My university had a whole scandal where a prof used the n word in class also using that bs “educational purposes” excuse and when people complained and called for her to be fired a group of about 30 other profs wrote and signed an open letter and petition supporting her and calling for the school to allow profs to use slurs while teaching class because otherwise it’s “infringing on academic freedom…” it was a whole mess. But at least it gave us a nice and neat list of whose classes to avoid taking if it’s possible with our program requirements 😭
In my degree, English studies or English philology, we study, amongst other things, American literature and we read African American authors that use that word. I'm from a country where this word is not used because we speak a different language, but still, once, I heard a (white) guy saying it because of a song and I was shocked for a moment, I told him he couldn't use that word and he was confused because it was a song and he didn't really know the meaning of what he was saying. Nevertheless, in class we were reading "Sweat" by Zora Neale Hurston and the n word appears quite a lot. Our teacher said that she expected us to know what that word meant, that she was aware some people thought it could be used in an academic context, but that she was not going to say it, period. A guy started arguing that it was an academic context and that he should be allowed to say it or write it if it was needed, for academic purposes. The class was very quiet and the professor said she couldn't make him do someone he didn't want to (not saying the word in this case), but that he should respect her decision of not doing it. Then he wanted to read and I swear to you he said the n word with some kind of perverse satisfaction. I can understand that the majority of people in my country don't know about this, but he did and still decided to use it so fuck him, he's a stuck-up ass*** anyways, but I hope he suffers the consequences of things like this in the future.
My confession: My older sisters used to tie me up to the railings of the stairs when I was younger just so that they could ‘clean’. & they’ve also locked me out of the house before for that same reason. So I ended up unlocking a window ahead of time Bc I just knew they’d do it again. & alas. They unlocked me out of the house again, so I crawled back in through the window. Also. One of my older sisters used to take my favorite stuffed animal (I LOVED this stuffed animal) & throw it out a second story window, just to make me cry.
8:21 same thing happened to a kid in my 6th grade class. A white Girl called him a slave and he still got suspended meanwhile this Girl just got detention.
Something like the story that ended at 8:30 happened at my school where the teacher said the n-word and said it was for educational purposes and a student recorded it and the student got suspended and almost expelled
ok confession time this isn’t really my confession, but i got reminded of this when i heard the “kids in commercials are hot” basically one of my best friends (mind you we are 16F) sent me a video with a little boy in it around 5-6 and said “dam but he’s a smash tho” which i replied to with “the infant?!?! the little boy?!?!” and she said “yes obviously”. i then told our other friend, and when we both agreed and decided to tell her that saying smash to a boy 11 years younger then you that probably doesn’t know how to tie his shoelaces yet is weird and disturbing, she yelled at me and called me fake, toxic, and judgmental, and that if i was her real friend i would support her.
Nah cause my friends English teacher kept saying the N word every time it came up in a book THIS YEAR for "Educational purposes" and I felt uncomfortable as an Aboriginal person, I couldn't imagine how uncomfy it was for my cousin and best friend who are also Aboriginal
11:05 Well depending on the age i was I might not snitch, like if it actually hurt and it was an accident i wouldn't tell cause you know, I don't want them to get in trouble. But if it was on purpose AND it hurt AND they weren't even remorseful I would definitely tattle.
