Cardi B's & Offset : How Men View Women Who Can't Walk Away 

The minute she took Offset back, the first thing she did was Cuss her fans out for not supporting her decision. She treats her Fans just like Offset treats her.

This is why I’ve seen guys make comments on social media saying “if she calmly packs your stuff and puts it outside without saying anything then you’re done” vs. “if she throws your stuff out everywhere and yells at you, you still may have a chance”.. Not giving the other person any satisfaction to see how they have affected you can only work to your benefit. Even if it has affected you, don’t let them see or know by any means necessary. Walking away is the most powerful thing you can do. And even though it’ll hurt in the moment, you will grow to be proud of yourself and you will begin to mend your self esteem. No one is worth losing your mind over.

Loudness=weakness Calm=Strong

When a man knows you can't walk away he will humiliate and humble you. Just know he doesn't like you and will show you over n over again

This is why it's so important for ladies to take the time to heal from trauma and develop self esteem before getting into a relationship. Men can spot a woman with low self esteem from a mile away.

its like an emotional rollarcoaster, all that energy wasting on a guy who treats you badly - it makes them feel good about themselves too

By "SPARING YOU" she meant she been turning down men who got way more going on than Offset.

She is simply showing insecurity and weakness. I personally would never give any guy the satisfaction! Perfect emotional mastery 🧘‍♀️🙌

I was in a similar situation as Cardi with me son’s father. He treated me worse than dog crap but I kept going back for more and more knowing the outcome! Thank God, divine intervention got me out of that situation 14 yrs ago! NEVER EVER AGAIN!

it's classic example of avoidant and anxious relationship.

Please keep making videos like this. A lot of women think that rich, famous women don’t have such problems, but apparently they find themselves in shitty relationships as well cause men don’t appreciate that either

Cardi & Khloe have all that money, power & fame but don’t have the power to walk away. Sad.

Low self-esteem doesnt discriminate..rich, poor, black, white, pretty doesnt matter...self love only comes from within.. wow...smh

Real pain is ugly and can look crazy. She’s mourning and doesn’t really want to (why she might stay). I felt compassion.

how is she not embarrased to be getting played for years publicly ... have some respect for yourself girl...STAND UP!

Please like this so i can come back to watch this again. I just walked away from someone and this made me feel so much better about myself

I feel so bad for her. She's lost all dignity in this situation.

This video makes me so sad. Ladies please walk away from this.

Often times these men will do you dirty coz they really want you to walk away.... they just don't want u

This is my first time listening to you and I can’t emphasize enough on how important it is to have men like you explain these concepts to women because women tend to be more receptive to that kind of talk since the sad truth is that their daddy dynamics play a huge role in the repetitive behavior or the acceptance of everything BUT LOVE. ❤️

You should reach out and offer her a complimentary coaching session and if she bites then you’d have one heck of an example of how well your strategies can work… I bet she’d be super coachable when it gets broken down to her!

She can scream as much as she wants. Sometimes when women are done they scream as well, but their scream itself says theyre done. Theyre just letting out what theyve been suppressing for years.

Most women dont understand that men get their ego boost and confidence by seeing HOW MUCH they can affect you. How much reaction can they get from you. Because emotional reaction means that you care. Which makes them feel like they are special. Doesnt matter if you are happy or angry, a reaction is a reaction, and men will do anything to see you react. The enjoy it.

She's not leaving..She messed up and he messed up by having kids together and bringing them into this madness.

Most powerful statement: “most toxic ppl don’t know they live in filth….” Whoa.

heavvyyy on the good times making you stay and pulling you back in. That's exactly what was happening to me in a toxic relationship. Remembering the good times makes it so hard to leave, but ultimately I realized the man I'm meant to be with wouldn't do the disrespectful things at all. The man I will end up with will have all those good qualities without all the disrespect. If it was really meant to be, if the relationship was actually good, you wouldn't be so conflicted. Being in distress, in doubt whether you should stay or go is a sure sign you should leave. When in doubt, stay out.

