar hm sav ko unk khali jagh varna padega unn jaise logon ko😠😠😠😠
बिल्कुल सही, दूसरों को ऊपदेश देनेवाले और बड़ी बड़ी बातें करनेवाले लोग अपने बेटे की शादी में दहेज माॅंगने मुॅंह ऊठाकर आ जाते हैं, लेकिन हमारे समाज में भी कमी है,कि यहाॅं डाक बोल बोलकर दहेज देने वाले लोगों ने ही दहेज माॅंगनेवालों का मनोबल बढ़ा दिया है.🙏
Tali ek hanth se nahi bajti............ Ladki ke parents ko bhi izzatdar, aur paisowala damad chahiye tha taki beti rajkumari ku tarah rahe........ So karmo ka izzat aur paisewala damad mil gaya ladki ke parents ko.....
भाई ये एक पक्ष है दूसरा पक्ष भी देखा जाना चाहिए हर मां बाप अपनी लडकी की सादी पैसा देख कर क्यों करते है अगर लडकी का पिता पैसा देखता है तो लड़के के घर वाले क्यों न देखे है ऐसा कोई परिवार जो अपनी लडकी का रिश्ता बिना पैसा देखे कर दे इसलिए दहेज दोनो पक्षों के वजह से जब तक पैरेंट पैसा देख के सादी करेगे तो दहेज चलता रहेगा🙏
@@vh245 tumhara mtlb h k agar koi maa baap apni barabari ka damad dundte h to unki beti ko dahej k liye jaan se maar do....gareeb ghar me shaadi karne se koi guaranty nhi hoti k waha dahej ki demand nhi ki jayegi. Gareebo me b unki hesiyat k hisab se bohat dahej chalta h.
Parents, please, अगर आपकी बेटी कहे की वो खुश नहीं हैं अपने ससुराल में तो उसे समझा बुझाकर ना भेजे बल्कि उसे अपने पैरों पर खड़ा करके आत्मनिर्भर बनाए। Support करे अपनी बेटी का,ससुराल में वो अकेली संघर्ष नहीं कर सकती।बेटी को समझिए।
But in our society neither parents nor neighbours, business owners nobody support that female. I am also facing the same situation. Forget about helping, neighbours and family members stop talking as if it's the fault of a female. In job the moment the owner comes to know about the situation they try to manipulate.
@@modaskitchen2912 But beta giving life for others is not the solution ,love yourself,if nobody loves you,I can understand but do not ever think of doing such things,in india we have such type of society in which women have to face such things everyday but all are not same, there are good , genuine souls who will काउंसिल you ,how to tackle such situation. Netizens can also help ,
Parents ko bhi status, money, izzatdar, amir aur paiso wala damad chahiye tha so mil gaya... An iske liye beti ko bali hi kyu na chadana pade................... Parents ko mil gaya izzat.......... 😂😂😂😂😝😝😂
This case should be treated as murder crime instead suicide... And their parents should not insist to her to go and console all things... Log 2 - 3 din baat karte hai baad mein bhul jate hai sab, so they should have not insist her at all... Aayesha was educated she could have independent woman and entrepreneur in future. I am feeling so bad... Thanks to God we never force our sister to go back to her in-laws and she is safe and happy staying with us here.. though case was not of dowry. We face society for all their questions without thinking anything much. Coz in any case for us our sister is more important than all other things, marriage, society and all.
Yes God bless you all for taking care of your sister and not forcing her to go back to her abusive in-laws. Indian parents SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT DIVORCED DAUGHTER IS BETTER THAN A DEAD DAUGHTER. adjusting in marriage doesn't mean that she should take all the torture and physical abuse on her way because "she has to live and die with the man and his family who beats and torments her"
Talaaq na do chaahe jaan de do. .ajeeb hote hain ladki ke maa baap. ...khud hi maar dala Karen. .torture tau na sahegi. Dekhna is Agrawal family ko phir bahu mil jayegi aur phir maar dalenge usko bhi. ..
