If you love your child, don't let her be raised by such a person. If it's postpartum depression, let her get help before being active in the child's life. Its the most humane thing to do. Its no longer about you two no more, it's about an innocent life too.
Post partum depression is downplayed in Asian countries and can you imagine if you're a mum to more than the one you have? My sister was diagnosed but her supportive husband wisely sent their older 3 kids to me for 6 weeks. Brave act as they're from France and I'm in the states. She recovered.
@@lolabella3294 that's brave. Your family doing so. I'm African, Kenyan, and I've seen women, mostly lower income class who have this condition being judged so harshly by society. Reason being that mother's shouldn't have negative feelings towards their own children. Its sad really.
It's funny how when a new mom doesn't have the expected response to her baby, we tend to immediately criticize and belittle her. If a new father doesn't, we don't really say anything. No matter how modern times get, women are still expected to instantly accept motherhood. For those who don't, their post partem depression intensifies from fear and ridicule.
You are absolutely right except for me when my brother wasn't doing things with his kid or to help his wife out I was on him like a fly on crap !! I used to yell at them all the time You help make the baby so help your wife out or so God help me I'll kick you out of her house!! He woke up and I wasn't gonna let it go
Yes, I understand what you are talking about, but this drama is depicting that she lied and manipulated to get what she wants. While the husband is actually the caring one in this drama.
What is extremely funny and the circumstances that she told him she didn't wanna go to court he pushed her to court and he lost everything because he cheated on her he abused her he mentally abuse her physically abuse her emotionally abused her and use the daughter against her she was going through depression so he cut it deserves what he gets!!
Thank for your input. I had read so many negative comments about her but somehow I'm more sympathetic to her due to body language. Plus a sister had postpartum depression so severe. Thanks again.
@@lolabella3294 Post partum depression is absolutely no joke it makes you feel detach from everything and everyone!! I had it for literally six months and it was the hardest thing I had to go through I just wanted to be left alone!! I believe it was at the six-month point where she was crying and her father couldn't calm her down I got up picked her up and she automatically got quiet and started to coo!! And I snapped right out of it she is my greatest accomplishment in this life!! I never did anything so great before her and after her I've never done anything great she's the only thing I've ever done in my life giving her life was the greatest feet I ever accomplished!!! Everything fails in comparison to her so when I watch this drama I felt the pain of the mother and it saddens me that other women claim that she's the wrong doer!!!
@@seemoon7652 No she was not the manipulator singer tell me she was the one who is cheating on him to?? Can you tell me this guy is an a mama's boy?? Are you going to tell me that he isn't a narcissist?? She had postpartum depression!! She has all the signs of it! And while she was going to that he was too busy sticking his WIC into another candle!! She was always career driven she didn't want to have a baby that is true!! But all him and his mother could do was badmouth her!! I personally would just pick my kid up and bounced!! And if she's so wicked in bed then please tell me how she won the court case??
@@lissettemullen7335 1st it wasn't his mother but hers. 2nd, he never cheated on her. 3rd she falsely accused him of physically abusing her. She didn't wanted to get help for her PPD because she was afraid her bosses will learn of it. She wasn't only career driven she was obsessed with winning and being on top.
She didn't see the whole thing but said she saw him pushed her. Ashamed she thought she was helping the right person but in fact she got bit in the ass by the same person she helped. That's what she get being naive. 😒
She was wrong for lying like he pushed her down. It was also wrong of her to make her neighbor believe that's what happened, when she actually fell when she pushed him away from her or jersey away from him. Lying is not a good choice.
I watched this drama , the husband is not wrong in any way. It's the mother who is wrong. They both wanted to have a baby. He never told her to quit her job. He was a supporting husband. But yes , they did struggle. She herself said , she didn't want the baby , n wanted to focus on her career. N because of that , he wanted the custody of the child , because he is a doctor n could take better care of the child . She knew that she wasn't fit to take care of the child, but Also didn't want to give the custody to the father. She is a self centred narrsacist woman. She even tried to frame her husband into a false case , by changing the baby food , n giving expired food. But was caught in the camera, n when the husband knew about it , he was going to use it in the court. But she literally begged him , not to as it will send her into prison n destroyed her career. In the end the husband forgave her. The husband was mentally and emotionally abused by the wife. She also misused the Law. But wasn't held accountable. This is a misandrist show , where every male characters are shown as a oppressor , n every female character is shown as a victim.
I am not condoning her horrible behaviour, but it's refreshing for once in c drama to have the husband be the doormat and on the receiving end of scheming.
You blame everything on her. when he cares for another women well being. (Even thought he didn't have affair with his junior in college) than checking his own wife's well being suffering from depression. both of them are in fault in this situation. the real victim here is their baby.
@@krm101 it's not his fault. She was trying hard to hide her depression, so that she could go to office and get promoted. Cuzz, she was jealous of her colleague. She was never open about her situation with her own husband.
I don't know why but I feel that the girl is lying. I just feel it and will not watch this drama. I don't belive a mom that was being abused would leave her child that may suffer from abuse as well. I hate to see children being used especially by a parent or parents.
Waooo y de verdad hay personas k mienten solo para conseguir lok quieren, el nunca fue un mal padre ella si era una mala madre por su trabajo no le importaba la bb
Did the husband have an affair with his wife’s work rival/neighbor? Why did they say the witness/neighbor after testifying she had remorse? Remorse for what?
