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Everybody Hurts - R.E.M. | Andy & Alex FIRST TIME REACTION! 

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@andyandalex
@andyandalex Год назад
Everybody is saying the video is a bit essential to fully get it, is that the case for you guys? Note: Our thoughts are not at all to discredit the help the song has provided to others, we just don’t think it would have personally connected with us when we’ve been down bad or would really connect with us if we needed a voice like that in the future, may be a generational thing, not naturally tapping into its frequency. But again, it’s amazing this song has helped countless people and I thank REM for that.
@1DJTheMessenger
@1DJTheMessenger Год назад
Facts!
@manhattenman6075
@manhattenman6075 Год назад
The live version is better
@wolfgangwalk337
@wolfgangwalk337 Год назад
No. I didn't see the video until like 25 years after the CD came out. Still a great song for me from the getgo.
@surlechapeau
@surlechapeau Год назад
yes. The guitarist Peter Buck said the song was aimed at teenagers.
@moniphil
@moniphil Год назад
I’m just not sure how this song came off as disingenuous or sterile. I think maybe y’all weren’t in the correct emotional mindset. The song is about suicide and is aimed at teenagers. It’s very straightforward lyrically because of the subject matter and intended audience, which is unusual for R.E.M. But to answer your question, no, I don’t think you need the video to fully get it.
@schrodingerszombie2401
@schrodingerszombie2401 Год назад
This is not a song about being hurt by your lover, it's a song about being hurt by life and needing a reason to stay here.
@amara7025
@amara7025 Год назад
Yep
@teresa2845
@teresa2845 9 месяцев назад
that may not be what the writer meant when he was writing the lyrics... But all artists know that people will find their own meaning to what they hear or see.
@jennywren7822
@jennywren7822 5 месяцев назад
Yep​@@amara7025
@user-xi1bk2ht2f
@user-xi1bk2ht2f 5 месяцев назад
Well said.
@pommie5093
@pommie5093 3 месяца назад
Exactly-and for those of us who have had that feeling this song can be a lifeline. It's a beautiful song, simply stating-HOLD ON, don't let go, keep living. They are fortunate that this song doesn't resonate. For many people out there, it does-big time.
@douglasg.9271
@douglasg.9271 Год назад
This is one of those rare occasions where the video actually makes the song better. Very moving.
@gonnahitcharide
@gonnahitcharide Год назад
Music is to be listened to, not watched. This song bombed.
@davaughan100
@davaughan100 Год назад
This is a tough song as a continued intro to REM. I think of it as an homage to early rock and roll that fits well in their catalog.
@alanmusicman3385
@alanmusicman3385 Год назад
I agree normally - for me - the video is a bad distractionfrom the musical merits - but not on this one - its an exception that proves the rule.
@toddb3226
@toddb3226 Год назад
​​@@gonnahitcharide As a person who grew up in the 80s, I can tell you that you are most definitely wrong on that one. Music videos made MANY a mediocre song into a hit. This one saved lives..
@SnowDogisVictorious
@SnowDogisVictorious Год назад
@@gonnahitcharide, I don't think anybody disagrees with this statement in principle, but a caveat is necessary: the artist may well have intended the song to be one component of a multimedia presentation. If that's what the artist intended, insisting upon listening only becomes an exercise in obstinance. Much like the Beatles and Supertramp, REM tired of touring, but didn't call it quits for a while thereafter. During this interregnum, songs like Everybody Hurts were released. The video component of REM's music thus became more important to them (keeping in mind, of course, that in his post-REM career, Stipe embraced film production as a means of expression). The same period also coincided with the plateauing of music videos as a mainstream form of expression (such that it would have been unthinkable to have released a single without an accompanying video - and, again, many artists embraced the visual medium as part and parcel of the story they wanted to tell, like REM). That's why 250 viewers and counting have taken the time to like the original statement, with which I wholeheartedly agree. I first heard this song while watching the video, which framed the band's intent for the song to speak to depression and societal malaise. In the absence of seeing that video, Andy and Alex mistakenly assumed the song was just about being hurt in a romantic relationship (which isn't a crazy presumption for rock songs generally... but it was definitely incorrect in this case, which the video lays plain).
@mspicer3262
@mspicer3262 Год назад
This is one of the few songs I can honestly say has saved my life. I expect I'm not the only one that could, or would, say that.
@lindap8101
@lindap8101 Год назад
It found me on the brink and brought me back.
@caroline-s
@caroline-s Год назад
I'm glad you're both still here. ❤
@flor9389
@flor9389 Год назад
Me too. I remember hearing it on the radio while driving to work. I started crying and couldn’t stop. When I got to work, I called a psychiatrist to get help with my depression and PTSD.
@AussieTVMusic
@AussieTVMusic Год назад
Same here. It came along at the right time for me.
@JaquelineGoodspeed
@JaquelineGoodspeed Год назад
Awww thank God you are all still here.
@johnhughes3214
@johnhughes3214 Год назад
This song has had a huge positive impact on a large number of people suffering from major depressive disorder. It has touched innumerable lives. When a piece of art can do something like that, it is simply transcendent.
@hadleygrass
@hadleygrass Год назад
When Kurt Cobain committed suicide, the midday DJ on WFNX Boston made the announcement and played this song telling their listeners that help is available. It was an indelible moment for me with my headphones riding the T.
@David-iv6je
@David-iv6je Год назад
Thanks for sharing that. I lived in Seattle at the time. Lots of people really hit hard, especially the teens who had never fit in, the LGBTQ crowd.
@yogarose255
@yogarose255 Год назад
I remember this.
@zoharfishtetn871
@zoharfishtetn871 Год назад
Everytime I hear this song, i think about Kurt Cobain
@nicksorrentino1764
@nicksorrentino1764 Год назад
This song was actually written to Kurt Cobain from Michael Stipe
@ToriJonesLeatherwork
@ToriJonesLeatherwork Год назад
​@@nicksorrentino1764 incorrect, Everybody Hurts’ appeared on the band’s 1992 album and was written by the drummer Bill Berry. Kurt Cobain's life ended in 1994
@someoneiswatchin
@someoneiswatchin Год назад
Sorry guys - this was a miss on your evaluation, and a little perspective is needed here. This song was written during a time when mental health issues such as anxiety and depression were not talked about openly like they are today. People with those conditions were considered mentally weak - their feelings and emotions suppressed and kept hidden away, resulting in self-harm, abuse, or ultimately ending one's life. REM was a credible and socially conscious supergroup who wrote this as a straight-forward calming ode to young people that "it's okay - we all have these feelings, and you will be alright." I don't think it resonates the way it did 30 years ago because mental illness was looked at a lot differently than it is today.
