Episode 008 - Comments on the Internet and Our Mental Health 

I think it’s SO important to listen/watch 2 grown men talk about their mental health!! Especially 2 fathers of boys who will grow up with that safety!! Keep doing what you’re doing! Your voice is so important!

Nick, I wasn't really aware of you until I saw you and Tim becoming friends and just want to say that you have become a real positive addition to the community. Your chemistry with Tim and you both being different yet equally having personality's that bounce off one another is superb. Hugely entertaining. But you being open to talk like this is a big attribute to your character. We all love Tim & Jenn and for the most part we too block out negativity. However, You'll soon see all the good here and ignore the bad. These people are just not worth it. Starting this podcast has been a great idea and I hope it continues to flourish and develop. Hope you have a much better week. You've the best mentor in Tim 🙏🏻

Hurt people, hurt people. I hope they can find inner peace and healing. Your podcast spreads so much light and joy to so many people each week!

I hate when people go out of their way to make someone feel bad. I was always told growing up, “if you don’t have anything nice to say, say nothing” more people should go by this. Sending love to all that need ❤

I love the convo at the top of the show. Having watched Tim for years, and hes not one to open up about the hard things (that’s totally fine) even if Jenn is a little bit in the moments. I mention this bc Tim is so engaged in what Nick is saying. He’s listening intently and I can tell he’s supporting Nick without saying much and allowing Nick the space to talk about it. It was cool to see! Thank you to both of you. I have today off and starting it with your podcast. I love that they’re getting longer!

THANK YOU for this! I’m a mental health clinician and a writer, and this week I received a nasty comment on my blog - for the FIRST time in 8 years of blogging. I was so taken aback that the hateful words lived rent-free in my head for days (and I almost sent the guy a nasty response.) Then I realized that a person who knows nothing about me but has such a compulsion to take time to spread anger says a lot about what a sad life he has. I pity him and anyone who sends you negative comments too. Thank you guys for highlighting how wrong this online behavior is, and for normalizing men talking about mental health! Sending love and good vibes 💚

Nick & Tim thank you so much for being so vulnerable about mental health. It is so important for men especially to be open and honest. Thank you!

Don’t you dare come for Nick and Tim! 🎶Two dudessss chilling on a podcast chatting about their feelings because they are awesome 🎶

Hi guys, I'm a mental health counselor and long time viewer of the podcast. (hehe, actually been watching Tim Tracker since 2012). I really really appreciate the normalization of mental health, modeled by two amazing men! Your sons are so lucky to have you!

So sorry y'all have to deal with hateful people. You are correct that that's just not okay. But Nick, I appreciate so much that you share your faith online.

I hate how, behind a keyboard, people don’t think of others as human beings. It really is a reflection of them, not you though. It’s just like the fact that two different people can go to see the same exact movie & based on their own state of mind, life experiences and perception, one can hate it and the other person can love it. It broke my heart when I would search Tim Tracker to find the latest video and all these horrible anti-Tracker videos would pop up from these sad jealous people. But it also made me so proud of you guys for your ability to persevere. I think that you are amazing, Tim, and I’m sure you’ll help Nick navigate through this. It’s funny, you guys are soooo different and have had such different life experiences, but at the same time you are both so similar in that you are such GOOD human beings, parents, and spouses and you both have similar values and principles. So I see why you are friends. It’s funny though, how Nick can’t imagine those of us who don’t give a flying F about the Super Bowl, because that’s so prevalent in my circle of friends who are more into non-team sports like mountain biking, whitewater kayaking or whitewater SUPing, snowboarding, etc etc. If we have or go to a superbowl party, it’s just to see friends. I actually liked football a lot in college, but now I could care less about it, so I totally can relate with Tim more but I think that you are GREAT too Nick! Focus on the positive, good comments that outweigh the negative. ❤

people need to remember if they don't like something , they don't have to watch/listen. there are endless choices in this day and age of content to spend your time and energy on. if something bothers you, choose something else. you don't have to take the time and energy to type "i don't like this person, they annoy me". just go. if everyone feels that way and a channel loses all their views, they'll know. you really don't have to say it.

