When you were younger your parents always use to say “you’ll sleep so much better in a clean room” then until you got older and you understood what they were saying 😌🤦🏾♀️
my older kid sleeps in the living room cuz their room is like this. then ask me where something is I go IDK with a smile. I am not their maid and I have already cleaned up their room many times over. so they need to clean it now. I do go in there and get the trash and left-over food out so it doesn't start smelling like a dump and get infested with bugs
Mannn if this isn't the truth. I *hated* cleaning as a kid and was very messy but now as an adult? It's a night and day difference. I make sure my room is neat and clean every day and tidy up daily. I feel better when my surroundings are clean.
Y’all are asking about the bf but to be honest it’s better sometimes to work alone Bc he probably would have got on her nerves asking her where everything goes and stuff so like chill 💀
Oh my gosh, that is actually true! My brother was helping me clean the house and he kept asking, "Hey, where's this go?!" for everything! I just said, "Ugh, just go away!" LOL!
ll_Extremely stressed_ll omg my brother is the same way, he’ll help me clean and 5 mins into the cleaning he’ll be like where does this go?? I’m like bye 😂
The reason he doesn’t know where anything goes is because he never tidies, and that’s the problem. If he tidied more often he wouldn’t have to ask where things go and then they could work better as a team.
@ilovemykids mylifemypride and it's her life like that's fine if you would do it to yo man but I bet you . you would do that jokingly to him people need to stop putting people down the first video he still helped her I know girls they like it there way same goes for me don't help me. if I ask for help he will help if she asked him for help he will help and he does....
This happened to me after my mom passed away I think it was twice as bad the mess in my room the only thing I did was ate and gain weight it was really bad
@@kam_xoxo4363 they're not advocating for mental illness being good, they're explaining why the comments going "omg how could a room look like that" "just pick up small things every day" are ignorant to mental illness and how it can completely change ordinary tasks
I was really depressed, to the point of attempting suicide, and my room was way worse than this. it was literally disgusting and the entire mess had happened in the span of like 3 months. after I got out of the hospital I slowly started to pick up items and move things around. several months later I had experienced an awakening in myself and I started to actually clean but I was also too busy with school. now that school is over I have started to thoroughly clean and purge items and my life feels completely different compared to a year ago.
when i clean like this, i have my boyfriend come over sometimes too... just for COMPANY. its completely normal, my god. he was very sweet to just hang out and stay out of your way, im sorry that the only kind of "support" people understand is the kind where you are physically helping. i mean, jeez, its obviously YOUR room not both of yours.
Cassie G Um you do know grabbing trash bags, organizing some items to make it easier to clean and cleaning furnitures all can be done on his behalf right?
For those calling him lazy I wish I could grant you 6 months with a man who asks you where things go the whole time your cleaning! This relationship has balance baby 🤣🤣🤣
do u know when ur like “imma get my shit together and clean my room😎” but then it’s really hard and u just lose hope and decide to give up in the middle of cleaning but now you’ve created additional mess from trying to clean and ur just laying on ur filthy floor on a pile of shit u don’t even need like “well shit”
I really like to watch small youtubers clean their room cuz its very relatable and doesn't make people feel bad all those big youtubers have like clean tidy nicely decorated rooms and its just not relatable
I downloaded a timelapse app and recorded myself cleaning my room, that alone gave me the inspiration to finish it. It's neat watching yourself clean your room super fast
it's a shame there isn't a button that gets it done like that in real life. I love cleaning but i HAAAATE putting things away and unfortunately the two kind of go hand in hand.
i seriously doubt everyone who comments “ew how’d you let it get that bad” has a completely spotless house. and i bet everyone who judges the boyfriend has probably laid in bed once or twice while their mom cleaned the house.
Im deep cleaning and redecorating my room.for the first time in 2 years after a large fight with major depression, my floors we're just covered and my room Is about your size, I'm on day three and my room already looks great.
@@Cereneee I live with my brother now and my floors haven't been covered since I moved out. It's a bit easier now and tbh im going thru a rough patch so im going to take this comment as a sign to catch up on my cleaning
well if he's her friend maybe he should have helped her. to me he didn't seem too interested. to be honest, that's just your typical guy. an unusual male friend would actually have helped her... I actually think it was her brother...
it’s typical that when you post any video on the internet that you’ll receive hate. tbh my room gets so messy to the point where i cant even sleep on my own bed or even do homework on my desk. at least you decided to clean your house, and that was an amazing transformation. don’t listen to the haters calling you a slob because everyone’s house gets messy sometimes. at least you actually cleaned yours, some people live like that.
