Everything Was A Gift 

I might also get a restraining order.

Especially if I'm a scumbag who gets a girlfriend to pay my bills until she realises that I am using her as a cash cow.

She'd be blocked by call number 3.

@@uacbpa I'd have filled a restraining order too

@@mickm6309 she wanted to pay those bills. Who the Hell gives their new bf or gf a money in the first three weeks. Maybe $20 or $40 for gas but anything more then that is out rages. She put herself in that position.

Not really. Desperate for a relationship and naive yes, but she's not really giving me stalker/ drama vibes. He's the one with the drama, kept harping on and on about his sick father to try and gain sympathy. He was able to get it from the judge but not from me. I'm sure he didn't have his life together before his father got sick and is only using it as an excuse which is sick.

THIS

@@IagainstI. Sorry, she literally admitted to buying him the phone that he didn't want because she wanted him to be able to facetime with her so she could see him at any time. THAT is a power play if any. That's also why she called a hundred times is because she wanted to see what he was doing, where he was at at any moment. being desperate is one thing and she was, but she was trying to use the money to control him from the getgo. Yeah, he could not have mentioned his money issues, but it makes sense as he's a roofer to mention in a relationship "I make more money in the summer than in winter because of my job" which I've known similar, working in moving and storage. There's a winter lull and then you make a lot more in the summer. It's like saying "I can't afford things yet, but I will be"

Hell, she wanted her damn money.

@@IagainstI. no… have you lost a parent? She’s stirring up all this drama while his dad is on his deathbed.

Don't forget that he's a mooch 👹 Lets not point at the vulnerable without dropping a word about the villain who dry begged her and lacked morals bruh.

She was trying to buy a boyfriend, she comes through as exceedingly desperate and unstable. Ladies, we should know better than this!

@@TT-th1gb if a girl want to pay my phone bill why the fuck I would say no

Talk about being desperate to have a boyfriend!

@@bobberry1463 exactly if they offer...shit take itb

Like she IS absolutely out of her mind

She is nervous, embarrassed, naive, insecure.

She got on my last nerve

She’s desperate and doesn’t believe she can keep a man unless she buys him. It’s sad.

Precisely can't pay for dates or basic living expenses. He's looking for a surrogate mother.

Amen!!

She probably was too eager, too fast bc he was nice to her. She called and texted him too much, and he blocked her bc he felt smothered...

She didn’t care about going out to dinner!! She just wanted a boyfriend.... (no matter how much money it cost her).

@Shandra Johnson not always low self esteem. If you truly alone you don't care about money at all. After high school I had no friends or family I had noone to talk to i cancel my phone cause I had noone to text or call. I would have clearly give away all my money just to talk to someone for 10 mins.

Hopeless romantics/gullible people

@@bobberry1463 nah that's Just a lack of self respect

Horniness make you do things

@@Kaxxonxbox that's me... love me and i will do everything..

Only reason she's taken him to court is him breaking up with her. Money wouldn't even be an issue otherwise. I do believe she called him one hundred times. Fortunately he saw through her in just three weeks! She's unstable!

She’s the user! Nuts!

@@sparkswain2820 lol

ATM... not ATM machine.... machine is already in the name... automated teller machine....

​@@sparkswain2820- I agree 100%.

Yea he knew what he was doing smh

🤷‍♀️ I’ve had people ask why I’m stressed including boyfriends. Finances are usually the key. I however will never let someone else pay my bills.

Exactly people who dry beg know exactly what they're doing. They are looking for sympathy & to see if you offer $ without them asking directly.

learned that from Judge Mathis.

Dry Begging LOL

True 🤣🤣

She's only angry because she was blocked and broken up with. She shouldn't really get anything back!

@@sparkswain2820 lol yes she should he used her

@@Bebedollie Agreed he completely used her, however the OP is correct as well, if he hadn't dumped her, she wouldn't have taken him to court. She was desperate then and she still is, she's angry and embarrassed and wants him to pay.

Doesn't make him right or any less of a loser just because she's pathetic. This guy should have L tattooed on his forehead.

Yes I recently watched that one smh people need to take baby steps

@@shaebubblegum3212 my goodness that case was very cringe.

Yes, I do. You have good memory; only if they'd seen each other's episodes of the peoples' court.

@@Lanie-sl9ne no doubt ladi. they both look as if they're the same age. they both also have low self esteem.

Yeahhhh…I remember that. And yes, you are right.

Yes, I cannot!! Ppl say it's low self-esteem, but damn! I couldn't ever buy anyone's love! No ma'am! I'll get myself a dog if I need to cuddle and a toy if I need other things!

@@aprilpinkelton4385 🤣🤣👊 💯

I’ve been broke before in my life, but ain’t no way I’m even entertaining the thought of any girlfriend of mine even handing me a cent to help me. This dude is a scumbag and the girl allowed herself to be taken advantage of.

She's horny, baby.

Does that make her a sugar momma?

If charge her for the hour to sleep with me and then leave like nothing happened

She found Chad and was desperate for attention so starts throwing away money at him, if he was average looking and not broke he would be invisible to her. Life's lesson is never loan money and expect it to be paid back, for strangers and even friends. She also needs to work on her self esteem and on her diet.

