Weaseling Out On A Wife 

I don’t understand this mother. She got plastic surgery and dumped her husband shortly after. The father is paying child support, private school for the kids and the children’s cell phone. It’s not like he’s a deadbeat. Why would the mother drag the father in front of her daughter? Why would she even put that in the girl’s head? That woman is an example of her pettiness being greater than the love for her daughter.

At least the Judge commented about how terrible a thing she did right there at the end!

She was so proud she left him, yet rolled her eyes at the mentioning of the girlfriend, and coming off as the bitter ex, trying to turn the child against him... that's so wrong

Things both my dad and my mom said to us after divorcing; “adult problems are not for children they’re for adults“ and my favourite one “we love you more than we dislike each other” thanks mom and dad

My ex wife became pregnant by another man. We divorced and she married him and raised our son plus the new child and 2 more with her new man. I never said on bad word about either of them and as a matter of fact as my son, who was only about 3 years old at the time, would talk about the fun stuff he did with is mom and step dad I would act interested and talk like they were my best friends. It wasn't about me, it was about him growing up without having to deal with my personal adult problems.

Bruh why she even crying smh - it is an EXTRACURRICULAR activity , he does not have to pay that. Lord

The fact that she wore that tee shirt is toxic!!! She is ruining her daughters emotional health. Wow.

This mother is awful, awful, awful. And did you see how she rolled her eyes when the defendant's girlfriend was introduced YET she left the plaintiff because she wasn't into the marriage anymore. Grow up!

A variation of the pageant mom. “Nothings too much for my little princess, and daddy doesn’t love you enough to pony up for it.”

$650 a month. Damn to me that's a lot of money that should go towards college education

His child support is supposed to go to the child, yet she has the audacity to wear a shirt that indicates that the father contributes nothing to the daughter.

She is a real piece of work

Used him, took his money for plastic surgery, then got rid of him. Now that's savage!

If a parent would have shown up at one of our son's minor sports games/practices wearing a t-shirt like that, I would have been embarrassed for them, and felt just awful for the child! Who does that not taking their child's wellbeing into regard? Why do people weaponize their children like that? First they have babies hoping it will salvage bad relationships, then as the child ages, they involve them in issues they should never be involved in. Having said all that, we celebrate 35 years today, July 12th!!

I feel horrible for this guy. I know exactly how he feels and what he’s going through. I had a money hungry ex like that too. When we went through our divorce, she wanted full custody of outlet son, and she wasn’t allowing visitation for me. She wanted child support, alimony, and for me to pay all medical. Luckily our judge was fair, and he didn’t order any of that. We had 50/50 custody and I did pay child support for about 7 years. Then I took her to court for full custody because I found out about her current lifestyle choices. I was awarded full custody and now she has to pay child support. During this custody case, she told my son that I only wanted him so that I could get child support. I never asked for it. The judge did all of that on his own. I only wanted my son, so that I could get him out of that horrible environment she created and put him in. She even had him draw a picture of himself hanging by a noose, and a speech bubble saying “this is what I’ll do if I have to live with my dad.” I didn’t know she and her mother coaxed my son to do that until a couple years later when my son started seeing the truth about his mom and why I did what I did. He then told me that he didn’t mean that at all and that his mom and grandma told him he had to do that so he could still see them, if he didn’t, he would never see them again. It was horrible seeing that picture, and thinking that my son felt that way about me. I was so happy and relieved when he told me the truth. It’s hard to believe that a parent would ever do that to their child.

I can't stand when a parent use their kids as pawn and try to get bk at the other person

So she dumped him and then trashed him to his own daughter. Notice she kept saying "MY daughter". Not good.

I use talking parents. It’s absolutely the most wonderful tool for parenting with a narcissistic abuser. It’s been six years and I still only communicate with my daughters father on there. No texting. No phone calls. On the app or no communication.

The plaintiff is a bad mother. She's trying to ruin and destroy the relationship between father and daughter. Her daughter is going to end up hating her.

