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Ex-Cop Confronts Mother-in-Law Who Says He’s Using PTSD As Excuse To Be Lazy 

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Former Miss Kentucky Latina, Daniela, says the last eight months that she and her husband, Robert, have been living with her mother, Elina, have been “hell.” She says Robert, an ex-cop, has been fighting the debilitating symptoms of PTSD, and Elina is constantly calling him “lazy” and “worthless.” Elina says she thinks Robert is just using PTSD as an excuse to be unmotivated, and needs to step up and take care of his wife and child.
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@singing4hope
@singing4hope 3 года назад
Poor guy. He clearly looks distressed.
@noneofyobusiness4449
@noneofyobusiness4449 3 года назад
You can see it in the guy's eyes. This has really messed him up. Instead of being cruel to him, I would be thanking him.
@raindrops4284
@raindrops4284 3 года назад
How can she possibly call him lazy when he was in law enforcement for 20 years! He obviously is telling the truth. She's seriously missing a sensitivity sensor.
@ashleydawkins9907
@ashleydawkins9907 Год назад
This guy used to be my neighbor - his wife is actually trying to get into acting.. . So take this story with a grain of salt. The couple is not as they appear on the show
@rhondadavis1483
@rhondadavis1483 Год назад
@@ashleydawkins9907well how are they doing now? Did they move?
@Val-kp6fs
@Val-kp6fs 3 года назад
Omg the mom really just said “just try harder” to him. What a b!tch. I mean really I hope she reads this. That is so inconsiderate to say to someone. You can tell by watching him he is really going through it. Praying for him & his family.
@leoniea138
@leoniea138 3 года назад
Yes
@siennaprice1351
@siennaprice1351 2 года назад
I give myself the try harder speech.
@mariahoulihan9483
@mariahoulihan9483 2 года назад
I am a retired UK officer with Complex PTSD. this hurts me so much to see how so horribly disbellieved. I had some of it and it destroys you further.
@TinyGrandma
@TinyGrandma 3 года назад
Thank you for your service Officer. 🙏🏼
@janinedaly8919
@janinedaly8919 3 года назад
This poor man he needs some help his wife is wonderful
@keyanicrow6149
@keyanicrow6149 3 года назад
My heart hurts for him 🥺💙
@thebareminimum9289
@thebareminimum9289 3 года назад
Poor guy, its pretty obvious from the get go he's having a hard time.
@clovelly1946
@clovelly1946 3 года назад
This mom has no compassion,shame on her! Shes a disgrace to us all.
@shillsdontspookme9208
@shillsdontspookme9208 2 года назад
Those who have never been through a traumatic event that causes ptsd, need to take a back seat, sit down and shush. It's nothing I would wish on anyone and unless you've lived it, you don't know how it feels. Thank you to this man for his service and to everyone that has or is still walking the blue line. I hope he's doing better!
@devilbaby2010
@devilbaby2010 2 года назад
I don't have PTSD but when I hear people who does have it I feel so bad for them it breaks my heart of people go thru this I just wish I can give them a hug to make their day little brighter to know that this is not their fault to have it they didn't deserve it at all and I hope people who have PTSD can heal from this.
@danaernst922
@danaernst922 3 года назад
PTSD is nothing what anyone thinks unless you go thru it you do not know, its different triggers for everyone and you just never know when it hits you
@davidokin124
@davidokin124 2 года назад
I say it’s like a movie in my head and once that movie starts I gotta watch it to the brutal and bitter end. I never served. My trigger is fire. Just that word can send me to a very dark place.
@agr8tyme
@agr8tyme 3 года назад
Poor guy! So heartbreaking. And terrible the MIL is so heartless.
@kaaayl11
@kaaayl11 2 года назад
the mental health and PTSD is so important you can literally see him SHAKING. Once the PTSD is triggered your anxiety comes out the depression comes out and the mind just breaks down
@RichJord0331
@RichJord0331 2 года назад
His eyes tell the entire story without him even speaking. I hope this man finds his peace and can feel grounded in his life and his mind again.
@LolaClo
@LolaClo 3 года назад
My heart goes out to him. He seems to be in so much pain and distress. His MIL has a smirk on her face while he tells his story. She has no compassion whatsoever for what he’s been through. She is horrible! I hope he got the help he needed to get through this and thrive. He deserves it!
@davidokin124
@davidokin124 2 года назад
This man is clearly in distress. Thank you for your service and sacrifice.