@@ricardos8307 are you saying he’s a over average looking? lol. I don’t think most women would consider him conventionally attractive. I think this girls self esteem is so low she’d be the same with anyone who gave her attention. She’s the Worst combination of self absorbed and insecure. She definitely needs to work on building her confidence but no need to attack her weight. You don’t need to be thin or super hot to have a healthy self esteem.

Sorry? He was taking advantage of her from the outset. Out of work, can’t pay rent and bills, oh look at my broken old flip phone, my dad is sick, tears brimming in his eyes. You don’t take advantage of desperate lonely people. He’s immoral.

And he shouldn’t have accepted smh

Right! She seems ‘crazy ex girlfriend’ stalker type..

Finally some ppl in the comments that are seeing what I'm seeing! That man was clearly distraught over his dying father & wanted as far away from that obssed woman as possible & she's there giggling saying "while I offered to sit with him". I'm reading the comments & everyone's ragging on this guy & yeah he may be down on his luck, but she clearly saw that & used it to get what she wanted! Hope he can pay her & get her outta his life. 👋

@@piximommysreborns What did she get out of being with him other than some debt? You would probably get conned by him. He's clearly using his father's plight as an excuse for him not having his stuff together which is twisted. I don't feel bad for him.

@@IagainstI. lol I myself would not be dating anyone that can't even pay their bills. I think the guy was in no position to be starting a relationship, but I think this woman was happy to hold that money over his head & any kind person would not sue over a few hundred dollars when she was very aware his father was dying in the hospital. I don't think she had any reasonable expectation of being payed back in the near future & only went after him to have further contact with him. I think she's got a real problem with jealousy & control.

@@piximommysreborns I can't pay my bills and still get women. I'm decent looking and I can carry a conversation, that's all that matters. Stop trying to scare men. Men need to remember, to not listen what a woman says, only what she does.

Yep. My life has been screw up for the past 15 years, and a relationship is the last thing on my mind

Men and women have been getting together broke as heck forever.

@@mikesteele05 True! But I grew up around Men who wouldn't pursue if they didn't have finance in order. That's why I began my comment with "I RECALL".

Girl yes me too … lowered standards have given low rate men way way way too much.

Because that booty free.

facts on that lol. guy is a little weasel and shyster...

@Shandra Johnson Or its exactly as I said. An individual, male or female, that is capable of dry begging with no remorse, does not have the insight to understand why they may have to contend with a partner that is desperate to communicate, thus they are overbearing with ulterior motives. They see no correlation between the two, they project everything onto the other individual in the relationship, not difficult to see in both his courtroom and exit interview!

Then he had the gall to say I'm apprehensive about people giving me gifts because of ulterior motives

@Shandra Johnson he shops on dating apps for women he thinks are less attractive to get money from. You don’t have to try so hard for male approval, dear. It probably doesn’t work.

Eeeexactly. They also mentioned his ex gave him some money too just after the plaintiff did. He knows how to grift.

so true, and sometimes handling a hardship is the only way to learn and benefit

I would say never give a man money. But everyone is not ungrateful.

THIS.

He wasn't ungrateful tho. She was just being petty because they broke up.

@@LaceyCClark. She said a lot of people are ungrateful which is true.

more like NO! self esteem.

Very much so, its sad that the judge has to make her see the light, dude is a player that used her and does not want her around!

Her low self esteem is not the worlds problem. Go work on raising it. We’ve all done it

@@dillionoshea7535 shadappppp

@@no_one161 lol

Agreed, at times I don't feel confident but the moment someone asked me for money, it is a wrap

You have a beautiful smile and your singing is awesome!!!

😂😂😂😭

Best comment, ever!

🤣🤣😂😂 "not drive him anymore" 🤣🤣

@@orcasgirl1 Hilarious

Lolololzzzzz total gold !!!!! Love it 😂😂😂😂😂😂

True

Yes at least the cat needs you😂

Low self-esteem, feeling that they can't do better, being physically attracted so much that they are willing to see anything else, wanting to brag about having a boyfriend so they are willing to do anything, thinking that hooking a person financially secures the relationship, the stupid reasons are endless.

Cause people truly love their money.

304 energy

Because they think they can buy love

Bc some people's parents or caretakers did the same to them growing up. That's our primary example of love.

Desperation

he has a job, Some jobs have lull periods in winter, but then they make a lot more in the summer.

🍆... It always comes down to that.

Desperation and hormones

@@dragames then he needs to improve his fiscal literacy and save up during the feast months so he can get by in the lean months or take a second job during the lean months. If he’s working for a legit roofing company and is a good employee, those crews stay busy year round, between residential and commercial. I don’t get how women or men for that matter, don’t see fiscal illiteracy in a partner as a red flag.

No, he’s a user, pretending with the judge.

He clearly used her. Women who give money to strangers are needy. He spotted that about her and took advantage. He just really chose a shitty time for himself because of his dad’s condition. Thought he could play on her sympathies but didn’t realize she’s a bit psycho. She’s clearly been used and abandoned.

I'm glad she got some of the money back 😊

👏👏👏👏!

