Say what you want about Dr. Heavenly, she showed her great patience & empathy. Kudos Dr. Heavenly for telling this woman the truth. If you want your man, stay off social media or get off reality TV.
So many people in these comments are so vicious. I relate to this woman so much and she seems like a decent person that has a lot of trauma and is doing their best.
@@maryallyson8146 Exactly!!! She lost close family members and her husband was not there for her. Grief is different for everyone and she has suppressed so much and she can express it. But she has been hurt and the person she needed and trusted the most was not there for her. So the Wall is very slow at coming down. Everyone needs to show Grace, especially if you haven’t walked in her shoes. “Hopefully she’ll listen to Heavenly and Carlos and the Couples Therapist” and “Stay off of Social Media.”
@@maryallyson8146 Exactly!!! She has lost so many close family members and her husband the one she needed and trusted the most wasn’t there for her. She has suppressed so much and the Wall is very slow to come down. Hopefully she listens to Heavenly, Carlos, and the Couples Therapist, as well as “Stay off of Social Media”.
I relate to her too , but the woman is always the target. Sad sad sad , when is Dr Heavenly going to STOP giving women advice 🤔I have heard what she said on Married to Medicine. every woman is not male identifying . Her hold spill is about protecting KEN . SMH . Not giving 2 f..ks about what Trisha going through same old story.
I feel so bad for her. I think she needs solo therapy because she has been through a lot and lost people very close to her. To say her kids are on loan to her is heartbreaking.
Its sad to see how many people in these comments are tearing this woman down, but go up for mess and believe other people because they are attractive or have a slick tongue. This woman is speaking through trauma. It was nice to see Dr. Heavenly and Carlos pour into her and give solid advice. She may not be a fit for reality tv, but her story is one so many can relate to I am glad she is beginning to heal.
Give Trish some grace. She's trying to explain things while not offending her partner and also not giving away the remainder of the season. She also seems super nervous causing her to clam up. She did her very best! 😊
I agree. I wish her cast mates would have prepared her or offered some media training.... especially the ladies who have had their marriages tested due to the opinions of fans and bad press of this show.
@@coolstormracismsux3221That Part, I get so sick of people saying we are separated but haven’t filed for divorce and wait until the divorce is final before jumping into another relationship. Until the paper work say divorce you are still married in the eyes of God and if you are having another relationship you are commiting adultery in the eyes of God. Period!!!’
She is still mourning the loss of her loved ones and the hurt of her husband. She needs to have a good 😭 cry. Crying is cleansing. Tell that man (Ken) she loves him, but afraid of getting hurt. She has a BRICK Wall up….
Aww Dr. Heavenly, you really spoke life into her. That was so beautiful to behold. I hope Tricia dives deeper into her healing journey and accepts that she deserves to be loved well 💗💗💗
Exactly Christ once a cheater always a cheater. Chris is dead wrong, knowing that man was married MELDOY PLEASE WATCH CHRIS and his wife bike stabbing you fronts side and in your FACE MELDOY they are not girlfriend they knew what y’all was going through in y’all marriage Chris and nell
I want to credit nervousness for how disingenuous she sounds when she speaks. She edits herself often. I don’t know if she understands that being so shelled up is not good for this industry…
She needs to get therapy for the grief of losing her family members. She seems like she has a difficult time expressing herself. The way she responded to the situation.
Girl, stop telling these folks your business. Get off reality TV. Your relationship is not strong enough. Hell, even the best of relationships can break under these conditions without the right tools.. ie. stay off social media.
This was soooooo good. Dr. Heavenly, I have a newfound respect for you. You truly gave this woman advice that has, without a doubt, saved her relationship. I was waiting on someone to tell her to call that man!!!😂 5⭐️ for this episode of Messy Mondays.
Latricia Readus has lost ALOT and still in mourning. A relationship with a man is not the most important thing in the world to her. 49:40 When she stated she has lost much in life that she even tells herself “God only lend my kids to me for a little while.” She’s on another level of free and focus. And we don’t know what kind of challenges her boyfriend is facing from his own life before her. If Ken (and all he comes with that we don’t know about) is for her he will stay with her. Prayers for each of them in their relationship with themselves and that they can grow together if meant to be.
Tricia is like me, which is not good, but she has an avoidance issue, like myself. We avoid anything that could bring disappointment and hurt, which in turn can hinder progress.