It breaks my heart that you’re receiving and experiencing hurt from negative comments online but I think it’s so great that you’re so open and comfortable talking about your mental health and how it makes you feel! You have such a beautiful aura and personality and I hope you never let them dim your light! Love this podcast and just when you and Tim interact in general, it brings great joy to my life :) thank you for what you do

The negative things people say are more about them than you. They are not happy people. Pity them, a happy person doesn't do that to another person. ❤

I for one am so happy you’re here Nick! Loving the podcast and getting to know you both on different levels. 👏🏻

I honestly LOVE the mental health awareness part of the podcast that gets put in. I work in mental health and I feel that there is such a stigma put on mental health and it doesn’t get brought up enough in everyday life. Thank you for your input! ❤ Keep being you Nick!

I’ve become a huge Nick fan over the last maybe two years or so since he’s been appearing with the Trackers in their vlogs! Him and Tim being friends is probably my fave thing!

Easter is the first Sunday after first full moon after the first day of spring. One of the few things I can remember from school. 😊

Tim wow to put so many references together at the top of the episode was EPIC!!!

Those who feel the need to provide negative comments, either have nothing better to do or have something going on in there life that they feel the need to share hate just to make them feel better. Nick, seeing you on the podcast has given me a perspective of who you are and have truly enjoyed it. I love the friendship you and Tim have!! Truly enjoy the podcast!!

The discussions on mental health will always be important and relevant. Gender, age, etc doesn’t matter….we all deserve to be honest about our feelings and it’s beautiful to see you guys have the space to discuss this stuff.

Thank-you Nick. Thank-you for being vulnerable, and open. I can’t imagine putting my life out there on the internet and being judged on every aspect of you. All I can say is there are many of us sending love to you, and supporting what you are doing by being open and vulnerable as a man and a father. ❤

First thing: I am with Nick on the cookies. I love them warm gooey and messy. Second: I really really appreciate that you both are willing to talk about your mental health, your negative times with your kids and your feelings in general. You're boys are going to grow up to be so compassionate for others and it's important for me as a parent to see other parents be vulnerable. So thank you. ❤️

Nick-I’m sorry that you’ve had a rough week-I completely get that and I had a rough week too-particularly Valentine’s Day was awful for me-and I stayed off social media that day because I didn’t want to see everyone talking about Valentine’s Day-but when I did open up my Instagram that night-the first thing I saw Was your post that said “You are loved” and that really meant alot to me-it was what I needed to hear that night-so thank you for putting yourself out there 😊

to be honest, I wasn't aware of Nick and his account until he has started to appear in Tim's videos, and I for one am so happy to have seen him. I think Nick is great! I really like his different point of views, and he's always respectful with it and seems to be a really down to earth and lovely person that has shared things about him that are great qualities, and has a good sense of humor, and I am glad to have had him become a part of the podcast and the videos, and I am a fan and will be following because I really enjoy him and his content and glad to get to know of him! also, for me... red is math, green is science, blue is history, and yellow is language arts

Thank you Nick for being so open and talking about the hard things. Mental health matters. I appreciate you guys!❤

I have mixed feelings about this situation with the internet trolls. I don’t want you guys to give them ANY of your energy! They are energy vampires. There is no logical explanation for their behavior, besides the fact that they get their jollies from hurting others. And pretty much anyone with any spotlight has them. But the fact you are honest and brave enough to discuss this issue speaks volumes about your character ❤ Please know the logical and intelligent viewers love and appreciate what you two are doing here, not just on this podcast but in your other projects as well🎉 You guys are awesome, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise💖

Tim, how cool is it that you got to impart wisdom to this young man? So proud of you all and your journey.

Seeing your podcasts when I wake up on Monday morning makes me happy. 😊

Thank you for talking about the mental health stuff today. Nick, you are so empathetic and that is a wonderful thing. The conversation with Tim about his memory helped me realize that my husband’s memory issues are related to the same thing and helped me see it from a different perspective. I love y’all’s conversations. It’s enlightening and entertaining and it brightens my Mondays. Thanks guys!❤

Thanks Tim and Nick for putting yourself out there and being so vulnerable- keep doing what your doing. Continue to talk about metal health - love ya guys

Nick, you are an amazing human being! As well is Tim. Be who you are, no matter what. There is no reason for people being bullies. It is easy for them to bring people down when no one can see them as they are saying things. The mental health conversation is much appreciated.

I appreciate you opening up about Mental Health Nick! It's so important and this was another amazing podcast episode 👏🏻👏🏻

I have watched Tim and Jenn for over ten years now. I love this new podcast and I have not missed an episode yet. Nick, you are valued and your outlook on life, parenthood, and mental health are so refreshing. Whatever anyone says, just do this for you! It’s human nature to focus on the negative, even with thousands of positive. Just know comments like that are from people that are not happy within themselves. You and Tim are so entertaining, informative, and this podcast is TRACKING!!!