@MyHeart1955
@MyHeart1955 2 года назад
Thank you for your service, sir! You are a special person who deserves better. Your partner appears to be a loving support system being by your side holding your hand on national tv.
@PatchworkRose567
@PatchworkRose567 3 года назад
Mental illness is a very real and hard thing to fight. Some days you can’t do anything, you just want to stay in bed inside your head. I know from firsthand experience that recovery is not a smooth process. I have panic and anxiety disorder that will occasionally knock me down so hard that I become physically ill when thinking about doing anything. Anyone can get PTSD, from mild anxiety because of a minor car crash or a family member’s death to debilitating emotions from abuse or a near death experience. Never sit and downplay someone’s struggles has they may be worse than they actually look.
@heathercloete7450
@heathercloete7450 3 года назад
Must be terrible living in her house constantly having someone put you down. PTSD is no joke. It is frustrating because you don't want to be that way. Just wish you were different and could cope better, be better, do better, be different, do different, cope different. Well, I speak for myself because that's how I have felt.
@charlieschmalenbach1969
@charlieschmalenbach1969 2 года назад
You can see from this man’s eyes that he is utterly broken and traumatised. I just want to hold his hand and tell him it will be okay. Same with most things, unless you live it, you don’t understand what that person is going through.
@michellemarcia2840
@michellemarcia2840 3 года назад
EVEN though the MOM is providing SHELTER for this man and his wife and child she says she doesn't understand ptsd and that is so selfish!!!! I hope they moved out!!
@samanthamoore8693
@samanthamoore8693 3 года назад
I wonder how this fella and his wife is doing. Poor fella was really struggling.
@LolaClo
@LolaClo 3 года назад
I was wondering the same thing. Hope he is better.
@rhondadavis1483
@rhondadavis1483 Год назад
I’d love to know also. I felt for them😢
@DrewRycerz
@DrewRycerz 2 года назад
This is so sad and hard to watch. Much love to the boys in blue and those with PTSD.
@hhluvzmagik
@hhluvzmagik 2 года назад
When Dr. Phil is talking Robert, you can just see the sweat starting on his face and forehead. It is so heartbreaking to see him fighting during their conversation. Can we all recognize his wife for the true MVP for Robert that she is?
@simiankleurde1544
@simiankleurde1544 Год назад
The man is broken mentally and physically. His mother-in-law: just try harder
@patsyspry6248
@patsyspry6248 2 года назад
PTSD IS NOT A DISEASE!!!! IT’S A CONDITION! USUALLY BROUGHT ON BY TRAUMA! This poor man looks , SHELL SHOCKED! 💓🙏🏻 for this man!!!
@fauna3989
@fauna3989 2 года назад
You can see the ptsd on his face. He needs support the poor guy. The daily struggle is so real.
@terrylw65
@terrylw65 3 года назад
That mother-in-law is so callous and uncompassionate. She is the last person that gentleman needs around him. They need to find away to get away. Thank you for your service Sir. My best wishes for your recovery.
@jaxonjaxoff3291
@jaxonjaxoff3291 Год назад
The wife is the strongest and kindest woman I’ve seen.
@Moffeliten
@Moffeliten 2 года назад
They should move out and stop being in contact with that mother.
@virginiastevens3782
@virginiastevens3782 Месяц назад
This poor man looks so poorly. God bless you I hope Dr Phil can help you. You gave your country 20 years of your life. Now the country needs to serve you. ❤️🙏🇬🇧
@GrumpyKitten375
@GrumpyKitten375 Год назад
As someone with PTSD and a victim of crime, I feel so bad for this man I recognize his trauma we are haunted people. That mother-in-law is absolutely callous and heartless. God forbid she ever gets in a situation where it’s your life on the line and you get permanently scarred in your brain for life. She is a cruel, cruel woman.
@killua20203
@killua20203 2 года назад
PTSD is real and this woman needs a wake up call.
@Jordysegs89
@Jordysegs89 Год назад
PTSD is crippling
@angiealexis3717
@angiealexis3717 2 года назад
I would like to know how this turned out. Prayers for him and the wife and baby. 😢
@Hunny.B.e.e
@Hunny.B.e.e 7 месяцев назад
This is my father. He no longer lives there & is still with his wife and youngest daughter.
@vickih5615
@vickih5615 2 года назад
Thank you officer for your service. God Bless.
@bobolatrick
@bobolatrick 3 года назад
This woman is evil.