I mean it does look like it’s her room though, I wouldnt want my boyfriend helping me put stuff away if it was my bedroom lol everything would all be put in the wrong spots!
Shit. I never ask my man to clean all they do is become annoying asking where to put things and put things back where they don’t belong!😂. But also long as they be paying the bills And help when I ask than we’re on good terms. My man helps me cook and maintains the car and the bills and the yard work. But we all have our own opinions on things🤪
Or when you get a good mojo going and he messes it up by just doing stuff backwards and then argues because that's the way he cleans. Like sit down and stop 😂💁🏼♀️
I love how she wore the headband by the end. When I declutter and find old stuff, I always try them on again and I won't even realize I still have them on
When I was a young teen and I’d throughly clean/declutter my room it would take me years; I’d run into memory boxes, or junk drawers and then take trips down memory lane, 😂 so distracting! Lol
I thought it was sweet that he came in to be with you. Like you were obvi busy but he came anyways to see you and just be in the same room as you. You did such a good job cleaning!
Yeah it's so cute that he came in the room to make more crumbs after she had just vacuumed ☺ 💕 I'm so inconsiderate. I would have knocked his ass out for that and dropped kicked him up to the moon. ❤
As im watchinh this im literally being such a mom lololol I literally said out loud- you're doing so good!! Lololol. I was just so proud of you lol! Thanks for showing an actual messy room- i love cleaning videos because that give me major motivation but it's hard to find ones where people are actually digging in and cleaning a normal house lol!
@@alaciacreek4977 I think we all 3 should be friends lol! Cause heaven knows my house gets like that! With a spinal cord injury and 3 teenagers plus a hubby who works long hours plus add in 16 nieces and nephews who love to come over- heaven knows my house is crazy and I used to be so proud of how cute ands organized my little house was- then spinal cord injury, paralyzed for 6 months and then add in gaining over a hundred pounds in those 6 months from steroids ands getting fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome- it all equals hot mess house lol! But I have a big goal for the new year to go thru and get rid of everything pretty much lolol. Let's see if my hubby and teens will go along with that lololol 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I totally want to make youtube cleaning videos because it's a good way to motivate myself to do it but this is so embarrassing lol- im fat now and i'm too embarrassed to let people see a fat chick trying to clean a hot mess lololol 😜😜😜😂😂😂
@@jaelleerica That is an excellent idea! I was in nursing school full time, and raising 3 kiddos and my house got out from under me too. The best things that have helped me were reading "The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up" and then doing the flylady system to maintain it. Flylady Kat here on YT has a video about how to begin. My house is so much more manageable now. You can do it!
Some people are just lazy and procrastinators by nature.. I'm that way.. My room can get pretty messy before I'm motivated to clean it up.. Idk why I try to change. I've gotten better through the years though. The weird thing is only my room can be like that.. I can't let the rest of the house get messy that annoys me
1) is not his brother (bother is a brother's job) 2) he is part of that mess 3)if he dont want help her at lest dont be there in the middle also puting a plate of food in the bed 4) he is not lazy is thoughtless
@@jessicaoyarzo ok jess, its the girls job to keep her own room clean not her boyfriends. And im not stupid i know its her boyfriend if you know how to read you'd know
jess ica sometimes it’s just better to clean alone. i know i love to clean alone and unprompted as it really is stress relieving. but when you are constantly being asked where things go it gets very annoying. one day you will clean and someone late will try to help. then you will understand.
Looked like all the clothes were taken from the closet etc just to be able to sort through them, she was sorting through paperwork and clothes that's not the normal mess that mess is created when all your stuff is pulled out to sort through.
@@psalm2383 yeah some times depression or anxiety gets in the way and you don't wanna do anything. we know its better to keep cleaning regularly but some times your mental state wont let you.
Well I live in a very small dorm room and it's almost always a mess. I'm talking clothes on the floor, undone bed, and dirty dishes everywhere kind of mess. That'd be a nightmare for you, wouldn't it?
Do not come to our cottage, we have cluttered rooms and hallways everywhere. We don't have room for things and yet they (the parents) keep buying more things and wondering why we haven't got anywhere to put them.
