Erykah Badu: How She Makes Men Obsessed With Her Without S*x 

It’s because she understand the principle of detachment in everything

It’s important not to chase men and know how to detached completely when disrespected. Some females will get lured back into manipulative tactics and sweet words by men but she doesn’t fall for that game

She’s smart, seductive, mysterious, witchy and intentional. ✨

This is why you may see men on the internet that are always complaining about “masculine” women and how they won’t submit. The obvious solution to that complaint would be to just date women who are submissive, but that’s not what they really want in my opinion. It’s more satisfying for them to conquer a woman who is the very antithesis of everything that they think they want. It’s about control and compensating for the lack of esteem they feel inside. Personally I couldn’t be with someone who operates that way. I acknowledge that wanting what you can’t have is fundamental to human nature, but if a guy demonstrates that he has no discipline in that regard, it just turns me off bc I know any connection formed with them will not last. They will always feel the need to conquer. I want to be with someone who is just as assured in themselves as I am. Someone who can remain content with a simple life. It’s not for everyone.

Erykah badu is very spiritual and very in touch with her authentic feminine higher self. She taught me to be authentically myself, I love her 😭🙏

It takes self confidence, self restraint and emotional mastery to behave like the women you talk about recently. Unfortunately there are too many insecure, social media influenced women and men out there who are not emotionally mature enough to have a decent relationship! Practice meditation, solitude, learn to love yourselves first! 💋💕

"People always tryin' to find the world i'm in. I'm the envy of the women and I rule the men..." - E. Badu | ...& On

When kendrick Lamar met her he changed too. He said there's something about Erykah she opened his eyes

5:16 whenever she meets someone new, she looks into their eyes and connects with their spirit 8:30 her becoming her complete unrepressed self Makes people want to imitate you 15:45 speak her mind and be the man he wanted to be 19:16 emotional detachment - hint of coldness

I remember watching a video of the Roc “rapper” they have a child together. Years later and he said he was literally hypnotized by her. Not one man has spoken bad about her Badu is one Powerful woman!

As far as I can see, it wasn’t deliberate. She’s just being herself and not attached to whether or not things work out. When I was young I was like this and men always got obsessed with me. I wasn’t exceptionally good looking but it happened a lot. I wasn’t bothered about the outcome because I knew i had lots of options. Things changed when I had children, that makes a woman naturally more anxious.

Let’s acknowledge she’s also a witch. Not being negative but she does dabble in magic. And from my understanding she was born into it. Her swag gone always be different. It can’t be imitated. It’s her

Let’s also acknowledge Erykah is very ATTRACTIVE. I didn’t say beautiful or pretty but ATTRACTIVE. There has always been just something about her.

Kind of like Lisa Bonet and Jason Momoa - he seemed to start dressing in her rock style when they got together. It was a mix of Bonet & Kravitz.

i was the rebellious class clown when i was a child and now i'm 25 years old and i've somehow transformed into a people pleaser with an anxious attachment style :( idek what happened

Can we talk about how all these women are water signs!! Rihanna - Pisces Erykah Badu - Pisces Ciara - Scorpio Ariana Grande - Cancer

I always love videos on Erykah. She’s so unique and other-wordly, and moreover just fun. She is so respected and admired

The way you whipped your stick!! 👏🏻👏🏻😂😂

My Pisces sisters Erykah and Rihanna ❤. I connect with them so much. Men love mystery and the natural privacy.

she just understands her femininity & she listens. that’s all lol

the THING is about spirituality is that it’s universal, anyone & anything can relate to it🧚🏽

She’s has a song that’s called: I’ll call you back

She got a relax vibe to her

We Pisces love connection... But we need our charging time.. Sometimes guys try to control us.. Which we can not be.

She's a Divine Feminine ❤

DALEXIS!! You scratched my itch with this one!!

So good, looking forward to your next E Badu video. She’s an infamous case study

I have wide almond eyes. But I have been told they are intense. Then other times I’m told I look young lol

Without sex but the lady got 3 baby daddies? 😭

i can relate..im a spirited, artsy single mom that has lived all over the globe for 20 years with kids. men are drawn but don't know what to do with me..they usu try to cage me which is funny

Shes a Pisces, they can emotionally entangle people. no sweat.

Also don’t forget to precise it’s EASIER for those women cause they got money = so time to heal, enjoy vacations or have no problem leaving a place or a man cause they depend on no men’s money or responsibilities. Not the case of everyone unfortunately..

She’s a voodoo priestess didn’t you see blues brothers 2000?

I feel like Jada-Pinkett possesses this same ability and influence as well.

I am a mother ❤❤❤ Too much to try and be like these people… I want to be me and attract the men who genuinely like me and my authentic vibe… no games and illusions or desperation here!

This let's me know Alex sees my comments 😂😂❤. I'm so happy. I was like the only one who said do Erykah Badu next. Anyways, she seems like she could be your type. Yes she sings your friend tyrones 😂name

It’s a known fact that Erykah does spell work. It explains why all the men that were with her didn’t indulge in their music careers until years later. Jay Electronica is JUST getting back on the music scene. Andre too. You better do your research on her lol. She literally be having these men under spells.