@perfectstormoriley1188
@perfectstormoriley1188 2 года назад
Poor guy makes me feel bad for him hope he’s gets help 💕💕
@ketchuph8r
@ketchuph8r 2 года назад
it's okay to not understand another person's limitations. that's very common. it's NOT okay to harass them for it. who could stand that lady's attitude every day?! ugh!!
@jj2220
@jj2220 2 года назад
she is SO toxic for both of them, they really need to break ties with her for at least 5 years
@user-cy4vw1qj9m
@user-cy4vw1qj9m 2 года назад
Poor man it is very hard on him. I wish him good luck
@barbdolson139
@barbdolson139 2 года назад
That poor guy. Try harder does not work.
@siennaprice1351
@siennaprice1351 2 года назад
I give myself that speech all the time.
@andrewvernon4664
@andrewvernon4664 2 года назад
So many comments about this lady have been blocked. I called her a word that rhymes with hunt and starts with a 'c' and it's deleted. See how there's over 2 million views, but only 102 comments?
@Squirrelbear5950
@Squirrelbear5950 2 года назад
“Just try harder” wow never thought of that one 🙄
@hailla97
@hailla97 2 года назад
I've heard these words before. I have an ex that used to tell me that the assault that happened to me when I was 12 and 13 are no big deal and I needed to get over it. He used get soooo angry when I would have a night terror and wake up screaming. He would scream and yell at me for it. And that's the reason why he's my ex.
@siennaprice1351
@siennaprice1351 2 года назад
I always downplay my trauma. Oh, it wasn’t all that bad. People have been through worse trauma than that. I think I do that as a way to motivate myself to not think or talk about it.
@tsuaeshae
@tsuaeshae Год назад
My ex would shove me off the bed when I had night terrors. Just one item on a whole list of reasons why he is my ex
@julianapiau5971
@julianapiau5971 2 года назад
“try harder”????? I hope she never goes through something like this
@taylor4778
@taylor4778 3 года назад
That mom is so cold and heartless. She had better hope that nothing ever happens to her that would alter her life like her son-in-laws. It would serve her right if he and her daughter turned their backs on her in the same cold, heartless way!
@hitoshishinsou1978
@hitoshishinsou1978 3 месяца назад
Thats my uncle! robert miles is my uncle, for anyone wondering, he's staying with us now, his wife (now ex wife) is just as crazy as the mother. abusing him and their daughter Leni (She's 9 now :3) They're fighting for custody, We're praying for him, and taking good care of him, he's doing mentally and physically better
@SuffolkSunflower
@SuffolkSunflower Месяц назад
Thats so sad his wife wouldnt and couldnt defend him. Tell your uncle i wish him all the luck in the world. I currently am dealing with PTSD and seizures. My cure for it? Surrounded yourself with positive ppl even if its only one❤ he will be just fine
@christ5672
@christ5672 2 года назад
"Why are you choosing to have PTSD? Just feel better"
@FieldMarshalRommel23
@FieldMarshalRommel23 3 года назад
I have PTSD. It just means you're badly traumatized. Simple tasks become almost insurmountable when you're stuck in a permanent fight or flight mode. It gets much easier though, it's not unbearable anymore, I dunno if that's that venlafaxine and seroquel or time healing me. I'm a civilian, like alot of people with PTSD.
@lovinpitbull8190
@lovinpitbull8190 3 года назад
I was fighting for Iraq for years and I’m tired I don’t want to fight anymore
@LuchrisaValentine_Author
@LuchrisaValentine_Author 2 года назад
People need to be more educated on PTSD and maybe then they will be more sympathetic toward those who suffer from it.
@robinrymshaw6653
@robinrymshaw6653 2 года назад
God bless and thank you for your service and the mother in law needs to stop and I have seen PSTD and it’s not easy to live with my brother suffers from this and he was in the Military for 20 years so unless this woman work in his shoes so she needs to shut up
@andyanderson8771
@andyanderson8771 2 года назад
Back the Blue!!! So thankful for all current and former law enforcement
@miaadams4252
@miaadams4252 3 года назад
I feel sorry for him and his wife...hopefully Dr. Phil can help them. Obviously he looks so anxious and distressed
@LuxeMindsetVibes
@LuxeMindsetVibes 3 года назад
That wig 😂
@leoniea138
@leoniea138 3 года назад
A monstrosity
@hilamerhavi4752
@hilamerhavi4752 2 года назад
No ! Its not !