Yes, ma'am, we cannot buy love nor can we buy self respect! She didn't even get to know him first, maybe we should wait till we know someone's character before having high expectations and likely disappointments.

@@sparkswain2820 hopefully she’s learned from this experience/lesson. And this situation can help others as well. 🙏🏾🥰

If it were that easy. lol. Ya'll stay saying the same shit.

@@osimeon00 I’m sorry you’ve had bad experiences. Try to learn yourself worth, walk with confidence and maybe you’ll have what you deserve as well 🥰

Sad indeed, but he shouldnt have allowed to get into this situation. He isnt a victim.

Then maybe he shouldn’t have been such an emasculated loser and taken money that he obviously had no intention of paying back. He could have avoided all of this if he did the honorable and right thing, and just paid back the money he borrowed. What’s sad is when a man takes from women. I think he used her and I think this woman has very low self esteem. He took advantage of the situation. No one can force you to take money. If he’s not with his father, it’s just as much as HIS fault as it is the plaintiff whom was dumb enough to give him the money!

“Poor guy” he took advantage of an idiot. Maybe what’s happening to his dad is karma🤷🏾‍♀️

@@labodorlover his dad's death wouldn't be karma. Wow, rhats harsh

@@MsLilacLover1 yes my comment was harsh but true. That’s how karma works, my not get him but someone close to him.

She was a control freak...

start with losing weight..jus saying

He should not use people.

Lol

Or had it GOOOOD lol

I have, but I've never given it to get something out of it. I gave it with no expectation of getting it back. There's a few homeless veterans around where I live that we've gotten gift cards at the restaurants they frequent. I've also helped my now husband of 14 years with his child support payments. His ex-wife harassed him constantly if child support wasn't paid on the 1st of each month. She didn't care that he didn't get paid until the 3rd, she wanted it on the 1st. I was in the military at the time and got paid on the 1st of each month. I would give him the money just so she would stop harassing him and he would pay me back when he got paid. I even wrote checks to cover while I was deployed, not requiring repayment. Boy did she hate getting them, but at least my man wasn't being harassed because it wasn't paid when she thought it needed to be paid. I watched a few different times where she would make drop off/pick up miserable by bringing it up right in front of his daughter and myself. She didn't care. No child needs to deal with that crap!

Why? It was a gift

There are two reasons to give money to people you don't know 1) hope to make them like you more 2) to hold something over them. She was obviously the latter.

No… she can’t contact him if he’s blocked her everywhere. How is she going to get her money except taking him to court?

Looking for this comment

Came to the comments just for this lol

I’d charge her every time she wants sex 😂

👍🏾 I had an ex friend who kept calling me all the time and coming unannounced, I broke up with her.

💯

Wow

Yes, I saw that too! That gesture was actually WHY I scrolled here to read the comments! I'm glad someone else noticed and surprised many more did not.

Exactly, the second her control doesn't work he becomes a person worthy of being treated like --it. That's where you see her real self.

Why pay for a gift? as for the other he said he would pay when he could, there is no indication he did not intend to do just that.

Only thing he's disputing is the phone. sounds like he intended to pay her back for the other stuff

Sure, because all her decisions and actions are so mature, right? 100 calls and 57 texts? I wouldn't let her anywhere near my family, ever.

why should he feel ashamed? Handsome men such myself don't have to work and can get by with women providing for us. Typical shaming language used by women when it benefits the guy. In the real world, there are no rules... if you don't wanna work, don't.

@@uacbpa What does your comment have anything to do w/ what I said??? My opinion on her was not stated. I only am speaking abt him.

@@melinadistrict9428 And my opinion is about her. Deal with it.

Whaaa 👀 tell us more please

Yes

what's even krazier is milian gets these repeat cases an she continues to give the broads the money they're seekin.😑😑

Judge should not have given her anything women need to value their labour and stop trying to buy the men into loving them and when things don't work out they run to court crying fowl

She has low self-esteem, which I do actually feel bad for her. She's a beautiful woman

Scamfish has so many of these victims.

The phone was a gift. You don't get those back. But I agree with you: she typically would not have taken it so easy on him.

@@periwinklepeonies5818 ohhhh good point! Got him there if she did! Hahaha

Two hunned

Agree! Plaintiff shouldn’t get her money back!! She tried to buy him (it’s her own stupidity!).

…..uh you do know that she brought him to court right? 😂 lol smh

It's a real case 🙄🙄... what do you expect?

yeah not adding up.

@April Pinkelton/OP: Exactly. When TPC contacts litigants who have a pending case in their local court, both parties have to agree to dismiss their local claim. If he didn't want to leave his dying father's side, he didn't HAVE to, so, in my eyes, he looks like an even bigger moocher. I mean, he tried to PROFIT off of *his choice* to leave by suing for lost wages & distress!🤦‍♀️

@@nathang7935 you do know he could refuse right? both parties have to agree to be on the show. lol smh

Yeah, you're right. This guy is not that attractive.

Throwing money around..... Instead of looking in the mirror!!!

Baby Got Back !

@@davidellis5141 Yep ... at least two of them!

Yep thats exactly what he does