FACING MY EVENTING DEMONS (Show vlog)

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How this has come around so quickly I do not know, but it's time to get back out eventing. Getting out for my first event of the year didn't have the usual buzz, instead I was filled with nerves and worry about jumping on grass again. However, Dee the wonder horse hadn't forgotten a thing. I hope you enjoy the first eventing vlog of 2023!
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@fleetskipper1810 Год назад

You can see Lucinda’s influence in both the dressage and show jumping. You really keep Dee in front of your leg consistently, and when you do, she thrives. This was very good to watch. Good for you for doing it so bravely. As always, loved Pete’s Eats.

@BlueEyes-0222 Год назад

The dressage warm-up was really good. Especially the trot lengthening. Also, when you start getting anxious just picture how Dee went around with Ellie. Dee is a very capable pony...

@angiedyer1511 Год назад

🎉As always it’s great to see the team: Hobs, Han, and Pete!🎉

@janeminwell4395 Год назад

Yes!

@tomtenjagvillhaenriktigjul3162 Год назад

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@debbieredmon5063 Год назад

Meg, I had an almost fatal accident. (I'm fine now) It took me at least a year to watch a movie with a horse in it. It took me years to muck stalls, much longer to turn out (it happened on the ground.) I never once blamed the horses. The terror of any mishap is real. I did my another horse. Gave him away to a 14 year old who loves him still and I don't know if I will ever go back. The point is, having any kind of accident is terrifying. The PTSD (Sorry call it like I see it) is real. Every time you go to a show, it floods back and the terror grips you and the what ifs and will my pony be okay. Don't let anyone tell you differently. It is HARD. You are remarkable, you are fighting through it. Cut yourself some slack, don't give up and remember you are your worse enemy and your best friend. You know how to do it. Deep breathing. Let your body work on muscle memory and remember this is not Bicton. You are not the same person and you will do it. Love from Maryland.

@vezhopkins714 Год назад

“Keep breathing, that’s the key keep breathing “ deep breaths and baby steps meggy glad to see you back at it sending good vibes your way 😊🐎

@anna.kubiak Год назад

Literally tearing up for you and Dee coming across the finish on xc. So proud of you Meggy, overcoming the nerves after a bad fall is such a challenge and you’ve done amazing even just to get back out there again💕

@charlottecanalle2621 Год назад

A wise horsewoman once told me- you must have a strong leg, and a short memory. You did wonderful ❤

@Horses-88 Год назад

Yay!!! Back eventing well done Meg really seems like you've had a great big confidence boost well done and enjoy getting back into the eventing season🎉🎉🎉

@julen2380 Год назад

I just love Dee and the two of you together. She is such an intelligent mare and always seemed absolute aware that there was a competition which she wanted to WIN . But now - it is so lovely to see how much she tries to take care of you. I swear this little horse understands it all. Give yourself time and grace and I honetsly believe you will come back stronger.

@pamblackwell6405 Год назад

HOBBIT my favourite. Always got to have mum/ groom HOBBIT. And Pete's eats! Well done Meg.

@starsstar-xs2je Год назад

You have no idea how excited I am to see you doing cross country again!!!! I am so happy to see you regaining confidence and facing your fears. It is a very difficult thing to do for everyone, but instead of letting it pull you under, you stood your ground. You are one of the most inspiring equestrians that I know of❤. Keep staring fear in the face, and telling it to back away before you pack your punch :). Thank you for everything you do for us, and keep on living the dream ✨

@emilygough3442 Год назад

So glad to see you and Dee back out eventing!

@sashie1232 Год назад

Love this, Dee dee is very excited and vocal bless her. And she's a cracking pony :) well done Meg as well.

@susangardner6348 Год назад

That was beautiful. Congratulations. Dee is amazing.

@siriusnut36 Год назад

You got back in. Brilliant. Now you'll work through riding through your thoughts instead of dwelling and you'll grow. You've grown so much and it shows with every fence through this video that you're so deep in your head, trying so hard to get out of your own way but my dear lady you did it and you'll get better and better. The fact is you will likely fall again, but you do all you can to prevent that and all you can to keep yourself and your horses safe but no rider alive rides free of falls and you've done so much to be sure you can stay safe through them when they happen and now you're developing the greatest part of a great rider and trainer. Your ability to cope, to move on and to grow. Bravo brave lady. Courage is not the absence of fear and doubt, it is forging forward in spite of them.

@kateflanders7611 Год назад

Brave ride! Trust your experience and training to get you through. Thank you Meg.

@Katy.Lou.K Год назад

Great job you two gals! 🎉🎉🎉 Dee is such a good mare! Also, your support system behind you- Hobbit, Han, and Pete… Y’all are the best for Megan and Dee! Congratulations on your second place Megan! I can’t wait to see more to come! Love from California🏔️🌲☀️💙

@TheApple641 Год назад

Wow! Deedee is really getting the hang on that extended trot!