@tajahcortez7465
@tajahcortez7465 2 года назад
😂😂😂🤷🏽‍♀️
@MyHeart1955
@MyHeart1955 2 года назад
Get out of her basement. Both you and your partner with the child - get out of the basement.
@personalkat4000
@personalkat4000 2 года назад
As someone with ptsd this is infuriating to watch
@jerryanstey7058
@jerryanstey7058 3 года назад
That is a tough mother-in-law !
@ewjiml
@ewjiml 2 года назад
He looks like me. Big bag under eyes, constantly worried that you’ll get another episode, panic attacks, etc. PTSD has been glamorized by Hollywood as this disorder where when it’s quiet, you start thinking and having flashbacks, particularly if you were in the military. Then you snap out of it and go about your day. It’s much worse and debilitating. I don’t want sympathy or anything else. But I hate when stolen valor phonies talk in public about having ptsd and going to war. I wouldn’t wish this upon anybody.
@giants416
@giants416 3 месяца назад
In a separate episode Dr Phil says the worst thing you can do is make someone with PTSD relive the incident. Here he makes Robert do exactly that. Wonder why
@geraldinebarretto6776
@geraldinebarretto6776 22 дня назад
Heartbreaking for this 💔 man I can see his pain 💔 look at him it's so sad he gest needs love and respect .God she's so evil what is wrong with you woman
@leoniea138
@leoniea138 3 года назад
Glad he has a great wife ....good on you mam
@neurosionofthemind8914
@neurosionofthemind8914 3 года назад
More resources need to be funneled into mental health support for police officers.
@ursulasilva5838
@ursulasilva5838 2 года назад
If he spent 20 years in law enforcement, then he has a decent pension. So it's not like he's not bringing in $0
@drewsue100
@drewsue100 2 года назад
Just watched this.. Does anyone know how this poor man is doing? God.. I just wanted to hug him thru the TV
@rhondadavis1483
@rhondadavis1483 Год назад
I know 😢
@Hunny.B.e.e
@Hunny.B.e.e 7 месяцев назад
This is my father. He no longer lives there and is still with his wife and youngest daughter.
@drewsue100
@drewsue100 7 месяцев назад
​@@Hunny.B.e.eThank you. Please give him that hug from me ❤ and take good care of him 😊
@logansoulard4777
@logansoulard4777 2 года назад
im one to always stare deep in the eyes and really read people. u can just tell how bad he has it with his mental....hope he gets better soon
@ddeangelis6156
@ddeangelis6156 Месяц назад
The gentleman should qualify for benefits under his circumstances. He paid his dues. Early retirement is in order.
@thelanguageofthebirds
@thelanguageofthebirds 2 года назад
I know what this is like. Just try harder doesn’t work. If anything it pushes us back into our safe places. If you knew how hard it is for people with ptsd to create a safe life… you may have some empathy or compassion. But people don’t care unless something interferes with the selfishness they exude. This woman Elina makes me livid. I hope she walks a day in his shoes and takes a taste of her own medicine.
@Hamishiscool123
@Hamishiscool123 2 года назад
The mother in law looked like a paid actor 😂
@ChristinaLake
@ChristinaLake 3 года назад
What’s with her hair? It looks like a wig
@ravenclawhouse9616
@ravenclawhouse9616 3 года назад
Thats bc it is. A lot of times on this show the guests wear wigs to conceal their identities
@lzzzz5235
@lzzzz5235 3 года назад
@@ravenclawhouse9616 that’s not how wigs work😭
@ravenclawhouse9616
@ravenclawhouse9616 3 года назад
@@lzzzz5235 that's why they wear them tho
@lzzzz5235
@lzzzz5235 3 года назад
@@ravenclawhouse9616 no I think people wear them to make there hair look better or they wanted a different style but didn’t wanna mess with there real hair
@ravenclawhouse9616
@ravenclawhouse9616 3 года назад
@@lzzzz5235 dude literally google it and the first result is gonna say the same thing that I already said
@robynboreland3917
@robynboreland3917 3 года назад
Where is the money, compensation for the Brocken neck ??????
@marie-ange3965
@marie-ange3965 3 года назад
Are you serious?
@pamelamorgan2866
@pamelamorgan2866 2 года назад
She knows nothing about PTSD!!! If she has any kind of backbone she would step up and give the man a break.
@ChristineSell-nf8eg
@ChristineSell-nf8eg 4 месяца назад
As a former police officer, you have probably have seen and done things that most of us would never dream. The weight of the badge is heavy.