Ha! We are vibing in alignment..was just watching alot of videos and interviews with Erykah Badu this past week..I love her🦋🌕❤️‍🔥🛸✨️

I feel quite similar on how I have handled men that have been challenging in my life . They all still ❤

I’m naturally sexy but chaste. This can work for me. But I need to be convinced that good men exist. This channel is doing a good job so far. I’ve lost faith in the male sex. I’ve become disillusioned by imposters and empty promises.

Erykah badu it's a spiritual woman, it's her energy, she's not use strategy

Do kelly rowland next!

This is complete opposite from other videos I’ve watched about femininity. I’m 41 and have been struggling. I was told by a well meaning male friend that I dress like a Sunday school teacher. I wear feminine dresses most of the time and have a lot of sweet feminine energy. I guess that is why I get told I’m sweet a lot but men seem to get bored after a while.

Yes, she sang Tyrone. Beautiful woman with beautiful style.

I’m not sure I’ve ever commented on one of your videos, I’m more of the watching in silence creeper type lol (don’t close the channel 🤭) she’s such an icon and I have always found her vibe very enticing.

Great synopsis Alex! 👏🏽 What a captivating woman!

Archetype would be way more respectful than "Stereotype"

YAAASSSSS ❤❤❤ thanks for choosing her 🤗🥰😍

When he said “Common is a clown” I subscribed

I LOVE her, but she can't KEEP a man. She can get one because of her beauty, intelligence and talent, but they never stay.

I love to look into someone's eyes I grew up a tomboy. Men do try to keep me in the house or they are watching me trying to figure me out.

Love this idea of a video!!!😊

Every womans a ability to "attract" men will be different depending on the woman. This is not something you can teach! We have it and its up to us to OWN our power to attract. This is ALL ENERGY. It's Erykahs ENERGY.

i watch your channel all the time but honestly this is my favorite video on your channel

Great video I was mind blown by the information about the eyes . U made me realize the truth behind being in love by looking in to the eyes it’s so true I also didn’t know predator and prey eyes existed vary cool

You spittin, all factual 💯

Us Pisces have that effect naturally in men. Erykah and Rhianna and even chrisean all Pisces. Either we’re totally awesome or batshit crazy 😂

You train yourselft to detached easily using different techniques, but it is hard work and it is against human nature and can make some consequenses on your health. But also, by detaching we are fighting to 'survive' temporary. 🤷‍♀️

Loved listening about her ❤️ 🔥

“She eyes me like a Pisces, when I am weak” ❤

Oooouuuu I’m excited to watch this 1❤❤

This is so important thank you

That’s dat Pisces energy ♓️

I can make a man laugh fall in love and hate me 😂😂😂 it depend on how Im feeling lol

Her sun and moon is in Pisces. Thats why.

Thank you. We are not toxic.

No it’s because she does love magic. 💕

Astrologically she has an amazing powerful chart with neptune conjunct jupiter in its own sign sagg ,ruler of her sun moon ,he is magnetic ,neptune ac gives this hypnotic gaze ,but some things like this doesnt work on everybody , you can try to do this gaze and can be ridiculous in other people , natural charm is beautiful because its original and not replicable

Loved this video. Badu is 🔥

Thank you 🙏🏽

She had a wonderful teacher too

Can you do a video of the archetypes you mentioned?

Because she's a Goddess ❤

I do not want my left eye to turn a bit (especially with Almond eyes)...when Im possibly anxious or nervous it may do that-now Imma joke that quick!

Hey Father Alex. Was that video from aa RU-vid channel? If so, what's the name of the channel?

I love your videos 😊❤️

Lmfaoooo well saved at the start of conversation lol 😂.. “I’ve had women with.. “ oh never mind 😂 Clearly he had some goofy eyeballs 👀 checking him out 😂

Thanks alex

I loveeee when you say or ima close the channel 😂

I hope you have RRG credit for giving you content to make “your” video!!

Yeeeeees, bruja time 🔥

Yes. Its good things but they started almost mimicking us.. I dont get comfortable.. Somehow it is not attractive when men start doing exact the same as i am doing. Alot of time, they get influencing by us.. But they are not influencing us much( Pisces women) . Women we have to respect and look up to our partner. Not sure why we get like that but.. Tired of pouring our caring and wierdo😂 energy and unique energy to our partner.They just take it or learn from us.. . They may feel good but us... Not really. I ended up relationship like that. We want get feed by our partner too. Real talk here.Understand Eryka a lot.

can you aaliyah please

Can make a video on the “extreme vibe”? You speak on it @11:24

I’m not dating I’m vetting out if your for me or not to many rules to dating when it’s not hard to find someone who want to crave you and be there for you all the time

Y’all talk so much shit about the Pisces seduction and now yall are trying to copy it 😂😂 she’s all 3 placements Pisces. We always have people obsessed with

Those Melissas🤣🤣🤣

I wouldn’t say you have tired looking eyes because you have cute puppy eyes

You’re sticks is such epic 😂! I bet it’s not just something she do! I think she’s making spell as well to them! Something is going on not just her energy!

I’m hearing a lot of me in this and yet I’m still single at 25. Lmao

I’m just curious about why you say Common is a clown lol

She is born on the day of Arousal

The singer Jade Novah resembles Erika badu and her energy

I thought she was a Scorpio interesting she’s a Pisces

Can you please allow us to listen to the audio

Not Father Alex with the stick 😂😂😂

Father Alex is back to save the day 🥹

She doesn’t, none of them stayed.

Teach us how to find and catch rich men please

It’s because she’s a Pisces