@nicolejrozema Год назад

I am so proud of you!!! Coming back after a confidence knock is so hard and you are doing amazing!! I can't wait to see more eventing vlogs!!

@macybiggar9217 Год назад

Amazing well done Meg and Dee!! Buzzing the Eventing blogs are back!

@alia.eq8 Год назад

We are all so proud of u Meg! Great job!! Even though you seemed stressed you went fabulously!! You’re an inspiration to us all!! ❤❤

@laraine2409 Год назад

So happy for you Meg! It’s hard to do, but positive self talk does make such a difference! I have to remind myself to do it too all the time.

@janl8683 Год назад

Congratulations and so well done to you and Dee-Dee. All that going on in your head and you still managed to do so well. Great start to the year ❤

@pinkyharris3560 Год назад

Yaaaaaay so glad you made it... big CONGRATULATIONS to you and Dee!!!! 🎉

@chelseatimmis7487 Год назад

This got me emotional! Could see how much you meant that pat you gave her at the finish ❤

@elinaparkkonen517 Год назад

This was so beautiful and courageous Meg and Dee💖💖🐎👣!!! You two are an inspiration. Epic partners, warriorprincesses💕. Dee was shouting: look at my mum, here we are again, I'm so proud of my mum, she's the bestest and I'm gonna take care of her!! 😍

@angiew1841 Год назад

Well done Meg and Dee , you did amazing x

@Equine_lover Год назад

So nice to see Dee dee eventing again!🎉 So happy that your building up your confidence on Dee!!

@shahannagrey8427 Год назад

I could , when the panic hit you, see you were locked in your own head. I relate. I’m proud of you for doing the hard work, and not giving up!

@jessicaruhl7314 Год назад

Fab job!! Love seeing you and Dee out eventing, all your preparation and training is definitely paying off ❤

@littleninja0 Год назад

Well done Meg! Powering through the nerves - now that you have the first event under your belt, hopefully the nerves will be more under control. xx

@Indiana483 Год назад

You are doing so well Meg and you pulled through keep doing what you love ❤️

@LucyJackson-om2dc Год назад

Well done to you all! Fantastic 3 rounds. Great to see you all back😊

@janeminwell4395 Год назад

Dee is the best, Queen of your yard! Good job on getting through it Meg, keep thinking forward!

@equestriandream4601 Год назад

Well done Meggy! You have done so well even though you had a little hick up but you never fail to put a smi,e on my face watching your vlogs and I’m sure you do to everyone else!💗❤️❤️❤️

@jayreed7015 Год назад

Well done Meg. Onwards and upwards. 👏

@kerrysales8320 Год назад

Well done Meg what a great start to the season. And all 4 of you need to be at every event from now on

@chelseabartlett5520 Год назад

Your leg is looking so much stronger and super solid! Cudos to you for all your progress!

@carolineward6445 Год назад

Well done Meg and Dee. Overcoming nerves is a huge battle and you did so well. Onward and upwards ✌️

@deeshagourley6996 Год назад

You did great, you know you can trust her. Why do I cry watching your achievements xx

@shellywelsh2316 Год назад

Meg!! I am so proud of you, you did great!! Kudos to your incredibly supportive team (Hobs, Han and Pete you are the best)!! And Dee, thank you for taking care of Meg and helping her with her confidence! What are great day!

@traceylamping8979 Год назад

SO well done. You should feel very proud of you both. Excellent courage and tenacity, despite how you felt. We've all been there and it's very inspirational to watch you go through the process. Thanks so much and well done again. :)

@AshMarie7 Год назад

You are doing so well! You are so strong, keep up the good work! 💝

@ThorbjrnPrytz Год назад

For being soo excited she was so gentle with you! Well done for you both!!!!!!

@kirstenadams8715 Год назад

Well done!! This was always going to be hard and you know what the next will all be hard but over time it will get better. Remember your mantra to repeat in your head, you can do this!!!!

@sea-fieldpony.4556 Год назад

I’m so exited to watch her eventing vlog again 😮❤

@jenniferadam2258 Год назад

Well done!! Also I have to say that seeing you working through your nerves is massively helpful to me because I am also struggling after a confidence crash, and just knowing I am not the only one is deeply reassuring. Thank you, as ever, for sharing both the good and the bad. And HUGE CONGRATULATIONS. 🎉❤

@jennoula Год назад

Well done Megs so proud of you and good gal dee dee for looking after you, here's to a fantastic rest of the season 💜💜

@colleenw8756 Год назад

Love your channel. Also love the way Han and your Mum together, before, during and after an event.They seem to work without talking? Doing what's required for your pony and you. True.?