$650 for some freaking dance classes?!?!?! WTF

The plaintif is a mean spirited lady with self esteem issues. She deliberately wanted to 'remove the daughter's father' from her life. I bet you the T-shirt wasn't the only time she pulled the stunt and would certainly not be the last.

living vicariously through her daughter who has now been in competitive dance for almost half of her life and she's only 9 years old! tf?

The plaintiff got no money for her lawsuit, but the advice from the judge was priceless. Hopefully she adheres to the judges wisdom and changed her ways. If not, it could do some permanent damage to her kids.

People's court, quit notifying me about "new episodes " when in fact they are reruns. Put up some NEW episodes.

She used her husband it’s gonna come back and bite her

12:50 this is why Judge Milan is the best judge out there!

Cosmetic surgery money 😳down the drain.

Never drag your children into adult problems 🤬

What a horrible thing for the mother to do!! That’s her father (who’s paying his support), and that’s a damaging thing to do, enlisting his daughters help in shaming him.

This really should have been resolved in their main court case for the divorce. Also, that shirt was savage.

I love how this "perfect mommy" starts crying.

Woah she looks just like The Hamburgler!~~!!!

Sis got a new body and she wanted a new man🤣

i have a tee shirt for the father " my mom uses me to hate my dad"

The moment they mentioned the shirt I knew everything I needed to know about that mom. Selfish as hell to bring your kids into adult issues.

Why are they paying that much money for dance classes that's ridiculous

She's jealous that he's got another woman .

The way she was holding her ear at 9:12 is sending me

I has a bad feeling that this wasn't going to end in a verdict and I was right. As soon as they said they weren't divorced yet, I knew JM would find some reason to send them back to family court.🙄 What a toxic couple!

This mother is vindictive, selfish, childish and angry. Rolling her eyes at her husband's girlfriend and then getting teary when called out for bad behavior. She seems really all about herself. Her husband is blessed to be rid of her, I think.

I know this is old when I see a full audience...😒 I still watched it!! 😁😁

Wife is creating child/parent alienation already and they aren't even finalized yet. Good for the Judge, for setting that straight. Hopefully it was ignorance, but probably not. If the wife is forking out $600 month on dance at a time people are struggling to keep food on the table.......... he's already paying for those lessons.

Petty much?!?!?! She's ridiculous. She rolls her eyes when the girlfriend was mentioned. Jealous much!?!?! He's not a deadbeat. He pays child support and much more. She probably uses the child support for herself.

Makes me wonder if the daughter really loves the dance.

Awwww he seems like a sweet guy, sad she didn’t want him anymore

$650 a month. $7,800 a year. Outrageous.

He's lucky to get away from that sadist.

As a child of divorced parents who fought like this and constantly bad mouthed the other. I know exactly how she will feel when she gets older. Luckily one of my parents had realized and tried to change later on but yes, mentally scarring and it really made me lose trust in both of my parents.

🤣🤣 “Daddy showed up but Mommy pays the bills”. Lorrrrrd… 🤦🏽‍♀️

This man is detailed in honest. Seems teachable.

$650 month for an 8-year old's dance class? Unbelievable.

WOW. She gets a "weight reduction" surgery (which she will DEFINITELY gain the weight back) then she gets slightly less unattractive and DUMPS this guy? PATHETIC.

$7000 worth of cosmetic surgery, that $7000 would have gone a long way towards those dance classes. Daddy pays the bills, Mommy needs to straighten out her priorities. 👏🏾

The funny thing is while they were still together, I'm sure she told everybody how wonderful of a Dad he was, but now that they're split he's a deadbeat. It's pretty funny how that works. As soon as she said something about the pension I knew right away what kind of ex wife she was.

Plaintiff should be suing her plastic surgeon.

The toxic poison to our kids when we try to get the other parent. Rarely intentional yet always they are the collateral damage.

She was very rude to the ex and I lost a little respect for the Judge over what the t-shirt said, that was very rude and disrespectful!! It may have been funny but still not professional from the judge.

What a petty woman. All that weight loss and surgery and she still doesn't have a dude while he has a gf! HAHA!