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But btayga kon dahej ka..ma bap ko khud ko dena hota h beti bde ghar m dene k liye..jha ldki mar jati h vhi dahej ki bat bahr aati h bs..baki log gifts ka bol bol k crores m de dete h..ma bap ko apni betiyo ki parwah ho to insan dekh k de .pesa dekh k nhi..kbhi koi ldki bde ghar m khush ni rhti..bcz ve log kbhi usko uta man smman ni dete h
Fir bhi logo ko sharam nhi ayeg nirbhaya kay hatyaro ko fansi ho gi fir bhi to roz rape ho rhain hai kahan sharam hai logo ko koi dar nhi hai...duniya main
I feel they killed her threw her from the third floor and used her phone to text her dad this is a clear case of murder all culprits should be arrested then only justice will be served
Arey kuch beti nahi smajte.... Bhoj sam te hi.... Ab ho gayi paida chalo bada kar dete hi.... Baad mai shadi hi tho karnai hi... Humko kya... Shaddi k baad jiye ya mare....
एंटीलिया, मनसुख हीरेन, विष्णु तिवारी, इनका आपने अपडेट देने के लिए बोला था.. मगर शायद आप भूल गए आपने अपडेट नहीं दिया... जिसका मैं बेसब्री से इंतजार कर रहा था!😏
Sahi kaha gareeb ladkey ladki se shaadi karney pe in logo ko apney beta beti ki bajaye apne hasiyat ka khayal rehta hai ye nahi sochtey ki kisi achchey handsome aur kisi jaruratmand insaaan se ladki ki shaadi kartey aur ussey thodey bhot paisey dekar usko Sahara de saktey hai par nahiiiiì kayko ameeron mein hi ghusenge chahey wo ladki ko maar hi kyon na daley ladkiyon ke maa baap bhi kam syane nahi hotey.ab ladkey waalon ko bhi har mahiney dhan dene wali sarkari naukri karney wali lugai hi chaiye. chahey ladki kitni bhi bekaar ho paise kamaye to sab sahi hai nahi to alag se dahej do saaley chottey log ko.
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Hamare saare judge supreme Court se lekar tehsil tak sirf salary ke liye kaam karte hain. Hamaare dukh dard se inhe koi lena dena nahi hain. Hum aap ke hain kaun..... 😭😭😭
भाई कानुन बनाने से चीजे हाे जाती है क्या. ? कानुन फिर दाेने साइड के बनाव, क्याे ताे शादी शुदा मर्द भी सुसाइड करते है. क्या आप जानते हाे मिडीया कहानिया रचने मे अच्छा है ,ये लाेग काेर्ट के बाहार मत बनाने का कांड करते है.शे म आेन टीआरपी
कानून बन चुका है भाई, 498a का f.i.r. दर्ज करो, पुलिस बिन बुलाए बाराती की तरह ससुराल को उठा लेगी, सिर्फ गरीब, मिडिल क्लास लोगो के लिए ही कानून बना हुआ है, आपको ये भी पता है 498a का भी दुरुपयोग होता है
@sumit विवाह के बाद आपके ऊपर 1) 498A, 2)125 crpc, 3)406 IPC, 4)377 IPC, 5)दहेज प्रतिषेध अधिनियम की धारा 5 ,6, 6)धारा 24 HMA, 7)घरेलू हिंसा अधिनियम की धारा 12 इत्यादि इतनी धाराएं लग सकती है।। सोच समझकर करे विवाह..... अगर नीच बाज़ारू लड़कियों के चक्कर मे फंस गए तो जीवन हो सकता है बर्बाद.....
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Parents treats girls are burden for them....this should b corrected.girls parents are equally doing wrong things .girl is equally educated,parents should understand their daughter.Indian culture giving more privilege to marriage life.people should understand the mental status of a girl where she is alone and support her ratherthan this false pump and show.