@millymcz Год назад

so happy for you meg! dee was brilliant bless her and as were you💞 x

@stellangios Год назад

Well done!! 🎉🎉🎉 You trained a very fine pony in Dee, and you should be so proud her and especially yourself for getting through that so well ❤️ Can't wait for the next event

@carolmckown8750 Год назад

So happy for you 🎉🎉🎉🎉

@jeriaugustine3208 Год назад

IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!! CONGRATS!! Trust yourself cause you are absolutely amazing! ❤🎉

@naniqueoliver412 Год назад

Bless you i can absolutely feel your pain! I find the warmup one of the hardest places since my confidence knock! I overthink “getting a stride” where as when I’m in the ring I focus on the course rhythm and the fences just come a lot easier!! Huge well done to you!! Xxx

@vikkineish5790 Год назад

Proud of you Meg, you pushed through those negative thoughts and you should be proud of yourself too. Now you’ve done you 1st event things will be easier xx

@jessicahigdon3962 Год назад

Great video Meg. Hard to say. You CAN DO IT! Ride forward, believe in your true abilities. Your a great rider, a great horse person. BELIEVE IT!

@maryhunter177 Год назад

Super outing!! You are working your way through the jitters. The great thing is that you know exactly what to do and the mare is so clever. You will start enjoying it all again soon I am sure. You are braver than you think and you are doing everything just right.

@polarbear9848 Год назад

oh where to start.... saw a quick clip of your dressage warm up - thought wow look at that lift in the trot! Loved Dees excitement, so lovely to see her so keen. Dressage done tick, well done. I hoped with all my mite that the show jumping would go well and that you would keep the enjoyment and confidence you found with Lucinda. I wanted her in your ear. I was doing it with you both lol, I was so proud of you, Dee was a superstar she tried so hard to say, we have got this mum. I kept saying, give Meg - give Meg. Well done, i was so pleased that you did it. Cross country, some wobbles with confidence, some great bits - its done first one under your belt, onwards and upwards you will be a great team once again this season. When i first started to watch your vlogs you seemed to always go clear, you just need to believe again. You have the skills and the horses, you just need the confidence and believe in yourself. Love watching you all, your love for your horses shines through. Is Pete ok? H e looked knackered bless him. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

@reallydarlings-se2xf Год назад

Amazingly honest, genuine, and workmanlike pony. She has no doubts & will heal your confidence. Lovely to see your relief and joy.

@metrothyme Год назад

Good job Meg👍👍

@vanessa.synesael Год назад

Dee was just like, i got this mum! Good for you! Love watching you go.

@juliestreng7530 Год назад

Hi Lovely, i havent ever posted, but ive been following you for a while. Im so proud of you for over coming your demons, its not easy. I myself had a nasty fall when i was 13 and did a lot of damage to myself, this in turn, i never got over the accident, i still rode for another 10 years, but gave up! i couldnt get past my demons. Keep going! You are amazing and i love watching you and your horses. xx

@annejarvis7002 Год назад

And they're back🎉🥳. DeeDee looks awesome. Her extended trot is stunning. Congratulations Meg (& the team🤗) - not just for the fantastic result, but for overcoming your fears. It will be a journey for all of you. but what a start. You are truly inspirational Meg. A shout out too to Hobbit, Han & Pete - the love & support you give Meg is beautiful to watch🤗

@izziekathryn Год назад

Confidence will come back with time and you're taking all the right steps to regain it. Dee is such a credit to you, she moves beautifully and my god is she looking amazing fitness wise! A huge well done on the first event back🤍

@emilywhitehead5336 Год назад

Well done Meg 🎉 this was deffo a massive step in your confidence you did amazing

@teamosgoods2839 Год назад

ive had 2 falls just like what you had at bicton in the last 6 months and i totally agree, coming up to a fence it’s all ou can think about!! only onwards and upwards from here, well done Meg

@aylariding5054 Год назад

Awww so glad you got 2

@helenwoollven3116 Год назад

What a fantastic start to your season, a great confidence boost, so happy for you ❤x

@dxniella_ Год назад

Awww very proud of you!! Love the energy of the vlog, excited too see more ❤❤

@plantpot12329 Год назад

👏CONGRATS MEG 👏 amazing riding and that fact you took yourself in the show jumping arena after the wobble was amazing.🎉🎊

@Squimbelina Год назад

Yay! Well done you, and DD was stellar. It’s done, you did brilliantly and kept going despite the brain chatting at you.

@ChloeJoness21 Год назад

I can’t wait ❤ you never fail to entertain us ❤❤ I hope all the ponies and horses are well!

