Expectations with Charles & Abby Metcalf | Navigating Singleness, Parenting & Anxiety in Your Home 

“Even if you mess up you can still honor God with today” Amen💯

“if God is not enough, no man/woman can ever be!” amen, really love the authenticity and fun and Godly wisdom here! :)

"Anything you're in can only be as healthy as you are" - come on PC!!

wow, love that, "anything you get into can only be as healthy as you are", so true!

The way they look at each other❤😭😭😭😭 u can tell God put them together

Wow, what a beautiful & authentic Christian couple! Their love for the Lord is so inspiring! God is so good 😭🙌🏼❤️

It would be interesting to hear from people who did not get married so young. As a woman in my 40s, I think it's easy for 20 something's to say "wait" because they haven't waited a long time.

24 hours later was me in June !!! Prayed the same prayer and gbam 24 hours later everything took a different turn. That prayer takes a lot of courage.

I love these guys and their willingness to be transparent. I'm so glad that they are part of Transformation Church.

The videography team that handled this is amazing!!

I am in the middle of a stressful situation with my husband after 1 year of marriage. I am so happy that I listen to this. Pray for us.

Love the Metcalfs, so honest and real! Great practical advice!

I would love to see a video on the reality of life ( singleness, etc) in your 40’s and 50’s. This video assumes getting married in your 20’s -LOL. Who does that anymore, esp if you are building a career, etc? It’s easy to hang in there for a few years when you are 20….. what about when someone is in their 30’s, 40’s and 50’s?

That lady is offering nothing but head nods and facial expressions lol bless her heart

I can’t believe I’m even responding to a couple of comments about the interviewing pastors wife! She is obviously a very confident woman to remain silent! She is nothing but lovely, a support to her husband and even though she doesn’t say anything, she is very engaging! I’m sorry…Christian or not…grow up!

Lord if it is your will that I be with her, and marry her. We will be watching this together in three months time. Amen.

I love this..." I didn't know I needed someone who is introverted..."

i am 17 and i always had a desire to get married and as i watched this video ,you taught me somethings i didn"t know about marriage and being single and even my walk with god.

Me being 16 watching the whole thing like 👁👄👁

“God always meets us at the point of our expectations”

This entire conversation blew me way! Wow wow wow

AMAZING! This was truly a blessing for me! ❤️👏🏽

This was so helpful! Thank you and God bless everyone on set and this beautiful couple!

This was so powerful! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

I love them!! Abby just seems so sweet!

This was so encouraging! I'm glad that I stumbled on this video :)

Loved this!

This was a good conversation...as a single lady, it was very insightful ❤️ Thank you

Beautiful. So much wisdom and love in one video. Thank you and God bless you!

Amazing conversation. Amazing video quality and editing. Just a blessing!

This is so good!

Thankyuo Metcalf family for your vulnerability, faith, joy, honestly and willingness to lead people. I love listening to you guys ❤️

Very insightful for such a young couple

There is some GOLD in here! I love Charles and Abby🙌🏼

Very good, very insightful!

Somehow this came up in my recommended and I've never heard of this church or Abby or Charles but this was AMAZING! So fire! God Bless!

Extremely enlightening

so much wisdom.. I learnt a lot

This is awesome!

I thank God that he is with me in this! I trust God. I depend on His strength to get through the day.

Thank you so much for this 🌻

I had to listen to this twice. Thank you for your advice (:

so so good. God bless them fr 😭

I love Pastors Charles and Abbey and God is continuously blessing you guys...love you

I’m the prime example that God doesn’t always give you the desires of your heart. I always prayed for my future husband and future children since I was a teenager. I’ll be 45 years old this year and now the desires of my heart are not to get married or have kids. I’ll never know why God didn’t bless me with that area of my life. I’ve even been shunned from a church that told me that there’s no one single at my age and maybe I should go to another church. Thank God my faith is strong and I will always try to live my life for the Lord even though I never got married.