@yoshisoupy7809
@yoshisoupy7809 2 года назад
She should be there for him more then ever. Someone like myself who goes through mental strain every single day of my life. I feel for this guy on soooo many levels. You should never push ANYONE down when they are already low as they can go and they hat keep getting pushed and pushed and pushed. It gets to be a little much and we get pushed to do certain things that were normally wouldn’t do and we end up hurting others when that’s not what we ment to do at all
@jodyhenning2128
@jodyhenning2128 Год назад
He needs to get out of that environment
@Qdogg2019
@Qdogg2019 4 месяца назад
The mother in law just seems like an absolute Karen I'm pretty sure when's she's at a restaurant or something and a veteran gets a discount she probably throws a temper tantrum
@janinedaly8919
@janinedaly8919 3 года назад
Omg what’s with the bad wig
@fairladykd6734
@fairladykd6734 3 года назад
according to ole' Fatima above it's because she didn't want to fix her hair LMAO!
@martilives3694
@martilives3694 3 года назад
Elaina is lazy because she doesn’t buy a new wig
@MichelleMarchia-fk9es
@MichelleMarchia-fk9es 6 месяцев назад
The wife,s mom may have been providing shelter for the husband and his wife and child but she says Oh Just try harder and that,s ridiculous I hope they got another place to live and let Elina live in a frightening retirement home 🏡!!!!!!
@RoyalRoses
@RoyalRoses 2 года назад
That woman is a monster.... my god. How does someone like that sleep at night?!?
@marie_FKH
@marie_FKH 3 месяца назад
I would love to see her deal with the public wearing a uniform for just one day her pretentious, righteous self would be bawling and begging for his forgiveness for being so ignorant
@michellemarcia2840
@michellemarcia2840 3 года назад
Even though mom is providing SHELTER for this man and his wife and child she says she doesn't understand ptsd that
@AprilScott-ke9fn
@AprilScott-ke9fn 4 месяца назад
When r u gonna have the full story?
@conniececil65
@conniececil65 2 года назад
Can someone just slap some sense into her. She is a totally uncaring human being. You can see this man is struggling and she is so hateful towards him. So glad he has an understanding wife who loves him so much. Hope he can get some help.
@jmiller8682
@jmiller8682 2 года назад
Anyone happen to have an update on this poor man?
@rhondadavis1483
@rhondadavis1483 Год назад
I’d love to know…esp that they are ok…
@Plantedbetta
@Plantedbetta 2 года назад
He spent 20 years on the force and was injured in the line of duty he had all the money in the world
@markharwood3613
@markharwood3613 3 года назад
Please tell me he’s ok now
@lesleydodd1509
@lesleydodd1509 2 года назад
God love him❤️
@thenoisyneighbour
@thenoisyneighbour 2 года назад
His eyes
@sanfrancisco89
@sanfrancisco89 2 года назад
Meanwhile, if it were her that was dragged 1/4 a mile and broke her neck and all the lacerations and other broken bones he probably suffered, along with kidney failure, she would never shut up seeking attention over it.
@taylorc146
@taylorc146 2 года назад
The wife’s mom seems very toxic.
@bodhi8260
@bodhi8260 2 года назад
She complains that the pills "aren't working and they keep changing them......." so they aren't working and they should keep them the same? Typical couch doctor.
@ashleydawkins9907
@ashleydawkins9907 Год назад
These people used to be my neighbors - the wife is trying to break into acting…so take this show episode with a grain of salt. They are not as they appear here. The mom, although she could have used better wording, is not too far off from the truth in that house.
@rhondadavis1483
@rhondadavis1483 Год назад
What do you mean exactly? How are they now? I really don’t think the husband was faking his issues. And the wife seems sweet. I hope they are doing better.
@samikatz826
@samikatz826 4 месяца назад
I agree. ​@@rhondadavis1483
@ceejay1777
@ceejay1777 3 года назад
Well, you can't really say anything to the mother when they're living in her house.....
@ztinakj5560
@ztinakj5560 2 года назад
The mom 😡🤬😡🤬
@leoniea138
@leoniea138 3 года назад
X cop in America.....this is no joke
@karenwing5408
@karenwing5408 2 месяца назад
He looks like he's about to explode
@TurkeyEyes6690
@TurkeyEyes6690 2 года назад
He's lazy
@S2daUZ
@S2daUZ 2 года назад
Why does "mom" wear a disguise and a nasty wig at that?
@chilliecheesecake
@chilliecheesecake 3 года назад
I'm spiderman!
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