Na Jane kitne raaj dafan hote Hain hum ldkiyon ki aatma m....ye sirf maut ke baad hi Bahar aate Hain.....marna pdta hai ....duniya ko ye btane ke liye ki jb hum jinda the to kya kya sehan krte the.....
The girl's family made a huge mistake ...they should hv understood the intentions of the groom's family when they asked for such a Huge amount in dowry...on top of that when the girl went back to her parents coz of d torture from her inlaws .. her parents shld hv taken some action against her laws at that point of time...y did they took everything so lightly n sent d girl back to d inlaws...over here the girl's family is also at fault.
No parents wants the outcome that Rashika’s parents did people always try to do their best and settle their daughters but unfortunately sometimes things don’t work out and the parents are left high and dry no parent wants to loose their daughter I tend to disagree with you in pinning the blame on the girls parents
I agree with you at first only they should have understood the intentions ..and the amount and the list of demands were so huge at first and then daughter comes and tells her parents that shes beaten up by the husband and harrased be the inlaws ..thats when they shuld have taken the call..i understand evry parent will try to reunite the broken marriage but this was not smething small or silly thing .this was smething very big ..taking dowry and then abusing and beating ! If parents wont understand then who will yaa ..they could have saved theie daughter
Why did the father gave dowry in the first place - he wrote the first chapter of tragedy. The girl's parents should also get a strict punishment which will help deter other parents in "selling and buying" business.
Prasashan ki galati nai ...log de rahe hai ...insaan ki lalach ki hadd hai. .inme se koi bhi police k paas nai gaya ...police ghar ghar nai ja sakti...aapne suna hoha dahej lena dena apraadh hai...kanoon hai...aur baaki kanoon hadsae k hone k baad hai...jab list banai thi ya demand kiya tha ladki k father ko tabhi seriously sochna chaiya.
Women please understand that no one will fight for you or understand you.parents sometimes understands and sometimes not because of their own social issues.don't think of this society rules because nothing worth your life.fight for the injustice and don't worry what people say or think.only you are responsible for your life no one else.you can't give up on your life because of some sick mentality people around.be strong and live without fear.
When the girl walked in the marriage Knowing fully well about the dowry - what would you call that? Is she not responsible for her death? Her family - her own parents are not responsible for "selling off" their daughter? Think intellectually and not emotionally - You feed the lion and then complain - lion bit me or ate my child .. WHO invited the lion, WHO pampered the lion?
@@sams2953 true. That's why my mom says strictly that even if someone will ask for rupees 100 from us as dowry or "apni beti ki khushi ke liye dedijiye", she's gonna push them out of our house and lives. Parents MUST NEVER EVEN ENTERTAIN SUCH MEN AND THEIR GREEDY FAMILIES