When the bad moments outweighs the good moments it’s time to leave

Thank you!!!!! I needed to see this and confirm that when you’re not getting the respect you deserve it is okay to walk away and never look back 😌

Yes, yes, yes! The outcome of practicing Meditation is self control. Believe me. I come from a background where my parents had emotional outbursts. I had a few episode (not to cardis extend) but emotional outburst I was ashamed of in a past relationship. I practiced meditation, prayer and I have growned. Things don't move me. I am in control of my emotions and proud. God has led me to what I need. Meditation is the answer. Sadly, cardi is what women can become if they dont take care of themselves and seek the validation and love in others. Great video. I would've never clicked on a video of hers but you always add great insights. Thank you! 💜💙

She still has time to grow. Unfortunately in order for her to learn her mistakes will have to break her first.

Omg hearing her makes me cry, she is mentally traumatized by this relationship

This relationship is way too toxic 😅 she honestly need therapy and work on her childhood traumas . Very sad situation for her kids

❤🎉🎉🎉🎉 he’s RIGHT on point! People LIKE to hurt you like that!!! BELIEVE THEM! They get off on your pain!

DO One of Britney please, all the men in her life abuse her, even her own children, and she has mostly not very good friends

People have got to stop “victim shaming” and focus on the dysfunction actions of the toxic person who’s most likely has some evil entity attachment. No one should tolerate any form of abuse, yes cheating is mental abuse. Taking pleasure from your partners pain that you have inflicted is PURE EVIL. Who cares what a toxic person thinks, they are so f#*ked up who really wants to go down that toxic rabbit hole.

When I left my ex husband I did it calmly. I NEVER rose to his baiting of me and I came out with my head held high. I feel so proud of myself…was really hard. I’m a nurse and during covid I’d come home from working in ICU and I’d be upset, crying about what I’d seen and he’d say ‘what the hell is wrong with you??’. No empathy AT ALL!

I totally understand Cardi, but she needs major help. She's a millionaire, talented, intelligent, sassy woman with low self-esteem. It's all due to her childhood wounds she needs to heal.

This is sad that a woman is fighting for her MARRIAGE, and deemed weak by her lying, cheating, no good HUSBAND. Cardi is not only doing it for her, but for her children. A man that took vows should never look at his wife like any other relationship. She’s fighting for her children to grown with both parents in the same household.

I can’t feel bad for her…she chose to be an influence to the downfall of society. You really reap what you sow.

Ladies love yourself first you are important too. All men are not leaders and all men are not real men some are still little boys and hurting also. we all have to grow up and into adulthood stop blaming others take control of your life only you can, ONLY YOU CAN..

All these people are humiliating themselves because they feel worthless and empty.

Damn this breakdown really hits hard to home and helped me really see through the psychological input and output this was an amazing explanation and I feel like I understand so much about myself and my past relationships wow it was necessary thank you Father Alex 😢❤ The need to walk away has never been so necessary thank you for keeping it realistic and honest self love is so important. I feel embarrassed because I really have been feeling pathetic and needed this was the mirror 🪞 I was avoiding! 😮😮😮

how is such a young man ,so clever & eloquent about the human relationship & condition?? love it 👍🏾💥🖤❤️

"THIS IS THE BRONX PERSONIFED" LOL!!!!!!!😂😂😂😂

The crazy thing is she is recreating this pattern of cheating dad and toxic household for her daughter

Alex thank you so much for those tips💜🙏 I said it many times and I will say it again, you are a brother I didn't have. You are my mentor in terms of relating/dealing with men. Better later than not at all right. At 46 I'm learning basics I should learn in my teens but I there was nobody to prepare me for tragedy and trauma I experienced in my past with men. My father abandoned us but even when we lived together he wasn't available or said anything nice to me and this reflected in my interactions with men in my adult life. I wish all men who wants to be fathers did a feckin training on how to prepare kids for their adult life. I see half don't care what they are doing and what example they give to their daughters.

