this was recorded in 2003, cause he's talking about "young adam", and that film was released that year. he looks obi wan style, he was fliming "revenge of the sith".
You would have to buy the movie-or watch it on one of those sketchy websites. U may be able to just type in young adam custard scene. Its not streaming on any platform anymore probably bc the scene looks like a rape. But ewan is right, its so difficult to tell. I just watched the movie a few days ago its very ambiguous