I enjoy the interaction between you guys in the podcast and your trips to the parks. You all of you bring me joy. Love you Nick, Jen & Tim and the kids.

Nick, we feel you! I’m so glad that you are REAL. I am so excited to see where you and Tim and this podcast goes as this relationship grows.

I’m sorry that people have made you feel so sad. hurt people, hurt people for sure but thank you for talking openly about your feelings it is so refreshing and I hope you get less horrible comments. Thank you both for another great podcast

I’m loving you two creating content together. I’ve watched the trackers for many years and feel like you, Nick, just fit right into the family. It’s great to see two down to earth grown men portraying such humbleness and genuine love for life and community. Keep up the amazing work guys!

Please continue talking about mental health, it's so important. Thank you for sharing, I have GAD and it makes me feel not alone when others share about their experiences.

Thank you for doing this podcast even though it’s been a tough week for you! I really enjoy this podcast and I appreciate you guys taking the time to sit down and record!!

I think it’s so sad that people cannot just be kind. It’s so much easier to be kind than it is to hate. I appreciate this podcast and I hope, Nick, that you don’t let the negativity get to you too much. Thank you Tim and Nick for another really great conversation :)

❤😂❤ coconut tracking. You guys make Mondays better.😊 I look forward to watching your pod cast Monday mornings😊

Nick I am so sorry that you had to deal with such negativity. i understand only too well about mental health and appreciate your openness. I look forward to your new podcasts each week. I watch Monday and then listen to them again on my way home from work Tuesday and Wednesday!! Keep up the great work and raising those wonderful boys!!

I think you are awesome Nick and I love that you are talking about mental health. Remember the haters are jealous of who you are and what you have in your life. It is a reflection of what kind of human being they are. You keep doing what you are doing and ignore all the noise.

Nick thank you for your vulnerability with discussing mental health its so important to talk about and have visibility :)

I love how Nick listens to the intro with the same appreciation as we do

Nick tim thank you for sharing your health issues ❤❤❤ I appreciate you both

Nick - I love how open you are about sharing your feelings on your mental health, and how you move through the new space you're in, in being more present online. I am always appalled by people who sit behind their keyboards and say terrible things for absolutely no reason so, 1) I'm sorry that both you and Tim (and Jenn) have to deal with that nonsense when you're just being yourselves and sharing a glimpse into your lives and 2) I'm so thankful for people like you who use that experience to remind people that it's unkind to say nasty things for no reason. While you're able to move through it and move on, it's still absolutely unnecessary. I also love the friendship you both have. After watching Tim and Jenn for about 11 or so years now, I have always admired Tim's complete support of and love for Jenn and for their family. Even if he doesn't open up as much, his love and support of his family and friends has always been evident, and you can see that in your friendship, as well. Also - as someone who grew up Catholic (but is non-practicing now), here is the answer to the "Why is Easter when it is" question: As a moveable feast, it's always on the Sunday after the first full moon after the spring equinox, and that can fall anywhere between March 22 and April 25.

You both are doing an excellent job. I hope you continue to do this podcast for a very long time. And ignore the negative comments. They are not worth your time, energy and emotions. There are way too many people who love you for you to waste any time on negative comments. Never give them what they want. I so much look forward to your podcast and enjoy every minute of it. You put a big smile on my face.

Mental health. Thank you for bringing it up. I'm Gen X.. and raised two Millennials. I was bullied in school, and my Boomer father told me to make sure I never let the bullies know that they were bothering me. I was SEVEN. I love the two of you chatting it up. I'm sorry for the haters. I know they tend to stick out like a sore thumb... but I sincerely hope that they are few and far between. Keep up the good work. We love the podcasts.

Thank you for talking about mental health and how things affect you. I also struggle with with stress and anxiety and always impactful to hear how others also struggle to know that I am not alone! From one human to another I find so much joy in watching your podcast and both your own content at the end of my day.

That hit me right in the heart. I’m a mental health counselor. This is such an important conversation

Thank you for opening up. I hope the rest of the month and year are significantly better than what you have experienced so far.

I really like watching y’all, thank you for discussing your mental health! Anyone can nitpick I really pray you can overcome this, Nick. Thank you for being vulnerable, it speaks volumes!

Love listening to the pod every Monday! I love all of the straight up conversations. I’m so tired of the negativity…be kind people!