🙏🙏ताहिर जी ,मैं आपका बहुत कहानी सुनती हु ,बहुत अच्छा लगता है पर पहले बार कमेंट लिख रही हूं।आपका कहानी में अवेयरनेस का भी भरपूर संदेश होता है । इस कहानी में भी अगर मा या बाकी के घरवाले थोड़ा भी उस बच्ची के बात पे गौर करते तो शायद वो बच सकती।आशा है आगे पेरेंट्स इस तरह के case में सतर्क रहेंगे। धन्यबाद🙏🙏
Dahej lena to puri tarah galat hai hi but parents ko bhi ache pariwar ki definition change krne ki jarurt hai.... kuki parents ke hisab jiske ghr me bht paisa h wo acha ghr h
Thank you for this news update🙏🏼 main bhi peedith hoon. Khushkismat hai Main aur mera bets aaj zinda hain.... Main 4 mahine pregnant thi jab main abortion se Bachne ke liye apne bacche ko bachane ke liye Ma Baap ke paas Laut aayi... mera pehla baccha shaadi ke theesre mahine Main khoya maar peet ke wajah se🙏🏼 aaj Main aKeli apne bête ke saath khush hoon. 10 yrs Ka ho Gaya mera beta... kabhi apne biological father Ko nahi Dekha Sivaay shaadi ke album mein.... mere Ma Papa aur ek bhai mere delivery ke ek Saal baad Guzar Gaye ! Ma Papa two weeks gap mein chal basey Meri haalat nahi Dekhi jaa rahi thee unse... budhaape mein itni Seshan Shakti nahi thi unme😢 mera bhai Kuch hi mahinon mein heart attack ke wajah se guzar gaya... Joanne Meri ticket karaayi dubai se sahi salamat waapas aane ke liye😭... ab sabhi mushkil ghadiyon se paar karke aage badh rahi hoon ummeed hai Bhagwan par bharosa hai Main apne bacche ko pasha Likha kar usey apne balboothe par aage badhne ki kshamta se sakoongi... kabhi kabhi mujh jaisi mahilaayen agar Himmat kho baithen tho kya ho.... Meri guzaarish hai sabhi behnon se kabhi haar na maanen!! Zindagi Bahut Padi hai... jiyo and apne Anubhav se doosre aisi behnon ki madad karo.... Marna eklauta raasta nahi hai... pehle tho mere Ma Papa bhai Sab mujhe sasiraal waapas bhejne par tule the... do baar mujhe pati ke ghar jabran bhej diya Gaya ... teesri baar unhe Samajh aaya aur waapas bula liya.... warna pata nahi Main kahaan aur Kaise rehti... zinda bhi hoti ya nahi mujhe nahi pata ....
आयशा का पति आरिफ और उसका परिवार गरीब था इसलिये तुरन्त खोजबीन और जेल किन्तु राशिका जैन का पति और उसका परिवार अमीर है इसलिए ना जेल ना खोजबीन ना ही डर।।। सब बिके हुए है हमारे देश में।। रुपये है तो देश आपका है नेता आपके है राज आपका है इस देश में।। 😠😠😠😡
दुनिया चाहे कितनी भी आगे बढ़ गई है लेकिन आज भी औरत की स्थिति में सुधार नहीं हुआ है, औरत अपनौ पर बोझ बन जाती है उसे रोज मरकर जीने के लिए छोड़ दिया जाता है 🥺🥺😭
The girl herself and her family in this case is a problem. She was financially well off and educated. Why she did not walk away - why she is always a victim. It is not a rape case - it is I will play with fire so I can post pictures of BIG RICH WEDDING on all social media
ताहिर जी कोई हेल्प नहीं मिलती, हाँ जब वही मा बाप को जरूरत होती है तो वोह बेटी की हेल्प लेते है, तब उसे आपनी इज्जत याद नहीं आती, पर बेटी की बारी आती है तब सोसायटी का, बेटे का , अपने बुढ़ापे की याद या जाती है । तब उन्हे यही बेटी बोझ लगती है॥ और बेटी की पूरी जिंदगी यही सोचने में निकाल जाती है की काश उसकी मा उसकी मा भी होती सिर्फ बेटे की मा नहीं होती ।
पहले तो दहेज के लालचीयो के यहाँ रिश्ता ही ना बनाए अगर ऐसी ग़लती हो भी जाती हैं तो बाद में अपनी बेटी किस हालत में रह रही हैं यह जानने की कोशिश ज़रूर करे अगर वो ख़ुश नहीं हैं ते उसे मजबूर न करे🙏
Aap kis tarah se meri help kr skte h kyuki mai pareshan ho chuki hu investigation officer 5months se f.i.r ho rakhi h koe leagal action nhi liya ja raha dv maintenance k case Oct se file ho rakhey h dates pr ata nhi husband court me.