Needed this! I’ve always been single and this is so good! Love pastor Charles and Abby

Thanks for sharing your story Charles and Abby Metcalfe! You guys are awesome. #Transparency

Thank you for this teaching

Wow you guys, i love you guys even more. Love your honesty 🌷may God always be your center.

Love Charles and Abbey so much

Wow ! this was so good.

I love the Metcalfs 🥰🥰

PC is super funny. I love these two!!

so glad to finally to meet Abby so cute couple powerful word of wisdom🙏🏾🙏🙌

Amazing interview/video

I loved this chat!

The was really empowering 🙏🏾

wow, learnt so much

So good!

let’s get into how they look at each other😍😍😍😍😍

So blessed 💕

This was amazing , nice

This was good!

Great conversations, lots of wisdom here! Thank you 🙏🏾

soooo goood!!

This is so good 😊

Soo good🌸🌸

So good 💙

Informative !!

So helpful!!!

Please make more of these expectation videos

So good! 💯

Man!! That’s good

As I listen to this interview as a single man29y.o. It's bothering to hear this and inspiring. As you marry that one I thought it was just between two people but to hear that's it's ok to have others involved in certain aspects of the marriage that's kind of crazy to hear. So thanks for the knowledge

This an awesome and encouraging interview. Thank you all for it. 🙌🏽🙏🏽

Having to tell your future spouse what you did with your previous relationships.... That's what hit me deeply. Just saying you didn't have sex is one thing, but what wouldn't you feel great/ happy about sharing with them? Ooof. Thanks, Pastors.

That man is in love lmao

When arlo asks for oat milk 🥺

GOD Please Please 🙏🙏 I know You heard my prayer Thank You!

1) Relationships in Christianity are treated like a price, actually wanted more than building a relationship with God and so that's why singleness feels like a punishment. People say use singleness to draw near to God and all but that can easily be translated to "Draw near to God so you can be rewarded with a relationship" and so it ends up looking like you're trying to use God to get what you want. 2) The lady with the interviewer probably shouldn't have been there. She looks uncomfortable and I feel uncomfortable just seeing her not get a word in loool.

Umm where is this church and why didn’t I have better people around me in my environment. This is my wake up call year 💕 getting closer to god and learning to love my single life

I like the cinematography of this video

TMI in the first 2 mins. I lost interest. I was ready to change it quickly but then I saw pastor Curt.. I figured I would give it another min. Thanks guys

Don't find someone who needs you, find someone who doesn't need you

what lapel mics did you use for this interview?

I thought that was Chance The Rapper 🤣

I don’t necessarily think it was appropriate for the interviewer to call her bougie. But other than that, I enjoyed this video of pastor Charles and his wife from TCNATION.

🔥🔥🔥

❤️❤️❤️

Should you also feel so blessed and savor being single when you're in your forties or fifties and have been praying for God to bless you with marriage for many years? I feel like it's always the married people who say how much we should be happy about being single while they don't know what it's like to not have anyone to share life with....

So goooodd 1806

We are in for a fight for the lives of our kids. God help us to be vigilant as parents.

dont look for someone who needs you. find someone who doesnt need you

What about if your being emotionally abused for 20+ years? What should you do when you’ve prayed for years and asked God to use you as an example of God in the relationship not saying anything. Just by loving no matter what.

Why is that woman there she not saying anything

Hmm “anything you are in can only be as healthy as you are”

Hey... can you please explain the part about telling your spouse what you did in your old relationships? What's the purpose of this? Are you saying confess your past mistakes and sins? Like if you were a womanizer in your past.. wouldn't that hurt your spouse to know and break any trust you've built? Why tell her if God already forgave you and put it behind you? Just worried that would bring a lot of mess into marriage? Thank you!

Ask God

"God said" "God told me" "God spoke to me" not sure about that buddy

If it was a counterfeit, that person was scrub. 😏