10:57 been in a similar situation but my brother healed in a day He just got a cut on his food induced by me and it was bleeding I felt horrible for yrs
I have a confession, So basically I used to have internalized homophobia towards aroace people but now I’m thinking I might be aroace. I used to have internalized homophobia and used to be homophobic until I later realized I was trans and started working on it, but my internalized homophobia for aroace people have lingered for a bit longer. However I have been working on that and it’s pretty much over, but one thing is accepting something in general and another accepting that you might be that. I never thought I’d be aroace because ever since became a young teen I’m pretty love obsessed but ONLY with fictional love stories and fictional characters. I only fantasize about fictional ships and Ive never been into character x y/n or x reader stuff because it’s always seemed weird to me. I’ve never thought about myself in a real relationship, I don’t know if that’s my own self hatred and the fact that I’m closeted trans so thinking about being in a relationship while still currently presenting feminine is what’s making me turned off from being in a relationship. Anyways, I’ve never thought about it much until this school year came along. When I started school I had no plans for a relationship and never saw myself in a relationship with someone, and I didn’t want to since I was closeted trans. However, I found out this kid had a crush on me and I was surprised that someone actually liked me because I have a low self esteem. I developed a small crush on him but when I started dating him it immediately went away. I didn’t like holding hands with him or doing anything with him basically. I was repulsed whenever I thought about him sexually and sometimes he would make sexual jokes about me and I would feel immediately disgusted. I never said anything though and thought maybe if I kept being in a relationship with him I would eventually like him. However, it got worse worse and it got so bad to the point where towards the end of winter break I could no longer even sit by him because I just felt repulsed and I had no feelings for him at all whatsoever. I ended breaking up with him but now I can’t tell why I felt like this with my first relationship. I don’t know if I never liked him or if it’s because I’m trans and the idea of being the girl in a relationship makes me the dysphoric or I really am aroace. But anyways I just wanted to get this off by chest and maybe any aroace people can help me out…? Also I’d like to point out that I’ve never had strong feelings for him, if anyone asked me if I liked him I would be like “yeah… I guess?” But I always felt pressured by his friends that we’re setting him up with me so I would just say I’d like him because I felt peer pressured to. And also I slays felt like there was no real reason for me not to like him so I would just say I did but I don’t even know if I ever did have a crush on him. Also, I only said yes to being in a relationship with him because I wasn’t thinking straight and I felt bad for saying no because he asked me in person and I’m bad at saying no.
Well you're saying it to strangers you'll never meet, nor do they know your identity But again this is on RU-vid and I would never say any of this on a video like bye
@WeGotBeef that’s what I mean why I’m the world would you even put it out there?! Even if no one will know it’s you?! I mean whatever floats your boat. 🤷♀️
@@julesBrockingthat1999 especially the ones that had to do with like kinks and stuff and the fairy lights Like honey um 😟 Also the one who ate the crap out of the toilet out of curiosity WHY ARE YOU PUTTING YOURSELF OUT THERE
Ok reacting to rest of the vid, I stand by my case I'd never do this and say it aloud, nor would I put myself out there like that Help these people I'll buy therapy for them
You want to see some really bad confessions. Ayydubs makes videos where she reads confessions and they are ridiculous. Sometimes people are literally admitting to murder. It's all anonymous too
I think they should talk to their father first. Tell him that you know he’s having an affair and you’re gonna tell mom. Because mom deserves to have a faithful relationship and dad deserves to be open with his sexuality and be with who he actually wants to be with. It’s time to confront it and end the relationship
I agree! Talk to the dad first and then the mom. It might even be that he’s bisexual, the mom knows that he’s bisexual, and he’s just cheating. Shitty situation for everyone involved but I’d talk to the dad first and make it clear that no matter how that conversation goes, you’re going to your mom next either way. Also sucks bc there’s always the chance that the mom doesn’t believe their kid
I'm gay and I'd tell the mom right away without confronting the dad. The mom is getting exposed to STDS like any cheating scenario, so I'd tell, but especially since it is MLM she's at an even higher risk. If you wait for him to tell her she may be more willing to take him back by him saying "he can change it". I know quite a few relationships where this happened especially since they've been together for so long. The thing is you should never believe it because you cannot change it. 99% they have another affair planned or unplanned since they cannot control it. All it leads to is more heart break and usually with the other receiving a lifetime STD (like HIV for MLM or Herpes for WLW) if they didn't already. I'm not saying push him out of the closet, a spouse can be civilized about it and just tell others they split up because they never got along. It's a lot more common situation than what you think.
My mom made me watch a disturbing movie when I was 9. So- one night at around 1:00 in the morning, my mom caught my older sister talking to strangers on the internet and planning to meet up with them. She was seriously worried about her and took away most (if not all) of her privacy. She later went on to keep talking to the man at school. The teacher found out and told my mom. My mom then made me and all of my family watch the movie “Megan is missing” as a way of warning and scaring us.
They always pronounce it so hard too. Like calm down, we get it. And of course everytime they said it the class looked at me, one of the two black people, like 👁👄👁
One time my sister wanted to throw hands at me for some reason so I grabbed one of those plastic fans (I was 7 she was 5 idk) then I gave her a deep scar on her nose which honestly looked horrible. You would still be able to see the faint mark today. Did I feel bad? At the time no. Right now? meh 🤷🏾♀️
Talking about competitive people, there was this girl in school (on sports day) when we played the 'egg and spoon race, she literally smacked me across the head and then started crying because I got 1st place and she was a close 2nd... she was psychotic, I swear 😭💀