Today I emptied my kitchen and book shelves to clean it. After that , I really needed the motivation to put it back where those stuff were. After procastinating for an hour, I decided to see something realistic to give me that energy boost. And your video just worked for me 😀😀👌👌👏👏Thank you so much for that mess 😀
If you’re married/living together and cleaning a shared space then yes everyone should help. However this looks like her room and her mess and it’s obvious to me that she doesn’t mind if he helps or not, she might not even want his help. He helped her decorate the tree probably because she asked him to and that says something. I don’t think it matters if he got off work or not. Y’all ever had to clean your room when a friend was over? If your friends helped then they were way nicer than mine, or just suck ups lmao. Anyway I love these videos 👌🏻
Thanks :) & idk for some reason if our room is super messy like this I don't mind cleaning it all alone but if it's just a little messy I make him help
I just imagined asking my mom if I could have friends over with a room like this.....it didn't go well in my head either. Now I'm not under my parents roof anymore. This wouldn't have happened under their roof and asking for friends to come over on top of it......lawd, that wouldn't fly one bit. Lol. However I enjoyed this video lazy boyfriend or not, lol.
In the middle of cleaning my room as we speak. I keep watching vids of people cleaning to re-motivate myself when I sit down and stop moving. Almost done just gotta catch up the laundry
I have hella stuff and I work and am going to school my room has NEVER looked like that. I’m too OCD. But I for some reason found this video satisfying as i love cleaning videos😂
I was thinking that! Lol... first thought get off your backside and help... second thought well maybe he has just finished work or has health issues.. i try not to judge but.........
@@christinesmyth5491 right. I was at 1st like girl I wish I would, then I thought you don't know what the situation is. I can't judge because this isn't the 1st video. Who am i!? Regardless, she did that 😊
After all the criticism in the last video if she still shows his laying in bed, I am pretty sure she doesn’t t care whether or not he helps, besides she probs likes the attention/views that the man brings to the channel lol
lmao why is everyone mad at the boyfriend? Its not his job to keep HER room clean. Just like how my boyfriend shouldnt expect me to clean his dirty ass room.. Yes he could have helped, but by then she was pretty much done so does it really matter
Okay but they live together, hes just oh his phone while she has to clean that whole room by herself at least help his like 6 hours? And your just sitting there napping but only help with the tree? What kind of loyal humble helpful thoughtful boyfriend is that?
@@aletab3051 lmao don't bring moms in sus. And plus I would've helped anyways because that's my mother, she gave 24 your birth shes a hard working woman sus. So lets not bring moms, and friends yes imma help because I can't stand a clean room, okay and tho? This nigga just sitting on his phone, why she gots to clean the whole room by herself, and he staying there for free but yet he ain't helping when she letting HIM stay at her household like help out tf, she could've kicked him out so he need to be grateful and help her out because he don't gots to stay there with her, like a whole mess like that? Yeah imma help tf. Who are you to bring moms in leave the woman who gave 24 hour birth out sus. Period'TT
At this point the cleaning won't help it would be really satisfying to see a video of you getting rid of a bunch of clothes and other miscellaneous things. I hope the best for you!
Krraazzyy Kaaii Yeah, that's why I asked if she was okay! Been there myself as well as my mommy! Glad to hear your mommy is doing better. 💕💕💕💕 Hope you're taking care of yourself as well!
Do you just use something and throw it on the ground instead of in its place? I’m actually curious how something gets like this, like do you just throw things and never pick them up for month?
Lol it usually starts when i'm running late and need to pick an outfit asap I just throw everything everywhere and the next day I'm like welllllll its already dirty so 🤷🏼♀️
@@MeganMichelleTimeLapses I'm SO glad I'm not the only one!! haha I try to keep it clean and organized, because I am clean and organized...my whole house is clean...but my room always gets left behind lol
@@sweets2thesweetshop yeah I mean at least she is cleaning it but she has to live in this for a while for it to get like this. I mean I dont know I'm not strong enough.
@@Blackswanmtz Yes you are correct about her living in it for awhile for it to accumulate lol I could never let my room get like this. Cleanliness is next to Godliness. 😉
I don’t know if RU-vid would let your take pictures while commenting that would be great. (Ps how I keep my room is is..... I CLEAN IT EVERY DAY!!) Lit’s sometimes fun cleaning for me!
Instead of walking in your room in just throwing stuff around, put it in its proper place. When you pull out clothes put the ones you're not going to use back, throw dirty clothes in a basket and not the floor. Have a trash can for food products and paper, its really simple. Stop being lazy
To the people bashing the boy, from what it looks like, he just got home mid way through her cleaning. He helped a bit but he was probably tired from school or work. Plus it’s easier to clean alone. It was nice that he stayed in there to keep her company though.
Her boyfriend is company and it’s not his responsibility to clean her overwhelming mess and honestly if I was him I wouldn’t know where to start but I hope in the future it’s not messy like that girl just living in her own filth
Lol if a #boyfriend is that comfortable in a mess and watching you cleaning up, your whole relationship is #epicfail no friends or roommate or family can come over if my place is a mess and just #kickit 🤣🤣🤣🤣😎