@thenannymoh
@thenannymoh Год назад
Nope, not a miss...many of us grew up hearing this song... ALOT... and great that it meant something important to people, it is a (musically) mediocre song.
@WoefulMinion
@WoefulMinion Год назад
@@thenannymoh It was purposely written to be a simple song to be sure the lyrics were the focus and got through to people. Maybe mediocre to you, but it was simple by design.
@greypossum1
@greypossum1 Год назад
This comment. What this person said.
@lisalovemc717
@lisalovemc717 Год назад
Well stated!
@melissayost4888
@melissayost4888 Год назад
Spot on! I’m a cornucopia of issues due to life threatening trauma. This song means so much to me. As for the music it’s perfect. Empathetic, caring, understanding & soothing. To people like me you can tell Michael Stipe means what he’s singing. It’s beautiful. Not a typical R.E.M. bop, but great music doesn’t have to be. Sometimes you guys overthink what makes a song great. Stole that from Rick Beato. 🥹
@melissayost4888
@melissayost4888 Год назад
When I first heard this it was a gut punch. I was hurting so much. So low. It might have saved my life. Every time I’m feeling low I listen to it.
@kimmycook2698
@kimmycook2698 Год назад
Same...thank you REM
@David-iv6je
@David-iv6je Год назад
When your day is long And the night, the night is yours alone When you're sure you've had enough Of this life, well hang on Don't let yourself go 'Cause everybody cries Everybody hurts sometimes Sometimes everything is wrong Now it's time to sing along When your day is night alone (hold on, hold on) If you feel like letting go (hold on) If you think you've had too much Of this life, well hang on 'Cause everybody hurts Take comfort in your friends Everybody hurts Don't throw your hand, oh no Don't throw your hand If you feel like you're alone No, no, no, you are not alone If you're on your own in this life The days and nights are long When you think you've had too much Of this life to hang on Well, everybody hurts sometimes Everybody cries Everybody hurts, sometimes And everybody hurts sometimes So hold on, hold on Hold on, hold on, hold on Hold on, hold on, hold on Everybody hurts
@pommie5093
@pommie5093 3 месяца назад
I can empathize with you. It impacts me the same way.
@megwilcox2878
@megwilcox2878 Год назад
Yes, this is one of those songs that needs the video to be complete. You're right about the "generational" difference, though. Back in the day, when mental health wasn't spoken of much and the stigma was so strong, the idea of someone coming out so publicly to talk about the pain that many of us were in was revolutionary and cathartic. Lots of people cried when they first saw the video, who had probably not cried much for fear of looking weak. Times have changed! People still suffer from mental illness, or just grief, or trauma, but we can talk about it. It wasn't always this way.
@AaronHunter
@AaronHunter Год назад
Yes, great comment.
@timwilson9900
@timwilson9900 Год назад
But now we talk about it too much. Everyone on social media is mentally ill, and they wear it like a badge. Like it gives them status. "Hi, I'm mentally ill." "Hey, me too."
@agemoth
@agemoth Год назад
I have NEVER seen the video to this day and still I have loved the song for years .
@burmajones803
@burmajones803 Год назад
​@tim wilson hmmm. You just told me in another comment that you have had mental health struggles. Now I am confused. Was that true or was that just a rhetorical strategy?
@timwilson9900
@timwilson9900 Год назад
@burmajones803 It's true. I feel that we've gone from one extreme to another. In the past, no one discussed mental illness because of the stigma and shame. Obviously, that wasn't the way to go about it. Now, on social media, EVERYONE endlessly talks about it. Like it's something to be proud of. So much talking and no one is getting better, like dozens of friends I know. They're still depressed. People all clustered together, all being depressed.
@tylerhackner9731
@tylerhackner9731 Год назад
The whole album is an iconic masterpiece
@brt5273
@brt5273 Год назад
....which I think is why the song is probably better for those of us who are fans, because it's part of the whole great album. People who are not as famimiar and just taking this on it's own may not get as much out of it.
@kinksfan9781
@kinksfan9781 Год назад
...or not.
@b00jen81
@b00jen81 Год назад
@@brt5273 100% agree (and totally agree with Tyler's comment too). Tbh, I don't really care for this song very much outside of the album (which, as a HUGE REM fan, I'm always kinda bummed that this is one of their biggest songs). However, it somehow fits perfectly within the entirety of the album, and I do enjoy it in that context/atmosphere.
@johnboydTx
@johnboydTx Год назад
It is a fantastic album ☺️👏👏✌️
@Tanstaafl_74
@Tanstaafl_74 2 дня назад
I remember him changing his T-shirt every time he went on stage for every grammy that it won. He wore a LOT of T-shirts that night.
@paulinegarrity4003
@paulinegarrity4003 Год назад
I don’t agree with your opinion. This was a song of encouragement. I get chills every time I hear it.
@loosilu
@loosilu Год назад
He actually wrote it for Kurt Cobain.
@musicaddict5076
@musicaddict5076 Год назад
@@loosilu Actually he wrote Let Me In from Monster for Kurt. Not this one.
@pattyliedel6485
@pattyliedel6485 Год назад
Gives me tears because someone actually wrote a song to tell me to hold on. Feels personal, and makes me grateful.
@cactaceous
@cactaceous 11 месяцев назад
@@loosiluThe song was written to help teenagers get through their youth. It has nothing to do with Kurt Cobain.
@bierce716
@bierce716 Год назад
There are songs that cannot really be understood unless you're in an acid trip... This song cannot really be understood unless you heard it pop up on the radio while getting drunk before your suicide. It saved lives.