This father, where was his love for his daughter when he chose not to tell the whole truth about his wife"s behavior? She is a danger 2 herself & the daughter she's perversely determined 2 get custody of, just as we see. He's a doctor & should know this is no time for sentimentality. Good heavens, she's even trying 2 prevent the father from even seeing his baby girl. Yeesh. 🥺
Have you actually watched this entire show? He did put his hands on her. And he’s not a wonderful man. She had postpartum depression it’s a condition that women have and it’s completely treatable and she does love her daughter.
And another thing is why didn’t he take care of his wife? If she was having difficulties wouldn’t a supporting loving husband that you claim that he is and especially a doctor understand what she was going through and give her all his time and attention? not be so neglectful of her and then expect her to do everything? He’s more qualified than anyone else to know what his wife needs.
@@ShemiDixon Good morning! It's been awhile since I watched this, but- yes, I've seen it all. This character had my sympathy right up until she set out to destroy her husband's life...starting / using any means necessary 2 gain sole rights 2 their daughter; she knew she was not in any mental or emotional shape 2 care 4 her..How was it, I wonder, that she thought it was alright 2 lie, b cunning & deceiving, to use her friend to hurt her child's father, not even being content that this man should share custody but rather paint him as a wife beater & destroy his reputation while she's at it and 'fix' it so that the one parent who 'is' able to love the daughter & truly care 4 her is effectively pushed out of her life? The writer's put 4ward that that she has post-partum depression that leaves her unable to feel love 4 the daughter, etc., that makes her wish she'd not ever had the child, etc. She then, magically, pulls herself together enough to pull off gross manipulation & deception in the courtroom, not so much with the goal of taking custody of a child she doesn't actually love or feel bonded to, but rather- -to hurt her husband. The writer's offer no explanation as 2 how she could rally for the sake of spite or that she could rally at all, given the apparent depth of her PPD.
@@ShemiDixon At this point in the drama, I am not waving any flags 4 this emotionally diminished woman. However, whatever may be true in dramas at one point doesn't stay that way...As I recall, everything later works itself out...and again, this is the nature of these dramas, yes. Thanks 4 asking & thank you for your reactions; I respect that we see this Female Character's actions differently at this point & I'm fine with that. I hear what ur saying.
@@ShemiDixon this is from MY personal life. My sister after giving birth to her 4th went thru almost a mental breakdown. Her husband having a high EQ understood things overwhelmed her. He's not a doctor just an airline manager but had listened to complains from co workers about ppd. Immediately he asked me to take in the older 3 kids for 2 months. From France to NC. USA. School break of course I did with pleasure. My sister recovered. And our character is a doctor??? Incredulous!!
That's bullshit. A friend of mine and I went through postpartum depression. Nothing like this and my friend's was extreme that I took her to the doctor. Who leaves to party when the baby has a fever 🤒? Fevers are especially harmful to infants. He didn't hit her. He did pester her but she was the one who didn't let him see his child. Everyone that watches this drama can't stand her. She blames everything on him. I'm sorry but she's horrible and selfish. You can't live without your daughter. If nobody took her daughter to the hospital 🏥, the baby could have a seizure or died. 😡
OMG. I’m not saying any of this is remotely like the truth. BUT. (And it’s a huge BUT) I’m an Psychiatric RN. Saying post-partum depression can’t “be bad” is a FALLACY. There are levels of post-partum depression. In fact, MOST is. BUT. There are some cases that are more severe. Much more severe. In some cases, mothers lose custody of their kids because THEY CANNOT CARE FOR THEM. Wow. Brooke Shields (you know, famous actress), had horrendous post-partum depression with her first child. So much so that she described herself feeling totally alienated from her baby. She wrote (without a ghostwriter) an amazing book about her experience, thinking maybe she could help other families. Famously, after her book became a best seller, TOM CRUISE attacked her for seeking psychiatric care-since Scientology believes psychiatric care to be dangerous. The book is “Down Came The Rain: My Journey Through postpartum depression.”
@@drieuxkoeppel8152 I didn't say it can't "be bad". I said my friend had it bad so I took her to a doctor and comforted/helped her out. I'm saying this character took advantages of people and blamed others.
she is a liar ... he wanted the child ... she idnt ... he never hit her ... just defended himself ... she got others to lie for her ... infact shes the vilain oh the drama ... she destroyed the lives of everybody who stood in her way ... including her caring husband and used the kid as a promotion bargain chip to advance her career
Its a pitty to the father. Maybe he refused the witness to be his.mistress so both women colluded. He's a good doctor and bcoz of wife insanity he was dismissed.
There's a clip on RU-vid where he followed his wife to her Apartments and he actually pushed her. Even if we say it was by mistake but it was vent up. Besides he was actually absent all throughout the birth process. His mother used to constantly pester this new mother
the father never gave his wife a loving care after his wife gave birth. he just left her to his witch of a mother who has been nagging his wife all day long.
@@babyjirezielacosta2670 That's not what happened. Watch the drama the name is "Love is true". The woman who was nagging was her mother not his. She hated her husband because she felt like her pregnancy has set her back in her career. He wanted the child she didn't. He never cheated on her.
@@babyjirezielacosta2670 It was her own mother that was against her. She saw that her ex husband was better fitted to be a parent. She even poison her own baby with past date baby food so that her ex husband looses custody. She was a monster.
What I don’t understand is he’s a doctor -a pediatrician? - yet he didn’t understand her postpartum depression. This is 2000+ when doctors have come to acknowledge how prevalent and dangerous to new mothers this condition is. He of all people should‘be known better. She really didn’t have strong support at home. Yes! She’s ambitious and didn’t want to give up her work. After all, she was good at it. Successful and apparently one of those likely to move up. He claims to be great for taking care of his baby, but he took it to work at the baby center and seems as if the staff looked after the baby as one of the patients basically . What did he “give up?”