आज के दौर में मां बाप अपने बच्चों को अच्छी शिक्षा तो देते हैं परंतु अच्छे संस्कार देने में पूर्णतया असमर्थ हैं,आज इस प्रकार की घटनाएं हमारे समाज में नित्य प्रति दिन बढ़ती ही जा रही है, बहुत हद तक इसका मुख्य कारण हमारे बच्चो में संस्कारों का विलोपन भी है, यदि लड़का संस्कारी है तो लड़की उसके विपरीत ही होगी या इसके विपरित लड़की संस्कारी है तो लड़का नही होगा ये तो निश्चित ही सत्य है, अतः माता पिता को अभी भी बच्चों को अच्छे संस्कार देने पर प्रकाश डालने की आवश्यकता है अन्यथा ऐसी घटनाएं होती ही रहेंगी।।
If the incidents of dowry is common in both the cases , then there is one more thing common - law iss not doing anything to punish the culprits . This is also one of the main reason for all these .
We all need to stand & support our sister's and daughter's if they are ill treated at their in-laws. Our door's should remain open 24x7 for our sisters and daughter's.
माफी चाहता हूँ मैं सोशलमीडिया पर बहुत ही कम कमेंट करता हूँ लेकिन इस कहानी ने रूला दिया🙏🙏 कमेंट करने को मेरे दिल को मजबूर कर दिया😡😡ऐसे लोगों को फांसी होनी चाहिए😡😡
Galati isme parents ki b h Jo log pehle hi esi demand rkhte h unko beti deni hi nhi chaiye Ap apni beti ki shadi krwa re ho na ki esa k ap apna bojh kisipe dal reho jo beti k sath pese or unke inlaws ki demand puri kro Beti h koi faltu saman nhi jo uska sauda kiya jaye Jb ldke wale demand rkhte h tb hi smj jao wo apki beti k liye ky karenge jo khud apke bharose ho Unko b sharm ani chaiye bete ki shadi krwa re ho ya koi sauda kr re ho k hamara beta shadi to krega but kuch shart h Kesi shart bhai tumara beta koi 💎 heera thodi h jiske bdle m tumko pese denge Parents ko pehle hi rishta tod k khi or krwa dete to km se km beti to rehti Esi izzat ka KY kroge to apne bche se bdke ho Me b comment nhi krti but majbur ho gyi
@@elina1275 देखो सर हमारी बिश्नोई समाज में कभी दहेज ना देते ना लेते🙏🙏 अपने आप लड़की के मां बाप देना चाहते हैं वो अलग बात है और बो गहना बनाकर दिया जाता है लड़की को ना की कैश गाड़ी 💕💕💕🙏मैने मेरी सांचौर तहसील जालौर में 29 साल में मेरी समाज में कभी ऐसा मामला नहीं देखा 💕💕इस लिए में अपने आप को भाग्य साली समझता हूँ कि मैं 29 नियम फौलौ करने वाली समाज में पैदा हुआ 💕💕💕🙏🙏और लोगों की खबरें सुनते हैं तो बड़ा दुख होता है की किस हद तक गिर गया है शादी की अहमियत नहीं समझ पा रहे हैं 😡😡😡😡
Assalamalaikum Shams bhai I really liked today's story and as you said we must understand and know the situations of our daughters that they might have going through at their inlaws home or how her husband treating her and and if we find anything wrong then we must act immediately with full responsibility to save her from those evil minded and greedy people .
15 minute me suicide Ka decision nhi lia jata.. she was educated and sensible.. her parents were staying in same city..she must have told about this earlier if suicide was in her mind.. no one will give up their lives if they have financial security
हमारे समाज विशेषकर वैश्य वर्ग जो शिक्षित समाज में ladki वाले से शादी का सारा खर्चा करवाना आम ये बहुत दुखद हैं माँ बाप एसी शर्त मान ले वो अनजाने में ही बेटी को मौत के मुह में धकेल देते हैं.... आप संपन्न शिक्षित लोग है हम आपको आदर्श मानते है plzzz एसे रिवाज़ को खत्म करे