@junietunes2148
@junietunes2148 Год назад
On the one hand, it's wonderful that neither of you have suffered the pain of depression. On the other hand, because of that you lack some empathy and emotional depth at times. This song was very impactful when it came out, especially for those who needed to hear that they aren't alone in what can sometimes be a harsh world.
@scottboswell6406
@scottboswell6406 Год назад
I was thinking close to the same thing. Not that they didn't have any trauma growing up, but nothing that put them in the space where this song aims.
@andyandalex
@andyandalex Год назад
I don’t think I’ve experienced the full scope of depression myself, but I know Alex most certainly has and I don’t think it’s fair to assume otherwise just because there wasn’t an instant connection to a particular song about depression/suicide.
@lindap8101
@lindap8101 Год назад
@@andyandalex You’re right to defend your reaction. You didn’t connect and importantly you didn’t lie.
@junietunes2148
@junietunes2148 Год назад
@@andyandalex Fair point. I shouldn't assume, but based on the fact that both of you seem to dismiss heartfelt music on the regular, it certainly comes off as jaded. This isn't the first time you have missed the mark on emotional vulnerability. "At 17", "Voices Carry", "How Soon Is Now?", "There is a Light and It Never Goes Out" and those are just off the top of my head. To be clear, it's fine that those songs didn't resonate with you, but it does sometimes come off as dismissive and maybe a little emotionally stunted. You know I still have nothing but love for you both, just wish you were both a little more open to honest vulnerability. It's also interesting to me that the songs I mentioned were written by women and gay men, 2 groups of people that had been largely marginalized for a big chunk of the 20th Century.
@missmelissa2303
@missmelissa2303 Год назад
@@junietunes2148 Interesting point about missing the mark on vulnerable songs written by women and gay men. I was particularly upset by their Voices Carry reaction. They said it sounded something like what Taylor Swift would write which is dismissive and insulting. I’ve never heard a TS song as impactful and meaningful as Voices Carry. And I’ve heard a lot of TS. It just felt like in that moment they seemed to think all “emotional girl with guitar songs” are so one note and not worthy of interest. It’s a bit myopic.
@sandyr-w6906
@sandyr-w6906 Год назад
No matter how many times I hear this song, I cry. Thats how good this song is and how it brings out emotions.
@ginaabernathy7419
@ginaabernathy7419 Год назад
Yes❤
@chrispopejoy6652
@chrispopejoy6652 Год назад
Me too
@lambokarabeekian6192
@lambokarabeekian6192 Год назад
Very surprised at your comments suggesting the song and particularly the vocals were sterile or inauthentic. I heard it differently, as an anti-suicide anthem with a lot of emotional impact.
@sallybannister6224
@sallybannister6224 Год назад
Very surprising ... not sterile, Michael Stipe was trying to depict a person who is numb, giving up... you just don't get it ..
@andyandalex
@andyandalex Год назад
@@sallybannister6224 I think that’s part of the point of why it may not has resonated, it felt like he was trying to depict something and fill us in on the fact that everybody has hard times rather than just actually being there for you, I’m super glad they did it and it helped people I think we’re just saying it may not work as well for our generation
@danhartzog9274
@danhartzog9274 Год назад
I don't think it's fair to pin your lack of connection to it on a whole generation. It's not my favorite REM song by any means, but it means a lot to a lot of people. You're getting strong push back on here not because it didn't connect with you but because you were dismissive of its intent.
@andyandalex
@andyandalex Год назад
@@danhartzog9274 Fair point, I’m definitely not trying to dismiss the intention or what they were trying to create again I just don’t think it connects with us personally and I don’t think it would connect with a lot of people our age. When this came out mental health and depression/suicidal thoughts weren’t openly talked about from what a lot of people here were saying, so this served as an anthem and opened the conversation, and helped a lot of people in the process, I just think with people my age we’re at the point where we are talking about it and trying to figure our way and saying that everybody hurts sometimes, I don’t think it connects super hard because the conversations have been open and we know other people feel this way, again I think he meant well and I’m glad it worked wonders for a bunch of people I just don’t about the staying power for current young people and I think it’s okay, I don’t think it has to be the end all be all for everybody when they’re in that vulnerable space
@Dr_Bombay
@Dr_Bombay Год назад
pretty sure that Michael Stipe has struggled with depression his whole life, so it's not like this song as just some cool idea he had -- he was speaking from experience, and his vocals are so raw, they show it. (in my opinion).
@cindyknudson2715
@cindyknudson2715 Год назад
I think you guys were in the place of "actively analyzing" the music. 🎶 When you are in a position to just be randomly listening, it can touch an inner cord. And when a person is vulnerable or in that mind space - it joins you there and sort of... holds your hand. Encourages you to hold on. Reminds you that aren't alone. And that it matters. PS: I'm actually glad to hear that you can't relate to the song. I'm glad you've not had to face the dark place this song is reaching a helping hand into.
@treetopjones737
@treetopjones737 Год назад
As a musician, I find the song uninteresting, and yes I heard it when it came out ( I was an adult then ). Good that deeply depressed people felt it helped them, but not a composition that says "I want to hear that again."
@limeymcfrog1
@limeymcfrog1 Год назад
I’ve never disagreed more with a take ever. Michael Stipe puts everything into his vocals. This one will probably also be a grower for you. The familiar 12 beat is meant to be comforting - the song is about comfort in times of sadness.
@christophercox9150
@christophercox9150 Год назад
I never thought of that comfort element - great observation. I'm a massive R.E.M. fan but it does depend a lot on whether you like Michael Stipe's vocals. Lots of people instantly dismiss these songs as 'depressing'.
@cynthiawhite9830
@cynthiawhite9830 Год назад
Yeah, and it seems apparent that it is meant to be comforting, but they missed it...
@David-iv6je
@David-iv6je Год назад
@@christophercox9150 "Catharsis" is the word I would use. A "depressing" song can actually make you feel better. This is actually in 6/8 time. You can tell because there are two main beats defined by the guitar arpeggio, each divided into three: ONEtwothreeFOURfivesix. No waltzy feel. 12/8 will have double the number of strong beats. Think "The way you make me feel" by Michael Jackson. Or "Fool in the Rain" by Led Zeppelin. (The legendary Purdie shuffle.)