My estranged husband made a comment to my kids about not having enough money because he gives it to me and boy did I light into him over it. I then explained to them that the money he gave me was to help support them as that is what a good parent does. Adults who use kids to hurt others are disgusting and should not be allowed near them. I think it’s a form of abuse.

So controlling, she’s better off without him. That being said you shouldn’t let your kids know how you feel about the other parent

🤔 What I learned from this? We are justified for doing something terrible as long as we smile all day long and love our daughter. That's a steal. Thanks.

How about instead of throwing 650 a month down the drain in hopes that her daughter will miraculously be a star someday, she can put it in a cd and SAVE IT FOR COLLEGE or for her future in general!! These pageant type parents are obviously trying to be famous through their kids.

Losing a significant amount of weight, either through surgery or otherwise, will almost always have complicated psychological consequences and quite often there will be changes in all kinds of relationships, be it with a spouwen or partner, or with friends. One reason for this is that the person who has the weight loss will have a whole new view of themselves. Often times they have had a low self esteem and self image before, but now they are not only confronted with a different person in the mirror, they are definitely going to receive lots and lots of compliments on their appearance. That has an effect on not only the person who lost the weight, but also on their significant other. It always takes time to get used to the ‘new you’/‘new him/her’ and when the relationship is not strong enough, it might even lead to a divorce/breakup. When people are going to have weight loss surgery, there is often a psychological procedure attached to the process. At least, that’s how it is where I live. It’s easy to judge this woman about the breakup, but please know that there is likely more going on than can be seen in this little clip, little window into their lives…… The T-shirt thing though….that is just plain stupid and disgusting. She should have known better!

She’s teaching her daughter to be just as toxic as she is.....🙄

U know, she had her surgery a year before she "threw him out"......THAT may have been "planned". I knew at least 6 mo before I left, that I was leaving......😳

I don’t mind watching episodes again. They’re good cases and it’s a good show. I just don’t understand why the video is 17.5 minutes long when the final comment from Harvey concludes at just after 15 minutes.

No matter how mad you are or how bad you don’t like your kids other parent you never talk bad about the other parent in front of the children because it will scare them in the long run.

That was a stupid mean shirt that I hope bites her in the tukas. The daughter needs to feel nothing but love from both parents, if they are lucky enough to have both. Poisoning the child to make you look good and the other parent not is child abuse.

I am commenting twice because that woman is just so nasty! I feel bad for the ex and the whole relationship with his daughter!

6:59 Why is she teaching her daughter to be a spiteful, ungrateful person. Sure Dad pays his child support through the courts, but he also has an active role in his daughter’s life. Believe me that’s a lot more than some dads do after a divorce.

650 a month is ridiculous

Why is she crying ? She acted badly towards her husband with that tee shirt.

Women like her completely disgust me. Children aren’t tools. You don’t drag them into your selfish vendettas. Some women have zero support from the fathers of their children. Their kids don’t even know what their fathers look like. This man made choices to show up for his children yet she acts like that counts for nothing. I’m not excusing his bad behavior, but him showing up counts for something. She’s wicked.

Exactly!! I love you judge

lol a husband suing his ex for paying for her fat lmfaoooooooooooo

DON'T women get it that being a big B... HURTS THE CHILDREN!! PAY IT YOURSELF!!

I'm on the Father's side, plus he's handsome.

This woman had surgery and is still the same insecure person. Ma’am if you read this… you can be better than you were here…just get some true friends who hold you accountable when your feeling petty. Make room for good things, and they will come.

She is a horrible example for their little girl, first she sends a negative message to the child with her selfish act of getting cosmetic surgery like men will only want you if you're pretty and have a good figure, then she is teaching her daughter to hate her father, if she had the Nerve to mention the T shirt she made, just imagine what she tells her daughter about her father behind close doors. Lady you need to sign up for parenting classes and stop trashing your soon to be Ex. He seems like a really nice man and I am sure he is because she didn't say he's a bad father. Wow talk about vanity. This reminds me of a joke, a young wealthy woman goes to the hospital to have her tonsils taken out but unfortunately she dies and goes to Heaven and she asked God, Oh please why did I die so young I had everything? God says well this only a test, you still have 46 years. So the woman is sent back and knowing this revelation she decides to have a tummy tuck, her lips done and gets her hair dyed red. Well after she heals she goes to Macy's and spends $200,000 on new clothes and as she's leaving she gets hit by a milk truck and dies. She gets to Heaven and says Oh Lord why why did I die you said I had 46 yrs left, and God says Oh, the Angel of Death didn't recognize you and she stays.