@jamesshelley6478 Год назад

Brilliant! Well done for getting back into it. Your smashing it ❤️

@familydaytrading Год назад

Brilliant. Well done!

@nicoleross4160 Год назад

Proud of you!!!

@phoebeforanimals Год назад

I wanted to say that I'm really proud of you Meg! I had a really bad fall on a hack and was badly injured. The amount of fear I feel just from trotting is just, I don't know. I'm trying so hard to face me fears and get back to where I was, I know it's not easy, but I'm proud of you!

@livapetermane3652 Год назад

Meg were all so proud of you❤❤❤ well done for facing your fears you're incredible ❤ I recently had a very tasty fall out jumping at home from my 18,1 hh 5 year old homebred and I've also had quite the knock of confidence and ended up withdrawing from a event I was really looking forward to. You're such an inspiration Meggy

@ansticecoe968 Год назад

Well done on your first event for 2023

@margaretmetcalfe9380 Год назад

Fabulous work from both you and Dee, this was the confidence boost you needed. You have a pony that will get over whatever jump you point her at, you saw how well she did with Ellie. You know that you can jump after riding Lucinda's horse you just need to have the confidence to put the two together. Hopefully after coming 2nd in this competition you will go forward and get back to your usual self.

@laneybeaver397 Год назад

Congratulations Meg it made me tear up a little after you finished the cross country I’m so happy for you and I know you’ll just get better and better ❤love you Meg ❤

@madeinohioo5086 Год назад

Well done Meg! I know it can be hard to see and feel progress when you are the one riding and seeing your ponies everyday, but EVERY video recently I have been so impressed with the progress in your ponies. They both look looser and you are riding incredibly! You inspire me for what I can look forward to in a few years with my personal horse. Thank you!

@paigebeckwith6635 Год назад

Well done. We love you and we are all so proud of you on your journey to overcome your confidence drought 💕

@Freddysfazballs420 Год назад

Ahhhh! Well done! I completely understand that feeling of losing your confidence and genuinely being scared to ride, but I know you'll be able to get through it :)

@fionawatson679 Год назад

One of the biggest differences I've seen in the recent jumping vids is Meg riding with longer reins. Looks lovely and lets Dee work better underneath her. Good luck for the rest of the Badminton prep!

@issybrinesj Год назад

Well done Meg! You both looked super and I really felt for you having the wobbly moment. It’s the worst feeling and you rode that round so beautifully. So happy for you ❤️, what a great start to the year! I’m having a proper sticky start and you have given me some motivation to get my arse in to gear 😂 thank you! Xx

@bethxx4979 Год назад

So so proud of you meg❤ you should be proud of yourself too🎉

@abbebladon Год назад

Well done Meg & DD! I think I rode every stride of that with you with my heart in my mouth! I cried when you cried! Man, who knew there could be so many emotions in one eventing vlog xxxx love your support crew, always on top form ❤️ 2nd place is amazing xxxxxx

@animallover7009 Год назад

Keep up the good work meg ❤. I am going to Badminton to watch the show jumping this year hope to see you there x

@elizabethmason1927 Год назад

Well well done Meg!!!! ( Dee as well🦄) I love that you stuck with your plan to focus on where and what you needed to keep your mind as clear and positive as you could and debrief and chat with the rest of us after - that alone is massive!!! Again so well Done Meg be so proud of what you accomplished on this day !!! Cheers 💪🏻🦄🐴❤

@nchorsegirl7 Год назад

It's good to see you back riding even though you're scared. You are such a good rider!! I live your channel

@HalleTennie Год назад

I love Meg and her horses you can so tell she loves them such a talented brave individual ❤❤❤respect for Meg

@MarieHopkins-sn9zn Год назад

You have got this Meg🥳

@palominojoy1899 Год назад

Awesomeness Meg and the team❤

@jmleeinla4025 Год назад

GREAT JOB MEG!!!! I’m so proud of you. This is the way to concur your fears. Get out of your head , use the tools from the therapist to calm your mind and just jump in. So well done. Congratulations on your amazing 2nd placing.

@jeniferrinehart1107 Год назад

Oh Meg! Congratulations!!! Well done, and give yourself credit for facing those fears and then putting them in the rear view mirror!! ❤🎉❤🎉

@alisontabernor6332 Год назад

Well done Meg and beautiful Dee you were amazing 👏 😊

@sparkle.-buggg3610 Год назад

I want crying watching you I am so proud of you you are simply awesome and Dee she's incredible like all your ponies well done Hun ❤

@glynnparker4521 Год назад

Megan u should be really proud of yourself for getting back out eventing and getting through all of it even if u did have 1 or 2 breakdowns. You did really well and Dee was so good. 2nd place for your first time out eventing since the fall is so good I’m so proud of you both x