@andythrush3341
@andythrush3341 Год назад
It has a "Bridge Over Troubled Waters" vibe. Very tastefully done.
@362chop
@362chop Год назад
Thank You
@cynthiawhite9830
@cynthiawhite9830 Год назад
Omg, I have watched so many reactors listen to this song and every single one of them has been so moved by it! I don't get these two. And Michael's voice is so good....I love this song.
@missmelissa2303
@missmelissa2303 Год назад
Some people have the emotional depth of a ham sandwich.
@cynthiawhite9830
@cynthiawhite9830 Год назад
@@missmelissa2303 You're right! When they did Janice Ian's "At Seventeen", they didn't get it...Andy thought maybe his sister would...
@missmelissa2303
@missmelissa2303 Год назад
@@cynthiawhite9830 I remember that. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
@andyandalex
@andyandalex Год назад
@@missmelissa2303 You think we have the emotional depth of a ham sandwich? Really?
@davidhowell7279
@davidhowell7279 Год назад
​@Andy & Alex No worries. As someone who suffers from bipolar disorder, I can totally understand emotional reactions to music. First time I heard this song, even though I really like their music, I was super manic and was a ham sandwich. Then, at some point I heard it when I was extremely low and on the edge. Man, I was like a perfectly made, amazing ruben sandwich (which is a moving experience for me). Put it this way. If you have only experienced the pain of having a splinter, you have no idea what the pain of having a broken bone is like. You can sympathize but not empathize. You can't totally relate. I sincerely hope that you never feel the depth of emotion that would make this a grower for you. I've seen you guys be a ruben sandwich over songs before.
@jeffjones6221
@jeffjones6221 Год назад
I think if you knew the impact this particular song has had on suicidal people, you might change your thoughts.
@StatsJedi
@StatsJedi Год назад
Gives "S"-tier a whole new meaning.
@jeffjones6221
@jeffjones6221 Год назад
@Tim Dienes absolutely brother
@jbellinger99
@jbellinger99 Год назад
The video really sells this song. There is no way to understand the impact of this song without the video. It is emotional, phenomenal, and uplifting - it brings the song with it. You missed the boat emotionally on this song because you have not seen the video. You owe us another chance on this one.
@kimmycook2698
@kimmycook2698 Год назад
Exactly...redo
Год назад
If a song cannot stand on its own, it's not a good song. Also: the video was filmed in February '93, while the album was released in October '92. So what was that song for these 6 months (single was released in April '93, and I guess it was released at the same time).
@clarencesmelcer4327
@clarencesmelcer4327 Год назад
It’s like Hurt by Johnny Cash. The video completes it. This REM is far more impactful with the video.
@flubblert
@flubblert Год назад
I think they missed the boat trying to compare this song with other pop tunes. It just isn't that. Nor was it meant to be.
@jbellinger99
@jbellinger99 Год назад
@ It is one of those songs where the video gives you a whole new insight into what Stipe was feeling. It is a song that sings to the broken in a way that does not touch those who are in a better place. Those people do not need the video the have this song open a wound in them. What the video does, and does well, is bring that point home to people who never really took the time to empathize and open their heart to it. It is a video that directly reaches into people's minds, in the way that few videos do. And, in the end in brings home the real point of the song which is triumph over darkness. I personally always thought the song a brave and heartfelt one, unusually clear in thought and lyric for Stipe. It is a song that excuses no privilege, and sets forth hope as a place you can get to. That was always enough for me. But the video broke my heart anew.
@steveturner3999
@steveturner3999 Год назад
The band’s contribution to letting kids growing up know they’re not alone when they feel lost and alone. Driver 8, The One I Love, Don’t Go Back to Rockville, What’s the Frequency Kenneth? So many good songs from them.
@stephenschmidt6779
@stephenschmidt6779 Год назад
Driver 8 one of my favorites. Great video of acoustic version in abandoned Church. Unplugged before "Unplugged".
@Hrizzzz
@Hrizzzz Год назад
Driver 8 so good. I bet these guys would like more stuff from Monster and Life's Rich Pageant.
@ModernArtery
@ModernArtery 10 месяцев назад
A huge up to What's the Frequency, Kenneth?
@fidoz2370
@fidoz2370 Год назад
John Paul Jones scored the strings for this album.
@buddinganarchist
@buddinganarchist Год назад
Now, Nightswimming, that's S tier beauty.
@allisonreed7682
@allisonreed7682 Год назад
@Andy & Alex, I’ve been an R.E.M. fan for the entire 40 years since the release of their amazing debut album, “Murmur.” I think other longtime R.E.M. fans would agree with me that you’ve been missing out on the true riches of their catalog. In order to fully get this iconic group and their diverse offerings, go back to their early canon - their first four albums. Start with “Radio Free Europe” from “Murmur.” Then slide into “So. Central Rain” and “Pretty Persuasion” from “Reckoning.” From there dive into their album ”Fables of the Reconstruction” and the songs “Can’t Get There From Here” and “Driver 8.” Top it all off with “Fall on Me” from “Life’s Rich Pageant.” Any R.E.M. fan would be ecstatic with these songs. Y’all likely would be, too. Up to now, you’ve only heard R.E.M. songs that were made to be radio hits - songs that are not necessarily representative of the best of their catalog.
@loosilu
@loosilu Год назад
Let's keep saying it!!!! They're stuck in the 90s, which is fine, but it's only the surface.
@allisonreed7682
@allisonreed7682 Год назад
@@loosilu I don’t hate the ‘90s stuff at all. But they are absolutely missing out on the real goods!!!
@stephencleary7826
@stephencleary7826 Год назад
This woman is talking the dog's bollocks, you keep listening to the most populist but lesser REM songs. They are so much better than the songs you are judging them by.
@hughn3724
@hughn3724 Год назад
💯
@jonathanlocke6404
@jonathanlocke6404 Год назад
I'm afraid if they did the early songs, they'd say the vocals were too low in the mix and the drums weren't heavy enough...