I really enjoy the content where you use real examples and expound on them. Truly love your point of view because it’s empathetic, unbiased and sound. It helps when we can see something that is happening or has happened and use it as a case study. The advice is more impactful. Keep it up!

Okkkkkkk All about social programming, as little girls the fairytale books, romance novels & let’s not forget the love songs all in our face & when finally get your “love” they play the role for awhile to make sure you on the hook. Then all of sudden they become the OPPS.

These points you make are so true. You’re the least toxic toxic dating coach 😆

I need to watch this every time I think about going back

Alex, you mentioned you don’t care to do videos on celebrities or whatever but they are insightful! Add them to the mix. 💯

Bring crazy is not ok. I been there got hurt, hurt others healed and wrote a book 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾. She’ll overcome if she wants too.

Some Men like the benefits of plastic surgery but they still see it as low self esteem and I think they have to deal with the fact that your face and body will forever change because you are always tweaking things out of insecurity…he will never love her cause she doesn’t love herself

Everything said in this video is 100% accurate. My fav channel

Pearls of wisdom, Dalexis. Cardi B is in dire need of salvation & restoration in Christ.

Alex... Vanessa Hudgens and Cole Tucker. Women dating younger men/ marrying younger men. It's been a trend and would be an interesting topic since the traditional perspective is the opposite.

Wowowowowowow….wowowowowow…. Thank you for being so see through and really breaking this down! Thank you! Idk if you know but your helping women/ men right now with this video! I wish I had someone to tell me straight exactly what you explained here. This the raw reality which is what we need to hear at all times! Thank you for being you and being vocal in this space. 🙏🏽

Keep these vids coming ! Excellent Advice for everyone ❤️

Libra are so loyal they get in their own way her self esteem not low she just gives it her all and hate to loose when she loves she loves hard until she’s tired she’s not tired yet she gone leave when she feels like it

I used to follow you years ago. Today I reeeeaaaalllllyyy needed some advice and I was able to remember your channel name. Watching this feels like talking to an old friend 😌😌thank you.

Happy New Year, Alex! 🐉🎉🐉 I truly appreciate everything you do ❤

🎉Woah! Your messages are so raw and fresh! Thanks for the wisdom you are sharing with women! Kudos to you, Brother Alex!!!

You are literally a gift to women. You are so no nonsense yet empathetic at the same time. I will def be binging your content ❤

Ok well she's young and it's just the beginning of her learning about different toxic people, and how to spot them ahead of time. She's reacting out of pain (normal) and she'll get past this toxic person and the next one won't find it as easy as the first.

Cardi b is a victim to me and being a victim u attract users abusers, the only way out is like u said to leave but it's hard when all u known is abuse and no one's ever taught u real love and how to be strong

The "frame" example was very helpful in understanding and resonated with me so much, thank you.

Cardi B has millions of dollars, has had several surgeries to get the "perfect" body, she makes money in her sleep. She doesn't have to yearn for anything.....but because she doesn't value herself, she allows Offset to continue using her. When she realizes her worth as a woman and starts to love herself, she will be rid of the power he has over her. Believe it or not, some of us women out here, who don't have hundreds, let alone millions who don't have the "perfect" shape know that we are to be respected and loved by the man we choose to gift our love. I'm speaking collectively for women who would not tolerate Offset's behavior. I have never actually been in love, but I do know, that part of the reason for that is that my tolerance for the BS has always been low to none. I haven't had a long term relationship, because I've never met the right person, unfortunately. It's been a lot of years since I've even gone on a date. It's not because I'm "unattractive" per se'. Looks are subjective to how a person defines "beauty". It's different for everyone. I'm aware that there are people who find me "attractive" aesthetically. I'm just not interested in the BS. Cardi B., Beyonce, Rihanna, and other women who appear to have the world at their feet were cheated on. That should tell those women with low self-esteem that it's "crazy" for them to have low self-esteem about their looks based on the fact that they don't look like these women. Emotional unhealthiness is everywhere. It makes you vulnerable and willing to be disrespected and mistreated. Cardi needs to go to therapy and try to heal, without Offset, so she can realize her worth as a woman.