Can we just take a moment to appreciate that when Tim was talking about the hearing test he did the hearing part of Journey into Imagination? 😂😂

Love that you two have paired up, digging the pod cast, and love seeing you two in vlogs together. Also really enjoy your IG posts Nick! Always funny, positive and you’re doing a great job!!

A couple years ago the people in my office made valentines boxes and exchanged cards. People really loved it.

Nick and Tim you guys are awesome! Thank you for being real. People don’t realize how important negativity affects everyone! Keep being you guys!

I can't imagine reading negative comments and not being affected. However, there are always going to be people that get some twisted form of entertainment by tearing other people down. Nick, you are an awesome addition to the Tim Tracker videos and your podcast together. They are probably just jealous people that don't get to do what you do. Stay strong and push through! You have your audience!

Easter is set to coincide with the first Sunday after the Paschal Full Moon, the first full moon after the vernal equinox.

Enjoying the pod. Refreshing and healthy conversation. Good stuff for me to hear as a fellow dad

I loved this convo. So so needed! Thanks for being so transparent and vulnerable about all of this.

Really enjoying the podcast, and having Nick in the regular Tracker vids too! I'll never understand why people think it's ok to be rude and make cruel comments on the internet, don't let them get you down!

Nick and Tim, you are both wonderful human beings. Appreciate you both so much and enjoy everything you do tremendously!!! I've been watching Tim and Jen for many years and being introduced to you, Nick, via them bas been great. Easier said than done, but ignore these haters. They couldn't be more out of line. Appreciate your honesty and courage 💜

Nick I don’t know if you’ll see this, I wouldn’t blame you if you aren’t reading comments right now, but I have loved Tim’s content so much more since you came on the scene. Your vulnerability, your heart, your perspective are so valuable and you are so welcome in this space.

The kathy hiton “who’s hunky dory” reference 😂

Tim and Nick, you both rule! Thank you for the entertainment

Great show guys! Tim thank you for keeping the wide shot. ❤

Sending you good vibes Nick. I went through this with a friend who I podcasted with and had over 1 million followers. It was so tough. You are doing a great job. Thanks for sharing about mental health.

Trolls are cowards. Just focus on the positive comments. I'm guilty of defending Tim and Jenn in the comments against Trolls 😅 I finally realized that those people are just duh! Love your podcast and Nick, you are doing awesome, and Tim, you stay comfortable in your own house! See you next Monday ❤

I enjoy this so much channel and really look forward to it. What a relief to have another public personality normalizing mental health! And we’re learning more and more how much you two are different. Such an odd couple

Good morning! I know the podcast is from 2 dad's but as a mom of 2 under 2 and a disney fan, I love it!

Love you Nick!!!! And Tim!!! Keep doing what you are doing we think you are amazing!!

I'm in love with this podcast and I'm so excited for the upcoming patreon stuff!! Mental health is so important, I'm currently reading a few self help books because I feel like i've come to a point where my mentality and actions need to change so I can have a happier life. Nick, I feel that our personalities are the same and I love how open you are with all of this. Tim, the way you listen and show support to your friends is amazing and I'm proud to support you both and your families! 🎉

I honestly feel like half the reason people troll you guys is because they are miserable. And they envy your joy. I have met you both in person and you both are the kindest and most giving of y’all’s time. Keep going, guys. I look forward to hearing yall every Monday 🫶🏼

We are like Tim, no Super Bowl, we always take the moment to decide where to go that is usually crowded and won't be.

Hi Nick! Hi Tim! First off, I want to say I enjoy your podcast every week. The chemistry the two of you have is great and it shows. It reminds me of 2 best friends just hanging out, talking about anything and everything without having to try to come up with stuff to talk about. I love it. Thank you both for talking about mental health. Most people have experienced mental health at one point or another in their lives and are afraid or ashamed to say anything. So thank you for saying something. That being said, shame on those who belittle others or spread their “hate” onto others for no reason. It’s uncool. Just stay true to yourself and ignore the haters, they are not worth your time. Your convo about the Olympics cracked me up. When you said you 4 could be on a rowing team and would just be spinning. I pictured that in my head and thought that’s what I would be doing too😂. If it’s ok, I’d like to mention that in my Facebook group, Let’s Watch The Trackers 🎉”? We have a Friday fun every week and thought that would be a great question.