@HappyOne3
@HappyOne3 Год назад
I never felt it intended to make anyone feel better. It just states a fact, and made me feel I wasn’t alone. The video has the impact.
@ronbock8291
@ronbock8291 Год назад
One of the most important rock songs ever created. It's literally saved countless lives. If you need this song, you really need it. String arrangement by John Paul Jones.
@cathyrichardson8747
@cathyrichardson8747 Год назад
True..
@bryancue2238
@bryancue2238 Год назад
The reaction to this song did not go at all as I expected. As a teen in the 90's this song was pivotal in so many people's lives. When everything is going wrong, know that everybody hurts sometimes..... just hold on....
@Ldastro
@Ldastro Год назад
I think you may get eviscerated on this A+A, be ready. Still brings a tear to my eye even today listening to your review. One day you will be down and the song will be on then maybe it will hit you-hard. Please don't give up on REM as they are one of the greatest bands ever. So many, many more songs to listen to that cover a wide range of emotions, Michael Stipe, the leader singer, is genuine.
@jimd7260
@jimd7260 Год назад
I agree wholeheartedly with Alex. A very weak song.
@Retroearthling
@Retroearthling Год назад
One of the BEST BANDS OF ALL TIME.
@eboethrasher
@eboethrasher Год назад
@@jimd7260 It just hits different when you have been there, but there are songs that are better suited for them to listen to.
@colleenwood8220
@colleenwood8220 Год назад
Dudes. REM wasn’t just some new wave group, a rock group or hit generator. They had their own sound that’s tough to pigeonhole. Their uniqueness, their willingness to be odd, that’s what made them iconic. Unfortunately, in a really weird way, you had to BE there when they put music out. This song has saved lives. And, Stipe never phoned in a song. You guys are so young. 💝🥴😂🤦‍♀️
@brianmiller1077
@brianmiller1077 Год назад
The thing that they didn't want a new album to sound like was the previous album.
@eboethrasher
@eboethrasher Год назад
They were all of those things at different times, that's the best part of it. I think the boys need to hear some of the more rocking earlier stuff. Radio Free Europe, Driver 8, or Begin the Begin. Orange Crush might be interesting, too.
@eboethrasher
@eboethrasher Год назад
@@brianmiller1077 Eh, I think that they built upon their sound pretty well in the 80s. There were not any really huge departures.
@brianmiller1077
@brianmiller1077 Год назад
@@eboethrasher I'm just going by what they said themselves, this was early-mid 90's
@loosilu
@loosilu Год назад
So far you have only done 90s songs from this band. This was their pop phase. Their most significant and influential music is from the 80s, and that's what we've been tryign to get you to hit. Radio Free Europe, Can't Get There From Here, So. Central Rain.
@burmajones803
@burmajones803 Год назад
Truth! 80s REM is what they need to hear.
@lynne5322
@lynne5322 Год назад
Driver 8 🚂
@loosilu
@loosilu Год назад
@@burmajones803 I wory that they will give up on REM because they're only picking the commercial hits. It's like judging Elton John on his 80s hits.
Год назад
Ah, always you purists… "Genesis was crap ever since Peter Gabriel left" kinda fing.
@loosilu
@loosilu Год назад
@ I'm not generally a purist, just in this case. :)
@salhaney
@salhaney Год назад
You guys usually hit the nail on the head. This analysis was a major swing and miss. Stipe nailed the emotion IMO. At the the time suicide was sort of a taboo subject. This song was, and still is, powerful. For many reasons this is S-tier for me, as is this entire album.
@eboethrasher
@eboethrasher Год назад
The weird thing is, there is another song on this album about how you SHOULD be able to take your own life, Try Not To Breathe.
@joannasunday
@joannasunday Год назад
Not surprised they missed it. They don't deep dive into songs anymore.
@kimmycook2698
@kimmycook2698 Год назад
Video makes the song hit harder for sure...I always cry watching it and remembering a time i almost gave up. It's a beautiful song...
@lloovvaallee
@lloovvaallee Год назад
Insufficient kudos here for R.E.M.
@horsebydayartbynight
@horsebydayartbynight Год назад
Sometimes a song just hits the exact right chord at the exact right time in a generation, for whatever reason. This is one of those songs. It just was the right time for this song to hit our generation hard.
@JamesRea2
@JamesRea2 Год назад
Nightswimming is another beautiful song.
@iangrant3615
@iangrant3615 Год назад
This song was a huge hit and a huge cultural moment. It may sound now like you've heard it all before, but at the time this was very much not generic, this was was setting the template for such songs.
@miTnosnhoJ
@miTnosnhoJ Год назад
This is a super ambitious song. It aimed to prevent suicide. In many cases it succeeded.
@DM-hk4cw
@DM-hk4cw Год назад
Went to art school with these guys. Great live band when seeing them in Athens. Great guys.
@scottboswell6406
@scottboswell6406 Год назад
That must have been an amazing time! Did you see The B-52s or the other Athens bands?
@johndef5075
@johndef5075 Год назад
Got to see them 3 times in the 80s. Great fun!
@scottboswell6406
@scottboswell6406 Год назад
A&A, I love you guys, will always fight for your right to your own opinions, but THIS might be your most controversial reaction yet!! Here's a thought, some people will accuse you of not being empathetic, too technique focused, etc. to get it. I think it's that, you Are so in touch with your emotions that the aim of the song misses the mark for you. If you grew up feeling alone, isolated, rejected, just the simplicity of this song is what makes it great, and having someone tell you "everybody hurts" is like a tank driving through emotional walls! I had my issues as a teen, and in high school a guidance counselor called me into his office to tell me that I'm a good person, and that was all it took to open my floodgates!! That's the same power of this song. Now, for me, it never hit as hard as for other people, but 10 years earlier, I'm LOVING this song!
@Trendyflute
@Trendyflute Год назад
Their desire to frame it as a "B"-ish song with production flaws, when it's such a stone cold classic that's impacted generations already...it strikes me as a defensive mechanism on the boys' part. Not the first time they would come across as emotionally ill-equipped to handle the art in music, sadly.
@DaverJ
@DaverJ Год назад
Wow - did not see that response coming. Not sure what happened here, this in an amazingly heartfelt song that stands the test of time.