Your content is phenomenal, better yet, SUPERIOR 👏 😊

Where have u been all my life ??? I discovered u 2 days ago and uve changed my entire perception ❤

Thank you Alex this is so true happened to me learned my lesson left his ass and it’s true because they judge you so hard and you’re over here thinking why is he judging me so hard when I’m a good woman but you live and learn no chances

Thank you, more power to you, you're very helpful, especially for the younger ones , you helped me not to do any stupidity in past , I feel glad & proud . Nice .

please do more like this but about khloe Kardashian staying with tristian even though he's cheated on her about 1000 times

The Truth Serum: Don't Play Yourself ❤🎉

Please make a video about his psychology and his perspective

Thank you for this content Alex Have been watching you for years and women need to hear what your saying and your delivery is spot on

"Ladies and gentlemen, this is the Bronx personified" 💀

Father Alex, Will men see you differently when you do walk away to the point they will regret losing you and try to get you back? Had a guy beg me not to leave and showed with his actions he wanted to be with me but he wouldn’t commit and that action alone was enough for me to leave. He fought for me but not enough. He said he was in pain but wouldn’t do the one thing I needed. Commit.

Cardi always runs to social media. We shouldn't know all of that. I agree with everything you said. I ghosted what society feels is a " high value" man. He's trying to get my attention by all of a sudden jumping into my Facebook stories. I ignore it. 😊

You stating facts 😂 his a narcissist and his not going to stop playing her til she walks away for good🤦🏻‍♀️ also I want to say Dominican woman take their marriage very serious. We try sooo hard to make it work until we can’t no more. Shes at her last of her tolerance

I agree. She needs good girlfriends around her. He does not love her. She deserves real love.

That color looks good on you !

It’s more difficult to walk away from a person when you marry them and/or have kids with them. Divorce is expense, and regardless of how unstable the parents’ relationship is, the children need their father around. Gotta be careful who you marry and have kids with smh.

When people show you who they are,believe them the first time.

Hey hey don’t come for my borough! Lol

I just don’t know what else it takes for her to finally walk away, she’s never leaving atp

First, I LOVE your videos. You're educating so many women who need this! I wish I had this advice 5 yrs ago, lol. I just have ONE bone to pick, lol. It's very easy to say this about exotic dancers, because both men and women don't really "like" them. But not every stripper is a Cardi B. Just like not every Businessman or Realtor is a Donald Trump. The reality is, is that Most women in history, regardless of occupation, have accepted toxic behavior in men. And honestly, most people don't have close relationships with their fathers. Both men and women, regardless of occupation.

Honestly, it's also the fact that a lot of these female rappers are going through what they put out there with their music, taking other women's men and look what's happening to them, being cheated on, humiliated, etc. from Megan Thee Stallion to Lightskin Kiesha to Cardi B. I love them, but we really have to be honest.

Men need to be accountable too. This cheating stuff is not it

Father Alex sometimes you say we have to show anger in order to show that you can not get played. But here you say she showed to offset he has control over her because she showed anger. Could you please explain how it is healthy for a woman to show anger ? Thank you

Omg so glad u talked about this. I always think Cardi B is so weak bc she actually has her own money and she still can’t leave. Even if it’s just for a while.

Thanks Alex, this is so sad 😢

Can you make a video on how you’ve noticed that women who grew up without a father love or the kinds of relationships they end up end? I noticed you mentioned a lot about her and her daddy issues so I think that would be a very interesting topic to get your opinion on.

Father Alex has been serving looks lately

Offset has such a vacant , predatory & dead behind the eyes look..almost scary😒👀, ..very off putting to me..wish Cardi could see it too

Love your look in this video! 🔥

This is one of your best videos.

One of your best video’s ever! Simon Biles must watch this video

Oooo getting my popcorn

Honestly thank you I needed to hear this😢

I wish I found you when I was in the midst of dealing with a narc