Hey Nick, I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate you. I found out about you through The Trackers videos and then listened to the podcast. I just love how raw you are with your emotions and who you are. It really brings a joy to my day listening to you. We need more people like you in this world. As someone who suffers from severe anxiety I love that you are bringing light to it and talking through it. Keep up the amazing work and again thank you from the bottom of my heart. Tim keep up the great work as always! I have been watching you for years and love you and Jen’s content. That is all. Thank you!

I look forward to seeing your podcast every Monday, thanks for getting together to share your conversations with us.. Wishing you much success with your new joint pod cast. I’ve been watching Tim and Jenn for many years and loved when Nick was in your vlogs. I’m very happy to see more of Nick in this format, he is great. You young men are such great Dads and husbands in my humble opinion! You are just like my son and son-in-law, wonderful young men!

Haven’t gotten through all the video yet but I just wanted to say to Nick, I totally empathize with how you feel about peoples’ judgement of you. I very much relate to your personality type. I care very deeply about people and what they think of me. Now that I’m in my late 30s, in the past few years I really learned that what I think of myself matters more than anyone else’s opinion of me and those who think they have me figured out, don’t. If they knew the real me they would either value what I have to offer or aren’t worth my time. I recently stated a tiktok in hopes of being truly authentic and I feel hesitation about putting myself out there. I think I had more preconceived ideas if you prior to this podcast, but now I see more of who you truly are and I know you’re a very attentive friend and very intentional and I appreciate those qualities cuz I relate. Keep being you, the most important people will see your worth or value and you don’t have to change anything unless it’s something you too don’t like about yourself… keep up the good work

Being a New Orleanian, Easter (lent) starts the day after Mardi Gras! Mardi Gras (Shrove Tuesday) , next day is Ash Wednesday which starts lent. 40 days after Ash Wednesday is Easter.

You guys are great!! Thank you for sharing. Love watching your podcast and Tim love watching your videos. Always a fun time.

Nick you be you then try to show grace to the haters and receive grace from those who support you. When people say rude things it is amount them not you I feel sorry for them and what ever they are going through. Treat them like they were acting like they should be acting and hopefully they will grow into being a better person. We enjoy both of you and are glad you share.

We appreciate you Nick and Tim! Your vlogs and podcasts make my day!

Thanks for making my drive to work enjoyable. Nick/ kudos to you for your honesty and revealing that words can hurt. Mean people suck! Sad they are jealous of your success.

I’m glad you guys are talking about mental health and how people’s toxic behavior can affect you. I think Nick is delightful, and I love his authenticity. I don’t know why anyone would have anything mean to say about him. Even though he doesn’t love the Muppets. 😂 (hope that made you haha). Sending love and positivity to you both!

Nick, I watch you and Tim for exactly who you are. People can be incredibly envious and petty sometimes and it manifests as negative comments in this space. They don’t have to watch if they aren’t a fan. You can tell when someone is being truly genuine in their feedback or just trying to destroy. Keep on being you and don’t read the comments if you need to.

I think at 35 you really cross the line of being okay with not being everyone’s cup of tea. You are far enough from your 20s almost to your 40s and you know who you are more and what your worth is! Thanks for bringing entertainment and good conversation to all of us!

One of my favorite podcast! The way you all communicate is just so great to listen to. Highly enjoy!

I’m loving the podcast and love hearing both of your viewpoints and back and forth. Nick I really enjoy your perspective and I’m so sorry people have been mean. I don’t understand people. I was raised if you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all like Thumper’s mom. I hope next week is a better week for you❤

Hey y’all! The test you were talking about is a Tympanometry! It measures the movement in your ear drum! If your kiddo has the flat line on the graph or “flat tymps” it’s because they could have fluid build up or wax!

I am a couple years older than Tim and back when I was in school we didn't have colored binders for subjects. We just had binders or Trapper keepers that we kept all of our information in.

What a great conversation. This conversation confronted the bullying behavior, humanized the interaction, and took the power back by addressing it. Well done.

Good morning, shout out to 24601! and the two hard shells.

Love this podcast! You both are fantastic ❤

I think Nick brings soo much to the podcast. Love the Trackers, but Nick is so relatable, authentic, & genuine! We absolutely love getting to know you and watching. Thank you!❤

the le miserable reference in the beginning was fantastic

Nick, I want to say how much I appreicate your vunerabilty and honesty. If it was me, I'd delete any nasty comments and block those users. I know some creators respond to them, but that just feeds the trolls. I feel like the platforms(youtube, instagram, etc) should also ban anyone that uses hateful and nasty language.

I honestly love that you two have this safe space with each other to talk about your feelings.