@loosilu
@loosilu Год назад
This album is a masterpiece. One of my top ten of all time. This specific song is my least favorite on the album.
@ixeyeb
@ixeyeb Год назад
Agree 100%
@waygonner
@waygonner Год назад
Same here.
@adamp2029
@adamp2029 Год назад
Same. I like it but i skip it now
@gablen23
@gablen23 Год назад
Same here, I never understood why this was such a big hit.
@RockyMtnRebecca
@RockyMtnRebecca Год назад
Agree.
@lisalovemc717
@lisalovemc717 Год назад
This song was extremely powerful back in the 90s especially when you were depressed and or hurting. The first time I heard it I was going through a bad breakup and I connected to it so much. It made you feel connected to people. Maybe it is a GenX only song as we were young when it came out and could really relate to it.
@nickyfield137
@nickyfield137 Год назад
A rare occasion indeed when Alex completely fails to understand a song
@cherinoelke
@cherinoelke Год назад
In combination with National Association for Suicide Prevention, this song has saved a lot of lives. It was brilliant to include their phone number at the end of the accompanying video. 💜
@g.e.5723
@g.e.5723 Год назад
'93 or '94, I'm driving to the Vet's Office, My cat probably won't return home with me, and this song comes on the radio. Geez.
@paulflynn2476
@paulflynn2476 Год назад
Everyone has their opinions but your rating for this one is a shocker lads 😂
@michaeloreilly2533
@michaeloreilly2533 Год назад
This is on the shortlist of the 90s greatest albums. It covers REMs full range of styles and doesn’t have a bad song on it.
@aquemeni1979
@aquemeni1979 Год назад
There’s something so vulnerable and human about Micheal Stipes voice, I think it connects with people on a deeper level
@soccerdad2539
@soccerdad2539 Год назад
Don't need a video to appreciate the depth and power of this masterpiece. Music is to elicit emotion and if this doesnt do it for you well😢❤
@Dr_Bombay
@Dr_Bombay Год назад
this song STILL brings me to tears. it's such a perfect emotional snapshot of those times when you just feel overwhelmed by everything. stone cold classic.
@manhattenman6075
@manhattenman6075 Год назад
Automatic For The People Is a great album and one of the best 90s albums should really check it out, or do Murmur Which recently had its 40th anniversary. Both albums are amazing
@loosilu
@loosilu Год назад
They NEED to hit early REM.
@flor9389
@flor9389 Год назад
John Paul Jones did the string arrangement on this - if I remember correctly. Song saved my sanity and possibly my life.
@wolfgangwalk337
@wolfgangwalk337 Год назад
What a song it was. What a feeling when I heard it for the first time. String arrangements by John Paul Jones. THE John Paul Jones.
@loosilu
@loosilu Год назад
Written by Michael Stipe for Kurt Cobain (who didn't have much longer to live).
@loosilu
@loosilu Год назад
Well, I googled and apparently I was wrong.
@joelhahn2501
@joelhahn2501 Год назад
*The* John Paul Jones who said "I have not yet began to fight" and was the Father of the U.S. Navy? What an astounding musical achievement! 😂
@barrymiller6289
@barrymiller6289 Год назад
@@loosilu He did write Let Me In from Monster for Cobain (I think)
@mapmanparlett2310
@mapmanparlett2310 Год назад
I always appreciate that you guys are always about the music..BUT - you should see the video for this song - classic..
@ixeyeb
@ixeyeb Год назад
Michael Stipe was close to Kurt Cobain and was devastated when he took his life. Not sure if he wrote this song due to Kurt taking his life, or perhaps had other experiences that influenced him to write about this? But hearing you two saying "he wasn't really caring about this topic." based on how this song "felt" to you, is ironic. So many people have wrote to Michael and said this song helped them, or even saved them from trying to end their life. The fact a song can do this says everything to me. If it can touch one person in the feels, then it did its job!
@missmelissa2303
@missmelissa2303 Год назад
This song was released about a year and a half before Cobain took his life. That being said, of all the criticism that can be levied at this song, the idea that Michael Stipe was somehow “inauthentic” is just beyond the pale.
@burmajones803
@burmajones803 Год назад
I understand that Stipe had many many phone calls with Cobain in an attempt to try to reach out and help guide him back from the depths of despair he was in. Describing him as inauthentic...that's just wrong.
@AaronHunter
@AaronHunter Год назад
"Let Me In" from Monster is the song Stipe wrote after Cobain's death (and River Phoenix's, I think). Incredible song.
@kamehousekz87
@kamehousekz87 Год назад
Michael Stipe is actually Frances Bean Cobain's godfather, and was one of the last people to have spoken to Kurt before his death. Kurt LOVED R.E.M. and the band had a huge impact on his own songwriting.
@eboethrasher
@eboethrasher Год назад
@@kamehousekz87 Peter was their next-door neighbor. That's why Kurt picked the house he did, cause Peter had moved out there, and Kurt jumped at the chance to live next door to Peter.
@BrianDominy
@BrianDominy Год назад
The lyrics are what makes the song. Everything else takes a back seat, so they don't get in the way of the message.
@allenlunde7908
@allenlunde7908 Год назад
I felt the this way when you did “At 17”. It’s a song that didn’t resonate with you because of where you are in your life but I guarantee you, this song saved some lives.
@lambokarabeekian6192
@lambokarabeekian6192 Год назад
I had the exact same thought as you express about their reaction to “At 17.” Shocked and disappointed that it didn’t register with them as S tier.
@cynthiawhite9830
@cynthiawhite9830 Год назад
@@lambokarabeekian6192 Me too. I wrote about it on another comment here that they didn't get "At Seventeen" either...
@allenlunde7908
@allenlunde7908 Год назад
@@lambokarabeekian6192 I’d say it was because of the times, but I feel like “At Seventeen” is more relevant today than when it came out.