Kudos to Dr. Heavenly!!! This is an example of true womanhood…. being her sister’s keeper! She shared the truth of her experience to help her sister woman instead of being a hater. Bravo!!!
Heavenly looking at her like.. "Girl i know you lying"! We aint stupid. All this stuttering to answer a direct question. Being all vague and going around in circles to answer.
You should never be afraid to lose anyone. I don't care how good you think they are. This woman has lost both of her parents and a sibling. Losing a man or woman is small in comparison. Ken ain't perfect. I don't have to know him to know that because none of us are. They will be fine if they choose too. Rooting for Trisha
Please have both of them back in Messy Monday next week for at least a check in. I don't want to see this couple fail because of social media or the show involvement.
We need a do over she and Ken need to be interviewed she can’t speak for both of them. There seems to be something bigger going on between her and Ken so maybe this is why she sounds so guarded and so edit it while she speaking which takes away from the interview being more genuine. This is been one of the toughest interviews I’ve seen because it’s almost like pulling teeth to get her to share her perspective and her side of things.
It was hard getting through the interview, but I’m glad I listened because I understood Trish now. I feel like it’s hard for her to express herself and she need therapy to learn to deal with her past trauma and learn to communicate better in a healthy way.
@@passion84life it comes across that way, but the reality is she has built this quiet, private world for herself & probably hasn’t come to terms with her reality & emotions yet.
This was sooo good ! The grace that Dr. Heavenly gave is to be studied !!! One thing I can't even imagine is having my personal ebs and flows playing out in front of the general public, let alone my relationship...i be ready to rideeeee for less !!! This interview may have me looking at Teisha different only by way of Carlos comments because she gives me very much blink if u need help BUT thats from the outside looking in 💭
Thank you Dr. Heavenly for speaking with Latricia wholeheartedly ❤You could tell she was soaking all of that up. She needed those words and needs more. You kickstarted a month’s worth of affirmations. Please reach out to until she becomes comfortable to reaching out to you. She will regain her voice 🙏🏽
I really like Latricia . I understand her so much better . Her ex needs to swallow his pride and thank Ken for the being a great father to the kids . This interview made me see Latricia in a positive light .I see she has past trauma.
I really can relate to Tricia in a lot of ways. When you’ve loss so much you kinda expect certain things even though you don’t want to. Baby girl definitely needs to continue to be in therapy because it will do her some good. It helped me a lot. I love her transparency!!!!!!!
To Tricia ❤️🙏🏾: A famous Henry Ford quote, “Whether you think you can, or you think you can't - you're right,” emphasizes how much attitude determines success or failure.
She was out of her comfort zone. Dr. Heavenly did a wonderful job getting her to open up and give her healthy advice. This is a side of Heavenly that I wish I could see more of.
When Stormi asked Martell about Tricia,he said she came over A FEW TIMES!! And when production asked him about her,he said he was interested enough to jump in her dm's to see what's up. Martell ain't said nothing about training. 👀👀
Dr. Heavenly I know you keep it 💯 Carlos told you that the fans were trying to shut down. Blacque but that wasn’t true. It was the neighborhood that did that. He also said that Miss Black Titanic stormed into.Stormi place a business that wasn’t true. They came outside to curse her out, but Carlos told you different and to be quite honest with you Carlos, don’t let your cast member stop your blessings please because they’ve been lying to you also you’ve been in this field too long to lose everything and that’s my opinion
It started off a bit rocky but I believe Trisha got a bit more comfy. Dr. Heavenly offered some really good advice about her letting the walls down because from what we have seen, Ken appears to be a really good man. I will say counseling should definitely be in their plan whether together, separately, or both but still make plans to just say I DO! Why not?! When a man is ready to settle down.... go for it especially a GOOD MAN I love my man... 8 years and counting but God is good. I didn't think I would've got married when I did but God said otherwise.
She still healing..... And healing take time I pray they make through God put him in her path. God I'm asking you to step in don't let them negative people stop what you put together
Trish, there are many “women” on this thread speaking negatively but I sincerely hope that you find your way. Get the therapy you need so that you can truly attain the happiness you deserve💕
Trisha and Ken need to go to counseling and get off of this show and social media. I believe they are both good people and no TV show is worth your relationship.