[Ep 8] Signs You Are Ready To Get Married | Fiqh Of Love 

The world is not comfort and happiness. The world is patience, examination and work. You must learn patience with the poor husband who works hard to save money. Some girls only want happiness, then happiness. Happiness is only in heaven

Thank you so much for this 😊

Thank you

Wait, where's the part where I get my 72 virgins?

Barakallah feek

number 8 is so important.

Here is an advice from someone who went through marriage nd divorce. 1- just like the lady said don’t have an unrealistic expectations because the moment u do u will be disappointing ur self resulting in not trusting or respecting ur spouse. 2- communication is the key to a happy marriage like really at least 2 hours a day spend it just talking to ur spouse nd vis verse, about ur day, ur dreams, wat piss u off from him/her. 3- never sleep until u fixed whatever problem or fight u had (apologize if ur in the wrong there shouldn’t be egos in marriage) 4- be open about intimacy nd ask ur spouse wat they like nd wat they r comfortable with, this is part of not having unrealistic expectations 5- marriage is a contract between 2 parties to form a family so u should 100% understand wat is ur duties nd ur rights. 6- if u had a problem u couldn’t fix in ur marriage NEVER involve ur family or their’s, go to a marriage consult or a therapist especially if one of u has depression or something. Always seek professional help

One thing is to never take advice from someone who has had a failed marriage, every marriage is different, but take advice from someone who has a successful and long lasting one

@@donabdi4098 for ur info all the things I mentioned r some of my biggest mistakes in my “failed” marriage. I do not shy away from admitting my mistakes nd correcting it. Btw i remarried nd living ma best life 😉

We’ll tbh communication is the key in all except of marriage let it be before or after

@@shyxpretion7429 thank you. Good advices. God bless you

Totally agree. The moment you understand your parents are humans like and entitled to their own mistakes your whole view changes.

This

but my parents have really high standards for me . like whatever i do it's never good enough. And they always tell me to do more. this makes me really disappointed and sad . and i don't know how to tell it to them or how to make them happy .......

I am suddenly at peace. I had issues with my sister. I am able to move past her flaws. JazakaAllah and stay happy always. (Ameen)

@@briraabid1523 The way I dealt with this with my parents was to tell them one on one that their standards were too high and how it made me feel. I was miserable being under so much pressure and I told them that. I can't be perfect, I make mistakes, I'm human like the Rasool (PBUH) and the Sahaba. If the Sahaba and the Rasool (PBUH) can make mistakes or not be perfect, then so can I.

Yes! "The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your THOUGHTS" - Stoicism

may Allah bless you the best thing in dunya and akhira my sister ❤️

In shaaaa Allah, Allah SWT will grant you the coolness of your eyes in this duniya. Ameen. ❤

Ameen

Allah (S.W.T) planned the best for you alhamdulillah ! Until then focus on Working in your confidence and also being Comfortable with your yourself. Someone great told me that if you focus on yourself Allah (S.W.T) will handle the rest and Wallah it’s true♥️ you do your part and Leave the Rest to Allah (S.W.T). My Duas go out to you and you will prosper and look back at this difficult time. This is your test and you will In Sha Allah pass it!!!!!!

May Allah make it easy for you ✨ send you hug

same here😂

lol me too XD

Same

How

There is more than one way to formulate things. I understand the specificity you are trying to get but understanding the misconception or problem is what’s preparing you. Let’s not point fingers or jus the quick to correct. Allahumma Barik!!

The title is a question not an answer

Yes I need righteous campanionship I want to go muree someone help mefeed good food in hotel alone it is not possible

Same here! though I watched this once today, after some days I might worry or expect too much about marriage again. This is a gentle reminder I have to watch it over and over to keep it in mind

.... same 😅😂😭😭

Manage your expectations 😉

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Man , Same

Exactly

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@@Anon-xz6hu 🤣

Same here...getting signs every now and then...😊

Ameen inshallah same too but my family keeps saying I’m too young 🥲

@@balqees6272 How old are you

@@Hunredbandz I’m 20 😭

@@balqees6272 Sad. 20 is a girls prime they should let you get married

@@Hunredbandz ikr 😭

In shaaaa Allah Brother. Allah will grant you the coolness of your eyes and soul. Ameen.

May Allah bless you to get a pious spouse..and make you both in love and harmony forever🤲❣️

@@fahimahossain7482 jazakallah

@@muhsinashihabudheen7337 jazakallah

@@sidali2590 آمين وإياكم 🤲❣️🫂

This is 100% truth.

Hapiness is not the goal for muslims.Peace is.

Same i think its time to move on in life i know its not easy but we relaize that what comes around gos around you dont put on the same shoes you had on

Is this sarcasm?

Ameen!

Every time you think about it (the divorce) make doa Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilayhi Raji'oon,O Allah reward me for this musibah and replace it with something better. In sha Allah instead of scared or losing faith , you will get Mercy from Allah and something good from Allah. Allah knows best.

@@Millielai12 thank you

May Allah make it easier for you

i didn't hear that at all lol. I heard more "work on yourself before you get married, so you can be good in marriage."

❤ I am single 36 years old and 178 c and 77 kg , I have new home and work , I really looking for marriage and relationships and serious woman her age under 35 years old and