@Trendyflute
@Trendyflute Год назад
Sadly the boys don't seem very keyed into a lot of human experiences outside of a pretty conventional experience. They don't understand women, they don't understand gay men, they don't understand people of color, they don't understand pacifists...I know they can be so much better than this but reactions like this make me despair the boys are really rather narrow, close-minded people 😞
@56music64
@56music64 Год назад
Yes great video. Can't make a judgement either way as I first heard this song whilst watching it's video. If it has helped just one person, then the song has done it's job
@SWLinPHX
@SWLinPHX Год назад
This is probably the second most comforting ballad of all time (after "Bridge Over Troubled Water" of course).
@skins28dg
@skins28dg Год назад
I couldn't disagree more . There have been multiple occasions I had given up on life and was ready to go. Then I listened to this song with tears streaming down my face and felt connected with the message. Then I decided I needed to keep hanging on. Thankfully I am far from that place now. I am so glad for you that you have not been in that place. Otherwise you might feel different about this song.
@ToriJonesLeatherwork
@ToriJonesLeatherwork Год назад
I hear you. This song is a reminder that we are not alone and help is available to us all.
@loisr3970
@loisr3970 Год назад
It is such a special song. When your in that deep sadness trying to find a way out. Turn to music its hold on! Hold on. When you feel like letting go !
@josephcrangle4669
@josephcrangle4669 Год назад
In an interview with Bono of U2, he said that at certain periods of time, he felt that they (U2) were the best band in the world. At other times, he felt like REM was the best band in the world. When you hear tracks like this, I tend to agree.
@toriboy25
@toriboy25 Год назад
He sounds like a humble fella
@matthewlee6168
@matthewlee6168 Год назад
Sometimes the fellas overanalyze a song to death rather than just enjoying it for what it is.
@Joshuadgog
@Joshuadgog Год назад
This video elevates the song to a whole new level. You also have to be in the mood sometimes for the song to make it more impactful. I love this song and it has a great message.
@paulawilkison3934
@paulawilkison3934 Год назад
This song almost always brings me to tears. I hate it. I love it.
@maryreilly5092
@maryreilly5092 Год назад
As a new widow, this brings me comfort. Thanks for choosing it.
@jamess4116
@jamess4116 Год назад
This song is, IMO from their greatest album and should be listened to as a whole from beginning to end. The album is a masterpiece.
@marksaldana6209
@marksaldana6209 Год назад
It's totally a song that represents the angst and melancholy that comes from being from Generation X. I truly believe it is a generational mood. Totally resonated at the time of its release for me and still resonates as a time capsule of that era for me.
@ShannonR1969
@ShannonR1969 Год назад
Complete;y agree! This song is so emblematic of what Gen X is/was all about.
@justinatest9456
@justinatest9456 Год назад
I didn't realize it was possible to listen to this song without tears steaming down your face... Is it possibly your headphones were not plugged in?
@flubblert
@flubblert Год назад
... or too tight!
@ThePittsburghToddy
@ThePittsburghToddy Год назад
I’m going to have to disagree with you boys. Personally, I feel like Michael Stipe’s vocals drips with emotion and it doesn’t sound at all generic to me. Please watch the video and perhaps your stance may change somewhat.🖖🏼
@danielwalsh6693
@danielwalsh6693 Год назад
For the first time...I have to totally, disagree with you. This song , along with ' Beautiful' by Christina Aguilera, hit deep at my heart. Having lost friends, along a 64 year life span, that took their own lives because they couldn't cope, with the issues they had. "Hold on" & "You are Beautiful "are just 2 simple phrases, I wish I had said to them, when they needed someone to listern & comfort them.
@pinewaves
@pinewaves Год назад
Much of the song was written by drummer Bill Berry, although as R.E.M. share songwriting credits among its members, it is unknown how much he actually wrote. Peter Buck wrote that "the reason the lyrics are so atypically straightforward is because it was aimed at teenagers"…"If you're consciously writing for someone who hasn't been to college, or is pretty young, it might be nice to be very direct. In that regard, it's tended to work for people of a lot of ages." In 2022, Stipe said that "Everybody Hurts" was inspired by Nazareth's cover of "Love Hurts".
@fidoz2370
@fidoz2370 Год назад
REM is my all time favorite band but not this song. You've done stuff from their major label days and from their commercial break through now go back to the first few albums Murmur, Reckoning, Fables and try something from those Radio Free Europe, So. Central Rain, Pretty Persuasion, (Don't Go) Back to Rockville, Sitting Still, Perfect Circle, Pilgrimage, Can't Get There From Here, Driver 8
@normanleroy1874
@normanleroy1874 Год назад
Could not agree more, they definitely need to listen to early REM before writing them off.
@loosilu
@loosilu Год назад
@@normanleroy1874 It is criminal that they have not heard it yet.
@LenProbert
@LenProbert Год назад
Having never been suicidial would make it difficult to appreciate this song, much as it would Peter Gabriel's and Kate Bush's "Don't Give Up". Both songs helped to keep me alive.
@scottdemayo9567
@scottdemayo9567 Год назад
My favorite REM album. Try Nightswimming next 🎶
@mynameispaul0530
@mynameispaul0530 Год назад
The "Murmur" album is fantastic. "Radio Free Europe" is the true, early REM sound.
@loosilu
@loosilu Год назад
That's definitely the song to start with.
@AaronHunter
@AaronHunter Год назад
They at least need to check out anything from the IRS years to get a sense of how thrilling they were out of the gate, before they got big.
@michaelz9892
@michaelz9892 Год назад
This whole album is a must. I always thought of this song as REM's "Rock n Roll Suicide".
@kamehousekz87
@kamehousekz87 Год назад
I've absolutely always felt the same thing. They're cut from the same cloth 20 years apart.
@beverlyoyarzun3326
@beverlyoyarzun3326 Год назад
Interesting review. it kinda sounds like “BeeGees doing Nazareth”.Regarding the time signature, it was written by the drummer- who doesn’t play drums on the track: it’s a machine. The “sterile” vocal is deliberately understated and quiet. As you’re aware by now, it’s about helping teens to *not* commit suicide. It seems middle and high school were not the “portal to Hell” for you guys that it is for some teens. You will remember the lyrics when your kids hit puberty.
@brianlanier6593
@brianlanier6593 Год назад
The video defined the song and the song defined the video. The song/video defined the impact for the timeperiod it was released.