My mom never even on a bad day say a single bad word about my father... We grew and learn on our own how things were on both sides... Yet he would say all negative things like how she made us suffer by taking us with her... She made a right call! ... Though broken I forgave him, loved him still till his last day

She's bitter and petty, I can tell that with in the first few minutes of this clip.

She was 100% trying to undermine their local judge by coming here before their divorce was finalized.

It’s about time they cut a deal with a streaming service.

With a shirt like that, it’s why some women are destroying the families in this country. That woman’s attitude and what she’ll teach the child is utterly disgusting.

A father should want to contribute to his daughters passion 🤷🏼‍♀️ my custody agreement includes splitting extracurriculars

Ooohhh my daughter biological dad is the BIGGEST WORTHLESS POS dad, her ENTIRE life, he never made it to ONE birthday or one Holiday. When he WOULD attempt to have a relationship with her, after talking to her for 5 min he would say “What’s your mom doing? Let me talk to your mom”, even though he knew I didn’t want to talk to him or anything but I NEVER refused to let him call or anything like that & when he would hang up, he would say “I love you. And tell your mom I love her”. After 17 years of this, she finally seen that he would reach out to her to try to talk to me (I like to think that’s not the ONLY reason & he would like to speak with her too but 🤷🏽‍♀️). I NEVER said anything negative about him, never called him names around her or anything negative. She’s now 19 and knows he’s a meth addict & she absolutely HATES him. She calls my husband who has been in her life since she was 3 her dad, her “real dad” bc he’s the one who raised her, he supported her, he loves her, she’s HIS little girl. And her “bio” dad is her “other dad” (on a good day) but most of the time she calls him “the crackhead” or “the tweaker”.

Here's the deal: was the mom wrong for creating those horrible shirts disrespecting the father? Yes! However he's standing up there acting as if bcus he pays child support he shouldn't have to help out with other activities for his children. Children are expensive when you choose to invest in them and their future. If the little girl is a talented dancer this will take her far in life and offer her opportunities that she wouldn't have access to otherwise. Children grow up and they give back, by investing in your kids they will grow up to be beyond thankful for what you've done for them. Don't sleep in the babies. I see people saying that 650$ a month is a lot of money and could go towards her college fund, but if she's truly talented her talent will pay for her future..js.

The judge always has the right advice

An app designed and built by Big Brother. Just what the world needs.

not wanting to pay for your kid’s extracurricular activity because you “don’t have to” is disgusting. both of these people are irritating.

I wonder if dad's girlfriend could put anymore blue on than she has?

Thankfully Parental Alienation is becoming illegal and mothers will eventually face actual penalties for trying to poison a child's mind against their father. What this woman did to her her child with the shirt is literally psychological abuse of a minor.

That T-shirt was unacceptable!! Even just SAYING that to your child is unacceptable.

The eyes of the red-headed woman behind the guy-wow!

This "mom" is a real sick woman.. That poor child living with this witch.

Can't stand this woman. Example of Hurting the Children to Hurt the Fathers. Been there and suffered that

That ex-wife wants it all. It will never be enough and she was dead wrong putting that child in it! 🙄

I roasted my daughter's father on Facebook years ago when she was about 13 and my daughter checked me. I had to eat that. I was dead wrong. Mind you he never paid support and he spent time with her sporadically. She's 26 now and they talk all the time. Go figure. Lol. It does not pay to be that hateful

ADULTS....ADULTS, just ruin children's lives with their foolishness. Ridiculous.

Side note: I love the idea of the shirt 😂😂😂