@maritamcnichol8849
@maritamcnichol8849 Год назад
One of the few times that I think you need to see the video with the song. Explains it much more. One of the best songs ever.
@AaronHunter
@AaronHunter Год назад
Like others have said, this is a fantastic song if you let yourself get it - and by the time it came out, Stipe had put in the work/years and established himself as such a "voice of his generation", that it's inconceivable (to me, anyway) that anybody could find this anything other than completely heartfelt and authentic. Context, I guess. But also, it's not really indicative of REM's sound - you guys have now done 2 of their big hits (both of which, yeah, great) that don't really capture what made REM such an amazing band to get into and follow. I'd recommend checking out their first 5 albums (the IRS years), probably for you guys, something off Life's Rich Pageant or Document ... I think after the last two you'll be surprised.
@chrispopejoy6652
@chrispopejoy6652 Год назад
This review is a clear example of we can’t understand or judge people’s before us because we can’t know what the world was like at the time. Mental health issues were not spoken about anywhere near how it is today. This hit home and saved so many people. I still tear up when I hear it.
@EasyZee69
@EasyZee69 Год назад
This song makes me teary eyed every time I hear it. This is the first time I can say Andy and Alex are waaayyyyy off the mark.
@lofiloop9124
@lofiloop9124 Год назад
There are few songs that can really reconnect you with the universe after you broke down. This is one of them.
@davidlocke2601
@davidlocke2601 Год назад
Aside from the fact that you completely missed the boat on the beauty and significance of this song (not to mention the importance of the song to Michael Stipe and the other members of the group), you guys really don't "get" R.E.M. You never have. Too bad. Maybe it's generational thing.
@kimbercole2657
@kimbercole2657 Год назад
This song is better when watched with the video or live performance.
@logantawhiti55
@logantawhiti55 Год назад
This is one of those songs where the video and the song go hand in hand it doesn't do the song justice without the video.
@Manageode
@Manageode Год назад
I love "Shiny Happy People" by R.E.M. and I dont care what ANYONE in the comments says. (or what anyone in the band ever has said about why they wrote it). And I LOVE the guest vocalist. I like the happy. I like the sad. It's all embraceable for me. I was thinking you're not feeling this song; maybe you needed to hear a happy song today.
@burmajones803
@burmajones803 Год назад
I am with you on Shiny Happy People Island. Just listened to it today and enjoyed the song yet again. I keep waiting to be cool and jaded enough to hate it, but that day thankfully hasn't come yet! 🙂✌️🤘
@benanderson6390
@benanderson6390 Год назад
There isn't a bad song on Automatic for the People. Fantastic album.
@benabel7326
@benabel7326 Год назад
Maybe the only album for me where every single song is brilliant, plus the album with the best closing two songs.
@stevewright1539
@stevewright1539 Год назад
Like the Joshua Tree, every song on this album works to create a better whole.
@jeffmartin1026
@jeffmartin1026 Год назад
This song deals with depression/suicide but also deals with being gay. I will suggest you watch the video; it truly fleshes out the song. I can accept your critique of the song, but I also feel there will come a time in your life when you will (unfortunately) understand it at a much deeper level.
@moniphil
@moniphil Год назад
Go back to REM’s first 2 albums. I dated a girl in the early 90s who disliked R.E.M. I tricked her by putting their first album on my turntable without telling her who it was. She loved it. Early R.E.M. is different than later R.E.M. Both are worthy, but different. I love, love, love their debut EP, 1st LP, 2nd LP, and 4th LP more than you love your mothers. 😂
@scorpiorysing
@scorpiorysing Год назад
Early REM seemed more raw to me, later albums a little more polished and produced, which I guess is natural as fame affords it. But I like both early and later REM all the same. A good playlist shuffle, I get a good mix of old and new.
@loosilu
@loosilu Год назад
@@scorpiorysing Their early records shook up rock music. They were an antidote to 80s metal.
@tammccoy4258
@tammccoy4258 Год назад
It is brilliant that you didn't really like it. Reaction channels that love everything are SO false. This feels real. Personally I love the song; it really hits home and doesn't sound false or sterile at all to me. And I am not a fan of reaction channels that claim to be music reaction channels but then sit there watching the video. The video is something else.
@agemoth
@agemoth Год назад
So bizarre how you appreciate the simplicity of John Denver and not this sublime genius.
@kerrycronin256
@kerrycronin256 Год назад
There is a video of a Pastor singing this song on Britain's Got Talent that is absolutely heartbreaking. As someone who counsels the people who are in dire situations , he nails the real feelings behind the song. I cried when I saw first it and every time since. It's beautiful to behold.
@garywilson5103
@garywilson5103 Год назад
You need to check out What's the Frequency, Kenneth by REM
@laurawalkerJD
@laurawalkerJD Год назад
That's the video they should see, if they watch any REM videos. I know the video to "Everybody Hurts" is incredible - but the "What's the Frequency, Kenneth?" video perfectly captures each band member's quirks so perfectly in a deceptively simple performance video. I love it :D
@surlechapeau
@surlechapeau Год назад
A&A, you'll love their "The One I Love", "Shiny Happy People" and "Stand"!!
@jeanmc4213
@jeanmc4213 Год назад
First of all, this is definitely a song of the era; though the 6-8 beat can be monotonous and even boring, it didn't feel that way when it came out on the scene. Secondly, I don't think this song was ever meant to make one feel better, rather it is meant to come down into mire with you, to struggle through the darkness with you. I think it is more validating than comforting. I think Andy hit on it when he said that maybe he just hasn't been really hurt recently.
@agemoth
@agemoth Год назад
My favourite album from them. Perfection. Played it on repeat in my heydays in the 90s. On the train commuting to London and all ..along with Enigma's 'The Cross of Changes' album. Sublime and AWESOME times of my life !
@volkerthienenkamp9720
@volkerthienenkamp9720 Год назад
This time I was just shocked by your reaction. But maybe it's good that life has not hit you. For me and my friends it always was an S song. Masterfully arranged and sung.
@HollyVee
@HollyVee Год назад
You can have life “hit you” severely and still not like this song. Ask me how I know.
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